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Unpopular Opinion

Am I the only one that doesn’t want Nesta and Cassian to be mates? Don’t get me wrong, I love these two but the problem is that I can’t see them being mates. Maybe Cassian is the guy that helps Nesta, and they have a thing for each other, but I can’t see them as mates. 

I don’t know if I’m the only one, but I think that they would tear each other apart if they were mates. And even if they were it would probably take Nesta a hella long time to accept it, if she ever did.

Along with this, I don’t want them to be mates because I want Nesta to have time to adjust, and to figure out who she is, ya know? I can see Elain and Lucien because Elain can help Lucien get through and realize some stuff in his life, and I c’mon Elain is probably equally as sarcastic as he is. 

What I’m trying to say, is that I want Nesta to be this independent woman that don’t need no man, because throughout the whole series she doesn’t have a guy at her side and I want her to be happy, yes, but more than that I want her to find herself on her own. None of that stuff where the guy comes in and suddenly she’s different. And I know that that’s not how Sarah writes but I think you get my point.

Also, I don’t really know how to word this so I’ll just leave it at that