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Because I finally have free time and I decided to spend it in AzaleasDolls Sherlock is the most beautiful merman of the five oceans  and merpeople bring him gifts hoping they will steal his heart.

anonymous asked:

What do you do when you don't know what to do?

do something that changes the course a little. chop off all your hair. get a tattoo/piercing. try a new style. go somewhere you’ve always wanted to go. like, just go for little. rearrange your room. even small things can help you feel more motivated into finding what you need to do.

anonymous asked:

What do you do when you don't know what to do but you now that you have to do something? Where do you go when there's nowhere to go but you can't stay where you are? How do you endure it when you just can't take it anymore but you can't afford to break? How do you keep yourself alive when you don't want to exist anymore?

The Signs as Friends
  • Aries: The friend that will always be there for you. They would literally go to war for you. If someone insults you, they take the bullet and throw it back. They are very protective. And they need you to be for them what they are for you. They give and they want to receive.
  • Taurus: A Taurus friend is a friend who will protect you even if you're not there. They won't gossip about you. They wish they could protect you from all harm and they do their best to make you feel alright. They love to hang out with you and ask you to do something you both enjoy regulary. They really see you as a part of them.
  • Gemini: The friend that always has your back. They support you and stand up for you. If you're in trouble, they'll help you out and don't ask how you got into it although they are so very curious. They respect you and they know that "no" means no. They aren't mad if you don't want to hang out or something.
  • Cancer: They are A+ wing-(wo)men. They always know who you have a crush on and they have no problem with finding out more about your crush and get you two together. They are the friends you can ask to spy someone and they won't ask too many questions. You can trust them with everything. If someone treats you badly, they will punch that person in the face.
  • Leo: The honest friend. That dress doesn't look good on you? They'll tell you. They won't lie to you and that means you matter to them. They will be the first one to applaud when you win and they ask you to do the same for them. As much as they support you, they want to be supported by you.
  • Virgo: The friend that makes you a plan. They can't have it when their friends are left in the unknown so they help them out of it. Usually the friend that always asks you how you're doing and if you studied for that test. They really care about you. When you don't know what to do they will be there and guide you.
  • Libra: The friend that knows everything about everyone. If someone talks shit about you behind your back they'll tell you immediately and find out something about that person that you can use against them. They take you out to new places, show you cool new things and share all their secrets with you.
  • Scorpio: The Scorpio-friend is the friend that honestly cares. They can literally sense when you lie or when you're hiding something from them and they won't let you go until you told them what it is that bothers you. They know how to help you and cheer you up. And if you tell them to, they will destroy the person that did you wrong.
  • Saggitarius: The friend that keeps you up-to-date. They find out something new? You're the first person they'll tell about it. They know all the cool locations and the latest trends and they take you with them to explore the world. They really bring joy into your life.
  • Capricorn: The brilliant advisor. They are always by your side and ready to help you out of a situation you're stuck in. They guide you through the tough days of your life and always give brilliant advices that you actually need. They are loyal until the very end and after it.
  • Aquarius: The friend that spontaneously takes you on an adventure. Suddenly they're at your door with packed bags and ask you to come with them. They also take very good care of you and make the coolest presents because they know you better than you think they do.
  • Pisces: The friend that supports you but that will also tell you when you're talking shit. They usually know what you need and will do anything to provide your wellbeing. They will go through hell with you and give you everything they have. But be careful - they too know more than you think they do. They always know.
Sentence Starters {Inkheart Edition}
  • “Books have to be heavy because the whole world's inside them.”
  • “Sometimes, when you're so sad you don't know what to do, it helps to be angry.”
  • “Nothing is more frightening than a fear you cannot name.”
  • "That's beautiful! Sad and beautiful..."
  • "Yes, it's dangerous, so what? This world's dangerous, too, isn't it?”
  • “It's bad enough sitting in a car, never mind driving it.”
  • "We’re all liars when it serves our purpose.”
  • “Do you know how your story ends?”

penny-lanexx  asked:

Have you found that meditation has helped you find answers within yourself? Like during difficult times or when you don't know what to do next?

Yes and no. 

Meditation gives no answers or resolutions. Instead, it reveals the way in which you are completely whole with nothing to gain and nothing to lose. 

When times are good, we meditate. When times are bad, we meditate. In this way we can see for ourselves that there is nothing the good times can give us that will stay forever and there is nothing the bad times can do to us to diminish our fullness. 

Meditation helps us to find enough space within ourselves to allow for uncertainty, difficulty, and confusion. It is a kind of confidence born of practice, experiential insight, and truth. 

When I was bouncing from internship to internship after college, seeking a job, there was a lot of uncertainty. When my ex and I split, there was even more uncertainty. And there was nothing I could do about it. I couldn’t escape and I couldn’t force circumstances into some idealized form. 

I meditated daily and did what I could to heal and find direction. 

Meditation certainly helped me to heal but it didn’t give me direction. However, it was because of my meditation practice and the relatively clear relationship with my mind that I was able to recognize the right path when it presented itself. 

That recognition didn’t come with certainty. I didn’t feel 100% confident that I was doing the right thing and taking the next perfect step. All I knew was that it could be a good decision to explore. If it worked out, then wonderful. If not, then I had learned something in the process that would help direct me onward. 

And it was meditation that helped me along the way to stay with my doubts so that I may investigate without succumbing to the urge to seek security.

Anything in my current day to day life that is good and beautiful has come as a consequence of my meditation practice and the grace of those who have taught me. 

I’d recommend it. 

Namaste sis :) Much love