what is this shame you speak of

20 Ways to Annoy Min Yoongi

1. Dye his hair in glitter whilst he sleeps. 

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2. Make a scene where you announce he’s proposed to you and you’re going to get married in a bouncy castle. 

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3. Mimick his bluntness: 

You: “I have a question.”

Yoongi: “What now?”

You: When was the last time you had sex? 

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4. Make fun of him during his photo shoots by chanting “I AM THE CULT OF YOONGI. MY EMOTIONS DEVALUE YOURS. “

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5. Whilst he’s sitting down, sit behind him and pull his lips into a smile.

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6. Tell him Namjoon raps better. (Can you see the hypothetical beef in this situation below)

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7.  Hide all his beanies.

8. Call him at 3am until he picks up, speak out Taylor Swift lyrics to him. 


“What is it, brat?”

“I knew you were trouble when you walked in. 

Shame on me now. 

Took me to places I’ve never been

And now I’m lying on the cold hard ground.” 

__________ Phone call ends. 

Originally posted by so-bangtastic

9. Wake him up at 5am with an air horn. 


Originally posted by jeonbase

Yoongi: “You have 5 seconds to tell me why you don’t want to die yet”. 

10. Whilst he’s minding his own business eating lunch, shoot a gummyball at the back of his head with a slingshot. 

Originally posted by j-hoepeu

11. Put a how to guide on expressing your emotions wrapped in a glittery box under his pillow. 

12. Suddenly collapse down onto the floor and start coughing erratically. As he makes his way over to you convinced somethings wrong, reach out to him with your hand. 

“What is it, b-brat?”

“B- B-”


13. When he’s sitting still quietly, checking out the girl in front of him yell out ‘OH SHE’S THE GIRL YOU WANNA MANI MANI MANI WITH HUH…WINK WINK YOONGSTAAA”. 

14. Hack into his phone and send Yoonjin kink fics to Jin .

Originally posted by namjoonholic

Jin: Oh shit. 

15. Hit him with a basketball off guard, when he doesn’t catch it say “pfft, basketball player my ass”. 

16. Climb up and cling on to his back.

17. When he’s composing/writing lyrics- casually turn up and tell him about your last visit to the dentist. 

18. Post a picture of a slug on BTS’ SNS captioned #MINYOONGISAYSHI

19. Envelope him in random hugs. 

20. Run, because to be honest, if you annoy Min Yoongi anything like the above you’re halfway to being a corpse.

Originally posted by bulletproofwinner

AN: I figured I would have to go to the extreme of extremes for Yoongi because he doesn’t seem like someone that would get annoyed if you pinch him in general, he’d just do something to piss you off/ scare you in return with a death glare. You would have to be very touchy feely with Yoongi, hence so many cute clingy moments. 


Friendly reminder that it is not okay to shame anyone of any path for wanting (or even, dare I say it, needing) compensation for their spiritual services. I’m sure I speak for more than myself when I say that we do sympathize with those of you who are struggling financially. Know what? A lot of us are right there with you (and it’s not for you to judge who is and isn’t enough in need). We sell our skills for many reasons. Not in the least because our time and energy has inherent value.

On that note, I apologize for this extra pinch of salt, but no, “you have a normal body, so use it” will never be an acceptable thing to say to someone who has just politely denied your demand request for free services. Honestly, how dare you assume anything about a person’s body? This just in: regardless of any truth or assumption, you are not entitled to anyone’s talents. You do not own a single diviner, conjurer, or advice blogger in this community. If hearing that upsets you, kindly return to the sewer system from which your manners were born because I have nothing left to say to you.

Anyways. To end this on a positive note, shout out to the people in this community who go above and beyond to encourage each other’s work in any way they can. You guys are awesome and appreciated. <3

Fat Shaming

So I did a search for some fat acceptance blogs and I couldn’t not believe how many anti fat acceptance themed blogs I came across. (Really though, I shouldn’t have been shocked because this is tumblr and the internet-land of the assholes.)

I think there is something that people don’t understand about the fat acceptance movement and I am here to clear that up-fat people are just people. We come in all shapes and sizes-because you know what?! We are just PEOPLE. And just like other people, we come in various states of health as well. We all have various skin colors, genders, religions, sexualities, hobbies, dreams, personalities, etc. Because- WE ARE PEOPLE!!

