what have i done it's so gross help

anonymous asked:

the only therapist i had was not ace friendly and told me asexuality was a mental disorder, so i am without a therapist, only on meds, which only help so much. i have hyperfixation and hyperalterness from trauma so i can never stop thinking of them attacking me, online of off. but their gross hatred and harrassing online is what has tipped me into this. idk how to cope or when it will end, whether i leave websites or not. im trying hard to keep going but it's so hard. do you know what i can do?

Find a new, trusted therapist, and cut that one out of your life permanently (if you already haven’t done so). It’s a traumatic betrayal to pay the money and spend the time to open yourself up to someone who was supposed to help you, and instead berate you.

Check out our ace-friendly therapist masterpost to get a good first step! And remember; therapists almost always encourage potential new clients to send an email, or call, and ask some preliminary questions about their methods and history.

- Fae 

Shingeki no Kyojin Chapter 87 Review

Hey everyone~ I’m back with a review of chapter 87. So at first I thought this chapter wasn’t anything much, but while I was writing this review, I kept thinking “holy shit!!” haha. So while this chapter may not be as exciting as chapter 86 (or maybe I still have election hangover), Isayama doesn’t fail to deliver shocking content and information, leaving us with clues and cliffhangers to ponder as we wait for the next installment. Read below for a breakdown of the newest chapter. 

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Update.

Yikes. Where to begin.

I’m egregiously behind on the Home art. I only got 7 drawings done in a month and I haven’t touched my stylus in a week because I got a job at a super high end florist shop that’s training me full time. On top of that I’m in the middle of redoing my room because I just really need that change in my life, and I’m painting a giant canvas. And I’m organizing the layout for my bday dinner next week at grandma’s house. And building an aquarium with my dad.

This is like, a huge amount of cargo for me to handle since my anxiety is sky-high 24/7 anyway, so I’m really looking forward to when all is completed and out of the way. A new room with a fish tank, a belly full of bday dinner, and part-time hours. Yay! Then I’ll get more time for finishing up Home. With that said, I am sad to announce:

The last chapter will be up early 2017.

There’s just no way I’ll be able to finish 53 drawings in less than 2 months. Even if I had no job and no other projects, the rate I’m going with adding all the extra detail in these last pieces, requires more time. I don’t want to half-ass it and pump out sloppy drawings, because it wouldn’t feel right to end Home like that. The last chapter deserves extra attention.

Thanks for waiting <3