when people make fun of me

anonymous asked:

The people in my class are such bad anti SJW stereotypes I'm not sure if I should laugh or cry. I mean, just for example: They are very anti-gay rights, they make fun of transgender people, they hate people who aren't Christian (someone who's not like them in my class is Hindu) and they hate Obama and act like Trump is the second Washington or something. Worst part? My teacher joins in when they hate in class and supports them. (And they dislike me cause I don't agree)

god bless america

hipster--sauce  asked:

Wait really? If I'm ever at a pool or anything I have to leave my shirt on because people look at me like I have a disease

dude FUCK that, show off your shit, if you wanna feel good about yourself you have to take risks

I bought myself a crop top, knee socks, shorts and more

because i wanted to feel good about myself, and I do! 

start wearing shorts or go to pools without a shirt on, who cares if youre chubby???

also, learn how to take compliments, when someone tells you you look good, accept it! Don’t say “no im not” because that will only make not only you upset, make the person giving you that compliment upset [trust me]

one more thing, dont take shit from anybody!! ignore people who make fun of you/call ya names, i know that this step is kinda hard, but you WILL get over it trust me on this

i thought i was the fattest person in my school, and people made me believe this shit, but once I took a very long look in the mirror, wearing clothing i never thought i could wear and such i was like

“damn i look good!!!!!!”

I know these things won’t work for everyone, i’m just kinda spitting out info so at least some of you can gain some sort of help from it!! ;w;’

anonymous asked:

have you watched The Roundtables video (The "Just Enjoy the Show" Argument and Steven Universe - Vox Box)

Well, I just watched it because of this ask, and I gotta say … Definitely an eye-opener! It was interesting to hear about criticism from that perspective.

I really hope I haven’t come off as that “just enjoy the show” type of guy. I’m fairly sure I’ve pushed the fact that criticism is okay and healthy everytime we bring up this subject.

I’ve simply been expressing how tiring it has been for me, personally, when I’ve really been enjoying the show in contrast to a lot of other people lately with all these critics just flooding the fandom en masse.

I have qualms with SU too! I’m pretty sure everyone does. In fact, I’d probably make posts about it too if there weren’t so many other people doing it and taking it so seriously instead of having fun with it.

There are SU crits who do have a lot of valid points, and their view is just as important as anyone else’s. I’m actually a lot more likely to read a crit post if it’s brought up with that kind of concern and confusion, instead of another one of those ‘Peridot is shrinking’ or ‘Lapis is too bright’ posts.

I guess another thing is a lot of SU crits give off this high-and-mighty air that just rubs me the wrong way? But that’s just a personal thing.

Either way, I’m still enjoying the show, and I’m still a positive blog. But I’ll try to make it more clear that I’m calling out baseless, drama-seeking, SU-hating crits instead of critics who express concerns while still enjoying the show.


tl;dr - Don’t love the show so much that you can’t see it’s flaws. Don’t hate the flaws so much that you can’t see the show.

(Click here to watch AwestruckVox’s video!)

Dear Jack,
Hi I’m kind of crying right now because I’ve realized that you’re the only other person I feel like on this earth who is just like me.

I feel like sometimes I’m the only one whose full of energy at 1am and laughs loudly at everything and shouts and jumps around and is excited endlessly and endlessly and I’ve spent so much time in my life being told to “be quiet” “calm down” and “chill” and I’ve never really fit in because to me that just doesn’t make sense!

Then I started watching your videos. You’re energy full and loud and passionate for the things you love and all of the things I am and people LOVE you for it when I’ve always been hated and made fun of and told off and I swear it’s so amazing. I had been starting to mute that part of myself and I was so depressed, feeling so out of place and rejected just for being myself.

You gave me the strength to be who I am again and be proud of it. I have people who tell me now that my energy brings their energy up and that I give them hope and energy and happiness and that’s what YOU give me.

So thank you. I really hope you get to see this because for me you’re the person who let me now it was okay to be different and okay to be who I am.

Here’s something I’d like to say, at the risk of hurting some people’s feelings:

Whenever someone goes “They are mine“ over a character, it makes me want to never talk about said character with that person ever again.

See, I really enjoy fangirling over characters with others. But it takes my fun away when I know that the other person really doesn’t want to share the character with me.

It’s childish because, ultimately, there is no way the other person can “own“ that character. But just knowing how they feel in that regard makes me feel uncomfortable.

I was tagged by @chaotischqueer and @stennnn06 thank you loves!