And the fat acceptance movement is about learning to love OURSELVES. Fat people have been told over and over-by family members,friends,STRANGERS,the media-that WE DO NOT DESERVE to love ourselves AS we are -simply because we are F-A-T. And we have taken back that word and we are learning to love and accept OURSELVES….AS IS….with our fat,our jiggle, our double chins, our flabby arms, our various states and shapes of butts and stomachs and thighs. We are learning to love and accept ourselves whether we are healthy or not-whether we want to be healthy or not.

It is not ANYONE else’s business whether we are healthy or not or whether or not we want to get healthy or not. That, just like anything else-is personal and NOT FOR YOU to make a decision about for another person. BUT-you do NOT get to treat a fat person like a second class citizen simply because they are FAT. I don’t care HOW FAT the person is-EVERYONE deserves to be treated with KINDNESS and RESPECT.

FAT ACCEPTANCE is about learning to LOVE and respect OURSELVES AS IS and for there to be people out there continuing to try to tear that down is disgusting and sad. Fat shaming is one of the last “acceptable” things left and it needs to stop.

It is NOT OK to treat someone with disrespect just because YOU have decided that YOU have a problem with their Fat or Obese body. THAT fat or Obese person has a right to TAKE up space. That fat/obese person has a right to LIVE THEIR TRUTH. That fat person has a right to be treated WITH dignity and respect just like any other person on this planet because that FAT person is just a PERSON.


When it comes to shipping, the old adage is true THE HEART WANTS WHAT IT WANTS. I have so many ships in my fleet that it can only be called an ARMADA. Some of my pairings may not be conducive to the real world and I’m ok with that. My fictional world and real world are not one in the same and so I have no shame when it comes to my OTPS. When it comes to pairing up my ships, logic takes a backseat and something magical happens that is hard to explain. It happens without warning, taking you by complete surprise. Before you realize it you are in too deep, shipping what you shouldn’t and praying for endgame. Im speaking for myself, but I know the feeling is mutual because we ship…

The couple that in reality should not be together, due to their familiar ties.


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The ship that’s stigmatized because of AGE.


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The ships that bloom from HATE


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Credit to the respected gif makers.

say what you will about riverdale, it was really nice to see an episode centered around female solidarity, taking down slut-shaming, and a black girl refusing to let a white boy think he gets whatever he wants, said white boy realizing his mistake and admitting to it, all while the black girl was never villianized for calling him out

For you were once darkness, but now you are  light in the Lord. Walk as children of light (for the fruit of the Spirit is in all goodness, righteousness, and truth), finding out what is acceptable to the Lord. And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather expose them. For it is shameful even to speak of those things which are done by them in secret. But all things that are exposed are made manifest by the light, for whatever makes manifest is light. Therefore He says:
“Awake, you who sleep,
Arise from the dead,
And Christ will give you light.”
—  John 13

What I’m experiencing in marriage is very different from what my husband is experiencing in marriage—even though we are here together, having the same discussions. I think this is true the majority of the time because we are separate individuals, but it becomes most apparent in conflict. Something I’ve realized is that the conflict we have isn’t usually about the content of the matter itself, but things underneath that we don’t know how to speak for yet. Deeply rooted sore spots that are only now feeling safe enough to peek out. And by peek out I mean pour out, which can be pretty ugly, or scary, or sometimes both. It’s wild how much we don’t actually understand our own reactivity. Have you ever been shocked by your own reaction to something? That’s what I’m talking about. Like a response that was so visceral that you didn’t even have time to process it– whether it’s hurt or anger or shame or just flat out meanness. Sometimes I hear something fly out of my mouth, and I think, “where in the hell did that come from?” Or one of us will just completely shut down, and the other is left thinking, “wait, what did I miss–what just happened?” The problem is rarely the actual problem, and that’s what always throws me, because it’s more subtle. The most confusing, frustrating, and painful moments are usually attached to nuanced pain from past wounds that haven’t gotten around to healing yet. It is the things that the problems ignite within us that haven’t been dealt with yet, things that still ache, but have been subconsciously tucked away.

