when the moon feels

hey. all concerts are good concerts but sign me the FUCK up for small venue concerts over big arena concerts any day

the private you
  • applies to both Moon and IC. the private you, but also a deep part of you. it's possible that you can relate to it more than any other signs because it's a deep part of you, it's your foundation
  • Aries IC/Aries Moon: needs independence from loved ones, so isn't always present. this need isn't obvious though. quick to react. privately wilful and sexual. wants to explore all things and all desires and not hold back. inwardly feels separated from everyone. intense feelings dominate but this is not obvious, feelings often kept hidden. secretly wants to be alone, might feel bad for admitting it so just does things alone anyway. not afraid to act by itself.
  • Taurus IC/Taurus Moon: privately very stubborn and resistant, and privately needs comfort in all things. wants to have beautiful things and comfortable things, but in private, comfortable settings (i.e. they might pretend that comfort isn't a priority for them to not seem like babies, when really it is). privately lazy and loving. rarely change their lives once it is in a settled pattern. emotionally blunt.
  • Gemini IC/Gemini Moon: wants to have an intellectually stimulating open house system. inwardly feels bipolar and changeable. cleverness is kept private, as are all their thoughts. interested and observant of everyone but doesn't make this known. usually do not express emotion and tend to intellectualise just about everything.
  • Cancer IC/Cancer Moon: whatever they own will be held very closely. wants to belong to a close-knit circle so close that they consider themselves family. tends to protect and take care of. inwardly is an emotional mess and nostalgic but this is kept private. feel a lot, but rarely express a lot. sensitive to anything from their past. easy to express simple emotions like joy, but not easy to be vulnerable and show anything deep.
  • Leo IC/Leo Moon: wants to be the entertainer but in private, comfortable settings. inwardly feels special and creative. ego can dominate but is kept private (i.e., you'll deny that feelings or ego dominate) the full extent of your creative gifts may also be kept private, but you inwardly feel very creative. needs to feel regal and august.
  • Virgo IC/Virgo Moon: very helpful and competent, but privately. domestically refined, secretly critical. very perfectionistic and usually doesn't express emotion. wants to be of use to people but in private, comfortable settings. inwardly feels inadequate or that there is always more they should be doing.
  • Libra IC/Libra Moon: strong desire for companionship and tend to not enjoy being alone. ask people constantly for advice on what to do. wants to share and be relational, but in private, comfortable settings. inwardly feels sensitive and indecisive. needs to feel equal, i.e. the woman who must feel equal to a man, and vice versa. secretly diplomatic and a peace-keeper. struggles with comparing themselves to others.
  • Scorpio IC/Scorpio Moon: when emotions hit they are powerful and they feel chaotic. often emotionally dramatic. wants closeness and intensity but pushes people away at the same time. inwardly an emotionally troubled person, tends to hold onto intense hatred. struggles with emotions and whether to act on them or not. despite this, their intensity is only shown to their loved ones.
  • Sagittarius IC/Sagittarius Moon: feels like they are able or wants to travel and leave home in the blink of an eye. needs to feel free. emotionally irresponsible and will reject whatever does not give them freedom. wants to explore cultures and the world, but in private, comfortable settings. inwardly feels rootless and lost. constant searching.
  • Capricorn IC/Capricorn Moon: dislikes being shown affection unless they initiate it. needs to feel respected. emotionally responsible and capable. wants recognition but in private, comfortable settings. ambition is strong but can be kept private. inwardly feels serious and does not find it easy to spontaneously express joy or sadness. usually this does not bother them as they prefer to keep to themselves.
  • Aquarius IC/Aquarius Moon: often feels pressured to express emotion but just can't fake it. needs to feel free and respected for their knowledge and unique traits. wants friendship and kinship. platonic love dominates over romantic. inwardly feels rootless, empty and fiercely resistant. wants to be open and ridiculously funny and eccentric, but in private, comfortable settings.
  • Pisces IC/Pisces Moon: no emotional boundaries. wants connections that feel special and glamorous to fulfil their own need for something that is so otherworldly. often escapes reality. compassionate and sensitive, but in private, comfortable settings. inwardly feels like a lost soul, so clings to fleeting things that allow them to escape.
  • I've also found that planets in the 4th house, and Moon aspects to planets can apply here too. i.e., Neptune in the 4th house can relate to the Pisces IC/Moon. Jupiter in the 4th can relate to the Sagittarius IC/Moon, Mercury for Gemini and/or Virgo, etc. Moon-Pluto aspect can relate to Scorpio IC/Scorpio Moon. Moon-Uranus aspect can relate to Aquarius IC/Aquarius Moon.
  • Examine your IC, 4th house and Moon to explore who you are deep down.
  • The IC sign is the foundation of your entire chart.

