why wont larries leave Danielle and Briana alone tho? If they hate them so much why give them attention? like i follow 300+ 1d blogs, mostly harries and i swear i do not see anyone blog about these girls unless they are pictured with Louis or Freddie. I do not follow Briana on IG, i have no clue what her daily activity is like b/c i am not interested. I dont get it why they find that hard to do. like i wish i could do that to larries as well, just ignore them but they are plastered all over 1/2
the boys and family and loved ones social media making it impossible to ignore them. they bring obnoxious signs to concerts affecting my experience. they pollute the boys tags with nonesense again affecting my enjoyment, hence i am forced to pay attention to them and ward them off in hopes of cleaning this up. but they have no such problem with D & B. if you dont seek them out, i swear to god those girls are almost invisible. so why not just leave them alone ?? tone down the misogyny ? 2/2
I get so many asks from Larries pretending to be indifferent neutral outsiders who ask me why I care about the Larries, why do I blog about them, blah blah.
If you’re in this fandom you’re forced into experiencing the toxic effect they have on the boy’s and everyone in their lives and on the fandom itself.
If you want to follow Louis and Harry’s lives you have to deal with witnessing these fans behaving like this. We know it has a direct impact on them because they have said so. You see the younger fans talking about the anxiety and even depression and suicidal thoughts they have because of what they go through as Larries. Young fans told that their idol’s are in an enforced closet and require their obsession to free them and then experiencing constant anxiety because none of their predictions ever comes true and instead everything grows further and further away from that reality. But throughout this continually told that if they leave they’re hurting the boys, that they’re “weak”, that if they believe he’s a father they’re not really his fans anymore and that Louis hates them and his baby. This constant abusive mindset. It’s horrible.
They need to talk about Briana and Danielle because they believe deconstructing them helps prove Larrie is real and a baby is fake. They also know that cultivating the hate for these women helps with the harassment they receive online, which in turn can be used to either silence them or make them want to try and be as low key as possible. All of which fuels their Larrie theories.
I agree though - it’s amazing how often I’ll see Big Larries talking about something that someone around Briana tweeted or liked and I’ll come and see that no Anti has mentioned it because we just don’t follow these people like that. Like a few weeks back Briana’s mother responded denying that Briana was refusing to let Louis spend time with Freddie over Christmas on twitter and I haven’t seen a single Anti mention that yet. The only people I saw discussing this was Larries. I wouldn’t even know what Tammi’s twitter handle is.
They claim to not be obsessed by them, but they have to be. They believe obsessing over them helps keep an eye on them for clues and signs and as Briana/Danielle are Louis’s ever present reality, there’s no way for Larries to avoid them. Deconstructing them keeps them busy and keeps them from wondering why Babygate hasn’t ended yet, why Danielle is necessary, why Louis is doing all these things. Bitching about them is their stress release ball.