why do i stan these people

Instructions: you can tell a lot about a person by the type of music they listen to. put your music on shuffle and list the first 10 songs. no skipping

tagged by the lovely @renhyucks ! thankyou <33


  1. 18 - 1d // if you stan 1d at one point.. you know why this song hurts
  2. fourth of July - fob // the fckin bob of the century, i love fob so so much there’s a line here that really gets me  “ You are my favorite ‘what if’ you are my best ‘I’ll never know’”
  3. dancing on my own - Calum Scott // awesome tune, sad lyrics etc etc
  4. secret love song - little mix // their voices just asdfghjk 10/10
  5. jessie’s girl - glee cast // <3
  6. still the one - 1d // i still remember every single lyric to this song. every. single. one
  7. I just called to say I love you - stevie wonder // baek lip sync to this one and i fell in love
  8. firestone - kygo
  9. sugar, we’re goin down // tbt to middle school
  10. young blood - the naked and famous 

tagging : @taeqyong  @cledritch @softlyqentle @starrynct @junhuisgrl @mygs @velvetgfs @95kjh @inhjulmi @kjh @haechnn @scraemin

If ur gonna shit on Halsey for being too “”“wannabe edgy”“” I better not see you stanning the 1975 or the arctic monkeys or any other male dominated indie act in need of rehab & a shower. If you don’t like her music that’s sick great for you you’re allowed that but she literally gets persecuted for singing about and offering a female perspective to the same tired topics these Edgelords have been getting praise about for years and I’m tired just let her live

Mood: wants to support the groups but doesn’t want to support companies that take advantage of young children and teenagers who would do anything to achieve their dreams and who get overworked, underpaid and abused 24/7

honestly i’m so tired of people treating makeup and fashion like they can’t be hobbies. like it’s all right for a guy to know every player on every sports team or every car model but when a girl knows every makeup brand or every hand bag on the market she’s a brainless superficial ditz. like it’s a hobby and it doesn’t inhibit us from knowing about politics or what’s going on in the world, so why do assholes care so much that we also know every lipstick shade mac has ever come out with???

some of yall take kpop so seriously like drink some damn water bro i dont see u getting possessive over kanye west. like??? get a lil loose fam!!! enjoy the music!!! why are u tellin ppl who they can and cannot stan??? why u gettin bitter over someone liking the same person u do??? let people stan idols for whatever reasons they have!! if i wanna stan someone bc they’re hot? you bet ur ass ima do that. and if someone else wanna stan them bc of other reasons thats cool too dude!! and who cares if someone hopped on board 2 seconds ago, they’re as much as a fan as you.

ur still in defence of anthony stark, a rich business man that profitted off the weapons trade and war, that only seems to be rewarded whilst other people suffer as a result of his actions? in this political landscape? embarrassing.

Today, I fucked up... by thinking my friend was Satan for several years

Ok, so this fuck up actually occurred between 5th and 6th grade. I’m 25 now and this is still easily the biggest fuck up of my life…so far.

When I was in elementary, I made friends with a boy on the playground named Stan. Stan was a good kid. He was smart, loved to play, listened to his parents; you know, all the good stuff. Well right around that time, the Catholic church my family had been going to for several years brought in a new priest. This guy was one of those fire and brimstone type guys. You know, the kind of guy that would stand in the quad of his local state college screaming at the harlots and Jezebels walking by. This priest pretty much rewrote the Sunday School curriculum to put the fear of God into his children. Needless to say, my education in faith changed from learning about the Golden Rule and being kind to others to learning what Satan would do to me if I touched my ‘Holy Place’. That is the first time I had heard of this guy, Satan. I had learned about the Devil, lucifer, Adam, and Eve, but not this mean guy Satan. Now, you’re probably thinking to yourself “The Devil, Lucifer, Satan, Beelzebub - they’re all the same being!” Yes, you are right. But to a very young child who’s only interaction with any of these names is in the antagonist of stories, I didn’t make the connection they were the same. Keep in mind, my previous priest was amazing. He understood that you can’t put fear into children and worked diligently to help us find the beauty within our own faith. This new guy was different. He wanted you to know early and often who and what Satan was. Unfortunately for me, I apparently had some sort of ADD/ADHD/Dyslexia (I don’t know, I wasn’t paying attention) and confused the word Satan with Stan.