Unresolved Conditions 
Karmic and past life energy 

Aries energy (Sun/Moon)
separation and attachment issues, affliction, unresolved emotional trauma occurring with physical wounds, frustration and anger toward older people, constant preparation for threat 
Residual Aries karmic energy can be found in Mars-Pluto contacts, Pluto in the 1st house, Mars in the 12th house


Taurus energy (Sun/Moon)
consumption, starvation, hoarding, self depreciation, issues with weight, undeserving, trapped, unwilling, dissatisfaction, issues with the body, inability to calm or self soothe 
Residual Taurus karmic energy can also be found in Venus-Pluto contacts, Pluto in the 2nd house, Venus in the 12th house 


Gemini energy (Sun/Moon)
crisis of cognitive dissonance, mental overload and/or paralysis, lack of productivity or focus, dishonesty, unstable, incapable of regulating or slowing the mind, unwillingness to accept new ideas
Residual Gemini karmic energy can also be found in Mercury-Pluto contacts, Pluto in the 3rd house, Mercury in the 12th house 


Cancer energy (Sun/Moon)
intense and volatile relationships with family members, issues with the mother, closed off and disengaged inner experience, debilitating and controlling moods, disproportionate fears of separation 
Residual Cancer karmic energy can also be found in Moon-Pluto contacts, Pluto in the 4th house, Moon in the 12th house


Leo energy (Sun/Moon)
lack of vitality, feels undeserving, senses rejection when it has not occurred, compulsive need for validation and recognition, intense fears regarding being left, unstable and labile self image, inhibition of self and creative expression
Residual Leo karmic energy can be found in Sun-Pluto contacts, Pluto in the 1st, and Sun in the 12th house


Virgo energy (Sun/Moon)
self depreciation, unrealistic expectation, routine burn out and sickness, self destruction, self punishment, mental overload and/or paralysis, martyrdom, nervous issues
Residual Virgo karmic energy can be found in Mercury-Pluto contacts, Pluto in the 6th house, Mercury in the 12th house 


Libra energy (Sun/Moon)
inability to sustain feelings- substance-and identity without the presence of people, extreme lack of focus, responding to ideals rather than reality, the fear of separation, refusal to assert ones self in high risk and potentially serious circumstances 
Residual Libra karmic energy can be found in Venus-Pluto contacts, Pluto in the 7th house, Scorpio descending, Venus in the 12th house


Scorpio energy (Sun/Moon)
complete seclusion, paranoid distrust, exaggerated suspicious, fears about persecution, extreme exhaustion, particularly wounding and volatile with loved ones, controlling, unrelenting, compulsive 
Residual Scorpio karmic energy can be found in Pluto in the 8th, Scorpio descending, Pluto in the 12th, Pluto in Scorpio, Pluto in the 12th house 


Sagittarius energy (Sun/Moon)
occluded vision for the future, lack of goals or motivation for, inability to move or feel comfortable, over consumption, over eating, over spending, over intoxicating. controlling 
Residual Sagittrius karmic energy can be found in Jupiter-Pluto contacts, Pluto in the 9th house, Jupiter in the 12th house 


Capricorn energy (Sun/Moon)
procrastinates and lacks progress, self depreciating, miserable, aching bones and skin reactions, remorse over lost childhood, feelings of separation from father or male authority figures, obsessed with their mortality 
Residual Capricorn karmic energy can be found in Saturn-Pluto contacts, Pluto in the 10th house, Saturn in the 12th house, Saturn on the descendant 


Aquarius energy (Sun/Moon)
self imposed exile, mental chaos and uncontrollable experiences, mass feelings of resentment against everybody, sterility and social coldness, social hesitation, lethargy when applying mind  
Residual Aquarius karmic energy can be found in Uranus-Pluto contacts, Pluto in the 11th house, Pluto in the 10th house, Uranus in the 12th house 


Pisces energy (Sun/Moon)
complete inability to determine ideal from reality, spiritual or religiously feverish, mentally confused and scattered, disorganised, inability to handle reality and social encounters, impossible to wake or impossible to fall to sleep
Residual Pisces karmic energy can be found in Neptune-Pluto contacts, Pluto in the 12th, Pluto in the 9th house, Neptune in the 12th house

-C.