Rules: Copy this post into a new text post, remove my answers and put in yours, and when you are done tag up to 10 people and also tag the person who tagged you… And most importantly, have fun!


a - age: 28

b - biggest fear: dying after living a life unfulfilled. To me it’s critical to do something important. Not necessarily some big noteworthy achievement, I just hope to make a difference in people’s lives :)

c - current time: 9:32pm

d - drink you last had: Booooooze. 7&7

e - every day starts with: checking my emails and getting my younger brother ready for school. The endless routine.

f - favorite song: 
As you all know, it changes often. Right now, probably still Perfect Illusion by Lady Gaga. But Beast by Nico Vega and Q.U.E.E.N. by Janelle Monae are battling to steal the title.

g - ghosts, are they real: I’m thinking yes. Too much weird shit has happened in this house.

h - hometown: Rochester Hills. I’ve lived in too many places to really consider any place to be a hometown, but that’s where I am now sooooo

i - in love with: Katie McGrath of course. She’s my number 1. But also Natalie Dormer, and Katheryn Winnick

j - jealous of: People with amazing hair… Like how is it always so perfect?? Mine is decent with it’s current pomp cut but it never does what I want. So I usually just mess with it constantly and deal with it.

k - killed someone: With kindness you mean? Everyday! I’m good at that.

l - last time you cried: This morning a shed a lil tear when my lovely anon sent me a fan video. I’m really emotional these days ok??

m - middle name: Chez. Yaaaay French names

n - number of siblings: 1. Just me and my buddy

o - one wish: To win the lottery?? A few mil perhaps? I’d love to pay off my debts and live without panicking daily.

p - person you last texted/called: Texted: My good friend Chrissie. Called: My mom

q - questions you’re always asked: Wait… you’re gay? OR Waaaait, you’re 28??? OOORRR Waaaait… YOU’RE BLACK?! (The last two come after people hear my voice and the way I speak before actually seeing me. Not sure why the third is such a shock. Also I don’t look 28, like at all so that probably comes up the most).

r - reasons to smile: My family, my cats, my friends, good health, being surrounded by good people. Simple enough

s - song last sang: Love the Way You Lie. It’s been stuck in my head since an ask I got earlier.

t - time you woke up: 6:15 am

u - underwear colour: Ummm.. lemme check… oh black and red.

v - vacation destination: Some place quiet and tropical. Just a few days to get away from everything and everyone. I’ll come back refreshed and ready to go.

w - worst habit: idly playing with or running my fingers through my hair when I talk. I’ve been told it’s distracting and I never realize I’m doing it.

x - x-rays you’ve had: Teeth, jaw, spine

y - your favorite food: Sushi!!

z - zodiac sign: Aquarius

I’m tagging: @supercorptrashed @missmisanthropic @autistickryptonian @bisexuals-r-us @rtracker @thisishowisoar @tantoun

anonymous asked:

"socially classified" damn i guess im a girl bc thats what people assume when they see me thanks tumblr user pasteldagger

also like… if we go w that reasoning then.. ace people arent “socially classified” as str8 lol

yeah i wanted to make a similar joke but then i realized being rude is more fun

things that make me happy about /r/furry: posting rules are pretty lax so people will post texts when they’re depressed or lonely and you will 99.9% of the time see at least 5 people reply with “i really hope you feel better, you can always talk to me, feel free to message me if you need someone to do something fun with” and its so sweet and pure

anonymous asked:

Hi, 7goodangel. I am here to ask you about PaperJam as a shy, smol and innocent being (mainly thegreatrouge made him be). There has been some conflicts regarding his trait. Some said his canonical personality is a jerk, like what you wrote in his bio / info and some said that is severely wrong and being shy, (which made him shipped with Fresh), is his canonical personality. What are your thoughts about this? I mean, it is your character and people are taking control of it. Don't you disagree?

Well… I have talked to people and seen public conversations and this has happened several times to me over months. I guess I’ve gotten a little numb to it now… or maybe it’s due to school that I haven’t given it the attention that it deserves. Probably due to school. 

I just can’t update constantly like others - even though some others in school were and are able to update constantly. I can’t keep going around and holding up my bio of PJ and police people. It’s exhausting to me… it really takes up the small bit of free time I have. 

I think after I get a solid job that I’ll be able to go around better… but anyway - back to your question. 


While I love seeing interpretations and do not want people to be limited by something and have their imaginations go forth… it’s proving that a huge con comes with that mentality - which you have pointed out. A lot of people swear that PJ is the cute, innocent interpretation that really, did get PJ popular in the first place. While I did have him as a jerk from the beginning - I kinda kept that info to my RP blog - so you could say it is my fault this is all happening and I do think that. I could of done something to make it not as bad as it is now… 

It’s just like the NSFW stuff… people just assume the first thing and run with it. And it really does make me feel like I really am not needed for my own character at points. 

It’s a struggle - I don’t want to have people stop interpreting PJ within AUs… but I also don’t want people to just see him as an innocent child to ship with Fresh. 

And I’m still trying to find the best solution to it. 

