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The Doctor’s & Clara’s romance

I’ve made a little compilation of all the notable Whouffle and Whouffaldi moments over the seasons, along with my thoughts and theories:

Their relationship was set up as romance right from the very beginning with these words, because it becomes obvious right away that Clara might be romantically interested in the Doctor by hinting at future snogging. I don’t believe that she immediately jumped him, but she let him know from the beginning that she wasn’t uninterested. 

Let’s jump to “The Crimson Horror” where Eleven and Clara pose as husband and wife and they both convinced Mrs Gilliflower, a woman who is anything but stupid. In fact, they both seem to enjoy it, too.

I always like to believe that the end of “Nightmare in Silver” is the moment Eleven realizes that he fancies Clara because he notices her on a physical level. Besides, the conversation Mr Clever had with Clara in which “the Doctor” confesses his love to Clara is probably based on the Doctor’s own thoughts to which Mr Clever had access at that moment, but Clara saw through it and knew that the Doctor would never admit it.

When Clara suggests that she needs a boyfriend for Christmas dinner Eleven was excited. He actually believed that she was serious for a moment and he was more than happy to be her boyfriend, yet at the same time he was a bit worried that he might disappoint Clara. It was Eleven who was disappointed when he realized that Clara wasn’t actually serious.

Unfortunately they never really got to explore that part of their relationship because he got stranded on Trenzalore and later regenerated.

Matt Smith has confirmed that Clara was sort of his girlfriend while Jenna said in an interview or during a panel that Clara realized she was in love with him during the regeneration.


The rest is under a cut because it’s long:

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anonymous asked:

please DO elaborate...... 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

From my tododeku hc post:

they’re soft and sweet in their first year, ridiculously hot and heavy in their second, and by third year, they are down right steady and known across UA as being “the strongest powercouple of the generation” (it is kind of embarrassing when people say that but they secretly love it)

Ok, so what I mean by all this is as follows:

First year: In my mind, they wouldn’t start actually dating till their first year is nearly over but ANYWAYS, when they do start dating, it’s really little things like ice cream dates after school. It’s hooking pinkys underneath the lunch table when they sit next to each other and blushing about it. It’s soft hand kisses when they part ways after school to walk home. It’s coming home with the dreamy-ist smiles on their faces. It’s the way todoroki blushes slightly and smiling softly when he talks to Momo about how his date with Deku was. It’s the way Deku’s face lights up when he talks about Todoroki to Iida and Uraraka. It’s holding hands when they think nobody can see. It’s when one catches the other staring at them from across the classroom and they both blush like crazy, Deku hiding his face in his hands. You know, pure and wholesome shit like that

Second year: At this point, they are way comfortable in their relationship and it’s less fluttery nerves and more hormone driven want. I’m basically working off the “horny high school boys” trope bc im so weak for that but you know how it goes. It just starts with them being more open about the fact that their dating and so they’re less nervous about PDA. They hold hands A LOT. They’ll hang off of each other (cue the “Todoroki holding deku by the hips” headcanon). One day in homeroom, they not-so-subtly end up sitting next to each  other even though they know they have assigned seats. Aizawa comes in and looks over the class like he does and he doesn’t say anything but he’s rolling his eyes. So, as you can imagine, this all develops into them being way more touchy than last year. Everyone can tell. Deku brings Todoroki home to meet his mom and have dinner (Deku’s mom is thrilled her son is so happy but that’s all matters for a different post).

 Their kisses evolve to the point where they’re getting at some deeper feeling than before and all they want to do is explore that feeling. Because it feels damn good. So before you know it, they’re stumbling into homeroom a few minutes late with ruffled hair and red faces bc yeah maybe they were making out behind a building and lost track of time, ok? They do stop being late for class but there’s rarely a moment after class that their hands aren’t all over each other.

There’s also the matter of the rival tension that’s inevitably between them. At first Deku is terrified that it’ll wreck their relationship but it sort of does the opposite… they figure out that it’s kind of a turn on…. Cue the sports festival and an avalanche of sexual tension. The entirety of both classes A and B end up having to oggle at it for the whole event because it’s very rare that they are put on the same teams. At nearly every break between events and such, Todoroki has Deku up against a wall kissing him crazy, the adrenaline of the games mixing with the hormonal haze that drives them together like magnets. He does have to let Deku be though as the one on one fights start because he knows how much Deku likes to take analysis notes. Without speculating on year 2 sports festival results, I think I’ll leave this here ^^ 

So, the year rolls on. There’s probably a class trip that’s at least semi-relaxing, maybe?? things get steamy ofc wtf else are class tips for.

 Terushima and other classmates start prying with little shame, asking if they’ve done it yet, had sex. Deku is slightly scandalized. Todoroki just rolls his eyes. Neither of them say so, but yes they have done the deed but just once, at Todoroki’s house one weekend when no one was home. They were under the guise of a train/study weekend, which wasn’t a lie… they just happened to also have sex as well…

so yeah, you get the gist of 2nd year ;)

Third year: By now, most of UA knows they’re boyfriends. At the very least they know that if you get pitted against either one of them for whatever reason, You’re probably fucked and if you were to go against them as a pair, well, you’re really fucked. They’re dead serious about their hero careers. They’re also dead serious about each other. Freshman and their own classmates alike look up to them as #relationshipgoals

They are way less distracted by each other than the previous year, buckling down on studying and training and more studying. They’re still stupidly in love, obviously but it isn’t all shiny, new urges so it’s less “oh my god what is this feeling?? i want more of it right now” and more “God, I can’t wait till this training exercise is over so I can flirt with my boyfriend”

Oh also, they LIVE for bragging about each other, ok. Even to people they already know like, I can imagine Deku getting first place in the sports festival that year and Todoroki doesn’t shut up about it for weeks. Class A turns into that meme of “I love–” “Yes, we know, you love Deku. You are in love with Izuku Midoriya who won the third year Sports Festival competition. you love him, Deku, the next symbol of peace among humanity, we get it…” and it’s beautiful. Deku is the exact same way, btw. Basically I see them walking though halls, holding hands and standing tall and everyone’s heads turn to watch them as they go by :’)

