So heres the definition of demisexual so you can see if it fits you, demisexual is a person who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone. It's more commonly seen in but by no means confined to romantic relationships. The term demisexual comes from the orientation being "halfway between" sexual and asexual.
Oh, thats helpful and I could be that. But if I fall in love I dont want it to have a lable other than love. Do you know what I mean?