Hey i saw yr posts about the normalizing of toxic behaviors in the bpd community and i totally agree with you but i feel really shitty now because i have really invasive and abusive thoughts similar to those even though i know i shouldnt. even though i dont use them to manipulate ppl & i supress my splitting i feel like a walking poster child for bpd tumblrs nastiness and cant express it without it being seen as "relatable" idk it pisses me off that my symptoms are a joke and i needed to vent
something about this ask rubs me the wrong way but i cant point on why. what i do know is that your takeaway should not have been “fuck you for venting” but rather be more critical of your vent posts and be careful with how you share them to the public. if you do have really bad invasive and abusive thoughts, you shouldn’t be sharing it on your tumblr account and should like, talk to someone about it.
venting about on tumblr where people will enable your behavior is really no better than suppressing it and keeping it to yourself. if its that worrying to you then make it clear it shouldn’t be reblogged and keep it out of bpd tags where other people use it.