what do i tag this with idk

here are my thoughts on the whole bts copying bigbang discord

do i think it was bts’ choice to have the ‘no signal’ thing as part of their performance? probably not, and thus i dont think we should be blaming the group themselves because, realistically, its unlikely bts have that much creative influence over what they do in performances

so no, i dont think we have a right to be angry at bts, but i do think we have a right to be angry that it happened (regardless who was responsible). VIPs are the only people (excluding those who know him personally) to even get close to understanding how much the Act Like Nothing’s Wrong stage meant to TOP. It had deep meaning for him and likely related to past mental struggles he experienced. He is a vulnerable man with a strong stage persona but decided to show some vulnerability on stage in the form of this performance. He used the ‘no signal’ screen to hide behind whilst performing to show how much it meant to him and how it affected him. It was the solo song he chose to perform as one of his last before enlistment. It was an immensely powerful moment between him and his fans on the tenth anniversary. And thats why i’m annoyed that something with such meaningful symbolism is being taken and used for aesthetic purposes.

its a shame that people have taken this misunderstanding as an excuse to have a go at each other, but i hope this helps some people understand why some of us are quite upset at this

Tagged by @alotofmomos whoa

Are you named after someone? I’m not o: apparently my parents were thinking of naming me Whilhelmina after my grandpa but he was all do not do that to your child
When was the last time you cried? Yesterday. But I didn’t cry once today!!!
Do you like your handwriting? Mm yeah bc it’s not something that’s come naturally and I’ve worked hard on it
What is your favourite lunch meat? Chicken is not super great as lunch meat bro turkey is where it’s at
Do you have kids? No one any of us tags is going to say yes to this u silly meme u
If you were another person, would you be friends with you? No wtf I’m terrible. Unless other me also liked Legendia bc then we would prob follow each other.
Do you use sarcasm? Quite a bit but idk if it translates online
Do you still have your tonsils? I do I’ve never had surgery
Would you bungee jump? Maybe ? There are other risky things I’d rather do like scuba dive
What is your favourite kind of cereal? Cheerios
Do you untie your shoes when you take them off? None of my shoes have laces
Do you think you are a strong person? Idk
What is your favourite ice cream flavour? Neopolitan!!!
What is the first thing you notice about people? Appearance wise? Hair prob. Um otherwise is whether I’m comfy around em or like what type of feeling they give me which I can’t really describe lol
Red or pink? Red bc u get pink from red so really I am choosing both
What is the least favourite physical thing you like about yourself? Mmm it’s kinda silly but I’m self conscious about this so pass!!!
What colour of pants and shoes are you wearing rn? I’m in my pjs why would I be wearing shoes the pants are orange tho btw
What was the last thing you eat? It was chicken actually
What are you listening rn? Someone doing smth in the kitchen.
Favourite smell? Fresh bed smell. Love bed.
Who was the last person you spoke to on the phone? Does this not count texting or apps? Idk prob my mom
Favourite sport to watch? Uhhh??? Um baseball I guess
Hair colour? Brown
Eye colour? Brown
Do you wear contacts? No they terrify me
Last movie you watched? Moana I think
What colour is the shirt you are wearing? It white
Summer or winter? Winter
Hugs or kisses? Hugs but only if I’m used to u . Also show me ur had first I am cat
What book are you currently reading? Crooked kingdom prequel series.
Who do you miss rn? Um idk I was thinking about my old cat earlier so her maybe
What is on your mouse pad? It’s just a blank mouse pad
What is the last tv program you watched? Precure
What is the best sound? Cat purrs
Rolling Stones or The Beatles? The Beatles I know more of their songs
What is the furthest you have ever travelled? To Seattle via plane
Do you have a special talent? Knowing a bunch of mythology trivia
Where were you born? Illinois where I am now p much


LOL SO I JUST GOT FROM POST LIMIT HEY HI HELLO, while I was out I got tagged by my beautiful amazing jae @youngjaaes and @daesdick (thanks loves <3) 

I already did this but I changed my wallpaper and lock screen so much these past few days LOL also I’ve been jamming to Do What I Feel so much guys help me it’s been on repeat since yesterday .-. also my selfie is lil old cause I don’t have any like super current ones on my phone/laptop so like suffer with me pls.