This post is almost 1k words so if you read all of it, i love u. let me know what u think

anonymous asked:

More Langst thoughts! So, what if the team forgets Lance's birthday because of something else (bonus points if it's someone else's birthday coming up and everyone prepares for that instead)? Lance, dejected, would spend his birthday all depressed and especially homesick holed up in his blue lion, and no one would even realise until towards the end of the day.

ist keiths birthday

Okay but lets take it a step further, that when they realize they feel like dicks and are extremely mad at themselves, especially Hunk, because Hunk is his best friend and he should have remembered Lance’s birthday. So he makes Lance the alien equivalent too Tres leches cake, and sketches out a picture of what he remembers Lance’s family looks like. Everyone else is kind of panicking because oh no, what to get Lance. Pidge makes a 10 free hugs card because Hunk once mentioned that that was something his little siblings do. Allura gets him space makeup, because you know that boy was a god when he did her makeup that one time. Coran gets Lance an alien object that basically goes into your memories and makes a picture out of the one you chose. Shiro gets him a type of space face mask. And Keith spends almost all night working on this stuffed plushy of Blue. Its wonky and crooked and bad but Kieth is so proud that he did it. 

So when lance comes out of the closet of blue, hes greeted by all these things, and its wonderful, and he cries, and he hugs them all. 

mezopotato  asked:

How do you deal with being misgendered outside of the internet. Sa pinas ka so i can imagine na it happens frequently but then again you're very young and no offense (like legit i dont mean to offend u if i do) but your world is still very small at your age. (Absolutely do not mean to be age-ist, im only like 5 years older than u). And how about ur family? (Im thinking based from my experience and i never really involved my family in my inner world [sexuality and such])

well the languages here don’t have any gender specific pronouns :0 which is gr8 

but if they speak in english or call me by gender specific things im kind of just used to it irl idk ksjdsdghjf

it bothers me but what can ya do  ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

DAS VS. DASS

Distinguishing between ‘das’ and 'dass’ is one of the hardest challenges when learning German, and it’s hard even for us native speakers! It’s especially difficult for learners whose native language is English in my opinion, because both usually simply mean 'that’. However, not exactly the same kind of 'that’. In this post I’ll try to show you how to distinguish these two by showing you what I usually do when having to choose between 'das’ and 'dass’.


'Das’

Article
“Das Haus ist gross” “Er geht, das Mädchen folgt ihm”
In these cases, 'das’ is used as an article, however, it can seem a bit tricky after a comma. But when you can match the 'das’ as an article to a noun, always write it with one s.

demonstrative pronoun
“Das ist gar nicht gut” “Sie sagte, das sei normal”
In these cases, 'das’ is a pronoun and the subject of a sentence, so 'das’ can replace a noun and acts on its own. You can always check whether it is a demonstrative pronoun by asking (let’s take the first sentence as an example) “wer/was ist gar nicht gut?” “DAS ist gar nicht gut”. This one is the hardest to spot for me actually but after a while (and after refreshing German pronouns) it gets a lot easier.

relative pronoun
“Das Haus, das einen grossen Garten hat” “Das Kind, das den Nachbaren gebissen hat”
Here 'das’ refers to an object/the subject in the  previous sentence part, in the examples above to “Das Haus” and “Das Kind”. You can check that by substituting 'das’ by 'welches’ i.e. instead of “Das Kind, das den Nachbarn gebissen hat” “Das Kind, welches den Nachbarn gebissen hat”, if that works then you’re dealing with a relative pronoun which is very similar to the English version: “The child who/that has bitten the neighbour”


'Dass’

Conjunction
“Es geht nicht, dass er sie so behandelt” “Dass du mir nicht vertraust, verletzt mich”
'Dass’ is only used in one instance; to link different parts of sentences, so it’s similar to words like 'und’ and 'oder’ but unlike those to which link two main clauses, 'dass’ always links a main clause with an subordinate clause, so unlike 'das’ it does never depend on a noun. Unlike i.e. a relative pronoun, 'dass’ can be shifted within the sentence as a whole, although it always stands at the beginning of the subordinate clause.

Whenever I need to choose between 'das’ and 'dass’ in an essay or such, I try to first go through all the possibilities including a noun (article, relative pronoun, demonstrative pronoun) and if none of these can be applied, I am only left with 'dass’.

And tada: that’s how I try to not get confused with 'das’ and 'dass’, however, I am sure that there are other methods as well which are super helpful :^)

Have a nice weekend, everyone!

anonymous asked:

Did you ever have bottom shame when you started having sex? If yes then how did you get over it

I had to read several websites to even figure out what that means. I’m assuming it means being ashamed of being a bottom cause that’s the “girly” part of being gay? I know on here, I say it loud and proud but that’s not something I go out of my way to admit in real life. Like, you know how on Grindr now, you can put what position you are? I just keep it blank cause I still feel like, if a guy sees it, he’s gonna be like, “Oh, what a lady man.” Not necessarily because I bottom, but because I “advertise” that I’m a bottom. Even on here, people have been like, “You’re way more feminine than I thought you were, slopabottomus” whenever I started being more open about my sex life or lack thereof. I guess it’s just the stigma of it all which literally makes no sense cause like, obviously if you’re the top, you’re gonna need a bottom at some point. Regardless, though, I guess I’m not really over it. I only started out bottoming cause the first few guys I dated, didn’t/wouldn’t. Because I didn’t really care either way, I just got into it and enjoyed it. When it came to a point where the other guy was the bottom-er-ist, I was like, “Ight, it’s my time to shine.” But then, sweat was like beading down my forehead, it didn’t feel HALF as good as my own hand, and because of that, literally hours went by and I wasn’t even kind of close. It. Was. Ex. Haus. Ting. And it wasn’t the guy at all. I just wasn’t into my part of the job. 

