which i'm not sure is better ;)

“Together.”

“You don’t find love, it finds you. It’s got a little bit to do with destiny, fate, and what’s written in the stars.” - Anaïs Nin

“Some people can’t change”

I’m sorry but….you don’t get to decide that. 

More accurate statements:

  • Some people won’t change
  • Some people don’t want to change
  • Some people have done so much damage that they need to be kept from society because there is no reliable evidence that they will ever reform and there is no way to make restitution for past actions

But whether or not they have the capability of change?

Sorry dude, tough break. That’s part of what defines us as human.

We all have that ability to change, for the better and for the worst.

The decision to change for the better is an entirely personal thing, and is within the capability of every person so long as they breathe. No matter how much you were hurt, you do not get to decide for another person whether or not they are capable of or allowed to change for the better.

That being said, no matter how much somebody changes for the better, they cannot demand:

  • Forgiveness
  • Freedom from consequences, both legal and social

If an abuser is demanding forgiveness from their victim, then it is a sign that there was no desire to change in the first place. 

That said, a true apology is not a demand for forgiveness, but an open acknowledgement of wrongs done and a window for the victim to seek restitution and closure if it is desired.


tl;dr: it’s true that some people won’t change, it’s wisdom to learn to differentiate when somebody is sincerely apologizing, and there is no shame in divorcing yourself from people who have harmed you regardless of how much they may change for the better. 

You owe them nothing, and they still must atone for past actions in whatever ways are possible.

It is not true, however, that people can’t change. 

Everybody can change. 

THE GOOD LOVE

They tell me love is beautiful
                            is good
                            is pure
but my love, we
were never beautiful
                   or good
                   or pure

we are just two tired souls
trying to survive
only survive, nothing more
     side by side
     in lockstep

and every time we kiss
     i swallow poison from your lips like the nectar of the gods
and every time we touch
     my skin blossoms blisters under the heat your fingers
and every time we speak
     another star fades away like a candle blown out by our cold breaths

but perhaps
     in the background
     hidden away
     in the darkness
our shadows held hands
like they cradled the entire world in the nest of their joined fingers

and perhaps
     that is beautiful
               and good
               and pure

