why cant i work out this angle

he is not supportive of the idea of me going to school at MSSU he is the only person who is not supportive that ive told so far he wants to keep me in this basement and wants me to go to community college here and then transfer out, if i cant….. live as a fucking neet here functionally why would anyone think i can handle school work in this setting. he wants to own me and he is mad that this whole event hasnt been father child bonding months and that i have focuses and hindrances of my own,, i am grown,, i dont have any obligation to make him my main frame of focus logically i do not !! from every possible angle his conflict makes no fucking sense and is incredibly selfish and it is impossible to reason with him