Hopefully, that’s what that even means. Otherwise, this whole thing was pointless. Lol Correct me if I’m wrong, please! 

anonymous asked:

Status für einfach kontaktabbruch ohne Grund aber man die Person trotzdem noch liebt

“What hurts is that we never really said goodbye. We just kind of ended.”

“Du darfst niemals an jemanden hängen. Denn irgendwann verpissen sich alle, egal ob sie dir was versprochen haben oder nicht.”

Ich bin einfach keine Person, um die man kämpft und die man nicht verlieren will.

Das schlimmste was du einer Frau antun kannst ist ihr Hoffnung zu machen, sie dann zu ignorieren und sie dann stehen lässt mit all ihren Sehnsüchten und Hoffnungen

“Du weißt nicht, wie viel fehlt, wenn du fehlst.”

anonymous asked:

Okay so I take German in school and I've had like 7 different teachers over 3 years and they've all sucked Could you make a list with important words that are frequently used and different phrases? Ilu

Of course I can! I don’t know which kind of phrases you really need for your lessons but I’ll just list some which are always quite helpful. (both formal and colloquial)

talking with someone:

How are you? - Wie geht es dir?
I’m fine, thanks. - Mir geht es gut, danke.
You’re welcome. - Gern geschehen.
See you later. - Bis später.
What’s new? - Was gibt’s (short form for gibt es) Neues?
What do you do for a living? - Was bist du von Beruf?/Was ist dein Beruf?
Nice to meet you. - Nett, dich kennen zu lernen.
Where are you from? - Wo kommst du her?
Do you speak…? - Sprichst du…?

phrases for writing an essay, having a discussion, etc.

In my opinion - Meiner Meinung nach
On the one hand, on the other hand - Einerseits, andererseits
You’re right. - Du hast recht.
I don’t think so. - So denke ich nicht.
May I interrupt you? - Darf ich dich unterbrechen?
I agree with you./I don’t agree with you. - Ich stimme dir (nicht) zu.
Do you really think so? - Denkst du das wirklich?
I see where you are coming from. - Ich kann deine Meinung nachvollziehen, aber…


asking for help, giving advice, ect.:

Where is the…? - Wo ist der/die/das…?
I’m lost. - Ich habe mich verlaufen.
Can I help you? Can you help me? - Kann ich dir/Ihnen helfen? Kannst du/Können Sie mir helfen?
I’m looking for… - Ich suche…
One moment please! - Einen Moment, bitte.
Excuse me,… - Entschuldigen Sie,…

other German expressions:

Cheers! - Prost.
Here you go! (when giving something to someone) - Bitte schön.
Don’t worry. - Keine Sorge.
Hurry up! - Beeile dich.
What time is it? - Wie spät ist es?
Why didn’t I think of that? - Wieso ist mir das nicht eingefallen?
Enjoy the meal. - Guten Appetit.
Get lost! - Verschwinde!/ Hau ab (informal)
Leave me alone. - Lass mich in Ruhe.


teenage words/phrases/insults (I’m sure you’ll need them when you travel to Germany, some guys here are just UGH) ((they are all very informal so maybe don’t use them when talking to your teacher lmao))

Fuck off. - Verpiss dich.
Are you kidding me? - Willst du mich verarschen?
Dear lord/Oh my god - Oh mein Gott, Himmelherrgott…or what you can also say: Ach du Scheiße.
(I don’t know the fitting English translation for the following words but you use them when you are surprised, don’t believe what’s going on, etc… but also when you think something’s really cool) - Abgefahren!, Krass!, Mega!
asshole - Arschloch
motherfucker - Wichser

idioms:

to beat around the bush - um den heißen Brei herumreden
You can bet your life on that. - Da kannst du Gift drauf nehmen.
to make a fool of oneself - sich zum Affen machen
to kill two birds with one stone - zwei Fliegen mit einer Klappe schlagen
to move heaven and earth - Himmel und Hölle in Bewegung setzen
to be oblivious to what is going around you - Tomaten auf den Augen haben
It’s all Greek to me. (I LOVE this English idiom!) - Ich verstehe nur Bahnhof.
to butter someone up - jemanden Honig um den Mund schmieren
to cross your fingers - Daumen drücken
My goodness! - Mein lieber Herr Gesangsverein. (This German idiom is A+)
I think I’m going crazy. - Ich glaube, ich spinne.


I hope this helps you!!! Good luck with learning German, you can always come to me if you have any questions! ✨

Ich habe der Mannschaft gesagt, dass es mir leid tut, dass ihre Leistung gegen Hoffenheim medial nicht stattfand.Das ganze hat auf jeden Fall einen Einfluss auf die Mannschaft. Vor allem da sogar Spieler durch anonyme Zitate da mit reingezogen werden. Anonyme Kritik ist die unterste Schublade der Berichterstattung. Und wer weiß, ob es überhaupt gesagt wurde. Aber bislang haben wir es immer geschafft, Leistung zu bringen. Zwischen mir und der Mannschaft gilt absolutes Vertrauen - sonst wären die Leistungen nicht möglich
— 

Thomas Tuchel pk 12.05.17


I told the team that I’m sorry their efforts against Hoffenheim were completely disregarded. Of course this had an impact on the preparation for Augsburg. Even players were dragged into the dirt due to anonymous quotes.It’s the worst kind of journalism that players - allegedly - criticised me. Who knows what all that even said? But despite all we still manage to perform good.  There is absolute trust between me and the team. Otherwise such performances wouldn’t be possible. 

Fake Feminist Guys

I’m gonna start this off by relating a story from a few years ago. I had an altercation at my regular bar with another regular who berated me at length for making a joke about the first Harry Potter movie.  He shouted at me to take back my mockery of it because it was by “objective” standards the “best” Harry Potter film.  He kept making up statistics (I know he was making them up because I kept double-checking them on my phone) and telling me things that I know were not true because I had a) read the books b) seen the movies and c) went to film school.