idfk who to tag man I just…. I’m tagging fucking.. idk @minareen cuase shes my bae and @idontknowibangtagon (I’m sorry if I already tagged you in this fucking hell) and um @siriuslyjongup @hellazelo and @yoojaesus (if I did already tag you in this I’m so sorry ignore me LOL idek anymore) 

Like, yeah okay he said it would be about male x male chemistry but the song uses female pronouns. Maybe to him, that’s what the song is about but it’s not reflected in the MV or the lyrics. What was the context of his quote I need to know

Get to know your followers and let them get to know you like the little SKAM-family we are! Answer the questions and then tag 5 people who you want to know more about! 

tag #Get to know me skam

by @linneaxskam

@tarjeiharry​ tagged me to do this, thank you lovely!!

Name: Melissa
Country: England
Date of birth: July 28th 1996
Height: 5′6 (I think)
Orientation: idk 
Relationship status: non existent
Occupation: Student Nurse
Hobbies: Binge watching TV series instead of doing my assignments
Favourite season (of the year not Skam I know what you were thinking): Autumn
Favourite book: The book thief or the Inkheart series
Last song you listened to: All Star - Smash mouth because I was listening to a throwback playlist
Coffee, tea or hot cocoa: Hot chocolate
How much do you use ketchup on a scale from 1-not at all, to 5-on all foods: somewhere between 3-4, probably closer to 4.
Average hours of sleep: Average 4-6 depending on whether i am doing anything the next day.
Last thing you googled: Hand washing statistics, to prove how gross it is to my sister if you don’t wash your hands 
Last message you sent someone: ‘you tight fucks’ to my family group chat because my brother and sister were being mean about an old man who had bumped my car.

Who do you think will be s4 main?: Even or Sana 
Favourite Skam character: Isak and Even (And sana)
Biggest not canon ship: Me and the evak hoodie
Best Skam quote: Du er ikke alene because it always makes me emosh, or the cliche Alt er Love, Or ‘I’ll give you a hint… it’s not a girl’ because my brave boy.
How did you find out about Skam?: I have another blog (1D) and I kept seeing gifs on my dash, then I saw a gif set of when Even says ‘nice’ when he realises he’s home alone with Isak and I thought it was the cutest think and had to investigate what SKAM was, and now I am official SKAM trash.

Blog created: This blog was created on 06/01/2017 (my other was created in 2010 lol)
Why did I choose my URL: because it’s Isak and Even and they’re infinite… and it’s their deep conversation topic and all I could think of lol
Number of followers atm: 911

I tag @illgiveyouahint @sanaandthesun @isaksalterven @arethecatsbehindit and @theleavesoflorien <3 xxxx

anonymous asked:

(Pls tag sweet potato) im super sensitive to other people's emotions and idk what to do. Like if my friends going through a bad time it causes my mood to drop and idk this doesn't feel healthy/good for me? How do I control this/stop being as easily and negatively affected by other people's moods? Hope this makes sense

I used to be like this- if my friends were struggling, or really depressed, I would take on their emotions as my own. Sometimes I still do it, but I am getting better at catching myself and better regulating my own emotions. 
It is a process, and can be trial and error to see what works best for you, but some things to try, things that I have personally found helpful at some points, have been: 
-actually reminding yourself in the moment that your friend is the one feeling that way and identifying your own emotions- maybe you feel sad for them, or compassionate, or empathetic in addition to the things they are feeling- identifying which emotions are true to you may help. 
-Using mindfulness strategies to keep yourself in the present- check out these resources: 

- Realize that you cannot rescue or protect people from their struggles or emotions. This is a hard one, especially for me. I get overly involved, take on other people’s problems and emotions in efforts to rescue them from it, but we can’t actually do that. They have to be the ones to help themselves. 
- Set boundaries in your relationships- if you find yourself overextending, taking on too much trying to help others or allowing them to vent to you too often, it may be time to take a step back. This is a process, and can be hard, but it is possible. I have found that setting better, healthier boundaries has definitely helped me from taking on the emotions of others. Here’s some info on setting boundaries:

I didn’t think it would, but I actually found that setting healthy boundaries in my friendships has improved them! I went from being overly involved, taking on too much of their struggles as my own, and as a result, taking on their emotions. But it was hard to support my friends when I was becoming so wrapped up in their emotions. Setting boundaries has helped me help them better! 

