why don't more people love you

flamebite66  asked:

Omg I just love your character Tyco. He and Angel are so cute together. I want to do some fanart with him. Hand I just realize he's so tall! Is there a bio about him?

Heyyy!! First off, thank you for loving that super old character of mine~ <33

Second, I don’t have a bio/ref for him at the current moment 8c 

He’s in dire need of one, however; I plan on making an official updated character reference sheet for him once school is over and I get my obligations intact. I can’t really afford to do many super nice pieces, as they inhibit time I could spend on commissions, BUT-

He’ll get one, very very soon c:

sexy-walker-bait  asked:

Ash give me patience someone said that rick loves daryl more than michonne and that we (richonners) need to get over it. Lucille give me strength i cannot deal with these people in denial smh

Oookay. The delusion is strong with that one. I guess that’s why he’s leaving Daryl at the Kingdom and going home with Michonne? Thats why he spent his entire day with Daryl searching for toothpaste for Michonne? That’s why he constantly looks to and for her at his side, and he’s caressing stray locks of her hair and walkie-talkies when she’s not there? He literally breathes her like she’s his air.

Daryl is his brother, and that’s all well, fine, and good. He loves him, of course. But Michonne is his wife, the goddamn love of his life. Mother of (his) children both living and dead. Most bomb pussy. Who, because of him, sleep evaded (that one morning in 7x04). (I’m gonna stop before I recite all of Lemonade. 😄) Point is, Michonne is Rick’s everything. And for anyone still questioning it, I’m pretty sure that this half season will make that clearer than ever. So we don’t have to get over anything. Not so long as Rick is under (or on top of, beside or inside) Michonne. 😬

It’s my experience that people are a lot more sympathetic if they can see you hurting, and for the millionth time in my life I wish for measles or smallpox or some other easily understood disease just to make it easier on me and also on them.

All the Bright Places

anonymous asked:

Why are you so in love with science? (not meant in a bad way, I'm just curious)

I guess it’s because science just sort of makes sense to me, on a fundamental level.

The processes of science and scientific analysis are very in line with how I see the world and how I think. I’ve always been a very sort of analytic thinker. Like I was the kid who always had to know why and was always questioning everything and always tries to explain everything (to the point that I was, at time, a very obnoxious child). 

I like facts. I like seeing how things fit together. I like sorting through things and finding the bigger picture and then seeing how the individual details slot into it. 

It’s how I make sense of the world I guess. Trying to find an explanation for things I don’t understand. It’s why I was never good at being religious but am fascinated by the history of religion and how it creates and is created by society. 

And it goes beyond the purely natural and physical sciences. I feel similarly about the social sciences and history and anything that relies on critical analysis. 

On a fundamental level I want to know why. And science, at it’s core, is an attempt to answer that question. 

anonymous asked:

Why do you hate on Infinite Jest if you haven't read it yet? Like, it seems to have become trendy to hate on that book, and I don't understand why.

Okay. Sometimes, the type of people who really love a book and aggressively recommend it are enough to put me off it. Fair? Maybe not. But I swear to the Almighty, if one more twenty-something white boy in a writing class who thinks he’s the next Hemingway (and, moreover, thinks that’s a good thing) launches into a word-vomit odyssey to rival the length of DFW’s supposed masterpiece in order to tell me how enlightening it is and how essential it is and how if I haven’t read it I can’t possibly be a serious writer or reader, I might grab his copy out of his hand and break his nose with it. Ya dig? Nobody has ever just said to me, “Hey, Infinite Jest is a great book, I really enjoyed it.” People have either said “Yeah I forced myself to read that because someone told me it was important” or “I’m a twenty-something white boy with an inflated opinion of myself and I’m telling you it’s important.” That’s the long answer. The short answer? Negative association and I just can’t be arsed. But to be fair, I haven’t actually ragged on the book anywhere. I think you’re referring to this ask here. If you read it again you’ll see all I really said was “If someone is making you feel like you have to read this thing, and you’re not enjoying it, stop.” That ‘if’ is really important. It has nothing to do with the quality of the book. It has to do with the reader’s personal experience. I’d say the same thing about Moby Dick, which I happen to love. If 400 pages of an old white man’s whale encyclopedia isn’t doing it for you, stop. People like and dislike different things. And that’s okay.

Good Lord! You bunch of whiny ass babies! Y’all losing your shit over something that hasn’t even happen yet!

Roman got a title shot at Roadblock. And? Y’all ain’t even like the title when it first came out; now it’s like the greatest thing ever. What? Speaking of titles, where is this sudden concern about the US title and especially Rusev? People cared more about Lana (and still do). If Rusev was so popular, why couldn’t the fans show him love when he was carrying the US Title?