Sun vs. Moon vs. Rising

Aries sun: competes with others when they feel inferior
Aries moon: competes with themselves when they feel inferior
Aries Rising: competes with the world when they feel inferior

Taurus sun: obtains for others when they feel incomplete
Taurus moon: obtains for themselves when they feel incomplete
Taurus Rising: obtains for the world when they feel incomplete

Gemini sun: moves on from others when they’re bored
Gemini moon: moves on from themselves when they’re bored
Gemini Rising: moves on from the world when they’re bored

Cancer sun: nurtures others when they feel unsafe
Cancer moon: nurtures themselves when they feel unsafe
Cancer Rising: nurtures the world when they feel unsafe

Leo sun: entertains others when they feel insecure
Leo moon: entertains themselves when they feel insecure
Leo Rising: entertains the world when they feel insecure

Virgo sun: improves others when they feel imperfect
Virgo moon: improves themselves when they feel imperfect
Virgo Rising: improves the world when they feel imperfect

Libra sun: mediates others’ conflicts when they need peace
Libra moon: mediates their own conflicts when they need peace
Libra Rising: mediates the world’s conflicts when they need peace

Scorpio sun: unearths others when they crave change
Scorpio moon: unearths themselves when they crave change
Scorpio Rising: unearths the world when they crave change

Sagittarius sun: runs from others when they feel confined
Sagittarius moon: runs from themselves when they feel confined
Sagittarius Rising: runs from the world when they feel confined

Capricorn sun: shuts out others when they feel unsteady
Capricorn moon: shuts out themselves when they feel unsteady
Capricorn Rising: shuts out the world when they feel unsteady

Aquarius sun: reinvents others when they’re inspired
Aquarius moon: reinvents themselves when they’re inspired
Aquarius Rising: reinvents the world when they’re inspired

Pisces sun: heals others when they feel hurt
Pisces moon: heals themselves when they feel hurt
Pisces Rising: heals the world when they feel hurt

Moon sign quick notes: my observations

Moon in Aries: honest but hard time opening up about deep emotions, can be explosive

Moon in Taurus: might look to possessions or food for comfort. Need to feel secure and lots of sleep

Moon in Gemini: emotionally restless, needs change, grass could be greener on the other side types, might have sleep problems

Moon in cancer: deeply sensitive, likes to heal, be supportive, protective, hard to come out of shell.

Moon in Leo: proud and can be dramatic when emotions are not acknowledged or respected. Likes feeling loved.

Moon in Virgo: emotionally logical, but also intuitive, likes organizing details. Can feel like sensory overload.

Moon in libra: usually mild mannered, understanding and aim to please, dislike confrontation and need fairness

Moon in Scorpio: very observant, needs to get to the bottom of things, likes intensity, not fluff

Moon in Sagittarius: emotionally needs lots of variety, mobility and stimulation. Can be scattered

Moon in Capricorn: emotionally can be disciplined, likes to be useful and feel needed. Cool under pressure

Moon in Aquarius: need freedom and can read people to the extreme, reads between the lines Unseen intellect, ultimately can be a great helper

Moon in Pisces: intuitive, need stability with their easily changing emotions. Need time alone

moonchild self-care tips 🌙

- keeping an obsidian sphere near your bed for extra protection

- charging your crystals under each full moon

- wearing face masks that make your skin glow (so that you can match our lovely sky Mother)

- drinking moon water to charge when you’re feeling drained

- painting your nails a glittery black, glancing at it during the day so you can always feel close to the night sky

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Quick confession: he leaves me breathless and renders me speechless all the time

Moon Signs Downside


Aries moons feel the need to be agressive in order to maintain their emotional sense of self.


Taurus moons prefer steadiness to the point where rapid change is difficult to adapt to.


Gemini moons feel so fast they can’t adequately process their speedy emotional nature.


Cancer moons flunctuate with the punches but could just as easily get swept away in the waves.


Leo Moons burn themselves out when they overly feel the need to outshine darkness.


Virgo moons pick apart their emotions until their emotions are bare and brittle.


Libra moons degrade their personal needs for the sake of pleasing others.


Scorpio moons are constantly in an inner war for emotional survival.


Sagittarius moons would rather escape than confront their problems.


Capricorn moons treat their emotions like heavy compacted lead.


Aquarius moons detach from their emotions when it becomes overwhelming.


Pisces moons daydream their life away when faced with the harshness of reality.

Moon Signs and What Makes You Smile

Aries Moon: An Aries moon person will smile when someone notices their accomplishments and compliments them on that, and also when someone compliments the lunar Aries for their passion for something as well. They will also smile when they have finished a task they’ve been working on or when they are passionately working for a cause.

Taurus Moon: An Taurus moon will smile when they feel comfort. Whether it be licking an ice cream cone on a hot day or laying under a plush blanket in the cold winter, a lunar Taurus will smile when their senses are delighted. They will also smile when they feel grounded to the earth.

Gemini Moon: A Gemini moon will smile when they are being engaged in a intellectual or interesting conversation. They thrive with mental stimulation, and will smile with someone who can give them that. They also smile at their own jokes, learning something new and witty puns.

