what my real life is like

Writing Emotional Baggage

sempiternallydemure asked: “I’m trying to write a book about a divorced mother falling back in love, but I don’t know how to write a divorce relationship with kids involved. Do you think you could give me some suggestions?”

Okay so I can’t exactly give over any real suggestions in the way of my own real life experience of falling in love following a divorce, but when it comes to writing from experience I think there are aspects that your character’s situation that you probably can tap into. Even if you’ve never been quite literally in their shoes, there’s a chance you’ve been in situations where you can begin to imagine what it might feel like. 

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This is what happens. If I think about a hundred in my head, you know that you can’t make a hundred. Everything we think about can’t happen in real life. Not just me, but I believe many people are like this. You too. It’s like that. How can what you think always happen? 

But this is also one part of the process. I have a lot of things I want to say, but I’m going to hold myself back. But I still want you to do everything that you want to do. Because it can happen. If you think a hundred, the hundred can happen. That’s happened to me before. It can happen to you as well.”

If you ever needed motivation/encouragement, here it is from Bang Yongguk.

when you wrote a wholllllee new series. [On Hana’s dad’s background] and have no idea where to fit it, or to even fit it in the story.

but i gotta tell you, im dazed as fuck lmao. Ive been writing for three hours and Im like how do my how brain work 

Its not really a background, its only the events leading up to why they fled his home planet. Him and Hana’s mom, and about Hana and the alien stuff going on in the background that Hana is totally oblivious to at the moment. 

mini pointless stories from my Korean class

in my Korean class yesterday my teacher was explaining how to use the word  유행이다 which means “ to be in fashion” or “to be popular” and she asked us what do we have here in Canada that is  유행이에요 and at first no one said anything but then, one girl pulled out a fidget spinner and my teacher spun it a few times and just gave us the most un-amused look and was like “ wow i’m angry that something like this is popular” 

also in one of the example sentences we were practicing the word 놀라다 came up and none of us knew what it meant, it means to be surprised but my teacher was like “ it means SHOOK” everyone laughed so did she. I think she was trying to say “Shocked” but with her accent it sounded more like shook and someone explained the meaning of shook to her and she just laughed and said “ well year they’re pretty much the same thing.

idk i thought theses were funny

anonymous asked:

Hi Peaches, I just wanted to thank you for what you do. Im a transgirl with pretty little support in real life and a history of depression and self harm. Youve helped me to actually care about myself again. Just seeing how positive you are gives me hope. Today was the first day in a long time where I woke up and didnt think about how much I hated myself. For the first time in a long while, I felt good about myself. So again, thank you for what you do. It means a lot.

I hope mornings like that come regularly to you, and I’ll be doing my best to keep up with those great vibes. You’ll always have a home here <3

Thanks for writing in, I’m so glad I’m able to help with my work :) 

anonymous asked:

Hello,, sorry for disturbing! Can I ask you a question? You can ignore it but. I’m new to the fandom. I’m really ‘into’ louis, and I wanted to ask you, how do you see him? I mean his personality, as a person etc? I hope it’s okay to ask this. Since he’s a ‘real life’ person and I don’t know..I’m just really insecure about what I think, and I would love to know if my opinion on him is ‘true’ or most ‘common’ ? if I make sense. like I see him as someone insecure etc. those stuff like that...

hmmm i’d need like a 10 page essay to describe louis tbh i see him as someone who’s so full of /life/ like ofc he’s a celeb and you should keep in mind that we don’t know him personally but this is someone ive “seen grow up” for 7 years now, his personality is so vibrant, i see a pic of him smiling and just automatically have to smile like :’) he carries this aura around him which is so calming to me i cant even explain it gives me inner peace like ~few relax, he cares cares cares so much it’s incredible how much love he can fit in his tiny body, he’s fiercely protective, open to everyone welcoming yet closed off and careful in a smart way, hes quirky, funny and uplifting, and an absolute sunshine when he’s his happy self, like when you spend 30 mins of your time looking “deeper” than what the public gets to see what he’s gone/still goes through is just awful yet he manages to always think of others before himself he turns his own heartbreaks into something others can find strength in, he lets his songs tell his story, he saves lives, i see so many comments of people saying how he literally saved their life, he’s brave he’s /good/ he’s genuinely a good person he gives without asking anything back and cares for others when he feels sad and asks them not to mention anything to the public bc he could care less about publicity or needing a pat on the shoulder for it, he donated literal millions on charity, he notices, he’s the first to notice when people are uncomfortable and tries to make them feel at ease by making jokes and lifting the mood, he’s humble, always appreciative and thankful, he’s just…. genuinely a good person with a heart of gold, it’s interesting that you said ‘insecure’ because yes his confidence dropped immensely over the years and it had everything to do with how he was treated by the label and everyone around,some “fans” even, but he finds confidence from his fans and we find strength from him, it’s a real teamwork♥️

anonymous asked:

