who wants to send me things

bitterness and despair I am filled with

is there a polite way to say please stop sending me multi paragraph reviews detailing  e v e r y t h i n g  you HATE about my storyline and characterization because it makes me want to stop writing”?

(like. I get that not everyone is going to like my writing, but when I see a notification for a review and it’s really just–a complaint? it makes me want to stop writing the fic. just. just stop reading the story if you don’t like it. please. just stop.)

((am I the only one who thinks unsolicited criticism on fanfic is INCREDIBLY RUDE? is that not a thing that other people think??))

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Dear Fandom..💌

So here’s the thing.

March has been a tough month for me on every and all fronts.

My friend, Emily, use to love to send cards in the mail. She passed away a few years ago (fuck you again cancer) and I feel the card tradition fading.

I sent out 3 cards in March to tumblr friends. (You’ll know who you are when you get them! 😉) but I want to send more.

If you feel comfortable giving me your mailing address (message me), I would happily post something to you!

No pressure. I send things to my friends in the real world. I just thought I could send some love to this crazy fandom and all you great tumblr folk too.

@a-january-girl @alittlemissfit @allyinthekeyofx @becksndot5 @baronessblixen @campaignofmisinformation @conversationinthehallway @contrivedcoincidences6 @cosmic-files-87 @damselindistressmya @edierone @gillovny1013 @justholdinghandsok @lepus-arcticus @2plumsandagherkin @need-not @sunshinetoday @storybycorey @thethirstisoutthere @xfile-cabinetx @youokay-mulder @mangokiwitropicalswirl @therobbinsnest
@ilove-gillian @crossedbeams @startwreck @sunflowerseedsandscience

Sorry, if I forgot anyone that I have chatted with…if you would like a card, send me a message! 💫☀️💛⭐️🥂

Long live 🐌✉️📮!

anonymous asked:

I broke down in front of my mum on the weekend. I ended up saying some stupid things I'd been thinking about and that included some talk about suicide. Yesterday we went to the doctor to get a referral to a psychiatrist and tomorrow I'm seeing him. Mum wants to get antidepressants for me. I need to talk to someone but I feel like my friends and family would just do the pity thing and pat me on the back and send me off with a "well there's nothing I can do" and I don't know who to turn to anymore

First of all, I want you to know that anything you think or feel is not and never is stupid. You are important and everything you say is worth listening to. It sounds like your parents are concerned and just want to help you, which is understandable for any parent who loves their child. Remember they are doing this with the best intentions of what they feel is best for you.

I know you need someone to talk to, so I do believe seeing a professional is the best decision for you. They are there to listen and to help you get through this, that is, if you let them.
Another important thing is you don’t have to take medication if you don’t want to. That’s completely up for you to decide. It’s your choice. (If they start forcing you, demand a different psychiatrist)
So even saying that, taking medication is not a bad thing and could help you immensely. I’ve taken antidepressants when I needed them and there is no shame in doing so. Sometimes there are certain points in your life when you need help, and it’s okay to ask for it. Your mental health is the most important.

I know things are tough right now but I promise you things will get better and you’re going to be okay. Just hang in there ✨

hey……………4 ya artists out there followin me who feel frustrated or like they can’t do anything right or that ur work isnt coming out how u want. or u just wish u could get some feedback. would u like to send an ask w/ a link to ur art tag or a drawing youve made recently that you like the most? and i can tell you what i think your strengths are! i just thought it’d be a casual nice lil thing to be able to remind you of the good you’re accomplishing, cuz everyone could use that once in awhile…! 

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ALRIGHT…so, I decided I’m going to do ships. I cannot wait and I hope your all excited too :D Anyway, here’s what you have to send in/tell me to get one: 

  • send in an ask with a description of yourself. Physical features and details can be included but be sure to mention interests, personality traits and things like that too. It’s hard to do a ship if all I know is you’re a short girl with black pixie cut hair and green eyes
  • Let me know if you want to be shipped with girl, a guy or if it doesn’t matter either way
  • Tell me which fandom you want a ship from. I’m doing ships for: Doctor Who, Supernatural, Marvel, DC, and Sherlock  (Only two at a time but if you want more than two fandoms your more than welcome to send in more than one ask)


Tagging people that could be interested

@a-sea-of-fandoms @casownsmyass @imadeangirl-butimsamcurious @escaperealityforever @dandycandy75 @its-not-a-phase-hux @mwyaoi @annalisasparkleshine @bsicthought @quicksilver123456 @swishnflick0508 @thatbasicnerd4life @rosep16 @ultrawholockedunicorn @nerdysandwichqueen @thenextgirlwaiting @omgreallystupendouscollector @wildestdreamsrps @your-modern-shakespeare @mischievous-fairy @a-lonely-fangirl-in-theuld @sausage-master @the-western-woods @blueinkblot @do-you-mind-if-i-slytherin1 

Hello there! My name is Chantel, I’m 18 and I’m a mean, lean, meme loving machine. 