As you can imagine, I was very confused. How could Stan, such a good guy and friend, hurt people? The thought terrified me. From that moment forward I feared any wrongdoing in front of Stan as I thought he would punish me. I actively avoided him at school, to the point in which we stopped being friends. I kept my eye on him from a distance…just waiting to see what horrible things he would do to people. I never told my parents about why Stan and I stopped being friends and I assume they didn’t notice. This continued for a few years, until the summer between 5th and 6th grade. Stan and I ran into each other at our local pool. As I walked through the front gate our eyes met and I went white. My parents recognized Stan and his family and immediately went over there to socialize, forcing me to actually talk with him. That’s when it happened: Stan asked me why I don’t play with him anymore. So many emotions exploded at that moment and I shouted, in front of his family, “Because you hurt people who do bad things!” My parents, his parents, hell half of the pool just stared at us. All was quiet until my mother cleared her throat and asked me where I had heard that. “Mom, Reverend Endofdays said Stan punishes people who do bad things!” Everyone just stared at me, blankly. “Honey…[Long Pause]…I think you mean Satan.” It took several minutes, but I realized the extent of my fuck up. For several years I had been operating under the assumption that my friend was the King of Hell.

Fast forward a few years, Stan and I are still pretty close friends. Though he moved away after highschool, we still joke about this incident.

TL;DR: I thought my friend Stan was Satan for several years. I was wrong.

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Lovesick Blues Part 1

Originally posted by sebastiansource

Sugar Daddy Sebastian fic inspired by this post. New series and probably a slow burn. Enjoy. Tag List open.


When Sebastian woke up in his king sized bed and his red silky sheets, he knew he was a changed man. He got up from the bed and made his way to the large balcony with the spectacular view of New York. His divorce with the witch of a wife he had was finally over and he was free to do whatever he wanted. Him and his wife have not been getting along for a long time yet she loved what Sebastian’s money could offer to her. Sebastian didn’t mind. He didn’t care. He mad the money she spent on a daily basis every 10 minutes. What he didn’t want was another cause of stress in his already stressful CEO life. Sebastian was the owner of several European countries in the U.S and he was one of the most powerful men in the world.

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Y’all really can’t grasp the concept of enjoying things that happen to be problematic. You can do it as long as you’re critical of what you’re consuming and acknowledge when some shit is fucked up. And yeah there is a limit of how far you should let things slide, but that limit is different for everyone.

A build up of “problematic” behavior is what it takes for some ppl to drop their fave, for others it just takes one thing. Both are valid ways to feel about it. And of course there’s some shit that’s unforgivable and you shouldn’t keep stanning after. Examples would be blackface, repeated (or even one time) use of slurs, abuse/assault, etc.

Even though it might be hard for some of you fucks to understand, it is possible to call out bullshit while stanning a person who has fucked up. I can drop Mamamoo over the shit they did cuz it was literal blackface, but still follow Red Velvet even though Wendy has said stupid shit.

And a lot of people call out the idols they like so I don’t know why y’all love saying POC (especially Black people) are “selective” with who we call out. I’ve shit talked BTS since I got into their music bcuz of the shit they’ve done, same with SVT and shit they say/do. There are plenty of people who do the same thing with all their faves.

So unless someone is actively dismissing people’s feelings about something, mind your own business. Who I do or don’t support is based on how I feel about things and that applies to everyone else too. 

Ok listen up.

I have supported Got7 since they were JJ Project, so let me just say one thing on this Jackson wearing dreads situation:

I do not give a crap about what’s going on.

CHOI YOUNGJAE IS NOT YOUR BACKUP. HE IS NOT YOUR DAMN SCAPEGOAT, FOR YOU TO LOVE ONLY WHEN SHIT HITS THE FAN WITH ANOTHER MEMBER.