As intimacy deepens in our marriage, safety increases, and as we feel more safe, old wounds and deeply seated insecurities come out, and they come out of no where. The majority of the time, I have no idea what unlocked it or pulled it out, what it wants, or how to fix it. Reactivity, by nature, is automatic, cryptic, and urgent. There are times that I cannot find the words or the understanding to make sense of the reactivity that is coming out of me. It’s disorienting. Like cold air hitting a cavity you didn’t know you had. You can’t blame the air for the cavity, but that doesn’t change the pain, and once you feel the pain, you can’t unfeel it. It can feel so overwhelming and hopeless. But it is not. Thirty minutes later, an hour later, the next morning, eventually—it clicks. Oh. That’s what that was.

To realize that there is an undercurrent in both of our inner worlds filtering how we experience a given moment, especially those of conflict, gives a lot more space to that claustrophobic feeling of reactive pain. I’m learning to give us both some more credit. All we really want is love. That’s what this is about. Sometimes we’re terrible at remembering this one thing when it counts most. I’ve learned that pulling each other into the reactivity and making it about the other person is the least productive and most unhealthy thing you can do. Instead, I’ve learned that when one of us gets reactive, it’s paramount to let it be their moment and not make it about yourself. Their reactivity is their own stuff. This is when I have to remind myself that though we are one, we are separate. 

When you first feel the pain of a cavity, it is unproductive and inaccurate to blame the last food you ate. What’s important is that you act on behalf of your own wellbeing in taking care of it. Once you feel the pain of a cavity, you go get it filled. Similarly, once you experience reactivity, you tend to the wound connected to it. We don’t blame each other. We realize that the pain evoked by the other is pointing to something beyond what is happening in this single moment. Sometimes he’s the air that blows into some emotional cavity I didn’t know was there. Sometimes he understands my knee-jerk reaction, and other times he has no idea why I’m in pain. It isn’t vital that we understand fully as this won’t always be possible. What’s important is that we don’t confuse pain for failure. What’s important is that we let the pain count for something. What’s important is that we honor each other in the painful moments instead if blaming each other for it. Instead, let it lead you into new freedom, and walk alongside each other towards healing. We are one, but we are new at being one, and parts of us will forever be separate. Separate, but one. What a mystery this journey is.

L, marriage // year two

  • Jaune: So there I was, minding my own business.
  • Ren: Unlikely.
  • Jaune: Pyrrha comes up from behind and wraps her arms around me out of nowhere, dripping wet and totally naked.
  • Ren: Plausible.
  • Jaune: And she just whispers in my ear, right?
  • Ren: Sounds like her.
  • Pyrrha, earlier: Could you pass me my towel?
  • Pyrrha, earlier: I forgot to grab it before I got in.
  • Jaune: Needless to say, I hand her the towel.
  • Ren: And then what?
  • Jaune: i respect her privacy thats what and i get outta the damn room
  • Pyrrha: A shame, I wouldn't mind the company next time.
  • Jaune: -shrieks-
  • Ren: Haven't given up yet?
  • Pyrrha: If he can learn to use a sword, I think I can learn to speak his language eventually.
Normal Horoscope

Aries: The stars say you are lost. That’s okay! Most people are.

Taurus: it’s surprising how much happiness a little fried dough can bring us. Shame it dosen’t work that way for people.

Gemini: Cause a scene at your local McDonalds and then cause a second scene by apologizing dramatically. You’ll feel better.

Cancer: The stars show me you. You lie there, face illuminated by a rectangle of dull light. Get some rest. You need it.

Leo: We can only hate what we see in ourselves. Consider that you may be full of mosquitoes.

Virgo: The stars speak of you in hushed whispers so I can’t hear, but generally they sound encouraging.

Libra: The indecision you feel can be alleviated by eating an entire sleeve of fig newtons while staring at your kitchen wall.

Scorpio: Pallid, grey things stalk just outside your vision, feeding on all the things youve forgotten.

Saggatarius: Nothing that beckons has ever turned out to be good. Good things dont need to beckon.

Capricorn: They blog about you.

Aquarius: Show your contempt for the concept of money by beating a cop with another cop.

Pisces: Come now, you’re more clever than meta-humor. Or perhaps you just don’t know yourself too well? Something to think about, regardless.

