what i think personally works

**my brother gets his wallet and car keys stolen and loses his phone..**

Mom wakes me up at 3AM to go give him a spare and here is this little punk at a MOTEL with some girl.

Today my mom says “are you coming home today or not?”

Mom….you don’t ask.. You tell his dumbass to come home!! How will the boy grow to become a man if you don’t let him learn?

He never comes home anymore cause apparently “he’s spending the night at a friend’s house” (this is like every single day) how will he take care of my mom once I’m married?! I told her that I’ve decided that she will be moving in with me and what’s her worry? “Deepti, I can’t leave your brother by himself”

My heart just breaks knowing he will never take care of her as she thinks and hopes he will. 💔

One of my work for the Uni.

It’s been 3 long years on my fitness journey. This journey has many different stages physically and mentally, but one things for sure you’ll look back at your before picture, and tell your body “I love you and thanks for coming this long way.” It’s not easy, but by sharing this I hope to inspire someone to not give up. My mother hates when I use this photo for comparison because she knows how criticizing people can be but leave that for the girl in 2013 to care what people thought/think. I’ve worked hard to become the person I am now, and I share this to inspire/motivate others that it is possible and the body is fascinating with what it can transform to. I’ve still got some work to do but for now happy #transformationtuesday ! God bless, rooting for ya! & a thanks to those who shared their journey and lit a flame for inspiration in others and I ❤

IG : fitnessinfocus2016

anonymous asked:

I find really hard to fully understand and relate to a character like Magnus, who's 400 years old and I think, functions different then mortal people because of that. So I just keep thinking how Alec, a shadowhunter to the core that was raised in black and white, by the law, being told what's right or wrong, who never let himself be open to new things,will be able to do that? And also how Magnus (part 1)

(part 2) will fully understand this shadowhunter and his ways, something he never even thought or care about. But they obviously manage to do that, and I’d love to hear your opinion on how

It’s a good question! Alec has expressed his desire to keep an open mind and get to know Magnus on his own terms – and I’m sure he’ll be fine if he does just that. When you scratch the surface of Magnus’s immortality, there’s something very human about him in the way he yearns to be loved but is also afraid of having his heart broken again. I think many of us know what it’s like to feel conflict between wanting to be loved and fearing hurt. This is important, since one of the functions of Magnus and the Downworlders is to demonstrate that despite appearing “other” on the surface, we’re all human beneath.

As for Magnus, he’s pretty perceptive. He often completes Alec’s thoughts before he has a chance to finish. This is part of what draws Alec – who struggles to put his feelings into words – to Magnus, who seems to just get what Alec means. Not to say Magnus knows everything about Alec; I don’t doubt plenty of misunderstandings will arise, but I think he does know that there’s a lot more to Alec than Alec wants to reveal. And I think one of Magnus’s goals has always been to coax him to open up.

But I want to address this part of your ask bc I think it’s important:

how Magnus will fully understand this shadowhunter and his ways, something he never even thought or care about.

Magnus understands Shadowhunter ways extremely well. He might not like what it stands for, but trust me, he knows it. Remember when he grasped the Clave’s trial laws better than Alec? That was such an important moment because both Alec and Magnus knew the wording of the law, but only Magnus truly got the implications of what it meant for his own race – that the Shadowhunters thought so lowly of Downworlders they never even bothered to close the loophole that would keep them from defending someone. Alec didn’t miss this part entirely because he’s stupid; it’s because his privilege meant it wasn’t something he had to think about.

Magnus has likely given these things a lot of thought because like all Downworlders, he had to. Shadowhunter culture is the dominant force in his world. Nephilim beliefs and attitudes control the laws that Downworlders must obey. Magnus in particular works closely with the Clave. He’s spent his long life navigating Shadowhunter politics to rise to where he is now – powerful enough to talk back to the Inquisitor. But he wasn’t always here, and I don’t doubt when he was younger he had to learn their ways carefully lest he offend them and get killed for it (100% legal before the Accords.)

And to make it clear, yes, this is to do with the show’s racial allegory. The dominant majority culture invades every pore of society and minorities are forced to understand it to navigate our lives safely. We will always know it intimately because it isn’t a matter of curiosity; it’s a matter of survival.

Vent art

I’m sorry if the imagery is disturbing…. I rarely publish things like these,ms paint kind of gave me chance to try turn the negative into actual (VERY)quick clean artform, to rely some message or emotion. Vent art is a great tool, it is personal and might be criptic, so people can find what they want in it, maybe bringing them some delight from their own pain? I don’t like to publish gore for the sake of it, nor spread sads, so whenever I do publish these for you to see - it’s only because I like how the art turned out and I want to share it with you. So hopefully I didn’t make anyone sad or worry, it’s simply artwork, part of me (maybe not that nice part but I’m also only human >.< ). So hope you can enjoy it without disgust or feeling bad from it or for me - no need to! I like this kind of aesthetic too! *EDIT* venting is great on paper! It works much better to release pressure.

