when i am mad you talk to me

anonymous asked:

OKAY BUT ISAK ADDED A HEART EMOJI TO REASSURE EVEN THAT HE JUST WANTS TO TALK AND WONT END THEIR RELATIONSHIP I AM ON THE FLOOR

IK, I’m so proud of him because he handled it so well.

“Talk to me when you feel like it. <3″

He’s not mad. He’s not demanding an answer.  He’s not trying to make him feel guilty. It’s just his way of saying “it’s alright, i just needed some time, but i’m still here. and i will wait for you, take your time as well.” MY SON HAS GROWN UP SO MUCH.

100% the surest thing to make me hate you with the fury of a thousand burning suns is to treat me in a condescending way?? my coworker tried to correct my fucking grammar and it fucking irritated me? im a goddamn adult requesting your cooperation, not your sunday school toddler confused about the difference between ‘can I’ and 'may i?’ ?? and then when i talked to her in a clipped and short-handed way afterwards she got mad and said “don’t use that snarky tone of voice with me” I AM NOT YOUR CHILD YOU MOLDY MIDDLE AGED PIECE OF LEATHER

Imagine your favorite character chasing you out into the rain after a huge fight and kissing you passionately and whispering into your ear with a seductive voice, “I’m sorry babe. Let me make it up to you” as they wiggle their eyebrows and drag you inside.

What do the signs mean when they say "Lets Drink"

Aries- I’m fucking bored and I think this may be the only cure for your shitty personality.

Taurus- I’m just trying to relax here. I earned this. If you try to talk me out of it, I will get mad.

Gemini- You say funny things when you’re drunk. Funny you is my favorite type of you. I might record this.

Cancer- I’m going to trick you into watching House Hunters with me and making fun of the hosts on the Cooking Channel.

Leo- I want to dance….and drinking makes that more acceptable for some reason.

Virgo- I am stressed in this situation and I hope to be more fun when drunk

Libra-I want to drink and I’m hoping by saying it out loud that you’ll be polite and pay for them.

Scorpio- I am insecure about some emotional issue I am currently having. I am using this to shield many feels and to avoid complicated situations.

Sagittarius- I want to drink. I do not care if you want to drink or not, I am going to regardless of your answer.

Capricorn- I want to see how fucking stupid you act while drunk and then laugh about later it when you piss me off

Aquarius- Sometimes being drunk makes me think more clearly, or at least it seems like it at the time. I need to get some shit out of my head.

Pisces- I feel like everyone wants to drink, so I’m going to announce it and hope that I’m right.

trans person: Cis People

the cis: You know, that’s really offensive. What’s so wrong about cis people anyways? You don’t see me talking badly about transgendereded, so why do you have to talk badly about us when we have done nothing to you? That’s oppressive. And since we’re talking about this, when did I even say I wanted to be called CIS? That’s your word; not mine. I don’t appreciate your attitude toward us nor do I appreciate your slur your kind have created. I am not cisgender; I’m normal.

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Just between you and me…when he’s alone with me, your dad only talks about you! Though, he always looks mad and isn’t very good at expressing his feelings.

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Every Character I LoveSantana Lopez (Glee)

“I love girls the way that I’m supposed to feel about boys. It’s just something that’s always been inside of me, and I really want to share it with you because I love you so much. I want you to know me. Who I really am. When I’m with Brittany… I finally understand what people are talking about when they talk about love. I’ve tried so hard to push this feeling away, and keep it locked inside… but every day just feels like a war, and I walk around so mad at the world, but I’m really just fighting with myself. I don’t want to fight anymore. I’m just too tired. I have to just be me.”

Do not call trans people by our ‘dead names’. Don’t. Do not do it. Don’t do it as a joke, don’t do it when speaking about the past, don’t do it when speaking in third person, don’t do it when talking to other people about us when we’re not there, don’t do it even if you’ve known us by that name for 50 years, don’t do it even if you’re mad at us or trying to make a point. Don’t even do it to celebrities, not even Republican ones. Do not do it. Do not.
You are telling us, “it doesn’t matter to me that this crushes you, I am ok with holding your pain over your head, your identity isn’t real to me, and I am not your ally.”
And when you do it to one of us you say this to all of us.

