the only therapist i had was not ace friendly and told me asexuality was a mental disorder, so i am without a therapist, only on meds, which only help so much. i have hyperfixation and hyperalterness from trauma so i can never stop thinking of them attacking me, online of off. but their gross hatred and harrassing online is what has tipped me into this. idk how to cope or when it will end, whether i leave websites or not. im trying hard to keep going but it's so hard. do you know what i can do?
Find a new, trusted therapist, and cut that one out of your life permanently (if you already haven’t done so). It’s a traumatic betrayal to pay the money and spend the time to open yourself up to someone who was supposed to help you, and instead berate you.
Check out our ace-friendly therapist masterpost to get a good first step! And remember; therapists almost always encourage potential new clients to send an email, or call, and ask some preliminary questions about their methods and history.