I’ve posted on here before, but unfortunately the mail that is sent my way is sometimes lost or some haven’t been able to respond (Which I completely understand, sometimes things just happen, no judgement.) What I’m looking for is mainly someone I can send Snail Mail to; I’m open to internet friends but I’ll be honest, I suck at replying straight away, especially If the conversation goes dry. I’m not bothered about age or gender or where you’re from, as long as you’re chill and we can get along.

If you’re the type of person who loves to talk about anything and everything, then feel free to hit me up! I want to know what your favourite colour is, whether you think pluto is a planet, what you’re favourite conspiracy theory is and much more. I want to be able to discuss with someone about their interests as well as mine, whether their similar or completely different. I want to know your deepest secrets so I can store them away and sell them to the government, but we’ll save that particular one for another day.

I’m pretty average; I like to take crappy photos and pretend that I keep art journals when really I just buy books that I never end up using. I use to paint, draw and basically do anything arty when I was younger, but I don’t have as much time now (so if you’re good at art, show me and I’ll gush about it to you.) I’ve only been abroad once to Spain, and it was absolutely amazing! I’m also a fan of gaming on the PS3 and PS4, and recently finshed Dishonoured, Oxenfree and Life is strange.

I love to pretend that I write, as I often get a tiny idea, write a page then hit a block. But hey, if we were all meant to be authors, there wouldn’t be much point to it now would it?

I’m a lover of books, and a hater of reading. Sometimes finishing a book can be difficult for me, but I still do it nonetheless. My favourites are We Were Liars, A Monster Calls, and The Raven Cycle. (Please please message me if you enjoy the last one, even if you don’t want to be pen pals!)

TV and Films are definitely a conversation starter if you’re wondering how to start a conversation (I’m currently studying media and hoping to specialise in film.) I love a lot of programmes including; Orphan Black, The Office, Teen Wolf, BoJack Horseman, Gilmore Girls, The Blue Exorcist, Red Vs Blue, My Mad Fat Diary, Yuri!!! On Ice and Pretty Little Liars. For Films, I enjoy stuff like A Clockwork Orange, Kingsman Secret Service, Hacksaw Ridge, Dredd the remake, Kill Bill and basically anything by Laika. (Paranorman, Coraline, The Box Trolls, Fantastic Mr Fox.)

Feel free to contact me!

http://we-can-be-perfectly-imperfect.tumblr.com/

Quick Update, 3/28

Just letting y’all know a few things relevant to my Patreon for those who aren’t pledges. 

A few weeks ago I held a poll. I’m going to interview people who work in Veterans Affairs and try to provide a little insight on a few topics. Homelessness and medical care were tied, so I’m going to be working on those two first, though probably with some priority to medical care. If there’s any specific questions you want me to ask while I’m interviewing, please send them as a reply to this post, not as a PM or ask. Please keep in mind there’s no guarantee I can ask every question that comes up.

I’ve officially started my Training Masterposts! It’ll be a four-part series addressing reception, basic training, and advanced individual training. The first part in the series is over 2,000 words and is already available for my patrons! It’ll be published to Tumblr some time next week.

Casual reminder to please not PM me your questions. This has started happening all of a sudden, and I hate having to correct people because I feel like an asshole. Using the PM function skips the askbox and I depend on the receipt date of the askbox to tell me which asks I should answer. Obviously I try to give priority to older asks. I’m happy to answer your questions whether they’re an ask or a submission, but they do need to be one of those two options, unless you’re a Sergeant level patron on my Patreon, which allots you up to ten yes or no questions per month which can be sent as your leisure. 

Finally, I’d like to make clear once again that I can’t create your army for you. I understand that you’re probably having trouble naming your ranks or giving them responsibilities, but that’s a creative aspect of writing that depends on you. This also applies to creating new jobs and using equipment like laser guns and mechs. Please understand that I’m not trying to be dismissive of you and your question and I truly encourage you to keep your ideas going. 

Thank you for all your support! You’re such wonderful followers and I appreciate your comments, reblogs, and support every day. 