I’m am so SICK and TIRED of people only acknowledging YJ whenever another member messes up. I’ve literally seen people who are hardcore Jackson stans, in the past 24hrs change their tune and talk about “Youngjae is so pure, this is why I stan him”, posting pictures of YJ on their blogs with the tag ’#bias’ ….

um no bitch stop lying.

You didn’t even look in YJ’s direction until some stuff happened with Jackson, so don’t even try that. This same thing happened when JB messed up & when Bam did.. people started jumping on the YJ bandwagon saying how much they loved him, when they never spoke about him before.

YJ deserves love regardless of what other members are doing. He is his own person. Yes, of course he is talented, beautiful, funny and i’m glad you want to tell everyone that.. But if you’re gonna ignore him 99% of the time, and only gonna do it when your bias is doing stupid shit, then you might aswell not do it.

It’s getting on my nerves, forreal. If you’re one of these people that do this then you are the lowest, seriously. YJ is too good for you. He wouldn’t even give your fake asses the time of day anyways.

@ me of you want, i really do not care.

Thirst out ✌🏾

13 things that piss off a Namjoon Stan

1. 

“HOW HAVE I JUST DISCOVERED THIS?!?!1″

When your minding your own business listening to Namjoon’s mixtape because that shit is fire and it is pure gold and all the comments are “wHY haVE I nOT SEeN ThIS ?!!11!!” “HOW AM I KNOwing abOUT thiS nOW!111″ and ur like how tf have you not listened 11 tracks and 4 mvs worth of blood, sweat & tears like……..

And its so annoying bc ALL THE COMMENTS ON THE MV ARE JUST SAYING HOW THEY JUST DISCOVERED IT

*okay i know that it isn’t your fault for not knowing something, and his mixtape and solo tracks were released before HYYH a.k.a their big blowup so when it did release recently only a few people knew, but sometimes I feel as if I’m the only one who knows these songs and its kinda like ehh do yall know bout namjoon or…

i’m namjoon and the annoying comments are Taehyung

2. “wHOSE YOUR BIAS!”
“Namjoon”
“oh..”

You know what I’m talking about. They say “why” but not as in like why do you like him but more like WHY TF WOULD U STAN SUCH AN UGLY MEMBER EWEWEW CHINJAAA OPPA MIANHAE SARANGHAEYO

and don’t get me started on how when you say your bias you feel uncomfortable and kind of ashamed (okay this stopped after they got popular and people started to appreciate joonie mini more, but I remember from debut to around boy in luv or danger this was a huge problem, now its not blesss)

3. PROTECTING THE SHIT OUT OF NAMJOON WHEN PEOPLE ATTACK HIM FOR HIS PAST MISTAKES AND PROBLEMATICNESS

GUYS I MADE LIKE 1993489748 RANTS ABOUT THIS, BUT I STAN NAMJOON BECAUSE HE MADE MISTAKES, APOLOGIZED, SUFFERED AND HELD RESPONSIBILITY AND MOVED THE HELL ON. 

SO I HATE WHEN NEW FANS OR ANTIS COMMENT ON OLD PROBLEMATIC VIDEOS , IM LIKE THIS AINT 2014 NO MO SUCK MY COCK, I EVEN MADE A FUCKING YOUTUBE VIDEO FOR GODDAMN SAKE

4. Trying really hard to not throw fists when your friends “joke” that he is ugly

5. Dealing with people who just see Namjoon as the sexy perverted member and nothing else. “DADDY FUCK ME HARD” “NAMJOON DADDY” “DADDD”

6. “IS RAP MON THE OLDEST” “RAP MON IS SO SCARY” “RAP MON IS MEAN”

This isnt much of a “problem” but i find it really funny when people think Namjoon is the oldest, like if he wasnt the leader he would be part of the maknae line. I admit before HYYH he had a really aggresive manly vibe (ugh hottt) but Namjoon was always such a cutie oml, how do some of yall find him scary. HE IS THE OPPOSITE OF SCARY