At one point, he called me “young lady” and I told him I felt like he was being condescending toward me because I’m a girl.  At which point he said “don’t you dare bring sexism into this.  If you were a man, I wouldn’t even be talking to you.”

His shouting was getting extremely aggressive and bordering on violent and I told him to leave or stop shouting at me, and he didn’t, and I warned him calmly that if he didn’t stop shouting at me, I was going to dump my water on his head.  He didn’t stop shouting at me, so I dumped  my water on his head.

He physically threatened me, and got banned from the bar.  

That story went down in bar history and became legend.  I walked into the bar once to hear one of my friends telling the story– a friend who hadn’t been there.  He ended the story with “And that’s why you don’t fuck with Hermione.” 

It was one of my proudest moments, and I am pretty sure that’s what I want inscribed on my tombstone.

This weekend at Special Edition: NYC, allofthefeelings and I waited on line (I’m from NYC, we say ‘on line,’ ‘in line’ is for skates, people) to meet brianmichaelbendis.  It was a really long line (we waited almost two hours), but was mostly full of really great people.  We ended up talking at length with a really young black man who was standing behind us about  his experience as a newcomer to comics– he’s only been reading comics for about a year and got in through Thor– and then started talking about intersectional representation issues in comics, and he talked about his experience with different white writers writing race and we talked about male writers writing women and he talked about his own experiences trying to be a good feminist ally and it was a pretty awesome conversation to have with someone who was JUST getting his feet wet in comics.  Then we started talking to the white guy in front of us about queer stuff in comics and Black Widow and Iron Man, and that was pretty fantastic, too.

But then these other two white men overheard our conversation with the guy in front of us and kind of not only busted in front of the two black guys who had been sitting behind us, but interjected themselves into our conversation.  One of them was fine and pleasant.  But the other one, well–

He asked allofthefeelings what her favorite Iron Man movie was.  She responded by saying it was Iron Man II, and explained that she liked it because it has two significant female characters with very different story arcs, personalities, and motivations that exist outside of the male lead’s motivations.

His friend was like “that’s cool, hey, as long as you have a reasoning you can articulate.”  But he started trying to tell her that that was flawed reasoning because it wasn’t based in any kind of “objective” scale like “quality filmmaking.” 

The entire time he did this, he kept saying he didn’t want to offend her, but WOULDN’T she rank them differently if she was ranking “objectively.”

So I jumped in and pointed out that there’s still no objectivity in a  ranking determined by “quality” because everyone’s ideas about what makes a quality film are different.  I said that I’ve made films, and he interrupted me to say “Well, I went to film school!  And I think–”

And at that point, I cautioned him by saying that he should keep in mind that he was following a pattern many men take in debates with women, where they change the scale of judgment to get a woman to agree with them, and that they often purport that their scale is “more objective” or “more logical.”

He insisted he “wasn’t trying to be sexist.”  So I said I knew he wasn’t trying to be, but he should keep in mind and be careful in discussions about trying to ascribe a higher order to his way of organizing things than the way someone else organizes things, and to not demand people use his scale when he’s asking for subjective opinions, especially when he is talking with women because it is a tactic that has been historically used to silence women.

So then he started trying to argue that he wasn’t doing that. 

At this point, his friend, the other white guy, and the two black guys were ALL trying to get him to shut up and he wasn’t taking the hint. 

The white guy who had been standing in front of us (the cool one) said “well, if we’re just going to talk strictly about quality of filmmaking, are we all in agreement that Winter Soldier is the best Marvel movie?”

And there were a couple nods, and a couple “eh, maybe Avengers,” but Our Hero said “Ugh, no, what?”

And we asked him why he didn’t think so, now assuming he was going to talk about story arc or camerawork or some of the geographic problems DC residents have pointed out about the logistics of the film, or compare it to Avengers or maybe Guardians of the Galaxy.

Nope.  His reason why it wasn’t a “technically good” movie?

It was fascist.  So then we started arguing with him about the political motivations of the film– I personally disagree about how he sees the political philosophy of the film presented, that’s not really the point of this post– the point is that as soon as he disliked something, it was for its message, not for the “objective quality” that he demanded allofthefeelings used to judge the films.  Which I pointed out to him and he basically brushed off.

Anyway, at that point, he completely misrepresented the entire comics history of Captain America in one fell swoop by saying that Captain America represents the American Government.  And that was when I was like “no he doesn’t; he has a ton of personal objections to the US government, what about all the times he tried to quit?”  

And that was when I realized he had never read the comics. 

So then, this beautiful thing happened where the woman staffing the event interrupted and the two of us started schooling this dude on the history of Captain America from his resurrection in the 1960s on, and…then it was time for us to go talk to brianmichaelbendis which was AMAZING because we went from talking to this dude to talking to someone I deeply admire who spoke to us at surprising length about his efforts to write diverse comics and his acknowledgment that he doesn’t always get it right but that he tries to improve, and that he cares deeply about his readers’ opinions about representation in comics. So that made me feel much better about the world.

So then, later, Our Hero came back up to us, apologized, told us again that he “wasn’t trying to be sexist,” and then asked us what he could do better.  Which was great and I want to give him the benefit of the doubt but we definitely got this feeling that he was doing it for a personal feeling of absolution rather than because he actually cared to change, that he needed to get our blessing so he could keep calling himself an ally or something, because he’d spent the entire conversation shifting tactics in an effort to get us to agree with him, as if our approval for him to have his opinions somehow gave him a pass.

Anyway.  PEOPLE.  Especially dudes.  Remember that there is no objective measurement of “quality.”  There are ways to determine if something is a success quantitatively, like net earnings, or scores on review sites, but everyone is allowed to have their own qualitative determinations.   EVEN if you are talking about technical specifications, different people’s ideas about what is technically better are going to be subjective. This is a thing that men habitually do to try to discount the opinions of women who might have a different scale by which they measure what they enjoy. 