I hope some of these suggestions are helpful for you. You may also find that DBT, particularly emotional regulation- one section of DBT, may be particularly helpful. This is something you can work on in therapy (which I highly recommend therapy if you are able), or on your own if that is really  not an option. 
Take care,


Tag Game

50 things about me

Tagged by the sweet @srcurbstompedmyheart thank you babe x

1. What time did you get up this morning?

2. How do you like your steak?
I don’t eat steak, it’s beef.

3. What was the last film you saw at the cinema?
Pretty sure it was Deadpool ages ago.

4. What is your favorite TV show?

5. If you could live anywhere in the world where would it be?
Sydney, Australia.

6. What did you have for breakfast this morning?


7. What is your favorite cuisine?
Indian, love home cooking.

8. What foods do you dislike?
Fuckin anything beef-related.

9. Favorite Place to Eat? 

10. Favorite dressing?
Girly I guess?

11.What kind of vehicle do you drive?
I don’t drive, too scared to.

12. What are your favorite clothes?
I adore skirts and idk why

13. Where would you visit if you had the chance?

14. Where would you want to retire?
Somewhere pretty.

15. Favorite time of day?
Late at night, love to listen to music in pure silence.

16. Where were you born?
Newham, East London (England)

17. What is your favorite sport to watch?
Wrestling / Cricket (the Indian kind)

19. How many siblings do you have?
3 brothers and a sister.

20. Favorite pastime/hobby?
Escapism via music (whether I’m listening to it or playing some)

21. Who are you most curious about their responses to this?

22. Bird watcher?

23. Are you a morning person or a night person?
Either, I don’t care

24. Do you have any pets?

25. Any new and exciting news you’d like to share?
I’m pregnant. With a food baby.

26. What did you want to be when you were little?
A teacher.

27. What is your best childhood memory?
Playing the piano for the first time.

28. Are you a cat or dog person?

29. Are you married?
Lmao no

30. Always wear your seat belt?
YES, super paranoid about that shit.

31. Been in a car accident?

32. Any pet peeves? 
People who chew overly loudly.

33. Favorite Pizza Toppings?

34. Favorite Flower?

35. Favorite ice cream?
Plain ol’ vanilla.

36. Favorite fast food restaurant?

37. How many times did you fail your driver’s test?
Haven’t had a driving test yet, soon though.

38. From whom did you get your last email? 
Facebook lmao.

39. Which store would you choose to max out your credit card?
Honestly like, Boohoo, ASOS or the WWE shop.

40. Do anything spontaneous lately?
Composed a song.

41. Like your job?
Don’t have one lmaooooo

42. Broccoli? 

43. What was your favorite vacation?
Greece with my best friend ❤

44. Last person you went out to dinner with?
My mother

45. What are you listening to right now?
Amazing (Remix) Naomi’s Theme actually :)

46. What is your favorite color?
47. How many tattoos do you have?

49. What time did you finish this quiz?
LOL 10:43pm

50. Coffee Drinker?

Tagging; @actualamyautopsy @unstablesuperman @ilovesamizaynn @violettevision @lil28 @fallenfoxx @flawlessness-hood @queen-of-the-collar @rvley-wwe @moxleybrosedean

I was tagged by @cat-sneeze

1) Cats or kittens?
Yes…… both…. yes

2) if you could see anyone right now, who would it be?
There’s a few potential answers so idk

3) Would you ever dye your hair? If so, what colour?
Maybe something similar to my current color but slightly redder??

4) Describe your favourite outfit.
Comfortable and cute

5) Do you prefer giving gifts or receiving them?
Receiving I’m a greedy lil monster and I hate it OTL

6) Worst habit?
Getting defensive idk???

7) Favourite band.
Excellent question idk

8) Whats your favourite time of day?
Twilight cause I like counting the stars as they show up

9) Best childhood memory?
Uhhhh my dog??? I guess?

