Better Man just proves that people really do just hate on Taylor’s music bc it’s Taylor’s name on the performer credits. If her name isn’t slapped on that front spot, lyrically and musically, people seem to like her style. And that makes me really sad that just bc something is sung by Taylor, so many people automatically jump to hate it without giving the actual music a chance. I understand not liking her voice but you and I know that’s not the reason people dismiss Taylor’s artistry.
Was it just me or did it seem like Grundy/Jennifer actually wanted to leave town when they found out about her real name? like she genuinely looked shocked when Archie confronted her with that. Think about it: what if Grundy knew that Jason was gonna get murdered, or she did it herself, whatever. She would need someone to back her up, be her alibi and she would need an excuse to skip town.
What if Grundy wanted the relationship she had with Archie to be discovered after the murder so that she could have a valid reason to leave town, making it seem like she had no choice. Perhaps she thought that being caught in such a scandal was better than being caught with murder.
And if she played her cards right, she wouldn’t get in serious trouble. All she had to do was pretend to be a victim of sexual assault. Blame it on that. She could argue that after such a horrid and violent relationship she wasn’t used to Archies kindness, she felt cherished, she was vulnerable. The person that would find about the relationship would feel sorry for her and make her leave town as expected. The perfect excuse for her to leave without it looking like she left because of what she did to Jason.
However, her plan failed as she never expected B & V to find out her real name and now they know a part of a much bigger secret. So now she has to fix that.
I was thinking about initials earlier and Harry Potter came to mind, but then I thought of Draco and how his initials are DM
and now all I can think about is a Drarry situation where a Harry who is is up to date on memes runs up to Draco after a long day at work and slides down on his knees like a rockstar until he collides with Draco and just seductively whispers in to his ear “sliding into DMs like”
One of the things that still pisses me off is how little Lexie is mentioned on the show since she died. Like George and Mark got episodes that memorialized them but Lexie? It’s as though she never was on the show. Don’t know why she can’t even come up in conversations like Mark, George, Derek and Cristina do. Heck Izzie is even mentioned more than Lexie is.
No matter how stomped on/shattered I feel from someone or something I will always pick back up the pieces and put myself back together,eventually. I don’t really know how I do it or why sometimes, but I always like to think there’s something so good that’s waiting for me some day that will make all of these bad/hurtful things not matter. I still have so much love to give, and a lot of beautiful things in the world to see/find.
Please educate me cause why is demisexual even considered a sexuality.. Like you only want a relationship/sex if you feel a real connection with someone.. Like any other normal human being?
I see how the description can come off as insulting to a non ace person, sorry. It’s not meant to make everyone else sound like they sleep around easy. It just means it takes, at least in my case, uncomfortable amounts of bonding with a person before I even consider dating them.
Lemmy try to explain. When you’re a kid full of hormones you/ your friends usually have celeb crushes or school crushes, maybe you fantasize about what it’s like to kiss them or imagine marrying them despite not actually knowing them. Someone demi or ace would grow up not having crushes like that, sure they’d agree the person is aesthetically pleasing or that they admire their acting/music skills, but they would never feel any kind of physical yearning for a person they don’t know/doesn’t know them. And i’m not saying you’re gross or bad if you’ve felt that way, it’s normal. Ace/demi people do have a sex drive, they just don’t link those thoughts to people, it’s more a sensation not aimed at a particular person. (so like the other anon said, I could be “horny 24/7″ and still be demi but that question was pretty funny to answer with nuns instead)
It’s common to date people you kind of know in order to get to know them and eventually maybe be in a relationship with them. In my case it doesn’t feel right to date someone I don’t have a deep emotional connection to. And I don’t mean like we’ve had a few nice conversations and I think the person is worth getting to know. I can only date people I already feel fondly for and know the feeling is mutual. We have to be best friends, know each others lives/secrets, don’t
mind being gross in front of each other etc before I ever consider them in a sexual way at all (and even then I don’t feel this way for every friend).
If you’re demi, most dates with people you don’t know well feel like you’re hanging out with a sibling. They’re your buddy, you’re having fun with them, think they’re nice/sweet/pretty but you feel nothing sexual towards them and would be really disturbed if they made a move on you or you on them. I use to misinterpret dates as people just wanting to hang out/be my friend because I don’t get dating feelings for anyone I haven’t known for years. I’ve also dated multiple sexes so it’s hard to tell if someone wants to be bros or something more.
So yeah, it’s a sexuality, it’s got sexuality right in the name and it’s a branch off of the A in lgbtqa.~