There you go with the 'brain' thing again. So people who don't agree with you are stupid? 😒You may have a brain and eyes but it sounds like you're lacking in relationship experience. Seeing celebrity relationships through the lens of fandoms doesn't make you an expert in real life couples.

Why are you so bothered by my opinion anon? Why does what I think matter to you so much? I don’t think anyone is stupid, but I don’t need to know Sam and Cait personally to see what it is between them. I also don’t need to have any relationship experience either. It’s clear as day. If you disagree that’s perfectly fine. You sound quite hostile though. Am I holding a gun to your head and forcing you to read my blog?

There’s a picture of me 

That I keep in my wallet

It’s a reminder of innocence

And all the things that I’ve lost

It’s a picture of hope

A picture of the day

When I traded dreams for practicality

It’s a picture of youth

It’s a picture before I grew too old too fast

It’s a picture before I became jaded

A picture before I became lost

A picture of me in love

A picture before reality came crashing in

A picture before I knew what bad days looked like

A picture before I knew real heartache

A picture before I knew betrayal

The last picture before I died

Because she isn’t me anymore

And I miss her

And this is my love letter to myself

To say that I’m sorry

To say that I will raise a glass to her memory

And that I believe in life after death

- Picture of Me, © Maddy Rain 2017 (via MoxitheFox)

anonymous asked:

lol Sony still with the Larrie queerbaiting? A video that keeps Larries wallets open because they give you stuff to 'analyze '. Meanwhile real life continues to happen. 💵💸💷💰

Looking at the Larry section of a fan-made book, Helsinki, 27 June 2015 :

“Money!” says Louis

Many fans are spending money because they’re FANS—of Niall, Liam, Louis, Harry, Zayn. It has nothing to do with Louis and Harry as a couple. I don’t see why they’d need to queerbait us. To what purpose? Like they need money?

And if, by real life, you’re referring to life outside of Tumblr, I am very much engaged in raising my four children in the midst of a divorce. Analyzing JLY has been an absorbing project that’s challenged my brain tremendously. It’s a fabulous piece of art. Thank you, Louis.

it makes me So Uncomfortable knowing that people talk about me n what im doing w my life when im not there i cant believe i exist to ppl even when they’re not looking at me…. i also dont see why my mom has to spend 30 minutes talking to her sister in law about what wallpaper im getting or how i dont want curtains like why is that interesting to them why do they feel the need to do that i hate it

11 Questions

I was tagged by @mikeysgoodgirl. Let’s do this. (Also thanks for the tag babe ✨)


1. Post the rules

2. Answer the questions given to you by the tagger

3. Write 11 questions of your own

4. And tag 11 people

Their questions:

1. Do you prefer reading fanfics or “real” books?

Probably fanfics bc you can relate a little more to the other fans writing it :“)

2. All time favorite song?

There’s too many, but Nightmares by All Time Low has been my favorite for quite some time

3. What’s your best pickup line?

What’s wrong with your back? I thought angels were supposed to have wings…

4. The thing you miss most from your childhood?

Not having to worry about money or things like that tbh

5. What is your biggest life goal?

To be able to help make people happy in some way

6. If you could move anywhere in the world where would it be? Why?

Probably Spain. It’s a big change from where I live now and would love to always be in such an amazing place

7. First album you bought?

Last Young Renegade by All Time Low

8. What was your last Google search?

Literally just "memes”

9. Something that can always lift your mood?

Watching any sort of video by anyone I love

10. Have you ever met someone famous?

Yes, a soccer player :“)

11. If you could choose to see your future, would you?

Probably not. I rather just live normally and take things as they come.