You know, Amethyst is the only crystal gem that is like confirmed that she likes hanging out with people. Like no one recognizes her from parties she went to with Greg and Vidalia?
Like, she has no shame of shape shifting in front of people?
No one that’s ever been to a party with Greg, Vidalia and Amethyst and been like, man that purple lady just turned into a cat? Then into her friends? This lady is weird but cool?
She knows what a phone number is so, knows her way around human technology the best.
So tell me why they can’t seem to write an episode with Amethyst that doesn’t involve Pearl or Steven.

Camp Half-Blood - Jeffmads/ Hamilton characters

Okay, so the first chapter is really slow but the second chapter things get interesting

James pulled his black hoodie on, putting the hood over his head as he wandered through the forest. Sure, it was dangerous to be out at night, but what were the chances of him running into anything. He heard footsteps and whirled around, eyes widening as he took in the sight. Thomas Jefferson, Lafayette, Alexander Hamilton, Hercules Mulligan, and finally John Laurens were all staring at him.

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persephoniac  asked:

I'm one of those people who once got stuck an inadequate artefact up their butt and who walk-of-shame to the hospital. Now you know who you're dealing with.

pt. 2: “One fact about yourself” I’m not even sorry             

Don’t be! I’m curious. How uncomfortable was the walk? What was the nurse’s reaction? Spare no details.

anonymous asked:

Why are you naming and shaming blogs that disagree with you?

I’m not. The block list is for people who may not feel comfortable coming into contact with toxic people/people with bigoted views/etc. Just like every other block list on tumblr.

And I only “name and shame” people who are abusive or harass innocent people. Otherwise, I point them out, ask people not to harass them, and move on with my life. It’s not that deep, m8.

Also, I wish you guys’d stop boiling everything I do down to “because you disagree with them.” You know that’s not what it’s about. In fact, I’m literally posting about being able to respect people I don’t disagree with as we speak. I’m literally in the middle of a situation where that is happening and how happy it’s making me.

You’re not fooling anyone, Sherlock, lmao. But u do u.

–Mod Mercy

Thank You xx

Dear All:

I’m positively overwhelmed by all the well wishes I’ve received today – truly overwhelmed. I kind of don’t know what to do with it all? Haha. I’m not huge on social media, and this is by far my most active platform (maybe because I’m not posting about myself? Hmm… moment of self-analysis over, haha), and it’s generated the largest amount of well wishes – I feel *no* shame in saying that, haha. 

Thank you all so much for your kindness and sending your thoughts, positivity, and love to me today. When I started this blog, I never in a thousand years would have thought that I’d have this many people reading my stuff, let alone taking time out of their days – some of you may not think anything of it, but even just taking two seconds to think of it and do it means a lot. You didn’t have to, but you did it anyway, and that speaks loads of how thoughtful you are, and I appreciate you thinking of me very much. 

I genuinely was going to post something today, because a) it’s been a little bit, and b) I wanted to give back something and to mark the day somehow, but my head was *so* stuffed up that I honestly didn’t write even a *word* today except for interacting with you guys – even the harrytheticals and the like were abandoned today, so sorry about that! But I guess… I *hope* we can look forward to something soon, kind of with a birthday theme, and the minute it’s finished and edited a bit, I’ll post it. 

Also, I’m sorry for clogging up your dash today – again, I never thought that’d be how this day panned out (and this is NOT a humble brag or reverse brag or anything, I just genuinely didn’t think it would get *this* intensely overwhelming), but I did want to respond to each one individually since each of you all took a moment to send something. individually. 

Thank you again, everybody. For everything today and on every other day. Much love to you all, as well as peace, happiness, and health, and luck.

E xx

The second we decide its okay to kill or destroy someone for their wrongdoing, we have proven we do not accept what Jesus has done. His love is not in us. I am speaking specifically in regards to Islamic Terrorism. We do not get to choose who deserves Jesus and who doesn’t, when we do this, our adviser is Satan.  Do you knot know that while you were Christ’s  enemy, he died for you? That in your fear, guilt, and shame he became those for us? How can we judge a lost person, for doing what lost people do? Who made us the judge? There is only one judge, and vengeance is his. We are called peacemakers, not war makers. I understand that killing people based on their beliefs is wrong, but how would we be different, if we bombed a city because they believed something different to us? We wouldn’t be different. Why do we take into serious consideration the wards of Jesus when he says, “Do not commit adultery, do no become drunk” but when he says love your enemy, we act like we didn’t here him. Don’t you know our struggle IS NOT against flesh and blood, but the dark forces of the world? How can you condemn a lost person, when you yourself was not condemned for your false identities? Either you haven’t really received forgiveness, or you are so afraid of man, you have resorted to killing, or in support of killing people, as long as your “home” is kept safe. Self-preservation is not the way of the Kingdom. Ever.If you truly cared about stopping terrorism, you would join the few over there, leave netflix, and your comforts, and go live in the kingdom, loving people. That’s how Jesus told his disciples to win anyways.
—  its 12:56 and I am writing this because I had a discussion today, and I almost lost it, but then I realized, people are no the enemy. practice what I preach… you know?
Angelkin as a role being played, as something to be proved