-Kingsley

astrobookwormsinger  asked:

I'm so, SO sorry for being a stalker and reblogging just about everything you posted!! I'm just a HUGE fan of yours and love Allegiance (it's almost like my life-Force as of now) !! And are requests for you elaborating on one scene from Allegiance still open? I also wanted to tell you that I'm the anon who asked when you're publishing Ch. 12 of Allegiance. I wanted you to know that I'm sorry if I was rushing you up! Take your time :)

Oh, you’re fine. :) You’re not the only one who does that.

Thank you! Are you talking about the “movie commentary ask” thing? I’m not specifically taking more, but if you want to send one in, go ahead. It might take me a bit to get to, I want to finish answering the three sentence fics first.

Again, you’re fine. I’m hoping to get more of chapter 12 done this week while I’m on break.

Planned Parenthood is fucking amazing, y’all. I haven’t been there yet…but just talking to their HRT line on the phone…

They used my respected name right off the bat. Called me Riley all the way through. Used he/him pronouns. Didn’t slip up once. Asked me and “What’s your legal name? I’m sorry I have to ask that.”

Then asked me “Now is it okay if I send things with Riley Roswell to your home?” not wanting to out me accidentally and then “Is it okay if I send stuff with planned parenthood labels on them or do you want me to be discreet about it?” knowing there are people who could get in trouble with family or partners or others for going there.

OH MY GOD I’M GOING TO CRY AND THEY DIDN’T JUDGE ME AT ALL

THEY WERE TOTALLY ACCEPTING AND ANSWERED ALL MY STUPID FUCKING BASIC QUESTIONS ABOUT HRT ABOUT WHAT THE APPT WAS GONNA BE LIKE

AND SHE WAS SO KIND AND SO UNDERSTANDING

AND SHE RESPECTED ME SO MUCH AND I WAS SO HAPPY

I CAN’T BELIEVE PEOPLE LIKE THAT EXIST IN OUR WORLD.

OH MY GOD.

AND I’M GOING TO BE GOING TO THIS WONDERFUL PLACE ON THE 29TH!!!!!!!!

Munday! Send me some stuff!

🐶 - take and post a selfie

🍡 - share your favorite recipe with your followers

🌈 - Where do you want to travel to?

🐰 - Favorite movie?

📍 - favorite color?

🎶 - share a song you think the asker would enjoy

🎩 - put on an accessory or cosplay and take a picture in it for your followers

🎱 - Favorite pastime?

🚦 - do you drive? Show us your vehicle of transportation

🛁 - what does your morning routine consist of? How long does it take?

💍 - what can you say about your significant other, if you have one?

🐅 - what’s your favorite thing about your muse?

🎲 - who’s your favorite blog to interact with?

🎡 - what have you done to the character to make them unique to you?

🐓 - do you draw? Can we see?

🌹 - are you doing alright?

🌟 - just want to let you know that I appreciate you, and love you

Shades of pink! Send me one for a romantic question!
  • Ballet: What’s something you’re attracted to?
  • Blush: What’s a gift you want to give your partner?
  • Bubblegum: Describe one thing about your partner that you love.
  • Carmine: What’s your ideal date?
  • Cerise: Do you know what your ‘type’ is?
  • Cherry: Who was your first celebrity crush?
  • Coral: Describe as much as you can remember of your first kiss.
  • Flamingo: Favourite romantic movie?
  • Fuchsia: What’s your favourite romantic trope?
  • Garnet: Which couple is your couple goals?
  • Lemonade: Have you ever been broken up with via text?
  • Magenta: How long did you last relationship last?
  • Peach: Do you prefer to take charge in a relationship?
  • Powder: What’s your opinion on ‘true love’?
  • Punch: Do you believe in soulmates?
  • Rose: Do you ever plan on getting married?
  • Rosewood: Where did you meet your most recent partner?
  • Rouge: What was the last date you went on like?
  • Salmon: What’s the most romantic thing someone’s ever done for you?
  • Strawberry: Have you ever kissed someone you barely knew?
  • Taffy: Describe one thing about a relationship that you hate.
  • Watermelon: Are you happy with your current relationship status?