Cancer Moon: A Cancer moon will smile when they see they’ve made a difference in someone else’s life. They also find themselves smiling when their strong intuition proves right about something. They will also grin when someone notices that they’ve been supportive and nurturing to others, and when people support and nurture them as well.

Leo Moon: A Leo moon will smile when they are praised for their wit and their efforts. They will also smile when they are with their loved ones and around a cute animal or child. (Leo moons have a soft spot for children and animals) Lunar Leos thrive on compliments. However, they also love a good joke and will smile at any given meme.

Virgo Moon: A Virgo moon loves a bad pun or two, but what really makes them smile is when their life is in order and they get recognized for helping others. A Virgo moon will smile when they efforts are being noticed and when someone takes them away from their current stress to just have fun

Libra Moon: A Libra moon will smile when their environment is temperate and calm. Smiling happens most when one sees beauty and can appreciate the act of finding balance. This sign will swell with pride when they look beautiful and smile when they receive compliments on their look.

Scorpio Moon: A Scorpio moon will smile in private after they have decompressed after a long day. They will also smile when someone recognizes how passionate they are and how their ambition will pay off. They are private people for the most part, and have a strong intuition, but they are beyond loyal to their loved ones and grin at loyalty in general.

Sagittarius Moon: A Sagittarius moon will smile with adventure. They will smile when someone entertains their philosophies and when someone agrees to go on an exciting trip or experience a new environment with them. They are voyagers at heart, and they will appreciate and smile when someone recognizes their enlightenment.

Capricorn Moon: A Capricorn moon will smile when they are with their loved ones. Some would say success and achievement would make these moons smile the most, and that would be partly true. However these often non-showing emotions people are satisfied with sharing their success with someone who just “gets” them and don’t need to express their emotions.

Aquarius Moon: An Aquarius moon will smile when they are being shocking or different than the crowd in some way. They will smile when their intellect is being admired or when their fresh new idea is being praised. They need to feel like they are contributing something new and helpful to society.

Pisces Moon: A Pisces moon will smile when their intuition or spirituality leads them to fulfillment. A Pisces moon will smile when they can let their creativity out and when someone respects their sensitivity and cares for them. They are deeply sensitive people after all, but they also have keen powers of observation that they will use. They are often caught smiling when listening to music.

MOON SIGNS

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A lot has been written on Moon signs.

These perspectives come from a Scorpio moon (in the Third House)

The understanding of each astral body deepens as you factor in what each works with or opposes. This is where it is crucial to see what else is creating discord or harmony with your moon. You are attempting to perceive the universe as a whole rather than isolating each individual part. Your sun and rising sign especially help to define what exactly your Moon is to your conscious mind. How you feel is not always what you present to others –something most people would agree on. The drives of the moon are not always easily understood by the intellect.

These are my experiences with each individual moon sign. I don’t have an equal amount of experience with each and so I apologise if some signs have longer write-ups than others.


ARIES MOON

Bold, yet child-like, yet anxious. Dramatic, explosive, quick and then bored. There is a wonderful sincerity and silliness about the Aries moon. They are the first to get up and boogie. I find many of the pains Aries moons carry very visible to me and I respect that vulnerability. I think it is part of what makes them direct. They play by fighting you. Imaginative and raw. I think of the archetypal anime protagonist gleaming a toothy grin and then fist-pumping in the air as we embark on a quest up Candy Mountain. They are social-spiritual pioneers. Sometimes, they don’t stand up to the people they should and take their anger out on those who don’t deserve it (ala ‘kick the cat’ syndrome). Sexually open and willing though the roles are traditional, primal. They can get quite down when their flame flickers out and the warmth fades. Their competitiveness can get the better of them and it can be hard for them to detach from their identity into a larger unified picture. However they are equipped with fantastic gusto and enough of it to make it up those mountains. They may see themselves as that youthful inner child however that image can become the justification for roaring anger – to protect the child.

TAURUS MOON

Oh, man.
I have an intense level of respect and also, to be frank, fear of the Taurus moon. I fear getting too close, and I think they do too (maybe that’s why I feel it) (hold on maybe they’re afraid of me?)

So yes of course they progress slowly, steadily, stubbornly, charmingly… With a silent and deep appreciation for the small pleasures in life. They are beautiful and frustrating. Wise and sometimes closed minded. Forgiving but not forgetful. I think the patterns and routines Taurus moon carves deeply can lead them to believing that people are limited or ‘they are who they are.’ It may seem like a safe thing to do but it inevitably leads to buried feelings that manifest as irritation. This is why they feel that magnetic attraction to their opposite, Scorpio, as buried feelings is what Scorpio specialises in. They need to be released!
If they do have transformative experiences with people, however, there is not much in the world they cannot accomplish. You don’t want the limits of your perception to become the balcony you lean over to judge others. Taurus moons are, regardless, unendingly kind, caring, generous and full of good humour with those they love truly. They do not seek outright praise, preferring the smilingly cheer you on from behind the scenes. They step into a nurturing authoritative role with ease because it is easier for them to do that than be on the receiving end. They do want both sides though. They understand boundaries instinctively.

