One thing I do not understand:
Why do bdsm fics have to be so damn dark? Yall know you can write kink without so much angst right? I’m all for some dark stuff every now and then, but it’s almost every single fic.
Can I have happy bdsm? Giggling subs who can’t hold still cause the rope is tickling them. Doms trying to be stern but just end up laughing too. Sweet after care, intense scenes where one of them breaks character in the middle because “omg you did not just make a star wars reference in the middle of a scene!”
Punishments that fit the crime and come with reassurances and cuddling after. Yall, bdsm is fun, it’s supposed to be about love and trust and giving and caring. And yes some of it is blood and pain and punishment. But that’s not all of it. This isn’t policing, cause yall write whatever you want, I would just like a bit of variety.