and perhaps
     that is
          enough

advice for the signs
  • aries: you're full of ideas and they're always amazing! you are so much smarter than you give yourself credit for, even though you try to appear like you're a bit of a daredevil, you don't always like to come too far out of your cozy little comfort zone. but I promise, if you come out a bit more you can experience so many exciting things, and your abilities will make you shine like a star in the night sky.
  • taurus: not only are you are a badass, you're also super cool. if there are any haters its only because they want to be like you - really though. you just have an aura about you that pulls people in and once they get to know you, they don't ever want to get away. people want to overindulge in you, and if that wears you out then take a break and don't feel bad about it, your friends know you'll come back at the end of the day.
  • gemini: you're not a two-faced backstabbing bitch, you are a beautiful person who struggles with having to listen to an angel and a devil on your shoulders all day, which I can only imagine is super tough but you've done an incredible job to even come all this way and you should be so proud of yourself, I know I am. and lets take a moment to appreciate how you can walk into a room and suddenly be everyone's best friend with your natural charm and easy-going nature. you could take a bullet in the chest and your smile won't even falter. you're so determined to get what you want and you're so passionate and just everything you do is admirable. keep going, you rock this world.
  • cancer: if we're being real here, you don't actually cry *that* much. this is what it is - you have so many emotions swirling inside of you and they are like a beautiful storm of bright lights. and you should continue to let that out and share that beauty with everyone! but even with all that, you can be pretty hardcore and you are so strong, inside that whirlpool is a fire than burns bright, you should show people your intense passions as well as your caring side.
  • leo: you are amazing, and everyone around you knows it. if you're being too hard on yourself, lighten up a little because so far you've done everything right. everything happens for a reason, and if you feel guilty or sad about something just remember that your experiences have shaped who you are today - a beautiful, wonderful, magical creature with sparkling eyes, a loving soul and fabulous hair.
  • virgo: you work so hard to be on top of the game and I know how stressful that can be, but trust me when I'm saying that if you're doing the best you can, please don't push yourself any further. I'm sure you know what it feels like to get 3 hours sleep only to just scrape everything in on time, but you're doing just fine and please remember to reach out to your friends and loved ones and talk about how youre feeling. honestly, letting out any negativity makes you feel so, so much better, and you deserve the best.
  • libra: it's not that you're indecisive, you just like to weigh out all the pros and cons of a situation before you go into something - which is such a good idea, and I admire you for that. I bet you wish you had a crystal ball and could see the future to know how your decisions will turn out, huh? but the reality is that you should stop worrying about about the future and live in the moment. if you're not focusing on the present, you won't get to where you want to be in the future, and we definitely don't want to see you somewhere where your talents aren't being showcased.
  • scorpio: your personality is just so magnetic and you're so hypnotic, so many people absolutely adore you and would do anything for you - but sometimes they might not be 100% certain that the feelings are mutual. now, I know you love your friends and family so, so much with a fiercely strong love, but would it kill you to tell people that you love them and how you're feeling sometimes? everyone is here to help you and guide you on your journey to reaching the stars, but you can't build your rocket ship without the help of others.
  • sagittarius: you are incredible and so smart, it actually makes people stop in their tracks when you open your mouth and spout some beautiful, philosophical words of wisdom. or even just opening your mouth to say anything. everything about you is great but I'm not sure you appreciate yourself as much as you should. all the friends you have who love you should be an indication of how great you are. if you don't learn to love yourself, you might not be able to see through and out of your own little bubble and actually notice how much people care about you. because they care so, so much. don't you ever doubt that.
  • capricorn: your motto is work hard and don't take shortcuts, which is amazing and everyone admires you for that. it takes a lot of hard work and dedication to be you, and even if nobody mentions it, everyone is impressed. you're gonna go far, kid. but know that even if you're stuck in a rut right now you just need to jump a little higher and climb out. if you're stressed, talk to someone you trust and just open up and tell them what youre feeling. help them help you, and everything will be okay.
  • aquarius: we're not emotionless, we have a lot of feelings and we just choose not to express them because we're scared of people being overwhelmed by us, and we like to trust someone 100% before we open up. and there is nothing wrong with that. you're so good at listening to people's problems/how they feel and your advice is 10/10, but if you don't take time to talk to people about how you're feeling, you bottle everything up and one day it'll get so full that the lid will burst - and I know you're afraid of letting out all your feelings in one go, I definitely am. the only way around that is to let it out, bit by bit, slowly and over the years, to maintain your composure and sanity. and nobody will see you any different or judge you if you open up to them.
  • pisces: you're passionate, your creativity is out of this world, you're so good at helping people and you don't have a selfish bone in your body. you're always so up for helping people, and that is amazing! you're compassionate like no other, and your ideas are off-the-charts crazy cool. and you're not weak! you are perfectly capable of putting up your barriers, you just like to trust people enough to keep them down a lot of the time. and you're definitely not weak either, you've probably lived through some heartbreaking experiences, and you're still able to walk around with your head up and your heart open. now thats real strength.
bright sessions characters as @wolfpupy tweets
  • joan: i'll tell you one thing, just because it is the least amount of thing i can tell
  • damien: things have only gotten worse since i started making everything worse
  • adam: i've hit my fair share of hay over the years and can safely say that being asleep is better than the alternative, being awake
  • caleb: i'm sure i'm going to ruffle some feathers with this but given the choice between good times and bad times i would like to have the good times
  • chloe: i think i speak for everyone when i say things
  • sam: i did the best with the resources i was given, which was nothing
  • mark: 'guitar solo' sounds lonely to me.. guess thats why im not a famous musician
  • frank: it's all fun and games until it's not that anymore
  • wadsworth: some people just want to watch the world burn, me i don't care either way
  • green: let's turn this sinking ship around and sink the other way

anonymous asked:

what moments -that showed yoongi's favoritism for hoseok- would have made you rich? <3 <3 i'm a new army :'(

ok, i’m gonna be rich from now on, yall better give me money~

1. basically when the universe confirmed that yoongi and hoseok will get married and live happily with each other forever and after 

2. the fact that yoongi calls hoseok by ‘seok-seok’ which means small one in korean, im crying ok not only because its ironic but bc its been confirmed that hoseok is yoongi’s baby boy im so sofTTTT :’((((( 

3. yoongi brings hoseok out of his shy shell, while hoseok always makes sure that yoongi will have the most fun with him 


4. when yoongi said that can recognize hoseok just by the day he breathes, im mean- whO DOES THAT?????

5. when yoongi said that hoseok is his favorite dongsaeng because he’s just soOO nice???

6. when yoongi thought that hoseok is the most handsome member in bangtan??? he said this when people used to make fun of hobi’s appearance?? he OPENED YOUR ROTTEN EYES, YES TELL THEM YOONGI, TELL THEM JUST HOW BEAUTIFUL JUNG HOSEOK IS

7. basically this

“Whenever I’m sad, I gain strength from looking at you.” yoongi to hoseok 

(WHAT IS THE NAME OF THIS K DRAMA?????)

8. WHEN MIN YOONGI SPENT HIS NEW YEAR WITH HOSEOK JUST SO THAT HIS BOY WON’T FEEL ALONE 

9. also this 

10. conclusion: all of these and there are still so many whipped!yoongi moments that i havent put, I’M GONNA BE RICH 

yoongi loves hoseok so much!!!!!! and hoseok deserves every single ounce of that love!! 

anonymous asked:

Not sure if you've seen it yet but that Jumanji post you reblogged, yeah it's not 100% of the story. In the movie, Jumanji is a video game, and I believe maybe it's more of a sequel than a reboot, I'm not really sure. But yeah basically, Jumanji in that particular story has been readapted into a video game. So more like if there was a Titanic Movie in which someone rebuilt the Titanic as a spaceship, rather than a Titanic movie without the Titanic.