Y’all say that Roman’s handed everything? Ok, then explain how KO got the title in the first. Triple H LITERALLY HANDED HIM THE VICTORY to get it. Were y’all even watching the match? But I guess it’s okay since it’s KO. (This ain’t a knock on KO. Mad respect for him. I’m just speaking storyline wise).

Raw needs start power for Roadblock and Roman draws. (and before you come blowing up my post, telling me I’m wrong, that’s your personal opinion. Regardless of you booing or cheering Roman, he’s still draws strong reactions. Plus numbers don’t lie. And on that, take your ass to Google and do your own research. Not my job to educate you.)

Roman should be defending his title but Creative has him playing sidekick and silent background player (AGAIN). Take that up with them instead of trying to clown Roman on his Twitter, only to have the King a-bomb your feelings.

Will Roman win the Universal title? Not sure. So what if he does? What’s the worse that could happen? Seth challenges him for a shot? Kevin Owens invokes his rematch clause? Jericho puts in a challenge? I mean…?????? Oh I know! Butthurt fans will get on social media and whine and trend #CancelWWENetwork and say that they will never watch WWE again only to come back Monday and Tuesday to see the fallout.

But hey…it’s whatever. Y’all say Roman’s predictable, but haters are just as bad. I can literally make a damn drinking game out of the shit you come up with when it comes to Roman Reigns.

I’m really glad to have been wrong about Split (well, more like misled, the advertising paints a different picture) and I’ll tell you why.

What I’ve seen from tumblr and the small Split fandom in general is not fear for those of us with DID. I’ve seen childish “haha tumblr is so easily triggered! I’m edgy!!” posts here and there but the thoughtful posts vastly outnumber those. I see understanding and a willingness to learn. I’ve talked to more people about DID in the last week than I have in a long while, even on my DID sideblog.

I, and more importantly we, never felt comfortable talking about it on our main. We’ve had this account for over 5 years and have barely mentioned it. We felt ashamed, like people wouldn’t understand us, or think worse of us. But here we are talking openly about it and people are listening.

Thats one of the best things is people are listening. Split has brought attention to DID. Is there misinformation in the film? Sure. Is it dramatized? Yup. Does it put DID on a weird pedestal? To me, yes. But have people walked out feeling sympathy for Kevin and his system, wanting to learn more? Yes they have. I’ve yet to read a single post that says they are now more scared of systems after viewing the movie. And I think most people who view the film are mature enough to realize the supernatural aspect of the movie caused those events to occur, not the disorder itself.

I would love someday for there to be an excellent portrayal of DID as it actually is. Split was never meant to be that but the struggles Kevin, Barry, Hedwig, Dennis and Patricia go through (outside of the Beast) are something we can relate to. And if it gets even 10 people to look into DID and understand us we’ll take it.

  • Someone: *ships something I don't ship*
  • Me: That's awesome, man. Good for you.
  • Someone: *proceeds to bash and ridicule other ships*
  • Me: What the heck, man! Not effing cool!

how tho

anonymous asked:

who are your favourite blogs and why? if you follow them, what made you follow them?

Honestly, I have too many favorite blogs. Both because I love their content, and because I love the people! Here’s a list of my most most favorites from off the top of my head! (Which I just put into alphabetical order LOL) I hope you consider all of them.

NOTE: This turned into me just ranting about my faves…….. IT GOT SO LONG BYEEEEE I don’t think I’ve done this before so now all my emotions r spilling OUT and it’s justtttttttttt wow

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Some “““fans””” have been leaving nasty comments on Hansol’s instagram posts (again), saying how he shouldn’t be hugging his friends because it’s unfair for the fans who need to pay thousands of dollars just to see him and more “coming out” and “you’re in love with B-Joo” comments.

These people are the reason why I have no faith in humanity left.

But you poor dear, how much work you burden yourself with from a sense of guilt; I see you bent over your work, your neck bared, I’m standing behind you, but you don’t know it-please don’t be frightened if you feel my lips on the back of your neck, I didn’t mean to kiss it, it’s only love which can’t be helped.
—  Franz Kafka, Letters to Milena
Why does it have to be a competition?

I honestly love the idea of “Darkiplier” and I find it really cool but people have been making it a competition between Antisepticeye and Darkiplier saying “who’s better” or “which would you chose” and it really gets on my nerves. They are both great ideas and it’s awsome that both Jack and Mark made videos of them but debating on who’s better is like asking who did a better job or who put more effort in it. They are both equally creepy and interesting characters. Just be happy both Mark and Jack put time and effort to put these characters in there videos. We don’t need to debate on who’s better.