This goes back to the ongoing debates we see about enjoying problematic work.  Some people can, and that’s great for them.  Some people can’t, and demanding that they do isn’t okay.  Just because you can watch something and acknowledge that it’s racist or sexist or some other -ist or -phobic while appreciating the skill of the artist doesn’t mean that they have to watch something that bothers them.  And some people can ignore some kinds of problems but not others– some people might be able to deal with sexism but not racism, some people might be able to deal with racism but not ableism.  Some people might be able to deal with ableism on a Tuesday but not on a Friday.  Some people might be able to deal with racism but not sexualized racism.  And two different people might have different opinions about whether something is transphobic or antisemitic, while both being trans and/or Jewish. And they don’t need to apologize.  And they are 100% permitted to like something that has better representation because it has better representation and are not expected to change their mind when you shift your goalposts because you need to prove that you are right or need to prove you aren’t sexist when you are actually being a sexist douchebag

Everyone gets their own rubric.  If you judge on a different rubric, that’s cool, but forcing other people to judge on your rubric or acknowledge that your rubric is better because it ignores social issues is wrong, and the idea that ignoring social issues is somehow more objective is wrong.  Especially when you are incapable of holding yourself to that same standard. 

And also, you don’t fuck with Hermione or Natasha Romanoff. 

11 Questions tag

I got tagged by the sweet @lthyl​ (THANK YOUUUUU!) for this, that’s a very funny one! 

Rules: answer the questions given to you by the tagger, and write 11 questions of your own. then tag 11 people!


  • what superpower would you like to have?

I have like this deep wish since I’m a kid: to be able to summon a dead person and talk with them about theories or to borrow them their intelligence. Like, I would die to talk with Einstein, Beethoven, Nietzsche, or anyone not famous ! To be able to use their intelligence to understand the world in another way, you know? That’s a weird thing, no? 

  • chose a super hero (or heroine) you relate the most to.

I don’t relate to a lot of super hero.es.ines, more to vilains… Hero.es.ines tend to be stuck in a moral world with the good and the bad things. I feel closer to the Joker. I rarely take things seriously and spend most of my time thinking society moral is a burden. Vilains seems more free, even if they tend to be locked into patterns because of dark pasts… There’s something more pure about vilains in my opinion (like the Joker!). But now that I’m thinking about it, maybe a anti hero like the Bourbon Kid would do. 

  • if you could have the name of a flower, what would it be?

Narcisseae! From the flower itself, the name, to the myth, I just love it! 

  • describe the last dream you had (this is gonna be fun eheh)

Ehhhhhhhh… I can’t remember the last one clearly (last one was was with Yoongi.I’m pretty sure I was cheating on my ex with him… And that’s really exciting!). 

But I often have one, where I’m at my mother place, in the garden and there is a fence in the back of the garden that no one shall cross because there’s a beast (black panther, or something like this) living here and attacking everyone. Of course, I’m at the fence too scared to cross, and I see my sister, on the other side of the fence, running happily, I scream for her to come back because the beast is lurking (i can’t see it but I know it) and she just don’t hear me because she’s too far, so I end up going on the other side to pick her up and that’s when the beast appears, running to me, ignoting my sister, coming out for me! I love this nightmare, even if it always makes me afraid, I don’t know why but I love it. 

  • which are your top 5 movies right now?

THAT’S TOO HARD, I LOVE SO MANY MOVIES (I watch at least one each day, if not more!)

- Elle by Paul Verhoeven, that’s a strange one honestly psychologic thriller French and Dutch.

- Interstellar by Christopher Nolan, honestly because of Matthew McConaughey (and goddammit this voice of his!)

- In the Mood For Love & 2046 by Wong Kar Wai (Those are two, but it’s a combo, the first one is my favourite, those are the only love story in movie I like deeply…)

- Time of Kim Ki Duk, GREAT ONE! 

- O’Brother by Ethan & Joel Cohen, don’t ask just watch it! 

  • do you read manga/watch anime? Any rec?

I read a lot of mangas, but don’t watch animes! My rec: 

- Homunculus by Hideo Yamamoto ;  I find it very deep…  “ Trepanation is the procedure of drilling a hole in the skull. It is said to increase the blood circulation and improve pressure inside the skull. It is also said to bring out a person’s sixth sense, the ability to use ESP, see ghosts, move objects with one’s mind.”

- Basilisk by Masaki Segawa ;  The story takes place in the year 1614. Two ninja clans, Tsubagakure of the Iga and Manjidani of Kouga, battle each other to determine which grandson of Tokugawa Ieyasu will become the next shogun. The deadly competition between 10 elite ninja from each clan unleashes a centuries-old hatred that threatens to destroy all hope for peace between them.

- Lesson Of The Evil by Eiji Karasuyama & Yûsuke Kishi ; made after the movie of the same name (must watch because Hideaki Itô is sexy as HELL) it tells the story of a teacher who’s a sociopath and… Well he does what sociopath are good at. 

- A Girl On The Shore by Inio Asano; erotic one and very touching! It is about the two junior high school students who enter into a casual sex relationship.

  • what’s your favorite thing about/in your room?

I love my room. Every single part of it. From the colorful tinsels, to the old world map, to the books sitting everywhere, the old silky couch, the erotic pictures, the old posters, the mosquito net over the bed (very princess like, I know!) and the constellations I made with phosphorescent stars. It’s dark and comfy.

  • if you could have only a single kind of drink for the rest of your life, what would that be?

I don’t think I’ll survive this honestly… I want to be able to drink everything. I don’t like restrictions… But mint tea or coffee. Or plain water. Or coke, I can’t deciiiiiide! But if I had to take one last drink before I’ll die: Jack Daniels. 

  • do you play any instrument?

No, I’m to lazy to learn. And I find it quite boring. I love listening not playing. 

  • favorite weather?

A light rain and south wind on a not too hot day. 

  • (and the most important of them all) team Ironman or team Captain America?

TCH! IRONMAN! (I kinda hate Captain America so that’s an easy one!)



My questions to @lonely-kitten-named-bambi @jnghobi @oppamansae @rapmonluv @bebitojoonie 

1. You’re on a island with an idol: who ist it? And what is the first thing you tell him/her?

2. You have three last word to say to someone, then you die, what will they be (don’t tell us who it’s adress to unless you really want to)? 

