which prevents me from fully appreciating this

julianfat-deactivated20160505  asked:

what are the pros and cons of having a big belly

cons:
• finding clothes I love in my size
• being told I would look so “hot” if I was skinnier
• dating… just doesn’t ever happen for me…
pros:
• I’m always warm
• my size has taught me to love even more and given me an appreciation of being this large which believe it or not isn’t always easy for thinner people, they don’t always fully understand the prejudice we face as larger people
• creating styles around my size and having people compliment me, it’s nice
• it has taught me true self love. it’s pushed me to work hard to prove to people that my size doesn’t prevent me from doing anything I love.