why do they stop making everything that is good

i’m tired of the eyewitness fandom sleeping on sita, and this is a small post as to why this needs to stop.

sita is such a good mother, but she goes about being a good mother in unconventional ways that make her seem “Bad”. she cares so much about jake’s safety and his happiness, constantly telling him that he can get tats, so long as he doesn’t join a gang and looks respectful, and doing everything she can to keep him. 

sita knew that if she lived on and went to prison that the vescovis would make her life hell and sister’s life hell and would definitely take her baby and do the entire opposite of what she wanted for him. they’re a gang, they have connections, someone could kill her in prison. kill kami, their aunt, jake. 

so sita ensured what remained of her family’s safety in the only way she knew how: by taking herself out of the equaiton. she’s spent her whole life making kami’s life difficult and while it’s extreme, it was the only way she knew how to make it easier. kami wouldn’t have to worry about her anymore. and sure, it would take a while for her to cope, but to sita it was the right choice, 

she was so fucking strong and y’all need to get your heads outta your asses and respect this woman, dead or not. 

The signs while stoned

aries: “this is stupid, where’s the alcohol”
taurus: *opens fridge and eats everything*
gemini: “this stuff smells, but it makes me feel good so idk”
cancer: “wow did I just laugh for once” “am I actually happy” “what is this feeling”
leo: *plays video game without blinking for hours*
virgo: “why did I do this” “why do I feel like this” “I feel funny” “guys when will this end”
libra: doesn’t stop talking (probably about something they love)
scorpio: “I really want to have sex right now”
sagittarius *doing something weird (but funny) af in the corner of the room*
capricorn: chillin, randomly giggles
aquarius: *thinks of some complex theoretical idea* *blows mind of person sitting next to them*
pisces: *scrolls through social media quietly laughing*

8

3|15 & 6|16

This scene from Exes is exactly why I think Nick not making an effort totally makes logical sense. The birthday thing happened before Exes. After Exes everything went to crap. The fact that he stopped making an effort for both Caroline & Jess but made an effort for Reagan is another example of how he is learning what he did wrong in his past relationships. So unlike most of you I saw this episode of another example of Nicks growth. You guys can disagree all you want I accept every opinion. I think the writers are doing a good job addressing all of Nicks flaws and I think once Nick & Jess get back together he will be better because of it. 

4

“Goodness had nothing to do with it.”

Clara and the Doctor resemble each other, in their love for adventure and saving the world, in their cleverness and recklessness, and in the chaos and destruction they’d be wiling to unleash for the other. For two people who are so similar, a story holding up a mirror between is a powerful thing.

Realisations can be discomforting, painful even. Clara slips into the Doctor’s role and the Doctor meets someone who calls herself by his name, who does not truy fit into this world in spite of looking the part, who readily chooses lying as a way to achieve her aim, who moves on after witnessing a death with no time for grieving. What does being the Doctor mean? He leaves Clara standing there, staring ahead, her expression puzzled.

Clara looks into a face which has gone through unimaginable terror for billions of years, she demands to know why, and is met by her own reflection. “Why would you even do that to yourself?,” asks the girl who jumped into the Doctor’s time stream to be torn into a million pieaces. “I have a duty of care, you know what that is?,” a teacher explains in another time, in another place. Wouldn’t she have done the same here, chosen the path that horrifies her? Would goodness have had something to do with it?

anonymous asked:

You do realize that Mark said that Darkiplier is an awful person right? He's only using you.

totally! i am very well aware of the fact that dark is manipulative and draws people in with a false sense of security. will that make me stop liking him? no, of course not. why? well, he is just a character after all.

every good story needs a villain, and in mark’s ‘story’, dark is the villain. dark is his alter ego, everything that mark is not. does that mean we’re supposed to hate the villain? well, no. there are plenty of characters out there who have dark intentions and yet we still like them.

