Chris Wood is such a beautiful puppy that he deserves to have a day only for him you know for people (who really care about him) express their love for him. It’s just so sad(to our supergirl fandom) to see him replying to the tvd fandom and the enormous love they have for him when in the show he’s a villain and he’s not gonna do the same thing with us anytime soon bc of the horrible comments about his character when he’s just a space alien a super cute one by the way he deserves a lot more love and respect than this bc I’m all about defending Mon el but sometimes we forget about Chris i just want him to see that the love we have for him is bigger than the hate he’s getting
Scars or painful spots:
alex broke his nose once and now whenever something touches his nose he has some pain but he is over dramatic when describing him and so he complains for the next ten hours or something
Best places to kiss on their body:
his neck is probably the best place to kiss him because he will just stop whatever he was doing and kinda raise an eyebrow at you and now all of his attention is on you
he is scared of spiders- like he refuses to tell anyone that he is scared of spiders but as soon as he sees one he is just out of that place like goodbye
What it takes to make them cry:
it takes someone who he really cares about to just yell at him and get upset or angry about him cause although he won’t admit it, he cares a lot about others opinion so when someone he cares about is yelling at him, he cries just really quietly
What about him? Idk I got an anon saying Zavala too so maybe you guys are asking for opinions?
He was pretty cool in vanilla but has become progressively more a jerk the longer they run that “Eris is creepy and needs to get over all this Oryx stuff i mean like i know all her friends are dead but really, who cares?” shtick. Stop allowing Cayde anywhere near the poor girl and I’ll be chill with him again.
Alrighty my peeps(ewww why am i like this), It’s about time i madde one of these. I’m terrible at writing fics but i love reading them and i think I’ve read enough to start this list of fic recommendations for yoongi. I think I might make one for each member of bts(would you guys even want that?) but idk….
all bolded fics or writers mentioned are ones that have been recently added.
Also if you ever want to send me your own fic recommendations I”m always up for some more reading…
You can call an experience or relationship traumatic even if there’s no one you can/want to blame for what happened.
If you were traumatized by what happened, that impact is real even if it isn’t anyone’s fault. There are situations where everyone involved does their best with the information and abilities they have and someone still experiences trauma.
Abuse is not the only traumatic experience, just a common one. Not having your needs met for totally blameless reasons can be traumatic. Having your autonomy taken away by illness or other random chance can be traumatic. Many traumatizing experiences can happen when you’re utterly alone. Even ‘ordinary experiences’ can be traumatic in some contexts.
There’s no reason for trauma that’s ‘too silly’. If you’re traumatized, it’s not because you’re 'too sensitive’ and it doesn’t automatically mean you’re minimizing other people’s experiences.
You’re allowed to acknowledge your trauma. You’re allowed to look at experiences you’ve had through the lens of trauma. You’re allowed to grieve and process your traumatic experiences even if you don’t understand why they were traumatic or if similar experiences didn’t tramautize others you know.
You’re allowed to acknowledge how badly you were hurt even if you can’t point a finger at one person who hurt you.
I want Neil to be sitting on the couch while talking to Matt and Andrew just silently enters the room. He sits down and drapes his legs over Neil or something and Neil doesn’t react and just lets Andrew play with his hair or his fingers. Matt gapes and Neil doesn’t notice, he just keeps talking about Exy strategies.