& KAI & ELENA.
who throws things in a fight ?: in general, elena might be more apt to, but still i doubt either of them would. i mean they couldn’t live with themselves if they hurt each other, especially elena with all the guilt she’d have if she ever hurt him.
who goes to their parent’s house for a weekend when things get bad ?: elena, but she typically will go to the lakehouse instead of home. there’s fonder memories at the lake.
who wants to have children ? who doesn’t ? if both do, how do their goals differentiate ?: elena is probably the one that wants children more, but kai probably doesn’t because the whole possible twins thing. it’s not something that’s discussed a lot, but she has thought about it.
who is more adverse to physical contact ?: kai, probably, because all of the abuse, but elena’s touch is soft and reassuring. he doesn’t mind if it’s by her. plus, all the warm snuggles help them both relax and calm down after stressful days.
who hates/dislikes their neighbors the most ?: i imagine kai since he’s not really the friendly neighbor type, and i can see him getting annoyed as elena chats with the neighbors for hours. she’s just so bubbly and friendly. hahaha.
who hates/dislikes their significant other’s family ?: elena loathes kai’s family, or mainly his dad. she likes his siblings, but she doesn’t understand or like their coven at all.
who is most likely to leave when things get rough ?: it depends because kai is more prone to push her away, but elena is very stubborn and just might not let him. if it does get that rough, elena would probably go to the lakehouse and let him cool down.
who thinks their partner turned out a different person than they thought ?: neither. they both love each other, flaws and all. there isn’t a thing about each other that they would change. cheesy but true. xo.
who is more likely to cheat ?: neither, because all they want is each other.
who is the more experienced ( sexually or otherwise ) ?: well, they were each others’ first time, so. ;) they’ll gain experience with each other tbh.
who hates/dislikes their significant other’s friends ?: probably kai because they lessen his time with elena, but she definitely makes it up to him. ;)
who wants to go to social gatherings the most ?: laughs, elena. sometimes she can drag kai along with her, but most of the time she’ll go alone if it is really that important to her. if it isn’t then she’ll just skip it to stay with kai.
who is most likely to be dishonest ?: they might embellish, but they’d never lie.
who is more emotionally closed off ? how does this affect their partner ?: elena is more emotional than kai for sure, and it always annoys her when he’s being closed off. that is really the only time that she gets angry with him.
who is the dessert person ?: both of them could probably eat their weight in cupcakes.
who is more conservative ?: neither ??
who hates/dislikes oral sex ?: neither ??