no offense but i really need more rp partners who are my friends like..  dont get me wrong i love all ships nd stuff but its always better when you’re friends with the person anD I want a friend who i can join rps with and have multiple ships with and be clingy w/ and try out new rp things with (for instance fl/rp or indies) and !! i just want a rp partner i can send memes (actual memes , not ask memes but ask memes are great too) to and just become close w/ and have the best greatest ships and i’m rambling but i want a tumblr friend who i can spam w/ stuff about our muses ( or smth ) or just spam w/ anything !! like !! i just want friends where we can play lame games 2gether and watch movies and have a hella emotional and cute plot at the same time i and i want ships where i can send ask memes !! and make moodboards nd cute playlists and other stuff and we can have tons of cute ships and- ,,, wow okay , i got carried away so my grammar in this post is bad but .. come b my friend or ,, just plot idc

subject-themed asks!!

mathematics: a problem in your life you need to solve
physics: something someone has said or done that moved you
biology: the last thing that made you feel alive
zoology: the animal you’d be if you weren’t human
chemistry: have you ever been in love?
astronomy: the biggest dream/aspiration you have
computer science: who you want to be in ten years time
psychology: your biggest flaw and how it makes you better
sociology: what you would change about society if you could
geology: the person who keeps you most grounded
theology: what do you think happens when we die?
geography: a place that’s special to you and why
anthropology: the people you love least and most and why
history: the biggest mistake you’ve ever made
drama: the last lie you told and why
criminology: the number one person you’d die for
literature: a book that changed you forever
english: your favourite word and why
linguistics: an expression you say a lot
creative writing: tell us a short story about a dog and a peach
art: describe yourself using only colour and nature terms
photography: what would your life look like as a single photo?
dance: the most memorable day of your life
woodwork: the life you would want to build for your child
foreign languages: if you were a country, which would you be and why?
classics: the elderly person you’re closest to and what they’ve taught you
music: the most beautiful lyric you can think of
economics: the most valuable material object you own
health: how is your mental health right now? physical? emotional?
physical education: would you rather work in a team or independently?
food technology: something that makes you warm inside

[ as a follow-up to this post. ]

texts  from  last  night  :  drunk me  edition. ( slightly nsfw at times ? )

[ text ] hello it’s me drunk me. the ghost of drunkmas past
[ text ] i love being white girl wasted
[ text ] that’s when you know you’re wastypants
[ text ] fuzzy is the best, sloppy is ugly
[ text ] if i wasn’t wearing a sweater i’d send you a bra selfie
[ text ] i’m drunk peeing
[ text ] CUTTHROAT KITCHEN THOOOOOOOOO
[ text ] sabotage me
[ text ]  things are happening, i’m not sure what 
[ text ] who am i
[ text ] gbbo would never, mary berry would NEVER
[ text ] you win honor who wants money
[ text ] i want the money
[ text ] why am i sloppy
[ text ] i’m pooping or peeing we’re not sure yet
[ text ] i’m still on the toilet
[ text ] drunk me is a mess of knowledge
[ text ] wow i love drunk me
[ text ] drunk me: factchecking
[ text ] lemme send you a hoe selfie
[ text ] meanwhile i keep sending sloppy hoe selfies
[ text ] i’m changing into my batman pjs
[ text ] this will be my downfall i hate myself me and my pink panther print panties
[ text ] leak this pic
[ text ] don’t trust me i’m drunk me
[ text ] my face feels funny
[ text ] see i can type i am in control
[ text ] i’ve been sending drunk snaps in my defense
[ text ] i’m like one step away from dabbing
[ text ] drunk me: laughs in hidden.jpg
[ text ] i drunk snapped ____ and ____ while singing beyoncé
[ text ] i’ll look at this tomorrow and cringe
[ text ] i am sober and in control of the situation
[ text ] i sent a ass selfie to ____ captioned: EAT THIS BEN AFFLECK
[ text ] HE HAS BATMAN ASS
[ text ] i don’t feel more sober at all
[ text ] i should be asleep but my drunk thirsty ass is like: cute girl
[ text ] i am just a simple farmer
[ text ] do the sleepo
[ text ] i’m drunk talking to a cute girl
[ text ] drunk me is a hoe a THIRSTY hoe
[ text ] i won’t remember this in the morning
[ text ] i’m not sloppy drunk i’m soft drunk, i call it 4 shots and a glass of champagne
[ text ] drunk me: time to thirst message all my friends / flings / exes
[ text ] idk what he’s saying but i’m like raw me daddy
[ text ] don’t kinkshame me
[ text ] i love my aunt she’s trying to get me more drunk
[ text ] i have like 70% awareness of what’s going on around me right now 
[ text ] i might dab again on snapchat who knows 

Shoutout to autistics who are bad at arguing! Who say the wrong thing.

 To the autistics who get too angry in an argument. 

To the ones who get scoffed at or misunderstood far too often because of things we can’t help. 

