why he so nice

i hope jon davison knows he is a sweet & wondrous boy who is doing a fantastic job & i hope he is having a beautiful day

hey someone i barely talk to has been unloading all of his emotional baggage on me, constantly asks me “why don’t you love me?” and “why do you ignore me?” or similar things when i don’t reply to that kind of heavy questions, and is just always complaining to me that nobody likes him.  the last thing he’s sent me was a wall of text about how lonely he is and how he has no friends and how the teachers ask him why he’s always alone and whatever

so my question is, should i not reply to that either and let him continue dumping all of his emotional constipation on me or do you think it’s okay to tell him off

anonymous asked:

I don't follow the Harry going out of his way to be nice to kids headcanon. Simply for the fact that Dizzy is what, 13? And we've all seen how that whole Cut & Dye scene played out. I think Harry would sooner rob kids rather than be nice to them. But, the fandom likes to think he's a lot sweeter and fluffier than he is and I'm constantly questioning WHY. He's not a nice guy! He just so HAPPENS to have a pretty face.

I think it probably helps that A) He never hits Dizzy (though she was immediately accommodating to his demands - we don’t know what he’d have done had she resisted or refused to get the rest of the money) and B) We do see him with legitimate soft spots - for Uma and his crew. People he hangs out with on a daily basis and (presumably) likes having around and who can TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES. 

But yeah, Dizzy’s not that young and the crew is not that nice. They have a semi-noble goal (free the kids on the Isle) but they also have non-noble goals (rein down the evil on Auradon) and ENJOY DOING VILLAINOUS THINGS. Sure, they could get much healthier and less cruel with help, like the VKs in Auradon have, but they’re also A) Not interested. They want to get out by themselves not because someone offered them out and they don’t TRUST Auradon and B) They’re not ON Auradon. 

Also the phenomenon you’re talking about has been in fandom for forever. I first got into fandom when I was like four (as a lurker, obviously) but it was still a thing. I remember villains having fandom shrines (aka websites, because that’s what you did in the olden days of yore before blogging and social media took off) where they ‘explained their side’. We call it Draco in Leather Pants today, after the spoiled bigot Draco Malfoy and a very infamous fic by a known plagiarist that featured him as  a nice guy who wore leather pants. 

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I decided to become an artist when I was about your age. I liked to draw so much, I almost hated to go to bed. And then one day, all of a sudden, I couldn’t draw anything. Everything I drew, I didn’t like. I realized that my art up to then was a copy of someone else, things I had seen somewhere. I decided I had to discover my own style. It’s still difficult. But then, the results… They seem to be a little better than before. It’s nice to be a witch, isn’t it? I like the idea - to be a witch, to be an artist, to be a baker… It’s an energy bestowed by the gods or someone, right? Though thanks to it, we do have to suffer at times.

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Gongmyung congratulating his brother 

  • What she says: I'm fine
  • What she means: Why do people talk about Jonathan Groff more than Okieriete Onaodowan? Jon left Hamilton months ago and is literally on stage for like 10 minutes. Oak has an amazing range and is the last original cast member. Why does no one talk about him. Why wasn't he nominated for a Tony. I need answers.
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Sketch dump realistic style part 1! I needed to practice noses, lips and chins because I had no idea how do they work - I kind of know now

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I post them on my twitter first

sometimes I wonder what yall think about my hamilton

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Ven… He was here…

the thing about Bakugou is that, in the limits that his personality allows, he’s soft for Kirishima - he calls him by name, listens to him and always answers him, tries to help him out as best as he can, accepts his help when Kirishima offers it, actively works to make him feel better when he’s down, never yells at him unless it’s an answer to Kirishima’s teasing, has no problems in complimenting him and pointing out his strength, he’s soft for Kirishima

he openly considers him a friend and treats him as such, he cares and doesn’t really try to hide it, though his inexperience in showing that sort of feelings does make him come off as awkward now and again 

I guess what I mean to say is it’d be nice if the fandom could remember that, instead of writing him as angry and prickly and downright offensive and uncaring when dealing with what has been recognized by the canon as his best friend and someone he does enjoy the company of over and over again

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Aaaaaa thanks so much @taoshay !!!  I don’t think I ever could x-x especially with sweet people like you reminding me of my Mac love! I hope you have a lovely day as well (and Deacon too ;D) ♥

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hockey tough is just regular stupid

in which a steeler doesn’t understand why bones is walking on his peg leg

(ps if someone else could please gif this like the struggle was real since i have no idea what i was doing or if this will work)