**THE POWER OF NO**
One of the very best lessons I’ve learned in my exploration of Domination is that the most powerful thing in the world is also the easiest - just saying no.
Such a tiny word. So easy to say. So easy to do. And yet, do it properly and that tiny two-letter word becomes an obsession to someone else, an itch they just can’t ignore, yet also can’t scratch.
This isn’t about extravagant tease and denial, either. I’m not talking about a ‘scene’ or fantasy scenario involving huge amounts of effort and edging and the rest. They have their place, of course, but they’re not what I’m talking about here.
Want to kiss me, Kyle? No. Want to touch me Kyle? No. Want to lovingly stroke your beloved Mistress while we innocently sit watching the TV like any other couple? No. 😈
It’s agony for Kyle. He’s asking me for so little and yet getting nothing, just because of one tiny little word that he’s powerless to get the best of. And why? Because it excites me to deny him.
It’s been even more agonising for him of late since we added the cuckolding element into our play.
Last night, I arrived home late from a trip having not seen him all day. All he wanted was a kiss. Every couple kiss when they’re reunited, yes?
Instead of just giving him one, or just saying no, I messaged my now numerous tumblr Bull hopefuls asking them if they think I should allow myself to kiss him.
The ones who were available firmly said “no,” just like any genuinely impressive Bull should, and I told Kyle I didn’t want to displease my Bulls.
So did Kyle get his kiss? Did he even get a goodnight kiss later? NO. Poor boy.
And his reaction? Pure lust and desire for me, just how I like him. Everyone always craves more what they can’t have. You just need to let them get sufficiently agonisingly close to it to taste it - and use ‘no’ to control the craving that controls them. 😈