if you want to ship them as people in a very problematic relationship it’s fine
if you want to ship them as people in a very happy safe relationship it’s fine
if you have silly little headcanons it’s fine
if you have deep, heartbreaking headcanons it’s fine
nobody should make you feel like garbage just because you like to think of something in a whatever kind of way, and nobody should have to shut up for criticizing something they don’t like or think is wrong. You can have any opinion you form but just don’t try to be hurtful or exclude anyone from doing something their way, please.
Don’t take it out on people who don’t even shove anything in your face by shoving your opinion in their faces. Be respectful towards each other, have fun, let things go.