take handsome jack from the borderlands series for instance. handsome jack, in my opinion, is a lot like dark. jack is full of charm and wit, but his aggressive behavior shows from time to time. jack’s manipulative to get what he wants and isn’t afraid to step on people to get there. which, leads me back to parallel with dark. jack is one of my favorite video game characters ever because of his overall character arc; you see him go from the hero to the villain through the prequel to the actual games.

i’m an english and creative writing major at the moment and to me, it’s just interesting to see character progression.

so in my opinion, i believe that every character has the potential to be redeemed. perhaps that it’s dark’s fear of abandonment that causes for his rage. that he’s just a hopeless romantic who’s just been shut out for so long that it’s morphed him into who he is. every villain’s gotta have motivation, right?

i hope this doesn’t come off as harsh or rude, because that is certainly not my intention! i understand that there are people who don’t like dark, or don’t like certain ways that dark is being taken. and that’s fine! i can totally respect that! but i just wanted to simply state my thoughts and feelings towards dark. ❤️

If someone tells you about a part of there past being in an abusive relationship 

STOP FUCKING ASKING THEM WHY DIDN’T THEY JUST LEAVE AND STOP TELLING THEM WHAT YOU WOULD HAVE DONE IF YOU WERE IN THAT SITUATION. 

Just shut. the. fuck. up.

Nothing like that is as simple as “just leaving” 

That shit breaks you down completely its having your abuser convince you they are the only one that loves you and will love you. Do you think thats so easy to walk away from when you’re in that mind set?

Stop making them feel like its there fault for staying. That shit’s not good. They need to let that shit out sometimes and if they trust you enough to tell you something like that and that’s your response it might set them back

they can start thinking again that it was their fault 

please for the love of everything on this piece of shit earth

STOP ASKING VICTIMS WHY THEY DIDN’T JUST FUCKING LEAVE.

ASTRO REACTION: To their fiancee losing a lot of weight because she felt insecure

Jinjin: “serious… you’re perfect no matter your weight baby”

MJ: He wouldn’t scold you or something like this, but would buy a lot of food and make you eat all.

“aigoo this is so good… you should eat right now jagi, or I’ll eat everything”

Eunwoo: He would be very upset with you, make you eat all the time and repeat how unnecessary it was you lose weight.

Moon bin: “but jagi… If you keep losing weight will end up disappearing”

Rocky: With your weight loss, Rocky would try everything to make you feel good about your body without changing anything and this would lead to a super romantic and shy declaration.

Sanha: He’d do a looot of aegyo for you,

“jagiyaaa you’re perfect, why are you thinking about losing even more weight? you should stop now”

~ADM Cherry~

GIF credits to their original owners!

please stop assuming all asian musicians are naturally talented prodigies!!! there is no such thing as ~~natural talent~~ and we all work our butts off to get good at what we do, so please learn to accept that!!!!

Why does it have to be so damn hard? Why can’t I just snap out of it and be okay with myself, my weight, eating - everything? I feel like being stuck in an ongoing circle of doing better and falling back. Being torn between my eating disorder and being healthy, recovered. Not knowing how to move forward, how to let go for good. It’s so damn tireing.

The reason I'm stressed.

It’s strange: Literally the whole world encourages and motivates me. Yet it’s my parents who discourage, undermine, tell me to give up. And I’m trapped in a cycle of stress caused by the only people who claim all they want to do is “make me happy” by trying to stop me doing everything that makes me happy. They want me to stop college (I’m at my happiest around the people In college). They want me to stop writing (one of my only talents that also makes me happy). They want me to stop going out as much because I should focus on a career (but the careers I want to do they don’t agree with). Why is it the whole world encourages me to do my best but the people who brought me into this world want me to stop everything that makes me happy and that I’m good at - just so I can “make more money”…I’d rather be rich in happiness than rich I’d money. The things that make me happy don’t need money.

It’s so shitty how in kpop people use boy groups to mesure things? Like you can’t go on a girl group vid without finding some child talking about some boy who did this or who mentioned this and how right he was about them being good or him being better than the girls.