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glee meme → eight characters [3/8]

“I love girls the way that I’m supposed to feel about boys. It’s just something that’s always been inside of me and I really want to share it with you because I love you so much. I want you to know me, who I really am. When I’m with Brittany, I finally understand what people are talking about when they talk about love. I’ve tried so hard to push this feeling away and keep it locked inside, but every day just feels like a war. And I walk around so mad at the world, but I’m really just fighting with myself. I don’t want to fight anymore. I’m just too tired. I have to just be me.” - Santana Lopez

things introverts do that annoy the shit out of extroverts

(even though we’d never tell you because we don’t want to hurt your feelings)

in response to this post 

1. making us feel guilty for having other friends. we can only hang out and watch netflixs with you so much before we get bored. sometimes we want large groups, loud parties, new people, and we hate it when you keep us pigeonholed.
2. always say no when we ask you to hang out, then get mad if we’re busy when you finally want to chill. ???? our lives don’t revolve around your moods. chill.
3. make us feel ashamed for being ourselves. i don’t think before i speak all the time, sometimes i’m loud, whatever. i’m not embarrassed by who i am, and if you are we shouldn’t be hanging out. i don’t make you feel guilty for not always speaking up, don’t make me feel guilty for talking too much.
4. volunteer us to do things without asking. uh, no. we don’t want to call your optometrist for you because phone calls make you nervous. stop treating us like social slaves.
5. passive-aggressiveness. we can’t fix a problem if you won’t tell us what we did wrong in the first place. somehow introverts still haven’t picked up on this tho.
6. typecast us. there are millions of extroverts and every single one of us is different. we’re not all party-obsessed, socially perfect souls who can make friends anywhere. we have anxiety too, sometimes we’re uncomfortable in social spaces, we also want our alone time on occasion as well. we’re not the stereotypes you assigned us. 
7. refusing to come out and party and then getting offended the next day when you see how much fun everyone had on instagram/facebook/tumblr/etc. we TOLD you you’d have fun if you came and YOU decided not to, how is that our fault????
8. being unnecessarily mean to our friends. we get that you don’t generally enjoy meeting new people, that’s fine. but if we stop to talk to a friend and you’re rude to them because you “hate small talk” or some other trivial reason or WORSE immediately talking shit about them after they leave when they did nothing wrong you’ll only upset us.
9. assuming you’re smarter than us. it’s ignorant to assume that people who talk a lot are somehow less intelligent than people who don’t. we just have too many thoughts to keep bottled up, that’s all.

I love talking to you.
It doesn’t matter if it’s 3 AM,
I just love talking to you.
I love talking to you even when I’m mad at you.
That’s why I argue with you, because I just want to say something to you.
I can’t stand not talking to you.
I start to miss you and that’s a terrible feeling for me.
I can’t stand that you’re away from me because then I can’t talk to you the way I want.
I love talking to you because I love to hear your voice.
Texting does not come close to the feeling I get when I hear your voice.
When I hear your voice,
I fall in love all over again.
Your voice just puts a big smile on my face and butterflies in my stomach.
I love talking to you because you know just what to say to make me feel better.
I just love talking to you and I love you.
I keep waiting to be treated badly. Does anyone else do this? Literally every day I think, Today is the day when things will change, when I will overstay my emotional welcome, when this person will decide that treating me well is beyond what I deserve. Every nicety, every act of kindness feels like something I need to lock in a vault. It all makes me realize that my threshold for being treated decently was desperately low for like, all of my adult life. I am full of great advice and lofty standards for my friends. Do this, don’t put up with that. When it comes to myself, it’s like, well, you’re garbage so the rules aren’t the same for you. I get mad at myself when I realize this, when I realize how passive I can be, how I try to be invisible in my own life, how I try to not take up space or require anyone else’s attention or energy.
—  Roxane Gay, “The Kale Was Talking Shit to Me
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nayarivera Last day on the Glee set! Spending it in a scene with heathermorristv and druiddude. I have been truly blessed to have been on this crazy ride for the past 6 years and will always hold a special place in my heart for everyone that has been on this journey with me and Santana! ❤️

