Dear Onision (And Any Bananas This Might Apply To)
Telling people that they shouldn’t be sad because others have it worse is NOT helpful. Telling people that cutting is stupid is NOT helpful. Calling people who self-harm attention whores is NOT helpful. Telling suicidal people that their urges are selfish is NOT helpful. Telling people with disordered eating to just pick up/put down the fork is NOT helpful. You know what actually helps people? NOT giving them armchair psychiatry sessions over the internet. If you want to actually help, recommend they see licensed professionals to sort out their problems, and keep your own mouth shut.