why most of my crushes are tumblrs i don't even follow

anonymous asked:

I know you ship wolfstar and remadora but remadora is so unhealthy? I don't get why you ship it

The thing is, I don’t really see it’s unhealthy? I mean, I understand the argument against Remadora…to a point. 

The main arguments against Remadora are that : 

  • It came out of nowhere
  • It’s toxic because Tonks/The Order (primarily Molly) pressured Remus into a relationship that he had legitimate concerns about 

A lot of Remus and Tonks’ relationship happens behind the scenes. The books (I’m going to ignore the films because of how horribly they treated Remus and Tonks’ characters and relationships) are through Harry’s eyes. He doesn’t even see Remus and Tonks that much, so he’s not going to notice a lot about them. Also, Remus and Harry aren’t all that close, so it’s not like Harry is going to sit down with Remus and go “so you and Tonks, eh?”  Now, I like Harry, but that kid is one of the blindest teenage boys I’ve ever read in a book series. It took him five books to realize Ginny always had a crush on him (and even then Hermione had to break it down for him) and seven books to realize that Hermione and Ron were destined to be together. So him not noticing Remus and Tonks sending love-eyes at one another in the background is obviously not going to make readers notice it. 

But in those moments where Harry isn’t paying attention to anything other than Voldemort, Cho Chang and Draco Malfoy, I imagine Remus and Tonks spent quite a lot of time together. The Order was recalled in July and, according to Pottermore, Tonks confessed her feelings to Remus that following spring… So I think that’s ample time to fall in love with someone. Stake-outs, hours spent in Number 12. Tonks probably spent most of her free time at Grimmauld - it’s sort of hard to keep hanging out with other friends and such when you’re apart of a secret rebellion, ya know?

And as for it being an unhealthy relationship… Well. People cite the hospital scene as the big toxic moment in the series…  They’ve probably had that conversation time and time again, and that particular moment - the hospital scene - is quite a tense moment for the pair. Dumbledore has just been killed. Without Dumbledore, what the hell is the Order going to do? Dumbledore was the rock of the Order; if everything went to shit, it’d be okay because they still had Albus Dumbledore. And now he’s gone. And yet, Fleur Delacour is still thinking about a wedding. So, yeah, Tonks may have made a mistake bringing it up in front of everyone, but characters make mistake and given how high the levels of tension were already, have a small breakdown isn’t completely unreasonable. P L U S (can  you tell i have a lot of opinions about this shit) Tonks has been depressed for the last year because a) her boyfriend is trying to get himself killed b) her cousin who she was just getting to know was just murdered c) bellatrix fucking lestrange wants her dead and d) SHE’S LITERALLY ON THE FRONT LINE OF A FUCKING WAR LET A BRO BE STRESSED OUT WITHOUT CALLING HER PATHETIC AIGHT

Plus, Remus isn’t an idiot. Remus is one of the most stubborn characters in that books; he’s never given in the wolf, into depression, into the shit that the Wizarding World has thrown at him. Do you really think he’d marry a girl that he didn’t want to marry just because Molly Weasley told him to? Because Tonks was upset? I think that’s a massive discredit to his character. 

TLDR; remus and tonks are one of the most realistic couples in the potter series because their relationship goes through such an arc and that’s how life works not every couple is peaches and ice cream you have problems especially when you’re fighting on the front lines of a war and yeah they have problems but they talk them through because they’re adults and that’s what you do when you care about someone in a relationship 

anonymous asked:

I'm sorry I have two questions, if you want to just choose one. 1. For your Fibro!Tsuna AU, why didn't Mochida challenge Tsuna to a complain-off? Tsuna can't complain/refuse about /that/ challenge (huehuehue) because that is his (totally) rightful THING, and Mochida gets his challenge. Even though he'll probably loose (miserably, but then he got something to complain about, so more points??? I don't know anymore...). 2. Is it ok if I /kinda/ stalk you on Tumblr? (I may check your AO3. Sometime.)