It’s fine!!! You don’t have to argue if you don’t want !!!! And if you do want to continue thats ok too!!! You can send them your side in texts if its easier, or bring it up again later !!! 

So I recently got around to color coding my gmail, and I thought it might be helpful to make a guide on how to do it! I find color coding email into certain categories to be helpful for finding things, as long as I don’t have too many categories.

Right now I have color codes for emails from my parents, from myself, about my new job, and of things that I need to do (for example if people email me tasks, forms, etc.) I was told at a seminar at my last job that keeping categories minimal is important, because otherwise you just have a large mess of colors. I know some people like only having “to do,” “doing,” and “done” categories, but do whatever works for you!

Now to the actual tutorial! (under a read more to keep this post short)

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ALL I CAN THINK ABOUT is Shiro doing a cool move then Keith asking him to teach him so Shiro agrees but needs Lance to help demonstrate

Lance is like sure bc who doesn’t wanna be tossed around by a muscley space daddy.

So Shiro does the move on him but he either underestimates his own strength or has some kind of flashback thing and ends up dislocating/or even breaking Lance’s arm in the process BYE

cloud’s p.o/mailbox is now open !!!! ~

i am so very happy to announce that you can now send me and cloud things to a safe mailbox!! (rules and stuff below)

and yes we will reply to EVERYONE because we want this to be an exchange of gifts between people who support us and we are excited to send things out!!

things you can send: 

well, anything within reason, but here are some suggestions: 

  • doggy treats - cloud favourites are bones she can chew etc, but she enjoys anything that is dog friendly!!!! (please make sure you buy them in like a sealed packet, so they can get to us safely and make sure they are 100% safe for cloud, or i probably can’t give them to her)
  • doggy toys - now cloud is quite, uh, destructive, so she likes harder toys that don’t break easy, like kong toys or balls, but anything would be welcomed, just… can’t guarantee how long it’ll survive lmao
  • art / creations - a few people have said they would love to send something but would rather make it and that is so so so fine!! we would welcome art and creations and love them so much, so if you would like to draw cloud that would be amazing, or if you want to write us a letter or make anything else that is welcomed very greatly too!
  • other - a few people have offered to send me (carlyle) some gifts too, like candy from your country, and other stuff etc, and that is very fine and i’m honestly so honoured you’d want to aaaaahhhhhhhhhh!!!! pls don’t worry if you can’t/don’t want to though, like at all, i don’t mind.

you can send things physically or from online, just enter the address i provide and it will be aokay !

replies etc:

what we will reply with:

i really wanted to get cloud involved in the reply as much as possible, so i was thinking we would reply with a personal picture of cloud (taken on a polaroid sort of thing, so each photo is original) and on the back, cloud’s paw print and a little thank you message from me!

what to include to get a reply:

whether you’re sending online or physically; we need a safe return address so we can send things back out to you!! if you don’t want a reply that is totally fine, but if you do and i haven’t got your address/somewhere to send it back to, it would be impossible to reply, and i really really want to send something out to everyone who wants it

adding a note inside with the return address on would be great, or add to the extra comments/notes whatever section if you’re sending from online - also would be great if you could include your name (just first/preferred name) preferred pronouns just incase, and tumblr url so i can make the reply more personalised!

EDIT: would be really helpful for me if you could send a post stamp as well!! it is not Super Required but, yeah, would be helpful thanks

other things:

  • you can send things to us wherever you are in the world, and we will reply back always - we don’t mind sending replies overseas
  • it’s fine if you can’t or don’t want to send anything this is just for fun <3
  • it is open for a few months and i will post plenty of warnings and stuff if and when it is closing, so it’s ok, i won’t let you send anything to nowhere
  • if you have any questions at all, please do message me and i will answer!

ADDRESS TO SEND STUFF TO:

Carlyle & Cloud
Suite 360
38 Sunbridge Road
Bradford
BD1 2DZ
England, United Kingdom 

anonymous asked:

I've been subscribed to you since you had 2k subscribers and as your quickly approaching 90k I just want to send you this to tell you how extremely proud I am of you. It actually brings me to tears to think about how far you've come. You've created a family on YouTube and you invest so much hard work and dedication into your channel. There are people all across the world who love you and care about you! You have done so many amazing things, and I can't wait to see what's in store for you. ❤️

This really means the world to me. I can’t thank you enough.

Please know that if you’ve ever sent me something kind I have read it and I do really appreciate it. I just can’t answer all of them. That’s not possible.