GEMINI MOON

I wish I knew more Gemini moons!! I do not feel that qualified to comment as I have not gotten terribly close with one. I can only think of a few people I know with Gemini moons who will have to serve as my inspiration.
I am still grasping mutability (or not, you changeable bastards) and I imagine Gemini moons to have fervent mental chatter, a whole cast of different characters their radioheads tune into. 

The wittiness is always a go-go and I also do wonder if the 'identity crisis’ many astrologers report with Gemini could be more to do with conditioned language patterns Gemini is highly attuned to. Seeing as being overly identified with words and labels can trap you, Gemini dances between contradictions and in the in- between, wonders who the heck they are. But crises can purge and the truth is always what’s left behind.
There is a lot of restless energy here. Gemini’s curiosity is something they must accept in its entirety if they wish to wield it to its utmost potential. If only we were inside a simulation game, these guys would be the game masters for sure. Gemini moons may feel like keeping the dialogue internalised but actually they should share it. It is the way they will attain the peace and relaxation they crave. By communicating with meaning and truth –these are the lessons they must embody and bring to us all.

CANCER MOON

Ah yes the intuitive understanding of Cancer moon. Sensitive, headstrong and goofy they can swim in the natural affection they feel all around, breaking the ice and helping us all accept the sweetness of the moon, forever watching us at night. Their sacrifices (farts) are a blessing. Like Gemini moon, I have yet to get really deep with a Cancer moon but I know it would be powerful.
They have a contagious excitability and sincerity that will forever be taken advantage of if they do not learn to love and value the magicians they are. 

They must never slip into a Madonna/Whore complex or let purity be defined for them by others. Lucky that their intuition is always so on point. Expressing their anger in healthy ways that don’t perpetuate victim-centred scenarios is something they are learning. It is easy for Cancer moon to suck in aaaaall the bad vibes as water signs do. Don’t ignore your feelings and don’t be compliant, especially if you know you’ll regret it or backtrack it! Cancer moon’s energy is precious and magical. They do not always see the doors they open for people because they can get distracted by shitty thoughts or past emotional residue. Love you guys

LEO MOON 

Leo moons are insanely loveable, proud, gleeful, naughty, fun, dramatic, loyal… They are like a non-submissive Pokemon who wants to kick as much ass as possible with you. They are less forthcoming with their emotional issues, preferring to be a proud lion. Pride is a lonely cage though and isolation, especially for Leo moons, can lead to very depressed slumps. Ultimately though, all their lows help them appreciate comraraderie all the more. They dislike being ignored.

Leo moons are inventive and creative practically, they will really do it, not just say it. Their impulsiveness can get them into all kinds of trouble and even then they are so friendly and groovy that they can get away with it. Their hearts are powerful and when all is aligned they exude warmth followed by big headed claims and roaring laughter. 

They really are the party Kings and Queens of the zodiac because no one else will get so wrecked and hold it down so well and also still look like they had the best time ever. Their things are their treasures. A mere scarf becomes a robe, a daisy chain a crown. 

VIRGO MOON

There is a quiet (and somewhat bitter) determination to Virgo moons. They are aware of the bullshit in this world and make sure you know it too. Their kindness is not loud or showy but a quieter, understated recognition of all the work we do to help this Ferris wheel of a life be better for all. They are secure when they are in their homes or a place where they are understood for the dexterous work they do, whatever it may be. It has been said before but I will say it again: you Virgo moons are too hard on yourselves. Yes you must be brave, Virgo moon, and share your legitimate concerns when they arise. Once you feel accepted for your thoughtfulness, even if it’s a bit sharp, the pressure will be released. Don’t hold it all in, or you will suffer from nervous tension that can fester. They need to be wary of the preconceptions they bring into conversations that may have people thinking they are more closed minded than they really are. 
Virgo moons are a lot cooler than they give themselves credit for so let them know (though they will laugh it off). They need to be not stuck in their own heads. Analysing is fine but only if you already have material, a project or a relevant issue to use those powers on. Otherwise you are putting the needle right into your soul and it is destructive. Facing your fears and mistakes instead of hiding will open you up and others will finally get to see the very real and down to earth being that you are. I am very grateful for Virgo energy. Their conservativeness may polarise and they may get stressed but they are never ones to ignore good common sense or injustice. Their shyness and dirtiness reflect the contrary mutability they possess. Someone you can underestimate but will surprise you when they pull out  the perfectly sharp edge of the knife.  