I have noticed that many, many angelkin, consciously or not, see being an angel either as something they have to prove or as a role they have to play. It’s like it’s a -character- they get into. It’s an act they have to put on, an image they have to maintain. They will carefully dress/behave/speak in ways calculated to maintain this image. Please do not judge or shame yourself or anyone else you realize may be caught up in all this. It is a very natural and normal thing to happen.

Having identified this opens the way to talk about dropping the act. The first step to that is getting really, really honest, finding out what the fear driving the behavior is (because it -is- fear in the driver’s seat) and losing it. ‘But if I stop behaving in specific ways, I’m afraid I’ll find out I’m not really an angel after all.’ Do you think non-angels are worth less than angels? ‘But what if I drop the act and people stop thinking I’m an angel?’ That’s their problem.

In fact I would suggest dropping -everything.- Don’t just drop fears and behaviors; drop all beliefs and expectations. Drop everything you know. Drop the word and concept ‘angel’ itself. Let it all go completely, and without words or any kinds of ideas, just relax into the Here and Now direct experience of That energy which is beyond words.

let’s all take a moment to appreciate how well “that’s what she said” and “phrasing” have aged compared to “giggity.” many of us would probably still laugh at a well-placed “that’s what she said” even after all these years, but if you met someone who responded to a sexual innuendo by saying “giggity” you would almost certainly feel such deep shame and embarrassment on their behalf that both of you would lose the ability to speak for the rest of your lives

It angers me that in this society we’re trained from a very young age, watching television, to swallow preconceived ideas of what is the ideal man or ideal woman. It’s prejudice, really. Many people overcome it, but so many remain oppressed if they’re not happy with their looks, if they don’t look like Robert Redford. It’s a shame, because they shouldn’t be. When I was younger, I was worried about how others viewed me and if I was good enough. I realize now that you can’t mold an image or try to be something that you are not. As far as being an actor is concerned, your work really speaks for itself.
—  River in an interview for Starlog Magazine, October 1989.
Dating Yongguk (BAP)
  • sleeping with your backs pressed together
  • a deep husky morning voice that makes you wonder what god was smoking when he made those vocal cords
  • at least two Tigger plushies with the pillows and maybe even a blanket too
  • a sweet chaste kiss every morning when he wakes up before you
  • it may be on your cheek or forehead or nose or neck, each morning it’s different
  • a pot of coffee ready and matching mugs
  • him showing you what interesting and profound artwork he has found in his downtime
  • asking you to listen to the new song he’s writing and staring at your face for a reaction the entire time
  • a gentle pat on your butt when you walk past him
  • leaving cute sticky notes for each other on the bathroom mirror when your work schedules don’t match up
  • you trying to imitate his voice and him putting you to shame by speaking even lower as he mocks you
  • catching him licking his lips while staring at your cleavage
  • continuing to stare even after he’s been caught
  • taking you to cozy, rustic places for date night
  • getting lots of phone calls from Himchan wondering where leader Bang is
  • and having to lie instead of admitting you were having a quick round in the shower
  • really deep conversations in bed while you straddle his lap
  • letting him hold you for as long as he needs before leaving for tour again
  • him calmly asking you over the phone not to cry when you miss him
  • always putting one of his sweaters on the bed for you when he leaves for tour
  • you trying to rap about how much he means to you and it sounds awful but he gives you that gummy grin and makes you believe you nailed it
  • the way he stares into your eyes when he makes love to you
  • him asking you at least twice a year if you believe fate brought the two of you together
  • and you telling him there are no such things as coincidences
  • and he writes a song about that

Dating BAP: Yongguk | Himchan | Daehyun | Youngjae | Jongup | Zelo