It’s something that’s always been inside of me and I really want to share it with you because I love you so much. I want you to know me, who I really am. When I’m with Brittany, I finally understand what people are talking about when they talk about love. I tried so hard to push this feeling away and keep it locked inside, but everyday just feels like a war. And I walk around so mad at the world, but I’m really just fighting with myself.
I don’t want to fight anymore. I’m just too tired. 
I have to just be me.” -
 Santana Lopez

“See, my boyfriend is so rude to me about [the fandom]. He really gets mad at me when I talk about how much I love One Direction — he is a musician and he has a huge fucking complex about music and how pop music is dumb and it’s just so stupid. I think he is [also] actually very jealous that I think Harry is essentially the hottest dude around. I’m like, ‘LOL, OK, I AM GOING TO BREAK UP WITH YOU FOR HARRY STYLES WHO KNOWS I AM ALIVE AND ALSO WOULDN’T THINK I’M A LOSER.’ He is a really good boyfriend and I do love him but I have no patience for his attitude toward pop music, which I think we can all agree is generally amazing and life-giving.”
— Noosha, 24, Michigan
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This Cosmo article where they actually talk to grown up ladies who are fans and don’t shame or pathologise or act gross to them and they say the most amazing things is literally giving me life right now.

(Noosha from Michigan is my hero)

i hate it when NTs hear about mentally ill people’s experiences and they’re like “don’t worry, you’re not crazy!” as though it’s something comforting but like technically… i am crazy. and i feel like there’s a very distinct set of feelings that comes with feeling crazy, or being mad. on a general day to day basis, i’m mentally ill, but then sometimes, i feel fucking. crazy, like i’ve gone out of my mind. and i don’t need someone to tell me i’m not, especially not if that’s the way i feel, i need them to say “is there anything i can do to make this easier” or something. don’t deny me my chosen terminology to describe my experiences. don’t take that away from me. it’s not going to make me feel any better.

  • Kara: Cat texted me!
  • Kara: What do I say?!?
  • Kara: Should I ask when she's coming back?
  • Kara: Wait no that'll sound desperate she just left
  • Kara: I miss you?
  • Kara: No no no too soon
  • Kara: I need your guidance!
  • Kara: NO! I need to show her I can do this without her
  • Kara: Am talking too long to replY?
  • Kara: What if she gets mad that i don't answer her back immediately?
  • Kara: Ok ok I'll just text back hello
  • Kara: I ACCIDENTALLY TEXTED "HELP"
  • Kara: WHAT DO I DO NOW?? ALEX !!!
  • Kuroko: I am not talking to you.
  • Akashi: You’re so cute when you’re mad.
  • Kuroko: Do you want a piece of me?!
  • Akashi: I want all of you babe!
  • Kuroko: Unbelievable! *storms out*
  • Akashi: Come back! I absolutely love the tension between us!
  • Mother: What are you going to pout all day?
  • Me: Sorry, I'm just sick of you being mean to me.
  • Mother: Oh and you're not mean to me?
  • Words I wish I had the courage to say: I am sick of your abuse all the fucking time. You yell at me over nothing or when you're mad at someone else, and then you try to justify it rather than apologising. You never let me talk about things I am passionate for. You're allowed to aim rude "sarcastic" comments at me, but heaven for bid I do the same to you. You tell me to "get over" my anxiety, you make fun of me for things I constantly tell you to stop talking about because I want to forget them. You tell super embarrassing moments to your friends and my friends, and you insist I make friends when you don't even have friends of your own. You threaten to kick me out of the house or put me in foster care, you call me names, and no matter how much I tell you I don't like it, you don't stop or apologise or take back what you said. Yes, I'm mean to you. I am so fucking tired of your abuse, but I can't leave because you raised me to be completely dependent on you so you're not lonely.
  • Me: *pouts*

this is the last poem I’ll ever write for you
and maybe it should be nice and
soft and
not angry
not when I have no right to be.

except maybe I do have a right to be mad
maybe I am allowed to feel torn up about this
it’s not like I actually loved you but I got close enough to get hurt when you left and
you’re probably too busy thinking of your hands on her body to think about us and
the way you said my name when you moaned and
sorry was that a secret c'mon what does it matter now
this house has burned down you don’t read my poems you don’t miss me we haven’t talked in a week
there was no sirens no warning there was just me
drunk as fuck
and you
deciding you’ve had enough.

—  read at: 6:43 p.m. –lily rain