10) Why did you create your blog?
Because I like memes and cats and tumblr is good for memes and the internet is good for cats

11) If you could move anywhere, where would you go?
Somewhere cooler and where I have a smaller allergy season (I can dream about the smaller allergy season idk if I could actually get it without moving to Antarctica)

My questions:

1: do you like plushies?
2: favorite Disney/Pixar movie?
3: favorite Disney princess/hero(ine)?
4: fave Disney villain?
5: do you tend to favor villains or heros?
6: what color do you associate with your crush?
7: favorite mythical creature?
8: candles or incense?
9: least favorite color?
10: what’s your biggest vice (pride, greed, lust, etc)?

I tag @glimmeringsprings @valkyrie-peaches @hxhneon @avpdkaneki @cat-sneeze and anyone else that wants to. Also if you were tagged and you don’t want to do it that’s cool no worries


Tag game! 
rules: copy this post into a new text post, remove my answers and put in yours, and when you’re done tag 10 people plus the person who tagged you, and most importantly, HAVE FUN

tagged by: @summersdaytae (whAT A CUTIE) also i have so many tagged things to do that ive been neglecting >.> 

A- age: 18 

B- Biggest fear: being kidnapped 

C- Current time: 9:22 am 

D- drink you last had: milk

E- everyday starts with: hearing my alarm and wanting to kill myself 

F- favourite song: dude idk like all of bts’s songs ok

G- ghosts, are they real?: idk???? maybe???? sure??? klgjlgjd

H- hometown: Bel Air 

J- jealous of: people who can have fun at parties and be all social bc lol dats not me 

K- killed someone?: i dont think i did 

L- last time you cried: yesterday (i cry everyday im weak) 

M- middle name: Marie

N- number of siblings: 3

O- one wish: meeting bts kfjdhls <333

P- person you last called/texted: my friend @blondejiminah (shES gONNA WRITE mE A TAERAH FiC im scREAMIN) 

Q- questions you’re always asked: are you okay? (me: well idk ) 

R- reasons to smile: my homies and kpop 

S- song last sang: cypher pt 4 (well i tried to sing it but) 

T- time you woke up: 5:20 am 

U- underwear color: white 

V- vacation destination: I wanna visit either Seoul or Tokyo 

W- worst habit: picking skin from my fingers or lips 

X- X-rays you’ve had: my wrist and my back 

Y- your favourite food: bibimpap (its so good but i don’t have it often rip) 

Z- Zodiac sign: capricorn

SOOO Im tagging: @blamebangtan @boyfriend-sushi @parked-jimins @ssweetshine @lonely-doki @pastelunnie @idontknowibangtagon @fairynams @blondejiminah 

I’m having a bad few weeks so I’m gonna rant and I apologise in advance BUT

literally I have so few friends, I don’t even have a bunch I can go out with anymore ‘cause everyone else has their own little friendship group. I don’t WANT to go out a lot but it would be nice to have the option?? I’m so isolated out here and I just miss laughing and idk being an adult is HAAAARD how do you make friends online?? WHAT DO I NEED TO TAG THIS POST WITH TO GET THE ATTENTION OF A FRIENDSHIP GROUP WITH AN OPEN SPACE


thoughts, feelings, y’know that sorta thing

edit 2: this is a post about bipolar disorder, made by me, an artist with bipolar disorder, strictly for other people with bipolar disorder. stop tagging it for unipolar depression, anxiety, bpd, psychosis, or anything else (those are just the most used tags on this) because it’s not about those. even if you think you can relate, tagging this as anything other than bipolar disorder is stripping my meaning away from my work, and invalidating my feelings as a mentally ill person AND an artist. stop doing that.

edit 3: do NOT put this on gore/guro blogs. thanks.

music aesthetics

lana del rey: champagne-stained kisses on love letters, vintage photographs, smoking in lingerie, sad girls & bad boys, wading in the ocean, flower crowns, california afternoons, red dresses, lipstick smeared on bedsheets, gold chokers

lorde: your favorite worn converses, fluorescent lights, eyeliner wings, ripped jeans, abandoned streets, kissing your best friend, combat boots, cherry cola, pinky promises, black nail polish, biting your lip, convenience stores at 2am

fall out boy: speeding down the highway at 100mph, screaming in the dark, smashing windows, fireworks, running until you can’t breathe, the shriek of tires on asphalt, wayward headlights, midnight revelations, the clink of glass bottles

kageyama bros fight!