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I’m embarrassed for these dorks.

There is no place for male people in my love life, or penis in my sex life. I didn’t spend literal years (more than a decade) fighting with compulsory heterosexuality and internalized homophobia to just throw all of the progress I’ve made in becoming a proud lesbian away by “examining why” I’m a homosexual. Not today, not ever.

The thing about Portugal that amazes me is that nobody asks for a picture, nobody asks for a autograph, the people just come to me and say “we are very happy to have you here”. I love it here. I feel free in Portugal.
—  Monica Bellucci
9 toxic behaviours that will affect your life

1) Gossiping.

We all do it. Some of us more than others. We talk about the girl next door or the new guy that just started working here. We talk about how the Brown’s just split up and “Did you hear why they separated?” Did you know that when we talk about people it shows an insecurity or jealousy in us? Boom. Where are you lacking in your life that you feel the need to cut down someone else’s life? Have a think about that for a moment.

2)Lying.

There’s no point or purpose to this. Who are you lying to and why? It doesn’t even make any sense to do this and I still don’t understand why so many people still lie. You think the truth hurts, check out a lie. Nothing hurts more than that.

3) Worrying about things that haven’t happened yet.

Let me repeat that if I may. Things that haven’t happened yet. Why would you waste your time and energy worrying about something that hasn’t even happened? I know a lot of us play out a situation in our head and our first instinct is to be play it out with a bad ending. Why do we do that? I’ve done this one myself once or twice. Worry is a natural emotion/feeling. It’s up to you to control it and stop it in its tracks before it spirals out of control. That’s when the stress kicks in and our blood pressure rises. No need for all this now, is there?

4) Holding a grudge.

There’s an old saying “holding a grudge is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die”. Think about that for a sec. The poison you are drinking is the grudge. You are swallowing every drop and you are mad and pissed off to a point of no return. Expecting the other person to die? Honestly they could care less what you think. Hell they probably aren’t even thinking about you anyway. So why on earth are you wasting your time and energy grudging on someone? Go pick some flowers and bring them to a nursing home. Really. Spend time doing happy things. Not brewing and stewing over silly things.

5) Jealousy.

The girls in the magazine are beautiful. Sally has a beautiful body. Jimmy has a nice car. The Whites just bought a brand new house. With every turn, someone somewhere has something better or nicer than we do. Our first reaction is jealousy. There is no need to be jealous really. We all have something special, unique and beautiful inside of us. We also all have something that someone else wishes they had. Just be grateful for who you are and what you have. You are perfect and blessed exactly the way you are. Embrace it.



6) You’ve already lived the past.

Oh how we love to hang on to what happened 5, 10 or even 25 years ago. We still go on and on about it to whoever will listen. Why shouldn’t we? Who we are today is because of what happened to us yesterday. Well, yes, you’re right. Sort of. Who we are today is the result of the way we chose to handle the past. We didn’t all have silver spoons in our mouths. Some of us were dealt really shitty hands. It is what it is. Be done with it. No one wants to hear it, really. Just tell us something happy and joyful. That’s all we want to hear now.

7) I don’t love me.

Watch how you talk to yourself. You are listening. Make sure your self-talk is loving, kind, compassionate, gentle, caring and supportive. Talking bad about yourself to yourself is probably the worst thing you can do. Treat yourself in a totally loving and positive manner. When you do this, you will be able to see how awesome you are and how much more awesome you will become.

8) Woe is me.

Always the victim never the victor. Sad things keep happening to you and you can’t wait to tell the next person you see. The more you talk about it, the more depressed you get and the more terrible things keep happening to you. You think your life is bad? Go hang out in a city where they just had a devastating earthquake or tsunami. Stop whining. We’re getting sick of listening to it and there will come a point where no one will want to be around you. How lonely will that be?

9) Negative Nancy.

We are really truly sad for you and wish, just once, you could see something in a positive light. Not everything is bad. Honest. Try to find the good in things and when you do you will see that more good things will show up in your life. It’s a universal law. It has to be. You are sucking the life out of us and we don’t want to hang around you anymore.

This list covers many things that we all do almost on a daily basis. Next time you catch yourself doing any of these, stop it. Immediately. Turn it around and tell yourself that your soul is beautiful and deserves only loving, kind and caring thoughts. Once you get into this habit, in no time you will see that these behaviours will become a thing of the past and your soul will illuminate beauty.

From Simple Reminders