where do i get this shit

Where on Earth do people on this website get the idea that the big issue with child abuse and children not being valued enough by their parents is… random childless adults and teenagers venting online about how loud kids are? Aka all the discourse against “ugh kids I don’t want kids” here right now.

This is one of those things where it’s just so obvious that none of you thought this through and are getting preemptively outraged because it feels good. Which is, of course, especially popular with anything that plays into sexist or otherwise oppressive narratives (in this case, “women are cold, insufficiently nurturing Unwomen if they don’t want to have kids”) that people don’t want to question, that people want to find a “progressive” excuse not to question.

Anyway, it’s “funny” because shaming people who don’t like kids who have come to the very logical conclusion that they should not have them… is pretty much the opposite of what you want to do if you want to fight child abuse. But I’m pretty sure none of these people doing that were ever abused as children, so what skin is it off their nose?

🎶Imma bout to say some shit thats gonna get me a bunch of hate🎶

Soooo here we go. I’m not a Reylo shipper or an anti. I really don’t care and I’m happy with who ever falls in love with who, I actually adore reylo accounts and reylo art and I really love everything from facts and interviews that they sue to back up their own theories. I do love them and I support them because why not let people ship what they want. But here’s where I’ve noticed some things that bother me about this fandom. The amount of “antis” which in all honesty, I hate the term. It sounds God awful and like they’re discriminating a race not ship. Its okay for you to not like a ship. You have completely free will to hate a ship with your entire being. But sending death threats is ridiculously dumb. Who the hell is sending a death threat to somebody who wants to ship what they want. Its literally the most stupid thing in the world. And very rude. I’m sure that the “antis” have they’re own ships that they enjoy and wouldn’t enjoy somebody shitting on them and I think that “antis” should really look into good backups to why Reylo could or could not happen. Now. Reylos. Try not to get offended by what I’m going to say next, I know thats a stereotype thats been kinda placed onto your fandom, but seriously, I dont want to offend anybody. Alright. “Antis” are not always out to get you guys. Some reylo accounts understand that. And others think that every anti Reylo account or person that has something to say is out to get them and attack they’re fandom. I’m not saying everybody in this fandom is easily offended but some accounts on this website that ship reylo will flip they’re shit if you try to reason (nicely) with them on your reasons on why reylo isn’t going to happen. I just wanted to get that out. Please read this from a middle sorta gray area in the fandom. I don’t ship anything in this fandom I just observe things, and I have for the past two years. All this shit is ridiculous. Let people ship what the fuck they want. And people who ship what the fuck you want, good for you!!


And


Don’t freak out when someone disagrees with you. Dont freak out if you ship something someone else doesn’t. And please don’t fight eachother over this bullshit.

just realized i havent done any hogwarts au so thats gotta fucking change

peter and wade being in different houses and meeting totally by accident, falling into each other on the trick stairs, smashing into each other while practicing on their brooms, wade hiding in the library behind peter while hes studying, accidentally end up running from a pissed magical creature together

peter and wade having class together and wade making faces at him from across the room while peter tries not to laugh

peter and wade sitting on opposite ends of the dining hall and wade just tries starting conversations by screaming at him and peter just yelling at him to shut up for fucks sake just talk to me like a normal person, but wheres the fun in that

peter getting bitten by a magical, assumed mythical, spider creature and developing powers that he tries to hide bc holy shit what did i do this is probably grounds to kick me out and youll have to drag me out of fucking wizard school kicking and screaming

wade has magical scars that can’t be healed, he got them when his well meaning foster parents found out he was going to die and there was nothing st. mungos could do for him, they sought out another opinion, one that unfortunately relied on dark magic that went horribly wrong, but on the bright side, he’s semi immortal now, if thats a good side

wade helping peter hide his powers bc shit man he’s a pureblood he knows that what peter did was grounds for obliviating peter and kicking him out

peter finds it really easy to hide his powers bc stuck to a wall? i think it was that weird candy i ate, massive headache? the er stars were not in position today and it was really messing with his uhhhh health, super strength? well thats not what that charm was supposed to do i mustve said it wrong

anonymous asked:

A lot of the SU crit blogs are so obviously run by children, and it kind of makes me sad. Like, why spend your childhood being upset and mad about stuff?Enjoy being a kid while you still have the chance. I can't say I don't know how they feel, though.. when I was their age I wanted to do everything in my power to seem "grown up" and often that included aggressively shitting on things that I used to like. I just hope they grow out of it someday. It's no fun to spend life hating stuff.

honestly we all have those phases where we do something due to the bandwagon effect and we come to get over it later in our lives, so its not exactly uncommon. whats worse though are the adults in this phase.

anonymous asked:

Idk why but I always think of ffxv as an otome game... Or at least Monster of the Deep is 😂 This fandom even treats it as such and i love it LOL SELF INDULGENT OTOME FTW. The chocobros are your routes (maybe too add Nyx, Ravus, Cor, ect. Idk), true ending is the chocobros as poly with you, and trash Jesus Ardyn is your bad ending where he has his grasp on you. Or something... please we need a ffxv official otome 😃

Hahaha, God I do the same. We all act like the boys were put in the game for us to date lmao. No no, Ardyn isn’t a bad ending, he’s the bonus route you get after you’ve beaten the game once and chosen all the right options. You can be his daemon queen, to have and to hold in goop forever amen. 