LIBRA MOON

Libra moons are playful and intelligent; they quickly slide in golden nuggets of advice during a conversation, like their words are the lubricant to help everybody get along… And they do. A libra moon (or sun) who believes in love and in people can open up the mind of the most hardened  of cynics. It is essential that they make room however to have quality alone time. That way they will feel far more centred and their own person when interacting with others, instead of getting lost in a room of mirrors. They can be so nice and compliant that they can slowly lose their true sense of who they are and what they believe in as they care a lot about the wellbeing of everyone.  Only when they are unbalanced do they get defensively self righteous. Or block everything out. That said a Libra moon won’t go to bed after an argument – they really can’t tolerate the tension and would rather apologise and seek a peaceful resolution.

There is a very natural understanding here that the state of being people are in greatly affects the environment. Ideally though (see what I did there) they are cool, calm, collected, filled with balanced thoughts for us all and ever graceful. And pretty.
Conflicts and issues in relationships can shake them up so much that they may deny and avoid them for a long time. It can result in a lot of heaviness – and this sign wants to be light! Comfort, like with the also-Venus-ruled Taurus moon, can become the enemy if they are not doing work they truly believe in or are not supported by real friends who care for them. Most Libra moons wisen up to the limits of superficiality, as beautiful and interesting as some people/places may seem. They don’t want to waste beauty.
Libra moons are also awesomely progressive and they should share their great ideas with people who can help them manifest it all, or at least push them to. They can’t cope with being on one side of a fight unless there is extremely good reasoning behind their choice, the possibility of being bigoted really screws with their principles, which are essential to them. Bitching about people hurts them a lot because they want to be liked and for everyone to co exist peacefully. It may take a while to get close with them and they can flake out when it comes to routines and schedules but if you are patient they prove to be the most loyal of friends.

SCORPIO MOON

Aaaaaahhhhh!!!!!!! Why do we try to fix things by controlling them MORE??!?!?!?!? Scorpio moons need to learn, on as many different levels and in many different ways, to relax. For real. Surrender, as much as you can, to whatever the situation is, and let yourself relax. Whenever a Scorpio moon transforms though, everything changes. People are gob smacked by how low to how high a Scorpio moon can go. They think we must be utterly mad ;-) It is extremely difficult but extremely necessary for Scorpio moons to transmute and transform their emotions. Only then can we unleash our gifts. Otherwise, yes, we will become the villain in any given scenario (unless cap moon is on a rampage) 

okay so yes sex and death deeply changes the vibe in the room but is that all we want to be known for?? Not at all. Not at all. Scorpio moons must not numb themselves because then they are building and building and building up all the pain and gearing up for another destructive bender. It is far better to cry and scream and simply let yourself feel the pain. All the answers are in that pain. Don’t you forget it.
As always and with all signs, Scorpio moons are their own worst enemy. By not showing our emotions we create and perpetuate a MASSIVE LIE about WHO WE REALLY ARE. This is what I believe to be at the root of the notorious intolerance Scorpios have for lies. It is intolerable precisely because we are already experiencing lies on a soul level, lies that do not allow people to see our depth of feeling and understanding. Vicious cycles of lies that lead Scorpio moons to believe that by closing more people out or building taller walls, will be better for us. Note how close Scorpio is to Libra and the theme of relationships. Sometimes people need to see those flowers that bloom in the dark, when they’ve lost all hope.

 The sooner we can relax and reveal more of who we are the better– not only will people have a better idea of how to respond to us but ultimately those who matter don’t mind and those who mind don’t matter!
The more a Scorpio moon argues the more everyone in the room feels that painful non-acceptance of reality building tension. Such is our force. We are equipped to do incredible things and incredible never means easy.
Sex is not the sole route to intimacy and life does make that lesson torturous and clear. Scorpio moons can get very lonely and will push themselves to extremes when they are not accepting reality. The struggle to express our feelings, fear of vulnerability and other peoples wariness of us all plays into us thinking we are some long-living Gollum creatures. We are not. Believe that you are sexy. You don’t have to prove it to anybody but you. Power is knowing you already know. Yes the know-it-all controlling nature destroys all our relationships. It’s only because we are overdoing it. Pull back and let people impress you back! Take note of people’s discomfort and make changes in the moment to show you do feel it too. You do have a lot to share, don’t hide behind your pride. (And yes we do know when we are being lied to or if you are having sexual thoughts)