That like… doesn’t make it any better lol It’s an ancient game. I mean, it’s just a movie so i don’t really care that much. But it’s still really bizarre??? 😂

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Turn: Washinton’s Spies + Greek Gods

Greek || Egyptian || Roman

(Inspired by x)

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“You’re too smart not to know how rare, how special, what you two had was.”
“Oliver was Oliver,” I said, as if that summed things up.
“Parce que c'était lui, parce que c'était moi (“Because it was he, because it was I”),” my father added, quoting Montaigne’s all-encompassing explanation for his friendship with Etienne de la Boetie.
I was thinking, instead, of Emily Brontë’s words: because "he’s more myself than I am.”
“Oliver may be very intelligent,” I began. Once again, the disingenuous rise in intonation announced a damning but hanging invisibly between us. Anything not to let my father lead me any further down this road.
“Intelligent? He was more than intelligent. What you two had had everything and nothing to do with intelligence. He was good, and you were both lucky to have found each other, because you too are good.
"My father had never spoken of goodness this way before. It disarmed me.
"I think he was better than me, Papa.”
“I am sure he’d say the same about you, which natters the two of you.”

Seeing Junkrat’s original design is honestly wild… Like… Look. At. Him. He looks like the weird uncle that you’re not 100% sure which side of the family he’s from. 

But also looks like if you combined Vinny from Atlantis:

And Hugo from Dream Daddy:

That’s how strong his mustache is. But oddly enough… I like this design way better than the moldy dick twink we got now…

anonymous asked:

Fred Weasley, peace, please? Thanks <3

Sure thing, Anon!

I couldn’t decide which version I liked better, so here you have both.

I hope you like it :)


( I used this color palette | My Ko-Fi | My Color Palette Drawings )

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>Who will you choose? 

I swear googleplier will be the death of me.

Also, I really like the idea that’s been going around about naming them based on their letter color. Like how the O in Google is yellow, hence the name Oliver (edit: even though it was originally a typo from Mark). I just stuck with Google for the blue one since it’s what I’ve always called him, so I think it’s gonna stick XD

Inspiration (x)

Relationship Perks from an.... ok well I'm not really an expert.

Bunking with a Turian.

Pros:
- We’re naturally one of the taller Citadel species –well unless you’re bunking with a Hanar in which case well… I won’t judge– so we make excellent ‘big sporks’ as Shepard calls it.
- Lullabies are much better when sung by someone with natural subvocals. Sure works on Shepard on the nights she can’t sleep.
- Cowls make for great spots to rest your head if you can get the positioning right (from Shepard)

Cons- We’re from a naturally hot planet so we’re not the best source of body heat. Not reptilian by any means, but certainly requires an ample amount of blankets to achieve the desired effect (also information from Shepard)
- Awful little spoons. Spurs and crests get in the way.


Bunking with humans

Pros
- Very Soft. I would say squishy but Shepard might read this.
- Like a personal space heater. That you also happen to be in Love with.
- Hair can be pretty fun to run your talons through.

Cons
-Hair. In your mandibles, your mouth, caught on your face, all over your pillow.
- Affinity for stealing every last scrap of blanket on the bed and restricting you to a dangerously small portion of it.

not to be dramatic but I’m like 99.9% sure that everyone i know regrets being a part of my life and wishes they could leave me 

“You should just be yourself
Right now, you’re someone else”

I saw his DLC’s rapper(?) clothes and thought it matched this song lol

it was also a good excuse for me to practice video editing on after effects

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Kondou Shouri was featured in W! Magazine recently!

Some highlights:

  • He really likes to go diving in the ocean so he has a custom-made diving suit.
  • He actually auditioned to be in Gekidan Patch (his home theater troupe) back in High School, but when the final audition conflicted with volleyball club activities, he chose volleyball.  He re-auditioned once in college.
  • Back when he was in the volleyball club, he had a shaved head like Tanaka.
  • When he heard about Engeki Haikyuu, he begged his manager to get him an audition.  Before he knew the results, he had several dreams that he had been cast as Kuroo.  
  • He thinks volleyball clothes look good on him.
  • He’s scared of roller coasters and high places.
  • In 2017, to improve himself as an actor, he would like to learn how to dance.
  • In the DVD portion that shows his photo-shoot, he’s very nervous and fidgety and tends to blink a lot lol.  
  • Since he had Kuroo on the brain, he chose the black question card first: “What are your main habits before sleeping” and he answered that he always makes sure to stretch before bed.  Especially his legs.
  • After that he picked the pink question card, which he liked a lot better: “What’s your best dish?”  and he answered that he makes a really good fried rice (mostly meat, not a lot of vegetables).  He added, “It’s… probably not that good for you actually, but I make it at home and it’s how I like it.  It’s comfort food.” 

Please do not repost my gifs.

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