Also I’m definitely gonna need a Drautos and Tredd route… shit, the entire Glaive could be their own otome. 

I have actually seen people talk about making their own FFXV otome but that stuff is always gonna be doomed. Once I am done with my current otome I’m just gonna pour all my Final Fantasy feels into making one where you can romance all those kinds of boys. T3T 

Sometimes I really wonder if I’m cut out for grad school. Like, I sit here and struggle with the what feels like the basic of things and it takes me forever to have “eureka” moments and I know I’m holding up an entire project by doing so. So honestly, where do I get off thinking that I should continue to do this for 6ish more years, or for a career?

It legitimately took me weeks to get a phylogenetic Poisson regression to work in R. Sure, the documentation could have been better and there were surprisingly few tutorials on the subject, but still. It was exacerbated by me making stupid mistakes, working a job that has me away from home from 7am to 6pm every day (even trying to cram in troubleshooting and writing a script during my lunch hour), and feeling like I have no one to ask for help on this because I serially avoid my former advisor and it turns into a cycle of “don’t ask her for help yet, try a few more approaches” because 1) I don’t like asking for help and 2) I’ve been made to feel stupid before for not getting something right away. Which you think would incentivize me to reach out for help sooner rather than later but…it doesn’t.

So who do I think I am? I just feel stupid and slow all the time with this project, and I want nothing more than for it to be done so I can stop feeling guilty all the time about being the bottleneck for progress on it. I have such a complex from my advisor and my experience in the master’s and I don’t know what to do to shake it.

TG: oh BOY

TG: yknow titles are probably redundant why the hell do i keep using them
TG: …….it is because i want attention
TG: OKAY so yall were probably like “why the hell didnt dave post my shit where he @” yesterday and thats like understandable
TG: well i was at homecoming with my friends and pals and it was fun as shit
TG: john wore the ugliest fucking tie yall had no idea like he found it absolutely hilarious and im so disappointed in him
TG: but uhhh im getting back around to sprites soon!! and its also the start of ACE WEEK
TG: so what i want yall to do is SEND ME IN YOUR ASPEC HCS ALL WEEK AND ILL DO EDITS OF THEM
TG: LETS GOOOOO

this ‘I can’t wait for the McElroys do to something shitty’ mindset 100% comes from this toxic environment where y’all have to justify why you do or don’t like something based on ‘problematic’ behavior

if you instinctively get annoyed with something and it’s not ‘problematic’ you idiots start wishing it was so you can take the ‘moral highground’ to mock and belittle the fans out of existence

Date a boy who...
  • Looks at you like you put the moon, sun and the rest of the starts on the sky- 

-even when you are not there

  • Decides to be goofey with you
  • Seems to drift close to you because you make him comfortable
  • Is there to offer you help and at the same time respects your boudaries- 

-and decisions

  • Would fight tooth and nail for you when you are vulnerable
  • Will never give you his back and instead receive you with a hug
  • Trusts your abilities no matter what
  • Will open up to you on his moments of weakness because he trusts you
  • Who will be there to have your back even on the moments you are doubting of yourself
  • Date…. Shiro

Date Takashi Shirogane

You can’t tell me that there aren’t conspiracy theories galore about Bruce Wayne being The Batman and you can’t tell me that his kids don’t fuel them like their life depends on it


•Tim has an entire fucking page dedicated to it

•"I found this sitting on the kitchen table this morning" *pulls out batarang*

•*a picture of what looks like a cape hanging off the back of the couch on Dick’s Instagram page* “mighty suspicious”

•"now that you mention it, Father is rarely home on nights batman is patrolling"

•"all I’m saying is that those old mine shafts go under the house"

•"you know, Jason did go missing right around the time Robin went missing" “it’s true. I could have been Robin and not remember it. Would explain the scars”

•"When Bruce is yelling it sounds a lot like Batman’s voice. It’s pretty freaky"

•*snapchat videos of what appears to be a super grainy batman entering the manor*

•"have you seen Alfred’s car? It’s totally the batmobile"

•"listen Linda, Bruce is the CEO of a technology company. One of the only company’s that has the same tech as batman" “he is always placing weird orders” “see, Damian knows”

•"I saw a bunch of bats fly out of the chimney this morning when I was coming home"

•*super bad candid of Bruce* “loOK HE TOTALLY HAS THE SAME FUCK OFF FACE AS BATMAN”