SAGITTARIUS MOON

My best friend since childhood has a Sagittarius moon. Intelligent, at times too cool for school, wild and loud and self-conscious- where do I begin? Sagittarius moons are righteous and don’t hold back on delivering the truth to your face. Their friends will think it’s the most hilarious thing ever and you will feel dumbbb. They are damn good at that, however if they are having internal struggles they will stir the pot just to stand up righteously, or wait for you to fuck up.
It’s understandable that many fall for Sagittarius moons – they’ve been there and done that and their sense of humour demonstrates that well. You want to impress them! Their open minds are a turn on, and I have found it to be true that they have a lot stories to tell surrounding cults, religions, specific groups and cultures of people… I can always see myself skydiving with a Sagittarius moon. They don’t do well with clingy people, but accepting that emotional attachment is a naturally occurring phenomena would help them.  

They need to work on staying humble in their hearts not just in words or in clothes or style– that is what led to the bountiful knowledge of the spirit in the first place. They can chase after the original high until they’ve burned down the path entirely. There is a cheeky, mysterious side to them that is sexy and their joy and gratitude is so vibrant it can reverberate right up your spine.

CAPRICORN MOON

I really love Capricorn moons, even though we likely roll our eyes at each other and really have no clue about the other at times. You can’t get away with everything, boss or not, and Saturn makes sure these people know that (eventually). They are industrious, ambitious with high expectations, professional, suave, aware of the 'audience’ and have great reserves of ancient knowledge stored in their laughter and often pained expressions. 

Capricorn moons, surprise surprise, are really hard on themselves, like Virgo but with far more whiplash. They keep it under wraps. They need to be careful they don’t get crushed by the weight of the burdens they carry…and maybe to remember too that those burdens may in fact be wings they have yet to unfold and fly with. Shrewd and covertly manipulative, they can bring out the criminal in people, yet at the same time their logically intuitive judgement is there, watching you make an ass of yourself. They don’t always share their shady observations, but should with confidence, not anger, because they make a lot of really great points the right people don’t get to hear. Their realistic feedback could serve to really improve a myriad of issues. 

Capricorn moons are great at working the system (that includes within a family system) but need to remember not to become slaves to that system and cold to everyone else. That system could be based on lies or agendas that don’t factor in their personal success at all. Luckily as soon as they know that they will dump anything that is holding them back. Their feelings are private and reserved only for them, and if you’re lucky and earned their trust consistently, you too. They know how to work you into a state of compromise.

AQUARIUS MOON

I go through periods of being intensely fascinated by Aquarius moons and then I dismiss them. This may be a mutual thing between us. They really are ahead of everybody though (and slow to admit they care!) and they do know what they’re talking about. Try not to always believe everything they say, as they need to be pushed to be the best messengers they can be. Otherwise it comes a predictable Gaslighting exercise, sorry to say it.

Their emotional detachment can get in the way of people engaging on a real level with them and of course their own ego. The gifts they do bring are life changing but hence the struggle. The pride of being an original, of giving no fucks, of going anywhere and everywhere, of laughing at the aliens in your mirror… This is the Aquarian. However as the moon is much more internal people may not realise how weird and zany those with an Aquarius moon are, and they may hold themselves back socially..and then erupt into a nutty character when they’re drunk. They work hard to maintain objectivity and a logical mind state, though the bellows of emotion from others can send them back into their rooms for a while. They may struggle to deal with one on one interactions for extended periods of time, preferring to thrive in a group where they can disperse their knowledge through vivid storytelling or in juicy snippets.
Aquarius moons far reaching perspective does make them a boss, but the fear of getting 'too close’ can really stop them reaching out. I know it’s crazy to say to them that not all emotions were manufactured by Disney but it’s true. It is the fear ITSELF that warps their visions, not experiencing intimacy. It would really help them express their natural eccentricities a lot more if they could dare to go there, don’t hide out in space! It is true that in some of my darkest times I have been inspired by an Aquarius moon, or they have simply pointed to all the space above us and smiled, because with so much space how you can get caught up in such pettiness?
Anyway they are lovely souls and friends, their intelligence is anchored in carefully thought out principles and they will still listen to you before disagreeing! Hahaha

PISCES MOON

With all water moons it is important that they stand up for themselves before they feel violated by too aggressive people. Such is true for the Pisces moon. They are natural space cadets, dreamy, creative, musical, impressionable and empathetic. They also give no fucks about current fads and trends that enslave people in time. They are not ones for tedious, high pressure work with no creative or tangible productive merit (and fair enough too). There is far beyond all of that and they know it.
What they aren’t always aware of though is how powerful their empathy is, how strongly people feel understood by them to the point where people will unleash their demons on them because they think it’s okay–Pisces moon will understand, right? Wrong, it’s never cool to abuse people like that and we should aim to get more on their level rather than pull them down to ours.
Pisces moon needs a consistently peaceful and chilled out environment where they feel they can creatively nourish themselves without getting dragged into any of the preceeding 11 moon signs’ drama. They are wise in that they know how closed off people can be whilst still having a heart.