My questions:

1. What is your favorite article of clothing you own or have owned?

2. What fictional place would you like to visit?

3. What takes up too much of your time?

4. If you could ask a celebrity for any type of advice or help, who would it be?

5. What is your favorite drink?

6. Who’s your go to band or artist when you can’t decide on something specific to listen to?

7. What can you not live without?

8. What is the strangest thing you have ever come across?

9. What is one of your favorite smells?

10. How would you title an autobiography if you were to write one?

11. What’s the best thing about you, in your opinion?

I tag:

@lovingluke | @frickyouralmonds | @getsosd | @jamiestrashcan | @fangirling-about-5sos | @stillstreetjoshua | @philester | @arrowrose23 | @taylorlahey1316 @ anyone else who wants to do this bc i dont know who else to tag whoops.

Also, I hope you don’t mind me tagging you :”)

anonymous asked:

Oof I read your recent posts and i am here to tell you that you shouldn't overwork yourself if you don't want to but I'm only assuming- so :p I really love your art work though and I hope you continue what youre doing artpai! -some random

oh I never overwork myself. I just have so many ideas I wanna do and sometimes (all the time) I don’t get to them bUT EVENTUALLY!!!!!!! If I ever lose motivation it’s more like real life taking a toll on me and I’m just like -stares at blank canvas- hah wow this is my BEST PIECE EVER!!! 

and then I just set it aside for a while and binge watch animatics with my wife and then I’m p good to go again (like now at 1:03AM) – 


Yoga is hard as fuck..

On god, i have newfound respect for fucking yoga, yall might think this shit easy. No, this shit harder than a mf, see i aint no mf flexible nigga but i still went and tried it cause i taught it would be a solution for my tensed ass muscles to relax a lil, i walked in the room and looked around noticing chubby little women and some real skinny niggas, i noticed that i was by far the swolest mf in the class like i could take any one of these fools in a fight, i taught to myself this shit would be a breeze and i was dead wrong.. immediatly after doing the first stretch i realized i had fucked up and then shit got real,what followed was the most intense hour and fifteen minutes of my life, the instructor asked us to do this pose where you put one knee on the ground your two elbows on the ground and the other leg bent at 90 degrees then afterwards you roll your foot to the side and drop the other knee down on the ground. I had to enter the 4th fucking dimention to prevent myself from ripping my ass that’s how focused i was, that shit was impossible, i was already struggling trough the whole session while exerting 110% concentrion to hold this mf pose even when i wasn’t doing well to begin with. I looked around the class and saw everybody doing this shit flawlessly with a smile on their face like this shit was a routine to them but anyways after i died and came back to earth for the 7th time the class was over and i got to wobble home. Morale of the story: get you a girl that does yoga..

My friend asked me my thoughts on the album and I told her I’m obsessed with it because it’s all about love and sex and drinking and learning to embrace life in love and the sound is so edgy and then she was asked me if that was the consensus of the Taylor swift online community or if there was disagreements and I started laughing like how cute is that?!? She really wanted to know about what our little community thought even though she’s not a fan all because I’m her friend. Like I’m in love with my friends for being so supportive of my crazy obsession with Taylor Swift and our community. Like they’re not full fans or anything but they accept and love me enough to like listen and get excited with me about Tay! Like I’m just so blessed and never thought I would be surrounded with such amazing supportive people.

anonymous asked:

I'm confused. If your name isn't Takara or Phoenix then what is it?


Now I’m confused.

You can’t tell me you… use your real name in your usernames? ôô I’ve literally never met someone who does that… *blinks doe-eyed*

And. Uh. Yeah, no, sorry, but I’m not just randomly posting my real name. ^^° I do like to keep my fandom life on here separate from my real life. Not to mention I really fucking hate my first name, which is literally why I enjoy the fact that *I* get to pick my own username. ;)

anonymous asked:

Have you ever met dacre in real life? Do you know what he's like?

I have not although I would love to! And just from my point of view, he seems like a very down to earth guy who puts himself into every role and is very passionate about what he does.

- Ana

anonymous asked:

What motivates you to keep moving forward?

my cat i guess idk probably my girlfriend too (my girlfriend comes first tho im jk) personally I just don’t see the point in wallowing and feeling sorry for myself it doesn’t do anything good and life + the real world still go on if I like it or not. Idk I hate people that complain but don’t do anything to help themselves out so ;A;

I love deep talks. Like, hell yeah, tell me about why you’d prefer to talk to your mom rather than your dad. Tell me about your favourite lyrics in the songs you listen to everyday and why they’re your favourite. Tell me about the dog you had when you were growing up and how he was your best friend. Tell me about what kind of books you like to read when you’re alone in your room. Tell me about the things you think about right before you fall asleep. Tell me anything and everything.