whos yours

There is no one who fits your name more than you.
—  Poets Love Her

What bothers me the most about the “friendzone” interpretation of Snape, it’s not the mischaracterisation of Snape himself, but the complete lack of understanding what a “friendzone” guy is.

Do you think a friendzoned guy would accept the refusal, yet still be envolved in the well-being of the girl, endanger his life trying to save hers, and then watch over her kid until his very end? Nope, the friendzoned guy would have whined, used his pain to touch another girl, got rejected 4546th times until his tragedy becomes the consistency of rejection and not a particular rejection itself, and after her death, would have passed by her ravaged house, rise his fedora, said out loud “this is what you get when you marry assholes” and at the pub he’d have sighed deeply with his boys wondering : “why do women always prefer to get killed by Dark Lords instead of dating Nice Guys” and all the boys would have nodded because it happened to four of them so that’s the proof, women just prefer get killed in wars, how strange yet fascinating creatures, so mysterious, so killable. 

Like, i’m not saying that writing for villainous characters is difficult but - 

If you write villains as villains you are accused of: obviously endorsing every negative thing they do, glamorizing crime, normalizing abusive behaviours and being a generally bad person.

If you write villains as less villainous then you are accused of: ruining their character, erasing mental illness (more often than not), woobifying ‘bad’ people and being a generally boring person.

How can you win lmao?

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The amazing and beautiful @gatesofhel tagged me to post a selfie. Thank you Hel!! ❤❤❤

I’m tagging @lapinkpig @angiemars @youth-gone @neenne @scarletsue @three-different-ones @anti-beatles @dearprudence68 @boris-the-arachnid @rocknrolljunkie17 @louderthanhell @rose-ghouls @thingsshecouldntsay @sheonlycaresaboutbands @hit-the-lightning @imfeelingreckless @killedbydeth @younglusts @hell–hammer and anyone who wants to!!

anonymous asked:

I've noticed in game that there aren't a lot of children out of stasis on the Nexus, Sid is the most recognized kid on there I believe hm does that technically mean she's the "Big Sister" this time when it comes to teaching about the Milky Way to the kids?

Knowing her, she’d probably find all sorts stuff to teach on the extranet (…or at least, the nexus version of the extranet xD)

Your mindset can make or break you. If you believe something to be bad, then it will simply be bad. However, if you make a point of looking for the light amidst the darkness, it can turn your whole world into one filled with beauty.
—  Nicole Addison @thepowerwithin

remember when kaz brekker told inej ghafa he refused to be the one to mark her body after everything she had been through?? because i sure do. the tattoo was mandatory for everyone in the dregs except her bc self-proclaimed monster kaz brekker had the decency to respect her past trauma & he didnt want her to feel like anyone owned her. and the first thing he did after purchasing her indenture was get her proper clothes?? and a knife??? lbr when will your fave ever