Pros/Cons of dating someone with the same moon sign

Water moon pros: They understand each other’s emotional needs and would probably be each other all the time and is always mindful of each other’s feelings. 
Water moon cons: They could grow overly attached to each other and can’t stay away from each other for too long to a point where they feel depressed when they’re apart 

Fire moon pros: They can be very upbeat with each other and they know exactly what the other needs to feel content and comfortable. They also know they need space to be around others sometimes and won’t take it personally
Fire moon Cons: They can both be too dramatic and stubborn, they each want things in their way and neither are really willing to give in

Air moon pros: They understand each other’s emotional boundaries and won’t overstep. They can talk a lot about nothing and everything
Air moon cons: They can both be a little closed off about emotional matters and neither really wants to open their old wounds first and it could take awhile for them to start to actually know each other 

Earth moon pros: They know what each other would want and seems like they’re always thinking of thoughtful but of course practical things they could do/give each other
Earth moon cons: It could turn into sort of a competition of who cares more and who does the most for each other

I do mean the same moon sign here but i’ve separated them into elements because there are a bit of differences between each moon sign but didn’t want to make it on the each individual signs because there would probably be repeats and it’s always a plus if you have moon conjunct moon

12th House
  • The 12th house is very personal, and secluded. This is the house of secrets and hidden personalities. The signs, planets and asteroids residing here are internalised, and reside deep inside who they are. It takes people we trust the most to unlock them, and if someone does they explode like fireworks with profound energy and warmth. Unleashing the 12th house is like a private festival of emotions.
  • Sun in 12th: Someone with this placement hides their ego and self from almost everyone. They may come across as very shy and timid, as well as introverted. If this person opens up to you, you learn that there's confidence underneath the layers of quiet retreat.
  • Moon in 12th: Their emotions are hidden from view. They may be likely to take on everyone else's burdens because they never show they have any of their own. They feel so intensely when alone in their thoughts, and it can be scary for them sometimes. If they open up to you, it's a truly special thing. Their emotions and feelings are like the start of a new ink cartridge: powerful in colour, abundant when written out.
  • Mercury in 12th: They find it very hard to communicate, and probably only feel properly able to to very close friends or online where they can think about their responses. They'll pick texting over verbal confrontation any day. Speeches and arguments are exceptionally hard for them. Midnight conversations with them are beautiful, deep, and unique.
  • Venus in 12th: Love is a hidden gem. They don't often just give their heart to someone. Sometimes they may feel like they should, so can seemingly force themselves into crushes or flirting, but soon withdraw as they realise it doesn't make them happy. Love for them happens in the quiet of their mind, and the arms of their lover, rather than in the public eye. They are also lovers of poetry, reading, and artistic forms which make them think of how they feel themselves.
  • Mars in 12th: They hate to argue a lot. They'd rather work things out without stress or heated emotion. They're also very reserved in sexual affairs, preferring usually to keep the bedroom to serious relationships. If you ever get that far, you'll learn they're deep and intense. This placement may lash out when alone, and will pent up how they feel a lot like Moon in 12th, except it'll usually come out aggressively when alone.
  • Saturn in 12th: They feel so restricted inside. They make their own walls and barriers with their feelings and deeper selves that can stress them out and give them intense worries and stresses. They always feel the need to regulate their dreams and fears, often calling their deeper emotions irrational. Positively, they may tend to hide less of themselves from people.
  • Jupiter in 12th: These individuals no know boundaries deep within them. What they keep inside out of public view is a deep pool of emotion and dreams. They may be extensive dreamers, whether when asleep or awake. Sometimes their fears and anxieties are so strong, they aren't sure how to regulate and manage them.
  • Neptune in 12th: Extreme dreamers. They can often suffer from delusional thoughts of their fears, or being over anxious of parts of life. Neptune is at home here, and is free to gloss over and shroud whatever it wants in mystery and illusion. Someone with this placement may worry and overthink intensely, but never let this out into the open.
  • Uranus in 12th: These people want to revolutionise and change things, but feel unable to do so. They aren't sure how to project their want your change into the world. They can also want to change themselves a lot, and may manifest through several inner mentalities quite quickly to try and align themselves more with their life situations.
  • Pluto in the 12th: Destructive of their inner selves. They constantly change up who they are inside, sometimes without even wanting to. What is hidden inside them is a ball in a china shop. You may find they hide away their emotions on secret blogs or journals. The things they hard away from friends are often intense, which makes it even harder for them to open up.