But… I feel like the damage is already done. It’s too late for me to talk to all of these people going around swearing on their life that PJ is canoncally like Rouge’s interpretation/AUs. It feels like an hopeless battle to me. 

And I guess I needed someone to ask me this question so then I can fully say my thoughts on this. 

So in short, while I love creativity and don’t want to snuff it out (considering some people would probably think I’m doing that already with saying “No Sin”), I still don’t like it. It irritates me, irks me, frustrates me, and I feel like even as the person who thought of PJ in the first place, my voice isn’t enough. Communities seem like they don’t care about artists unless they reach a ‘certain goal of popularity’ or seem like they have a more professional style of art. I know I do not reach either of those titles. 

People misspell my username all the time - I actually claimed ‘7goodangle’ on tumblr for that reason.

People still say “I’m too lazy to find who made PJ” when they clearly mentioned they looked at the bio on the wiki. 

People still go around arguing others on the canon ship of OmniPJ and swearing that FreshPaper is the true canon ship, when all people are pointing out is that they need to keep the canon ship in mind when going around with information.

Even just basic personality traits… and these things are happening on sites that I do not nor want an account for. 

I still want others to have fun - to be happy; but I don’t know… I guess I’m cutting out my own happiness to get everyone else happy? I want to eventually write a version of PJ within his own universe and story… and he is more like the version I created within the UT verse. Not exact - but close. Though who knows… I might shove PJ to the side and replace his role with another character. I’m still weighing options.

Cause PJ was the first character I ever put this much time and thought into… my first character that was balanced, well rounded…

And what happens?

…well.

You said it Anon. 

They took it - changed it (initially as an AU but now people think it’s canon) - and I can’t do much about it. Due to school and not much free-time… due to how many don’t know the true creator… and just back talking anyone who is just mentioning it to people who swear by it. 

As an artist and a character designer…

It makes me not want to show designs, characters, and stories ever again online.

Considering if this is how I was treated on the first one… why even take a chance at a second one? If it has brought me so much stress, frustration, and time… why even try it again?

I said I was only going to do fanart so if anyone stole it, it didn’t really matter. 
I think I should have stuck with that thought process. 

In conclusion, there are some major things to take away here. First – that yes, I do not like how it has skewed this far to the point of arguing over a fandom version with the canon. Canon is canon and I get the different AUs – this is too far. Way too far. I am emotionally drained from this – from this whole mess that I have been defending throughout majority of PJ’s lifespan. I will state this – Paper Jam is my character. He is my original character that I created more than a year ago. And the UT AU fandom took my character and warped him to something he is not and all of his original meaning is lost. I do not like to hurt others or make other sad – but I must put my foot fully down. This miscommunication needs to stop. I am tired of repeating things over and over and I have past my breaking point time and time again. I just want people to see PJ how he really is… and I wish that people could be focusing more on the reality of him instead of the alternate that they all claim as truth.

Final words: I still like Undertale – I still like creating characters and having fun – but the Undertale AU fandom is ridiculous now. The Amino UT community is insanity in an app, and there is a lot of stuff that has made many artists and creators to their breaking point and leaving the fandom entirely. Everyone in this fandom needs to take ten steps back and look at what they are doing. Go back to the game. Play it again – watch your favorite let’s player’s videos of it again. 

And just… food for thought… please don’t jump the gun on someone else’s OC’s personality and actions. 

I do not want anyone to experience what I had.

14 Million Subscribers

First off, thank you all so very much for getting the channel to 14 Million Subscribers. That’s beyond anything I ever would have imagined when I started out. It’s crazy and it’s very humbling to think people enjoy what you do enough to do that. So thank you!

I think this year is going to be great! It’s already off to a great star and I’m more motivated and eager to make great things than I have been in a while. I don’t want to just say that and then give up on it a few weeks into the year, I truly mean it when I say that I want to do better and be happier this year. Time to stop letting things get to me so much and just have fun with what I do and make you guys my priority! That’s why I started all of this and it’s what I want to keep remembering as time goes on, the numbers may get bigger all the time but the morals and goals of the channel stay the same. To make you guys laugh and smile and hopefully spread some joy into the world :) 

I love you all and I can’t ever repay you for what you’ve done for me but by golly I can sure try! Thank you for not only being here day after day but for also keeping me humble and grounded. This community is one of the best on youtube and I don’t say that lightly to pander or inflate egos, I really mean it! Time and again you all prove how loving and welcoming you are and that truly means a lot to me! 

Keep being awesome!