3. You accidently drink a strange cocktail in an underground bar and become a man, what is the first thing you do? (hehe)

4. You’re locked in a basement with a vampire, a werewolf, an ancient god and a demon, they all offer to turn you into one of their kind, what do you pick? 

5. You are given the chance to change one thing in your life, what is it? 

6. A strange man or woman comes to you and offer you one thing amongst : 5000$ cash, an invite to a party where all your bias and bias wrecker will be, a job in any country you want, an immortal pet (like a leopard or lion or wolf, you decide!) to which you’ll be mentally connected to or a very old book with strange writting in it. What do you pick, why? 

7. What is your favourite thing in your life? 

8. You find a Death Note, and L calls you (or, is it Light? you can’t be too sure!) asking you to give it to him, what will you do?

9. You come back to your place and find out that there’s been a robbery, what is the first thing you’re looking for?

10. Oops, there’s a breach in the fourth dimension (time) you are attracted in it. It will have terrible consequences so God let you decide where (when) you’ll end up. What period would you like to go to? 

11. You have the worst day of your life. You can’t sleep, you’re too anxious to do anything, your guardian angel appears and offer to give you ONE thing that will make you forget about this day, what is this thing?

anonymous asked:

Hat du Sprüche die zu einem gebrochenen, Liebeskummer Herz passen ? Danke 💗

“What hurts is that we never really said goodbye. We just kind of ended.”

“I’m trying to forget you but I’m also waiting for you to come back”

Das schlimmste was du einer Frau antun kannst ist ihr Hoffnung zu machen, sie dann zu ignorieren und sie dann stehen lässt mit all ihren Sehnsüchten und Hoffnungen

also regarding that last post: if you are even considering whether abandoning desire to be liked and fear of being disliked in favor of genuine compassion and respect for others will keep you in people’s good books, you’re already motivated by reward and punishment and not by compassion. the key is to not base your actions around how others will judge you but to base them on what you genuinely believe is right. people are going to like and dislike you no matter what you do, at least if you’re behaving based on your genuine principles instead of just saying what you think everyone wants to hear, they’ll like or dislike you for what you actually believe and not a bunch of stuff you’re pretending to believe because you’ve figured out which school of thought you’re most afraid of pissing off. 

Also, the bad people out there, the racists and the sexists and the homophobes and the transphobes and pretty much every bad kind of -ist and -phobe* are already super secure in their hateful beliefs so it’s honestly gonna do worlds of good for everyone to realize how liberating it is to be able to say “wait a minute, I don’t need to impress you, your opinion is bad and I’d honestly be more mad if you liked me.” It sounds pretty basic but a lot of people genuinely still don’t see that if you’re making certain groups mad (the klan, TERFs, anyone who posts in the comments section of any youtube video, etc) then you’re doing something right. 

*the good kinds of -ists and -phobes include but are not limited to “herpetologist” and “clownaphobe”

anonymous asked:

I mean, I LOVE that Tarjei and Henrik did it and it was so great of them, but seriously, what kind of shit plan was ist from the hosts or whoever had this stupid idea??? The kisscam was already on them for a time, the hosts could have said sth? I mean, Tarjei even asked henrik... But it makes Henrik and Tarjei look even more extra and better, so I let it slide;-)

Maybe the hosts were waiting because they expected some sort of reaction from them…like you know, laugh, embarrassment… but no, they went straight for it…imagine not stanning henrik and tarjei…sorry i cant relate

Baden-Württemberg:

angeblich-gutdrauf
feel-like-nothing
xxsuicide-barbiexx
love-crazypanda-cookies
vryfckngscrscrmsyrnm
kuenstlerdeslebens
summermidnightdreams
xrico
russkajadewka
asdfghjklqwertzuiop
i-am-falling-apart-again
jekasblog
ausnaturkomisch
2ndjune14
notperfektgirl
xx-i-am-a-warrior-xx
m-wie-michelle
2fab–4youbitch
schatten-seiten
awakefrombreak
laserkaktusse
schlussstrichaufneuanfang
xdamnlifex
its-like-a-dark-paradise-x
kathi-love-you
always–onnet
un-endlichfreisein
zamandaaa
fuckandletitgo
alles-nur-bull-shit
joiisam
kindergartenspast
loosthoopex3
littlebitsunshinex3
explosionsgefahrx
higherthanyourfuture
barbieskitzler
whatever-the-world-awaits
himmel-aufwaerts
hahafuckyoubitch
rotweinpillen
black-empty-world
so-perrfekt-unperrfekt
Wenn-Musik-nicht-mehr-hilft
Littledarkpanther
Somanyfakepeople
12042015
Thungers-soul
Futile-vain
Lebensprobleme
Pray4paris
1person–100feelings
Wir-sind-was
Working-on-my–masterpice
Sterbendesmaedchen


Bayern:

carpe-that-natem
besser-als-duu
stay-in-the-dark
glitterkatze
battlewmyself
abgrundtiefe-gedanken
thisismyworld-not-amused
ihave-to-beperfect
praktisch-royal
left-mind
blindlinqs
world-with-haters
7tervodka
itsallthesamex
alomb
xcantstopmex
fuerimmeralleinsam
broken-soul-fucked-up-mind
schwerelosleben
anotherhipstername
avictima
too-fat-for-him
weil-baum-du-schlampe
hxpsterleben
un-endlichfreisein
puddingimherz
well–fuck-it
mycrazyfairytale
gesundarrogant
kugel-blitz
lieber-allein-als-mit-dir
theonlythingleftismymotorcycle
wolkenflauschig
the-sound-of–silence
lenaunso
-keksmonster
swagtastisch-x
Kaputtgefuelt
Miststxckmitcharakter
Beliveinmeisalliwanttocan
Zwichenlichtunddunkelheit
Take-away-the-emptiness
Dont-forget-me-bby
Misses-du-kennst-den-Nachnamen
Special-psysh