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’Cause I’ve seen twilight

I was stained by a role
In a day not my own
But as you walked into my life
You showed what needed to be shown
I always knew what was right
I just didn’t know that I might
Peel away and choose to see
With such a different sight

Happy Jenny Calendar Day! @dreadfulcalendarwoman

You’re not ‘messed up’. You’re human, and humans vary quite a bit! Your normal may be vastly different from someone else’s normal. That’s okay! You’re still a person. You still deserve respect.

  • mom: let me know what stresses you out so I can help you with it. even if I'm contributing to it, just let me know.
  • me: okay, well, sometimes you yell at me and it makes me upset, because you always blame me for it and I'm not allowed to disagree with you or else it's all my fault.
  • mom: wELL EXCUSE ME YOU'RE SO UNGRATEFUL I GUESS I SHOULDN'T SAY ANYTHING TO ANYONE EVER AGAIN BECAUSE EVERYTIME I OPEN MY MOUTH I UPSET SOMEONE.
  • me: that's not what I'm saying.
  • mom: YES IT IS.
  • me: .....anyway
tips on how to live a good life
  • put good things in your body
  • put good things in your mind
  • be aware of your breathing
  • wake up in the morning and think about the first thing you’re grateful for
  • make a list of things you’re grateful for at night
  • listen to some good music
  • remember you’re not ultimately alone
  • take a second to appreciate the beauty in the world
  • smile
  • stop being afraid
  • love unconditionally

I remember now why I left the fandom

anonymous asked:

This isn't really relevant to anything you post, but idk who else to ask. Do you have any tips to De-stress? I have to start getting ready to apply to colleges and my classes are killing me, my job is taking up so much of my time, and my grandmother just decided to go off her chemo treatment and she's getting weaker every day. I have finals next week and I really need to focus but I'm freaking out about everything

I’ve had this in my inbox for a little while, thinking about how to answer this question. First of all, I’m sorry to hear that anon, though it’s only been a few days i hope it’s better for you!

I don’t really know if i have any solid advice on de-stressing, especially since i think it differs from person to person what works for them.

But I think it’s very important to first of all remind yourself that you’re allowed to take breaks for your own mental health. And remember to actually take some breaks for yourself where you can do something that you enjoy (for me it’s just getting to play games) 

Focus on one thing at a time if you can. Like if you’re studying for finals, try to focus on that only, instead of other things that you’re supposed to do AFTER, cause that always stresses me out. Make lists??? Of things you want to do in a day maybe, to maybe have it a bit organized? It may help.

I’m sorry I’m awful with advice on this topic, it’s probably why i just kinda suffer through my own stresstimes lol

Bendy flew up to the other cartoon using his tail.

“Hi!” He said, trying to seem innocent, even though he was still insane as always.

@ask-ink-batim-oc ((<– did that link work??? oh well .-. At least I get to RP in the Insane Bendy AU again mwahaha >:) And I remember what your oc looks like from the submission :3 More cartoons :P - mun (@bad-to-the-b0ne) ))

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So … I’m working on my own things. Photoshop has never been easy for me but I’m trying my best !!

There is the real photograph and four of the million tries that I made.

I know that is not the best “art” you have seen, but I’m just starting

Please, thoughts?

Anonymous asked:

Do you think it’s best if I have every scene and the plot planned out before I start writing or do I only need to know the basic storyline before I should start writing?


It’s different for everyone. Some writers prefer to plan out every detail ahead of time, some prefer to start with just a general outline or loose scene list, and still others like to wing it without any planning at all. Do what works best for you.

Personally, I think even if you want to wing it, it can’t hurt to at least have a general idea of where you want to go with the story. Whether this is a loose idea of the plot, a handful of scenes that you’ve already imagined, or perhaps a particular ending, it doesn’t matter. Just anything that can give you direction when you sit down and start to write. :)

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Maybe she’ll be sitting across from you asking about the girl in the picture she found. Buried underneath a stack of old papers and letters you haven’t looked at in years. Maybe you’ll look at our faces pressed together and remember how I warmed your bones and how you set my world on fire. Maybe in a few years you’ll be able to dig out that old scrapbook I made you and turn to the page with the love letter you wrote to me all those years ago. But you won’t be able to answer her when she asks. You won’t be able to tell her that a tiny part of you doesn’t belong to her. But to us.
—  We are not something. And we are not nothing. But back then you were my everything. -gaa