i love how this fandom continues to want to erase Carol from the Daryl narrative at all costs

Rick flashbacks of Michonne: ohmygod they are so in love. their love is so pure (it is!)

Glenn flashbacks of Maggie: ohmygod they are so in love. their love is so pure (it is!)

people in relationships flashbacks of significant others: aww. so much love!

Daryl flashbacks of Carol: well you see it’s not really about carol as a person. carol’s face is there but it’s not about her. it’s about the cherokee rose, the symbol of hope. daryl carrying carol like her own personal knight in shining armor that basically means daryl is very protective of everyone in the group. daryl’s flashbacks are just all very symbolic because obviously carol means as much to daryl as everyone else - rick, glenn, abe, eugene, goat tabitha and one of them cows - but he only saw her face because carol is a symbol of everyone else.

haha. carol and daryl might never be canon. but fandom’s hypocrisy is.

the truth is daryl loves carol (whatever type of love!) and he thought of special moments he shared with her. moments when the need to comfort and protect her were more important. her. carol. she’s not an object or symbol. she’s a person in daryl’s world.

I got tagged by @belladona23 to stop, drop, and selfie. I may have taken the drop part a little too seriously. I’m tagging @skeletonchanel (maybe don’t drop, since you’re driving) @beautifullymadesteph @hewhoexplores @grumplestiltskins @natureandgrace and… @rebecca-dearest

No pressure guys! Just if you want to.

If I get 180 new followers by Friday, I’ll draw Undertale sin

((so since i love ya people so much, I wanted to draw whatever u guys wanted me to. So if I get more or at least 180 new followers then I’ll draw sin for you guys or just cute fluffy stuff. So share this with ur friends or something. I don’t expect to get 180 new followers in 4 days but idk , I just wanna experiment 

Originally posted by inpoortaste

good byeeee))

“3 years ago I was diagnosed with being HIV+ (undetectable now for 2 and a half years) and it happened because the guy that I was seeing cheated on me. It definitely has made things more difficult for me to “date” guys because people here (in Dallas) don’t really date black guys for whatever reason and to add that I am HIV + (undetectable) makes things more complicated. It has over the years lowered my self confidence because I thought that I was never attractive enough or that I may have a little more femininity than what they’re looking for.

So I decided to change myself, me more apart of the “gay agenda” because being a product of the community means you have to be “beefed up” look good 100% of the time, be a sex symbol because thats what I’ve seen and been told is what’s attractive to other “men.” So I changed myself, becoming more “manly” I began seeing changes in my body from working out and with that, guys that I had spoken to previously that have never given me the time of day started talking to me. It felt good in the beginning but I knew that that was not the person that I wanted to become.

I will admit that I liked seeing how my body looked and I’m going to continue my fitness journey and achieves the goals I have set for myself, but I’m doing it for me now. And since doing me, I’ve met a guy, and it’s something so different than I’ve ever experienced before because he truly does like me for me. I don’t have to be someone else to impress him and that’s a relief for me.

I’m happy because for so long I thought that I was undateable. I’ve lived the “I’m not attracted to black people” part of my life and thinking that I would never be “good” enough for anyone. I’ve had to live with the struggle of my health and thinking “this is just another thing added to the list of reasons why people don’t want to date me.”

Self growth is a beautiful thing, being able to feel comfortable in my skin is a win in my book. I have strong people around me that give off positive energy because that’s what I need right now. It’s hard being a black gay male in Dallas because no one wants to date a black male, sure we can be friends but to date? Not at all. I’m over that now because I know my worth and I know what I bring to the table and I’m not afraid to eat alone.”

Taylor Allyn (Dallas, TX) for #ColorMeEqual

anonymous asked:

,,wheeze so I drew hitmanAu fanart right,and I would like to show u it,but Im not really open with what I ship to my friends (cause I dont wanna be judged) and they follow my blog, so I was wondering if I could submit it to u??Ahh sorry for bothering

oh gosh, you’re welcome to submit me whatever my guy–i freakin’ love the hitman au [vibrates]

anonymous asked:

How is Alfie a sad 22 yr old anon?! He literally just hung out with Chai, Sarah, Callux and a school friend Alex I want to say was his name the other weekend, Evan, His friend Asa, Pewds and PJ etc all in the last week or two. If you are trying to compare his life to say Joe and Caspars you can't. They are SINGLE as far as we know and Alfie is in an almost 4 yr long serious relationship. He's not going to be out drinking and partying and clubbing every night like those guys. Plus that's not +

His style not his life. Stop judging people that you actually don’t know in real life.

People think that because you’re in your twenties you’re supposed to be partying hard and getting all them girls/boys and getting drunk out of your mind and whatever else. Guys, this lifestyle is not for everybody. I’m a sad 21 year old then, because the last time I’ve been to a party I was 18 and I don’t plan on going to anymore parties unless they’re birthday parties. I enjoy being at home by myself, with the odd visit from a friend or going out to see a film, but I spend most of my time by myself at home and I’m perfectly happy. Alfie looks happy so he’s obviously enjoying what he’s doing with his time and we should just enjoy that instead of trying to create this new persona for him.

anonymous asked:

YES!!! I would totally buy a shirt or jacket or whatever you guys end up making!! I see feminist shirts everywhere and "male tears" and positivity for women but never ones for men!

Thank you so much! one of the reasons I’m considering even doing these T-shirts is because I do see the Feminist Tshirts, and the male tears, and really want to do something positive for boys that can get out there.

We already have ideas as to what we want our t-shirts to look like. Our only issue is creating the shirts. We have considered a couple of websites (Redbubble, customink, etc), and have also considered just making them ourselves.

But I’m so glad we have someone willing to wear our shirts!


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