Berlin:

highvonihm
vollkommenunperfekt
hopeless-and-ignored
alltagskomplexe
kind-im-gedankennebel
monde-des-merveilles
photoloveraquaa
selfhatemusician
welcome-to-my-borderline
nur-zwanzig-sekunden
adaydreamawayx3
ripasermo
lastnightidreamedofyou
heavenlike
despite-all-it-is-so
prosteska
willkuerlich
illusorisch
everythinggoeswrongxo
toyparadex3
Kind-im-gedankennebel
Wanderkarma
Friends-Love-hate
Verhaltensauffaellig


Brandenburg:

tearsinmyeyesbut-i-smile
welcomeonceaponadream
cheerless-life
89-74
vollkommenunperfekt
hashtagrealness
drunkenfluffyunicorn
blvmenkxds
taegliche-amnesie
svcietyhate
kartoffelvonnebenan
Sad-but-nobody


Bremen:

darkqueenofsweetness
hip-teen
todaysexislikeahandshake
seinbabygurl
hip-teen
Pervcyrus
6-6-2015
Br0krnpiecess


Hamburg:

lookatthesociety
http-lautegedanken
yaseminferchichi
moonlightfightthings
selbsthass-hoch714926
ultraviolettestrahlen
sorryimnotperfect16
zweisechsnullfuenf
miaisapsycho
Tsunder-thaughts

Hessen:

blckdpgrnd
kalte-seele
fight-love-game
hurtseverywhere
everyday-daydreaming
himmels-flammen
xswarleyxd
whocaresthemost22
suicidwonderland
ourbadlovestory
lifes-fuck-you
davidsonnenschein
lovelysnowdrops
vermissen-ist-schrecklich
sad-berlin-girl89
pureeinbildung
deathandalive
heuchelnde-fotzen
small-bright
nobody-cares-what-i-feelx
venti-dudici
wirzweieins
perpetuuum
benothopeless
undkeinerwirddichkennen
gedankenfickhoch5
blick-richtung
moonlightxy
xosamicxo
Xsehensucht-nach-freiheit
Dieseratemzug
Weilszuperfektist
Wenn-Musik-nicht-mehr-Hilfe


Mecklenburg Vorpommern:

rest-in-shit
mensch-ohnegrund
svcietyhate
gefuehlslose-kurva
Fake–feelings–Fake-Smile

Niedersachsen:

gedanken-scheiss
pandapups
verlorene–welt
usergirl1324
love-is-a-fucking-bullshit
falschehoffnungen
tell-me-what-now
theworldsmileback
apriljunge
gescheitert-am-leben
schrei-in-der-stille
problemleben
namenloses-kind
thatsmyfuckingwonderland
ourplacex
verschwiegene-worte
kmsla
dontthinkaboutit-love
hatemyselfandalways
hass-auf-euch
ffaarrfaraway
unerwuenscht-von-dir
wieschattenundlicht
gekontert
verdammtungeliebt
niemandistperfektx
flawless-wings-can-fly-higher
90720secons
ohne-freunde-ganz-allein
gefangen-im-unbekannten
eiskaltefassade
rosaeinhornarsch
nofeelinginsideme
alwaysdeadeyes
hellomyheartisfallingdown
broken012345
xbrxkenlxfex
verlasseneseele
wieschattenundlicht
bloodfortheworld
fulloflovebites
einervonden-guten
but-endings-are-inevitable
ohne-freunde-ganz-allein
mondfunken
thatmyfriendiskarma
vergeben-dochnichtvergessen
kompassverlorenimkreisgedreht
horrorstripper
but-endings-are-inevitable
Sag-mal-bist-du-jetzt-gluecklich
Warum–ich
Snowwhitesbadsister
Noo-motivation
Vater-Liebe-kenn-ich-nicht
weg–von–hier–mir


Nordrhein-Westfalen:

bierzeltromantik
vintaqebitch
bright-as-fuck-neonblack
niinawayne
shiroyashx
sovielmusiksowenigzeit
unwichtigertyphoch10
she-love-ana
coookkiiiies
athazagrahobia
thatsucksmylife
isitrealbaby
verflosseneliebe2
esistdunkelbunt
blacksnotsad
stummgeschaltet
lispo
allein-gelxssen
scarlenoire
muedeslachen
pallmallblau
hipperalsdu
xxcheyx
scaronmyarm
derdrucksteigtx
blooming-in-autumn
dibelia
dramatisierend
unterschieds-los
changeable-faces
lifelikeadisneyfilm
i-will-die-first
leeretraeume
vorlust
lauraxstern
fame-isforass-holes
kirschbluetentanz
distanz-mensch
thisisallfxckingshit
wrld-s-btfl
wint3rth0ughts
klosterschueler-im-trailerpark
fotzenblick
totesxich
zu-kompliziert
awakenedlittlemissdays
zerschnittenefantasie
deathguardianangel
heartlesspeoples
moon-light-storm
unwichtigesgirl
engelessennicht
death-is-my-aim
eiskaltesmaedchen
scarlenoire
loving–you–is–killing–me
frvrbrkn
hoffnungsloserfallinallem
anxther-me
kunstversuche
wogehtslangzumgluecklichsein
n-othing-is-alrigh-t
keinheldvonniemanden
du-warst-mal-alles-fuer-mich
Kind-im-gedankennebel
Verhandelbar
Weihtless-fairy40
Ignoriert-und-einsam
Nobodyisgoingtosaveyou
Willbeskinnyangle
Schwarzexgefanken
Eulenbunnie
Irrelevantepersoenlichkeit
Pleasekillmethanks
In-traumen-gefangen
Seele-voller-narben
Deathangelforyou
Skinnyistofaraway


