whoopsssss sorry not sorry for this

anonymous asked:

ok so not at all hannibal related but I'm rly upset and have no one else to ask. there's this girl I really like and I've told her so twice, and she says she's not sure how she feels about me and is questioning her sexuality. the thing is that everything she does and says to me seems way more intimate than anything a friend would do or say, and all my gay friends agree. I don't want to make her feel pressured but I'm really confused and it's starting to be destructive to me, sorry to bother you

Okay so like, just now realized I drafted this days ago and never answered. Whoopsssss. I’m so sorry…

The only helpful advice I think I can give you is if ANY situation feels destructive to you, for whatever reason, you owe it to yourself to step away from that. I mean, it’s okay for her to be confused and not know what she wants, but if that’s at the expense of your friendship and your mental wellbeing, maybe the two of you should go your own separate ways for now. If you’re okay with just being her friend if she really doesn’t want anything more, make that clear to her, but also make it clear that her being half in and half out is hurting you. If she cares about you, she will understand.

I’m sorry that you’re going through this nonny, and I’m also sorry it took me so long to get to this, but I hope it all works out for the both of you in the end. <3