7. WHEN PEOPLE CAN’T PRONOUNCE “NAMJOON” FOR THEIR LIVING SHIT


ITS NOT NAEM JUNE OR NAYM JUNE OR NAME JUN

ITS PRONOUNCED FUCKING “Nahm-jun”LIKE OM NOM NOM THEN JUN AS IN SEVENTEEN JUN

 like having a foreign name is hard please atleast try make an effort 

8. “who names themselves rap monster”

A FUCKING MAN WHO EATS EVERY BEAT AND RHYTHM LIKE A MONSTER DUHHH

9.  “YOONGI IS WAY BETTER, SUGA IS WAY MORE TALENTED”

someone hold me back before I smack someone because I made a whole post regarding this, yall can’t sleep on Namjoon’s talent.

READ THIS ISSUE HERE

http://btsxlami.tumblr.com/post/149507693125/the-suga-is-a-better-rapper-than-rap-monster

10. “NAMJOON SHOULD LEAVE” “ot6″

OKAY HOW MANY TIMES I GOTTA SAY THIS

“BANGTAN SOYEONDAN WOULD NOT EXIST IF KIM NAMJOON WAS NOT ALIVE”

end of discussion

11. when you a intl fan who hates namjoon, but namjoon shows more intl appreciation than your whole ancestry line combined

12. dealing with that fan who doesnt directly but indirectly rejects namjoons existence

13. and most importantly what pisses us off the most is when Namjoon looks down on himself, saying that his mind will only be at peace if he knows that his music and life has made an impact of our lives, and the fact they he may not know that makes me uneasy.

This is personal but I stopped cutting and stopped my attempted suicide because of Namjoon’s mixtape and his v logs. He saved my life and he needs to know his life has a purpose and meaning.

“ Because it’s a life that you only get one chance with, I want to influence people endlessly, give hopes, and become someone who can become a dream. Until then, I plan to continue on forth. Because that will become something that confirms the worth to my existence to the world and something that can personally confirm myself as to who I am. “

-21.03.15

Kim Namjoon

anonymous asked:

I've seen Liam stans fornyears insist the rest of the fandom bullies him but I've never seen it. Before this, what has there been?

 just a few examples:

- liam didn’t stop to take pictures once bc he was with his family and his gf and some ugly person was like “this is why everyone likes harry better”
- everytime liam defended his gf people would shit on him or said gf even more
- whenever liam says “pls stop doing this thing it upsets me” ppl are like “oh my god shut the fuck up you’re annoying”
- whenever liam said “sing it!” during a concert ppl would make fun of it for MONTHS, it was literally the “running gag” in 2015 to a point where he tweeted that he just wants the audience to enjoy the show and wants to get everyone involved. meanwhile niall always said “you sing!” during his little things solo and that was considered the sweetest and most thoughtful thing
- when liam said in the attitude interview that the larry thing was too much and annoying and that he doesn’t want ppl to send him explicit fanart of him or his bandmates he got called sensitive and ungrateful
- when he gained a bit of healthy weight in 2014 ppl called him fat and ugly and wanted him to go back to his 2013 self (when he had severe mental and physical health problems, he spoke about those in the attitude interview as well)
- whenever he did a note change he was called extra and annoying but when harry did literally the same it was the most beautiful thing