Rheinland-Pfalz:

keinefreunde
pvnkxprincess
lamelime
das-geheimnis
geheimes-leben
zimtduft
yami-and-hikari39
gezeichnetvom-l-e-b-e-n
1-2-2o15
dieeinzigwahreehe
69russischekippen
regina-della-neve
lovehimbutheloveanothergirl
melina1408
i-am-a-walking-disaster
zemerxhayatim
dechangirl
my-dreadful-lullaby
alleine-unterwegs
mtherfckingqueen
vxrlustangst
polytoxischx
Meancholischeliebe
Tell-them-Luzifer-was-here
1xdragensoulx1


Saarland:

karmadunutt
durchgehurt
28kopfgefickt10

Sachsen:

theworldcanbesosad
x-zerbrochene-welt
lassmichdasistmeinleben
inneres–chaos
xrauchenficktmichx
engel-des-feuers
shit-love-shit-live
butpleasedontcry
todesfeuermaedchen
broken-on-you
aha–ok
lostmycolourssomewhere
inconceivablyx
th3ch00s3n
warten-auf-samstag
alleinimdunklen
mittelfingeerhoch
Kippenstaengel
Sehr-Gay-faerhrlich
Blindlings
Drangersaliert


Sachsen-Anhalt:

deviloficex3
diamondsstorys
eternityblr
oursadlytower
Depressed-ghoul
Ifyoukissmee


Schleswig-Holstein:

cutiecake1102
7tageregenwetter
inlovehate
hayatimsin-birakma
soperfektunperfektlove
dekana96
youfuck-mylife
all-i-want-is-you-and-me
moans-am
tiefgesunkenx
Suizadalesmaedchen
Siverster-scherz
Jaacqu
Keep-alive-nur-somedieyoung


Thüringen:

mein-leben-laeuft-amok-
hungerengel4
schokokvss
kristallmaedchen
paralyzedinthegravity
verydarkheart
schlechtewelt
unberfekt2
Sehr-Gay-faerhrlich
Lonely-soul-in-the-dark
Herzubetrxnken
Bleichstiftbuntewelt
Circeofsorrow


Schweiz

Osten

splitterregxn
augenkunst


Westen:

lachtraenen


Keine Angabe:

der-fehler-im-system
blackrose-redsoul
feel-like-nothing
xqvc
Gefuehlskalter-rauch


Österreich

Osten

o-u-r-a-l-a-s-k-a
didis-depressed-life
miss–homeless
whoneedsagun
loveshitandpain
gotusedtoit
Tumxblr-maedchenx33


Westen:

fireshooter


Keine Angabe:

infinityjuli
nanadraws-things


Wenn du auch noch an dem “Projekt” teilnehmen willst findest du hier alle weiteren Infos:

http://das-geheimnis.tumblr.com/post/117613977811/kleine-idee

anonymous asked:

Hey! Could you please recommend some German rap?

sure, i can try! Even though i listen to rap only very rarely, i can show you some artists that i like and also some that I personally don’t like THAT much but are still relatively popular/famous here:

bolded ones are personal favs

So here we go:

Alligatoah - Fick ihn doch

Sido (ft. Andreas Bourani) - Astronaut

Sido - Bilder Im Kopf

Namika - Coole Katze (listen on Spotify)

Namika - NA-MI-KA

Cro - Easy

Casper - Im Ascheregen

Marteria - OMG!

Marteria - Kids (2 Finger an den Kopf)

K.I.Z. - Boom Boom Boom

K.I.Z. (ft. Henning May) - Hurra, Die Welt geht unter

Die Fantastischen Vier - Gebt uns ruhig die Schuld (Den Rest könnt ihr behalten)

Fettes Brot - An Tagen Wie Diesen

Money Boy - Choices  (He makes only joke songs and i think they’re rly funny)

Money Boy - Müsli

Haftbefehl - Chabos wissen wer der Babo ist (only including this to show you how shitty German rap can get, also this is kinda really famous for some reason) 

Egoland - Ego

Blumio - Hey, Mr. Nazi

Seeed - Augenbling

KOLLEGAH & MAJOE feat. Die Götzfried Girls - Von Salat schrumpft der Bizeps

Kollegah - King

and i’m not sure if these count as rap but still, i like them:

Marcus Wiebusch - Der Tag wird kommen (really cool lgbt themed song)

Mark Forster - Flash mich

Okay, so i hope i included a good mix and you like some of these… If you want more recommendations just send me an ask and tell me what kind of rap/hip hop you like :)

EDIT: I CAN’T BELIEVE I FORGOT THESE GEMS:

Käptn Peng & Die Tentakel von Delphi - Der Anfang ist nah

Shaban & Käptn Peng - Haus brennt

Käptn Peng & Die Tentakel von Delphi - Sockosophie

Kleiner Piepmatz wartet am Jökulsárlón auf seine Mutter. 
Weiß jemand, was für ein Vogel es ist?

Little birdie is waiting for his mother at Jökulsárlón.
Does anyone know what kind of bird it is?

©islandfeuer 2013. All Rights Reserved | Please leave captions + credits intact 

They Stop Listening

When you say someone is being ableist, racist, misogynist …

They stop listening. They don’t think the label applies to them so everything you say after that is ignored. It isn’t about them.

They aren’t ableist, they just think people should try harder.
They aren’t racist, they just know a thug when they read about a thug.
They aren’t a misogynist, they just know that women have to learn their place.

When you think you are talking to someone who is an -ist but is capable of learning, DON’T use the label. They will stop listening to you and go into defensive mode.

Talk about the pros of whatever group they have been hating on. Talk about how what they have said can hurt the “other kind of” {insert group here}.

Gradually bring it around. Slowly subvert their prejudice. Bring up the counter-examples that they would use. “Well, I have a black friend …” - point out that their black friend is A FRIEND and might be more representative of black people than what they read in the papers. “I have women friends that I think are bright and capable …” (assuming they treat these women with respect) point out that they may be the norm for women, rather than exceptions. 

Use their excuses of why they aren’t -ist to make them see the flaw in their -ist thinking.

Plopping the label on them blocks their ears from everything else you might have to say.

Converting an -ist is not done by attacking them, it’s done by convincing them of the errors in their thinking.