“I thought when I came to New York it was going to be this huge change of scenery and that I could be whoever I want to be. I thought there’d always be a plan, or an event, and that I’d never feel alone, and that I’d be very ‘fabulous’ — for lack of a better word. ‘Carrie Bradshaw-esque,’ so to speak. But in reality, I still spend a lot of time alone. I think it’s because I’m afraid of being a burden on those around me. What if I’m not fun enough? What if the parts of me that are sad and complaining outweigh the parts of me that are good? Will I be wasting other people’s time? And when I do spend time with other people, I’m afraid to demand a certain level of kindness and respect. Because maybe that will make me even more of a burden. So I don’t reach out to other people very much. I spend a lot of time alone. But then I still get mad when I look on Snapchat and see people hanging out without me. But I’m trying to change my thinking. I’m not allowed to feel left out if I’m not making an effort. I’m not the protagonist of reality. I can’t expect good relationships to happen just because I exist.”

  • people: omg why are u taking pole dance classes? are you like, a slut or what??
  • me, an intellectual: who knows, one day i just might charm the love of my life with it and make them fall for me at a fancy banquet.

blackghoast  asked:

You know jack the thing i like the most about you? You're not doing a fake facade or somthing like that You really care about your fans and dont mind physical contact and let peopole talk to you. There arent alot of youtubers who are actually nice

This means a lot to me, thank you! I try my best to be nice to people and not make it seem like I’m some untouchable entity. It’s much more fun to be real with people and treat everyone equally :)

Not every youtuber needs to be that way of course, some DO like distance but I am tired of all the fakers saying “I really care” when it’s clear they don’t

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Can people stop being rude to/about certain Pokemon? I mean, man, I new the leaked Litten final evo would get some negative opinions but people seem to be especially rude about it. Sorry for kinda putting my opinion out there, but when you’ve gone through the main Pokemon Sun and Moon tag and a lot of the stuff is making fun/rude comments of fine designs, it really gets on my nerves. 

Look, I’m not saying the design is perfect and I can see where people get genuinely upset, but at this point it seems very undeserving and hypocritical all the hate it’s getting, especially after the initial reaction to Popplio all went down.

Sorry for the kinda rant! I’me just very passionate about my little fire baby and the Pokemon games in general, so it just breaks my heart when people seem kind of entitled about designs of Pokemon that Nintendo/Game Freak spent so much time on?  And overall I just don’t like seeing that kind and that much negativity in the tags? 

idk, again, sorry for the rant, but I hope you can at least enjoy this little comic!

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01.09.17 - the first week of the year! i had a lot of fun doing this, but i’m still trying to figure it how to make it all a bit less messy. hopefully i’ll stay this motivated when school starts tomorrow. there is also a page for january before this spread, but that is apparently not compatible with my abysmal photography+editing skills so that will have to wait for now. (help me im so bad at editing photos how do people do it)

keith: hunk is right

hunk, immediately pulling keith down into a kiss: man i love hearing that

Friendly reminder that Matthew Daddario...
  • Thinks cows deserve showers
  • Likes to press buttons
  • Would like to hike with a bike
  • Checks if his eyes colour matches his jumpers
  • Has fun with fish eye effect messing his head proportions
  • Explains that comments going so fast on life isn’t his doing
  • Would like to have a mediocre fantastic pho stand 
  • Assures us Dominic Sherwood is from Texas Kentucky
  • And the same for Will Tudor
  • Has a super secret messenger with “Shadowhunters Kids”
  • ALLOWED US TO TOUCH HIS HAIR IF WE ASK POLITELY
  • Thought people were making fun of him by complementing his moustache 
  • WORE A DIFFERENT GREEN SWEATER LADY
  • Talks with his hands
  • Ruined the scene where Magnus says “Think of me when you shoot your arrows” because he kept bursting in laughter
  • Is great with kids
  • Doesn’t want us to call ourselves trash cause we are lovely
  • Googles things a lot
  • Names the cow at NY zoo
  • Can sing
  • Cannot live without his phone and finds it sad
  • Is the sassiest guy on Twitter
  • Sometimes turns off and turns back on a few minutes later
  • Always does a dramatic pause before saying Malec
  • Overuses the word smooch
  • Likes science fiction books
  • Can play the piano
  • Is an awesome photographer
  • Couldn’t breathe because he was laughing too hard after pranking his girlfriend
  • Is a reallife Snowwhite
  • Knows history and everything but is clueless at life

JUST MATTHEW DADDARIO PEOPLE

Dear RPers who have wanted to interact.

I feel like i need to address this because i find it’s an issue many people, especially newcomers, have in RP.

PLEASE. DO. NOT. BE. SHY. TO. SAY. HI.

There’s no reason to be anxious or hesitant if you want to talk to me. I will happily accept a random starter, or a random tag, or an inbox message! Even if we’ve never interacted or even acknowledged one another, i will still HAPPILY interact with you!

You’re not bothering me. You’re not annoying. You’re not making me uncomfortable. I LIKE to interact with new people, it’s very exciting and fun!

Please, PLEASE, don’t be hesitant when sending in ANYTHING. I’m having a lot more fun than your anxiety tells you!