It breaks my heart every time i see a post on my dash about someone jumping ship on calzona or not rooting for them to be together anymore.
Shonda has screwed them up, I won’t deny that, but…I’ll always root for them and always have hope.
They may have lost some of what they had and have grown to be different people, especially in s12, but that just gives me more hope. After season 8, Arizona became someone else, evolved to be someone else and Callie had to adapt and essentially do the same. They became two different people who had to find out who they were in this new situation. Watching the show again, I understand more than before why Callie ended things in season 11 and I still think it makes sense even though it breaks my heart. They have become two people who needed to fully find their new selves and grow separately so they could truly embrace and learn who they are.
That being said, that gives me more hope. They are new people who are in a considerably happy period in their life. They know who they are and that really gives me hope of [when they] get back together, they’ll be able to really love each other and really learn to love and accept the people they’ve become. They already know about each other’s past and the hurt and pain and ups and downs and everything in between, but with this new layer of exploring and finding out what has changed in the other, of being able to re-fall in love again in a true fresh start? That gives me hope.