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Ed Sheeran on Why He Threw Away His Cell Phone - The Ellen show

1D Hiatus: Day 432

* Louis posts a picture on Instagram

* Niall comments on Louis’ Instagram post

* Liam and Louis reply to fans on Twitter

* Louis’ exclusive interview for iHeart Radio about his new music is released

* LunchMoney Lewis posts a picture with Louis on Instagram

It’s Feb 17th, 2017.

Ed Sheeran co-hosts the Kyle and Jackie O. Show. Amazingly, Kyle only gets bleeped once. Some highlights from Ed:

“I’ve stopped going to the trough ‘cause people keep having a look. People will come and stand next to me just to peer over.”

“It’s quite a horrible word, isn’t it? Pube.”

“I reckon if me and Brooklyn do an Eiffel Tower on you…” 

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Settle down with me, cover me up, cuddle me in, lie down with me and hold me in your arms. And your heart’s against my chest, your lips pressed to my neck. I’m falling for your eyes but they don’t know me yet and with a feeling I’ll forget… I’m in love now                           

well it’s the bitch’s birthday in Nash now so I guess I got some things to say

Can you believe he’s 26 today?  I mean he has flourished in the past two years since X. He won a Grammy for crying out loud! ((lol except it was for Thinking Out Loud)) I just want to say, I’m so incredibly proud of him and all he’s accomplished. From what we’ve heard of Divide, I can tell that there are so many more amazing things to come. SO HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Thanks for always being there in the back of my mind with lyrics about loving your body when I’m restricting or binging//purging. Thanks for songs I can turn on when panic attacks set in to help calm me down. Thanks for the song “Don’t” because it’s a jam and a big fuck u that I sometimes just need to hear. Oh and thanks for my tattoo inspo. Love u bitch. Happy bday. Get crunk. 

anonymous asked:

I think while Ed definitely agrees that you should date whoever you like regardless of size, i think his dating history proves that his preference is slim ladies. Cherry is an athlete and likely super fit so there's not much chance of her getting fat lol. It's like Harry Styles who says 'he'd never date based on looks' yet he seems to date mainly models or famous women who are hardly unattractive. They have to give the PR savvy line seeing as their main fanbase are girls/women.

Well. If two (or more) equally awesome people with great personalities are interested in you, then looks kind of have to be the tie-breaker, right? And you’re always going to go for the awesome person with a great personality which you find more physically attractive. That’s just human nature, and I don’t have a problem with it even though, being overweight myself, it means I tend to be overlooked in favor of my friends and sisters despite being told I’m pretty cool. That just means my friends and sisters are also pretty cool, and at least I don’t have to shave as often. :) 

My assumption here is that someone like Harry Styles meets lots of awesome people with great personalities who express an interest in him, so if he wants to date someone, he gets to choose whichever one he’s the most physically attracted to. It’s not the same as dating based on looks, because you’d already be choosing among the people whose personalities you like, you know? For example, the prettiest girl who expresses interest might not be awesome, so you don’t choose her, but three other girls who express interest are all really great, so you choose whichever one of those three is most attractive to you. If you were letting looks be the most important thing, you’d have chosen the prettiest girl, but if you’re letting personality (and other intangible factors) be the most important thing, any of the other three girls would be great, and looks are just the tie breaker. In this scenario, with several people to choose from, you’re still likely to end up with a pretty girlfriend even though looks were never your highest priority to begin with.

The flip side of this is that if someone like Harry Styles somehow only met one awesome person who expressed interest, he’d be choosing that person regardless of what they looked like, because they’re awesome. But in his position, he’s much more likely to meet a wide variety of cool people and so the less important things like looks can factor in. 

And there’s nothing at all wrong with having preferences when it comes to the types of bodies that are physically attractive or unattractive to you. Literally everyone has that. It only starts getting wrong if you tell others that their preferences are invalid, or that they must try to turn themselves into what you personally would prefer, or if you indicate that physical attractiveness is the most important thing about a person, that they’re worthless unless they look the way you want them to. That shit’s toxic and all of it is patently untrue. 

So whether Ed and Harry Styles are genuinely good people who understand that looks don’t define another person’s worth or if they’re just giving what you called “the PR savvy line” for the benefit of their fans, I think this is still the sort of thing that it’s important for celebrities to say – and saying it is all these guys can do in order to show how they feel about the subject. I mean, you couldn’t expect them to specifically date people with certain body types just to prove that they would, right? Imagine if one of them went out of their way to find an overweight person to date just to prove a point to the rest of the world. That would be an awful thing to do! We really just have to accept what they say about how they feel and believe it (or at least respect it) regardless of the circumstances of their personal lives.