in case anyone wants to add, feel free to do so

Culture, Racism, and Kpop

Since everyone is acting like as if google doesn’t exist. I’m going to just make a long post about tuns of stuff.
Firstly, since it’s the most popular at the moment, Jackson Wang. What Jackson did was extremely insensitive, not only insensitive but extremely micro aggressive. The first thing he do after getting a few civil comments from his black fans is for him to call us ridiculous and haters. And on top of the that, to say that he wore the dreads to show his appreciation for black culture.
First off, that’s a cheap ass excuse, if Jackson genuinely cared about the culture, he wouldn’t just make lame ass rap songs in baggy shirts, he’d actually get to know us. Black culture isn’t just rap music, black culture is many things, it’s extremely diverse. And if he was SO interested in it, I’d hear him discuss it more, all I’ve ever hear Jackson talk about when it comes to black culture is RAP! I’ve never heard him talk him talk about anything regarding black culture besides rap. Jackson doesn’t care about black people, he said that to shut us up.
Secondly, Jackson literally said that he wanted the hair style to show us his appreciation. And since a lot of you don’t know the difference between appropriation and appreciation, here’s a lesson, free of charge.
Appreciation of someone else’s culture is actually taking time out of your day to knowledge yourself on the culture and it’s history. Genuinely showing interest to the point that you don’t want to be offensive because you appreciate the culture so much, that you don’t want to disrespect the history nor the people. Appropriation is taking out the little things you personally like and using it as a costume, something you’ll throw on for fun and when you’re done with it, toss it away. That’s what Jackson is doing. Wearing the culture as a costume, and when he’s done playing dress up for the day, go back to being the idol from Hong Kong. Jackson know that’s offensive, he’s been called out at least twice in his career. Jackson know what’s he’s doing. He simply, doesn’t care. That’s why a lot of black fans canceled him (including myself) because why would I want to stan and give my money to someone who doesn’t give a fuck about me. Kpop consistently let us know bluntly they don’t want black people involved at all. All Kpop care about is East Asians and white people and they let us know that harshly everyday. Jackson has no problem clocking a Korean man speaking broken Chinese and being offensive to him. But as soon as the tables are turned, we’re haters. Lmao fuck him tbh and got7 as a whole.
Second lesson is that dreads aren’t apart of anyone else’s culture besides black culture don’t @ me on it.
Dreads are a hairstyle that was created by black people with our hair texture. NO ONE ELSES HAIR CAN DO THAT! Not those “Vikings” or any other bullshit “culture” you enjoy to bull out. Vikings literally had matted fucking hair because they were FILTHY!! It’s literally impossible for anyone without black coily hair to pull that shit off. That white people bullshit is literally just them refusing to wash their hair. If you have to do so much different treatment to your hair to the point it doesn’t even fucking move, shouldn’t that be enough evidence that it’s not meant for you??
To cut this shit short because it’s too long, Kpop doesn’t care about black people and they continue to show how much they don’t care. Jackson is trash and so is a lot of y'all fav boy groups. Dreads are exclusively apart of black culture. Sharing cultures is a cheap excuse to defend your favs. Lastly you can’t appropriate
“white culture” you can only assimilate because it’s the dominated culture amongst us in this Eurocentric world we live in.

anonymous asked:

I'm so tired of people saying that Harry hates Louis or vice versa. They obviously can't show their love publicly but if Harry is that 'big bad wolf' forcing Louis to do things like going on hiatus then why do Louis friends still like Harry? Steve adores him. Calvin is lowkey his stan. Fizzy is his #1 fan and likes tweets about him frequently. Styles-Tomlinson siblings still hang out with each other. If he's supposedly 'evil' then why??? Explain that, Harry haters :)

They can’t :)

I’m not even trying to be this bitch, but after seeing what the boys said at the fansign I just feel like I stan the right group. Our boys are satisfied just because they’re still charting, they don’t care that they’re not number one, the fact that they haven’t fallen off the charts already makes them feel our support. The NCT members are all so damn hard working, they really give their all and I feel like if they can practice for twelve hours a day to perfect this comeback, why can’t we do our part to get them their first win? I feel all some people do is talk without taking action and actually going to vote or streaming. I mean, NCT fans on twitter are offering to make these melon accounts for people who can’t with 30 free streaming passes. What’s stopping y'all from streaming or voting? If our boys don’t end up getting their first win, you really have to right to complain or be upset about it, unless you were really out here trying your best to make it happen. And I know its not all about winning guys but I’m sick and tired of certain donkey asses call our boys flops just because of how they do on the charts. Like that’s always what people fucking bring up. They need to do their research and see that NCT are doing perfectly fine in other areas, especially physical album sales. 100,000 preorders for their third mini album is something to be proud of. Anyways this is all over the place, my point was NCT are the best group to stan and please help them get their first win!