•*really detailed side by side comparisons of Bruce and Batman on Tims facebook*

•*super bad quality Snapchat video* “Alfred, is Bruce batman?” “Master Dick, you know the answer to that”

•"Bruce Wayne is rich as fuck what more do you need"

•"he had a grappling hook in his pants pocket once"

•"he’s always disappearing during galas right before batman shows up. Have you ever noticed that?“

•"the amount of sick days he uses is mighty suspicious” *side eyes Bruce*

•*video of Bruce coming into the kitchen at 4 in the morning looking like absolute shit* “where have you been young man?” “Fuck off Jason” “oh, so you can say fuck but I can’t–” “Jason I will throw this at you” “do it you coward–” *a scream and a crash as the phone falls as a metal object goes past Jason’s head*

•a shit ton of super blurry photos of things that look like Batman’s gadgets and costume keep popping up on the kids Instagram and twitter accounts

•"hey, look at this mask I found"

•Clark is getting a little concerned

“Don’t you think you should stop them?”

•Bruce just sighs

also after the philly show tonight i just want to say a big fuck you to everyone who says “”harry isn’t doing enough” or “that isn’t activism” or claim that we’re praising him too much when it comes to harry holding up the pride flags at his shows, or the trans flags now as well (or any other flag he may choose to wave. i saw a few bi flags there tonight as well). never in my life have i been to a concert where i felt just so universally accepted by everyone there for being queer, both by harry and his band and also by all the fans. when the mini pride flags were being handed out for the project, everyone was so excited to take a flag and thought it was amazing. i saw huge genuine smiles break out on peoples faces. we were sitting on the streets with mini pride flags out all day and no one questioned it. everyone felt free to be open without a worry. do yall know how meaningful that is to me?? people on the street even smiled at it. i saw at least 6 pride flags, big ones, on the line and in the front of general admission. one girl had a pride flag with “treat people with kindness” on it and held it up for harry to see. i walked around with a mini pride flag hanging out of my pant pocket all day, walking up and down the town and i had no concern about it?? i wasn’t scared of what was going to happen, i felt empowered and like i could truly just exist unapologetically as a queer person that day. the event staff took pride flags as well and had them in their pockets. harry was so clearly moved by the fan project to hold up the mini pride flags during sign of the times - i saw him turn to adam beforehand and just whisper ‘wow’ when he noticed. my point is, harry has created the environment in which all of that can happen!! harry created this space where fans can truly just be themselves without a worry and that is so liberating to have?? it matters that he holds the pride flag up so proudly. it matters that he made it a point to bring a pride flag out after it had been wrongfully confiscated. people are getting arrested for daring to bring a pride flag to concerts in other countries right now. so don’t yall dare act like what harry has been doing isn’t important or isn’t a form of it’s own activism and it’s incredible. do you know how moved i was that just… no one cared about people being queer in that room?? everyone walked out of that concert with their flags held high instead of shoving them into their bags and hiding them bc they were afraid to be themselves outside of that room. i saw people empowered to just truly be themselves, maybe for the first time in their lives. i waved the flag out my window as we drove out and people who weren’t able to get a mini pride flag for the project were saddened when there weren’t anymore. yall gotta stop acting like this isn’t some of the most fucking important shit harry has done. creating that strong of a safe space for his fans is an incredible thing he’s done so when yall say “he’s not doing enough” where exactly is he not doing enough??? pull your head out of you ass.

new show idea: anthony bourdain and gordon ramsay travel the united states visiting hole-in-the-wall dives with bomb-ass food. bourdain picks out the restaurants and spends the first however-long of the episode talking up how fucking amazing this place is. when they get there it is always in a strip mall, or a shack in the woods, or a trailer under an overpass. ramsay is constantly scared and confused. bourdain is usually also scared and confused but pretends he is actually cool with whatever, in keeping with every other show he has ever done.

shots from every episode:

  • bourdain completely terrified by ramsay’s driving
  • bonus points if ramsay refuses to just drive a normal car like a normal fucking person
  • the look of horror and resignation on ramsay’s face when he sees where they’re going to be eating
  • ramsay taking in every possible health code violation
  • bourdain’s poorly-contained sadistic glee at the look on ramsay’s face
  • at least one scene that is more censor beeps than audible dialogue
  • ramsay’s vindication when bourdain ends up trapped in the bathroom shitting his guts out
  • bourdain’s complete lack of remorse and insistence that it was completely worth it

It’s sad that basic and healthy behaviors such as just drinking water and making sure you eat are considered ~ uwu neurotypical ~.

i literally just had to do the “can  have your number” *visibly texting* “i don’t have a phone” bc this dude on the subway was asking me too many questions. he asked me for all my social handles and my number and where i lived so i had to Yes And that shit and make it up on the fly like i was roleplaying myself a new OC. yes hi my name is elaine i live in williamsburg i get off at this next stop but i have to take a bus next and no i can’t take your number bc i don’t text i only use twitter DMs and i don’t know what instagram is