1. i’m sure he Tried….

mochida: i challenge you to see who can complain the most!
tsuna, the deadest look in his dead tired eyes: i have complained more in the past two days than you ever will in your entire life
tsuna: are you Sure you want to accept this challenge
mochida: *drags hands down face, storms away with an anguished cry. again.*
tsuna: he’s trying so hard. it’s kinda cute.
tsuna: i mean uh. not like that. not that kind of cute.
kyouko: *pats him on the shoulder*
tsuna: i like you the most, kyouko
kyouko: you’re free to like us both, tsuna.
tsuna, weeping bitterly inside: but that’s so much Effort

2. stalking is Not Good don’t do it. but you are free to follow along any of my tumblrs 8U and my twitter. and my ao3. and anything.

anonymous asked:

why you don't mention a bitch who started harassing michael before he stated that sq are rude and he's not the only one who noticed that? hmm the bitch who said that he doesn't see it bc he is never on the show. did it ever occur to her that most of the ppl don't see it and it not bc they don't watch the show or stupid or whatever. there are many reasons to not ship sq. ppl don't have to like your ship. deal with it ffs. and stop asking question when you don't want to see the answer.

Dear anon,

First of all, I would like to highlight the fact that I’ve been nothing but polite in my original post and in the replies that followed. I believe I have earned the right to be addressed respectfully, not only as a human being in general, but in this Tumblr case in particular.

Secondly, this is the last time I will reply to an anon regarding this issue and you’re having this honour because you mention a person who harrassed Michael Coleman before he said SQ shippers are rude and the person who said he doesn’t see it because he is never on the show. I want to point out that both these people’s tweets came after the original conversation, which I will post again, so we can be clear:

As you can see, this girl, the girl who Coleman is replying to, is always calm and respectful towards him, it doesn’t matter if we believe that she shouldn’t have asked the question or not. This conversation is the one where Coleman speaks in the name of the entire cast and crew of OUAT and this conversation is the one that triggered Adam Horowitz’s, Lana Parrilla’s and Jennifer Morrison’s responses. It’s not the rest of the very long and messy conversations he kept on having with both respectful and harrassing fans. (there’s a few bits with him referring to the writers again, but I don’t think the Trifecta of Defense even bothered with them)

Michael Coleman was in the wrong here and it doesn’t matter if he’s a nice person or if people attacked him afterwards (which they shouldn’t have - I am a firm believer of the philosophy “if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all”). The Twitter mess that I like to refer as the Colegate TwitterFest began with this conversation and ended when the showrunner and the two main actresses put an end to it. That’s it. That’s the end of the story. If his boss and his co-workers call him out on it, then he did something wrong or they wouldn’t have. It’s NOT a matter of opinion, it is what it is.

I want to end this by stating that never, in any of the posts related to this debacle, have I tried to defend Swan Queen. I do ship it, yes, and I have been open and unapologetic about it. But I haven’t tried to convince anyone that Swan Queen is the OMGZ! BEST SHIP EVAH! because shipping is about emotions and people will ship what they ship. I have even publicly stated, it’s right there on my blog if you wanted to read it, that I don’t expect Swan Queen to become canon. All I have defended is everyone’s right to have hope and dreams regarding their ship, which is exactly what Michael Coleman decided to crush in the name of himself and everyone else in OUAT.

The same way I show the kindness of not shoving my ship down anybody’s throats, I would appreciate it if people could stop sending me anon declarations of how much my ship sucks and how much my fandom sucks. Being hidden behind internet anonymity does not make it okay.

Just love and let love, because it’s right there in the premise of the show: “Believing in the possibility of a happy ending is a very powerful thing”.

Headcanons ask meme 

@cerberosthehellguard  - Akafuri, follower anon on tumblr au

-Akashi has a follower that always reblogs his selfies and posts with nice tags.

- Tags include 

  • #What a beautiful horse!!
  • #They have the best cake #jealous
  • and one time, #I’m might regret this #but he’s hot as hell and I’m drunk #so fuck it #hello #if you’re ever in Tokyo #hmu for a good time #like karaoke and stuff #but also ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

-He gets curious after the last one, and goes on their tumblr to find a selfie. He’s cute, and Akashi is definitely interested.

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