You know, the Jungkook girl group dance king! He slayed this!” “Yugyeom was better than the original” “*bg* brough me here!1!” “Who came here bc *bg member* likes them?” “I didn’t like them bf but after *bg* danced this on weekly idol i can’t stop hearing them!” whyyyyyy? Why do we have to make everything about boy groups? And why do we put them everywhere? I was watching a video on GIRL GROUPS!!!! and all I could see in the coments was: “If we’re talking about boy groups…” no sweetie we are not talking about boys.

And people keep comparing girl groups with boy groups like they are getting treated equaly saying that this gg is a flop bc this bg has more fame, or when a girl covers a boy group dance all the coments are about how the boys did it better or all the people whose existance on “stanning” girl gropus is them comenting in eveything that they should try a stronger concept and “harder” dances like BTS??

I remember when BTS reacted to TheArk dancing boy in luv and rap mon kept on going about how the girls were doing good even trough it’s a hard dance or saying they were going to get tired and make mistakes and interupting the other members concentration and even making them stand up to do the dance side by side and show the difference?? and ofc I know he didn’t do it with bad intentions, rap mon is sweet and supporting (and camera trained) but it takes me to how big the entire “girls should do things like boys want them to do” is. The ark did an amazing job and not only BTS but many fans didn’t saw past the fact that they didn’t look ‘masculine enough’ to cover it. 

If we are letting boys be boys why are we so different with girls? Boys can dress up as girls and make fun of them and their dances and their concepts, and aegyo, and their songs, their ‘feminity’ or ‘masculinity’ and be taken as fun boys and girls can’t dare to dance a boy group song without it being pefect or they’ll get people commenting and bashing.

Remember towards the end of Amazons Attack! when Diana for no reason just got super lazy and started praying to Athena to do everything for her? Like, “O goddess Athena, please teleport me to Themyscira”, “O great Pallas, please zap me back to DC”, “O wise Athena, please stop these missiles from hitting Themyscira… any time now would be great, o mighty one… aaaany time…”, “what the shit Athena, do your goddamn job already and stop the fucking missiles for me”.

Because by this point Athena (who was really Granny Goodness in disguise because lol why not nothing else here makes any sense) was getting fed up with Diana’s constant nagging and was just like, “DO IT YOURSELF, BITCH”, and Diana was so goddamn affronted. “What, I’m expected to stop all the violence and destruction and senseless death? Myself? WHAT KIND OF A COMIC IS THIS?!”

Good times, hey?

Angsty Thoughts The Zodiac Signs Have A Lot

Libra: Am I annoying them? I hope I’m not annoying them. I can guarantee that I’m annoying them :(

Leo: Do I look okay? Are you sure you’re not just lying to make me feel better about myself? :/

Aquarius: I thought that would work, but it didn’t. That was my plan. My perfect plan. Now what am I gonna do? D:

Gemini: Am I upset or just grumpy? Am I happy or just blindly positive? I don’t know how to feel >_<

Cancer: Why can’t I just feel good? Why do I always have to think myself into being upset? :(

Capricorn: Everything is falling apart. It should be in my control. Why can’t I fix everything? >:|

Virgo: Ugh, why can’t people just stop questioning my decisions? I know what’s best for me, why can’t people butt out? >:(

Taurus: Can’t people understand that I’m only motivated at certain times? Stop trying to force me to be motivated and productive when I don’t want to >:0

Sagittarius: Don’t tell me to settle down, dammit! I’m aloud to become ferociously passionate about things, quit telling me I’m being over dramatic! D:<

Scorpio: Stop bugging me. Like seriously, leave me alone. I don’t want to go to your stupid places and do stupid things, I want to be left the hell alone -_-

Pisces: They love me…they don’t….they love me….but maybe they do because they flirted with me….but maybe they hate me because I’m clingy…..they probably like someone else….fuck it, I’m gonna scream X_X

Aries: I really want to punch someone. Or something. But I can’t. But I hate always yelling at people. This sucks ;(

anonymous asked:

anon is right tho... like in the video tommy posted her collarbones aren't prominent but in her selfies she makes it so they are. No hate to her for that! Just an observation. Just sticking up for the anon. Lottie isn't "all good and holy" so tone it down.

What does being good and holy have to do with this? Stop digging up everything lmao you sound funny. There’s nothing to stick up for. If she wants to show off her collarbones, she can. I don’t understand why would this bother you so much lol? Don’t you have something better to do than watching Lottie’s every move? Stop trying to start an argument 😘

anonymous asked:

Weave your feelings of being misunderstood into your art and your words because I think this is one of the most powerful and sincere parts of yourself- something so many of us feel but never speak about because people cannot handle honesty. Everything always needs to be presented "consumable". Thank you for being so honest with everything that you say and do, and for sharing with all of us your work. I look forward to watching you grow.

hey i needed this thank you , just going thru a rough patch but this is a reminder more than ever that it’s okay to have low lows , i was gonna stop making shit for a while but you just reminded me why i do it and that it is a good form of release.

How the 2p! study

Allen D, Jones/ 2p America: (agh fuck how long was i out…is that the sun?)

James Williams/ 2p Canada( please make this torture stop!)  

Louis Boneyfoy/ 2p France ( five minutes is good enough) 

Oliver Kirkland/ 2p England( just maybe two more hours and i will done i am so glad,and i know i will do great on the test :) )

Sergei Braninsky/ 2p Russia (mumbling about everything and is trying to get everything done) 

Yang Wang / 2p china (fuck.this.shit why do i even need algebra again!) 

Siegfried Beilschmidt./ 2p Germany( HAHAH NOPE TIME FOR TV)

Luciano Vargas/ 2p Italy ( I ALREADY KNOW THIS CRAP SO WHY DO I EVEN NEED TO STUDY THIS SHIT!) 

Flavio Vargas/ 2p Romano( screaming and  crying coming form his room) 

Klaus Beilschmidt./ 2p Prussia (coffee,coffee,coffee)

Kuro Honda/ 2p Japan (this is to easy) 

Ryszard Edelstein/ 2p Austria (this is easy,can they at least try to challange me) 

Santiago Fernández Carriedo/ 2p spain (is still sleeping and misses the test anyways) 

Maryska Braninsky/2p Ukraine

Anastasia Braninsky/ 2p Belarus

(so boring)

Bonus 

Study group 

Yang when Kuro is trying to study (hey kuro,kuro,kuro,kurooooooooo!!!!!!!)

Maryska trying to get Sergei to stop studying 

I learned a valuable lesson today: Never vent out your feelings toward a friend who’s going through stress and anxiety. I should have just kept quiet about everything, but no. My stupid emotions got the best of me, and now I can’t take it back. Gosh, I wish I was dead right now. I could have prevented all of this if I had just stabbed myself in the heart back in middle school. All I ever do is make people’s lives miserable, and I’m fucking sick of it! I’m sick of dragging my friends into my bullshit! Why can’t I just be a good friend for once and stop being such a fucking pussy about my fucked up life?! I’m done. I’m fucking done! I can’t take this shit anymore! Fuck me, and fuck my life! FUCK EVERYTHING!

it is okay to feel. it is okay to be angry at that person even though it wasn’t their fault and you know it. it’s okay to have your heart tearing in two even though you know it doesn’t make any sense. It’s OKAY to want to scream at the world because it takes no prisoners and nothing is fair and it just keeps going on even when it shouldn’t and god damn it, why can’t it stop? It’s okay to feel often and feel hard. Emotions demand to be felt. You do not have to feel guilty over having them. You undoubtedly already feel bad enough without stacking guilt on, on top of it. 

Feel. Feel everything and anything and whenever you can. You will still be good, and kind, and confident, and beautiful. You will still matter and people will still love you and the world will still keep right on turning. There’s no water, you don’t have to drown. You’re not being hunted, you don’t have to hide. You are a person in your own right with emotion in your own right and it is okay to feel and it’s okay to let it rip you apart so long as you always remember to pick up the pieces and pull yourself back together. You are going to be okay. 

You are okay. I promise.