what do i have to worry about

I Have Something To Tell You...

After seeing how everyone is coming together and spreading so much love, especially in the Jacksepticeye community, I’ve decided that today is the day… 

I have something to tell you guys…

I’ve wanted to say it for a while but I was worried about doing it… 

But I’m not so worried now and you guys are my friends, and so I think you should know this… Here goes… 

I’m asexual. At least I’m like 99.9999999999 (etc) % sure that I am. Yes, I have done a lot of research and reading about it to be sure, I didn’t want to rush to label myself. And the great thing about labels is that they can change. But this is what I identify as right now. And I’m proud to say it. I. Am. Ace. :D

So if you don’t accept aces and think they are invalid, unfollow me now please. But if you do accept me, then yay!! Thank you and I love you! ❤

This was pretty hard to post, but I thought that you guys wouldn’t hate me for being ace. You all seem too sweet for that and you’ve been so kind to me this far, which I’m very grateful for by the way :3

Announcement post over. Thank you for reading ^_^ ❤

Do we really need to know the absolute truth?

I don’t worry about believing anything. The truth is the truth no matter what my opinion or perception is and I don’t know the truth about Sam and Cait. The truth can’t change based on my belief or even lack of belief.

I don’t really care. I mean I could try to come to a conclusion but I don’t think I have enough information.

Some might feel they do but there are way too many variables for me.

I like them together and that’s what makes me happy. So I am a fan of that. It would be nice to verify that they are a couple but it’s not necessary and there are a lot things going on in their lives that i have absolutely no clue about. Any way i look at it doesn’t make sense so i choose to stay on the side of them being together because I like it.

Just watching them makes me feel like they are together. It’s a common reaction to them and it’s true for tons of people. Probably the majority of people who meet them and see them interact think they are together. They are asked about their chemistry so much because it’s palpable. Maybe their emotional/spiritual connection is something I have no familiarity or understanding of and neither do most people and it’s their own special brand of uhh, I dunno, them, and that manifests in this beautiful visible exciting connection between them that inspires others. Maybe they are actually together and really contorting themselves to hide it. Maybe they aren’t. Maybe they have an open relationship. Who knows?

Just watch their goodbye Scotland hello South Africa video and try not to smile. Just watch their ECCC announcement and try not to smile. They are gold together.

The magic of chemistry is that you can’t fake it. That’s why they have chemistry tests. If it were just down to good acting, you could put any two good actors together and have chemistry. But you can’t. Caitriona and Sam have IT and they have IT together. I’m here for IT. I keep my eyes on them. F- the peripherals.

To Jacksepticeye

@therealjacksepticeye I know you may not read this, but I hope everything is okay. Seeing that you haven’t tweeted anything (including the tweets about your two videos for the day) and you haven’t reblogged or posted anything on tumblr since your last post about how you felt about your video, really worries me. I know I probably have nothing to worry about and maybe you’re just taking a break after all this drama and you’ll be back soon, but being a huge fan of you, and with you being an inspiration to me, and because of several other things I would rather not say, of course I am really worried about you. You make me happy every single day, and after everything that happened on YouTube, Twitter, here and other social media platforms, it’s really upsetting me and worrying about how you are feeling and what you may be doing, especially in the future. You are an incredible human being and there is nothing wrong with what you did or said in your video. You deserve absolutely none of the hate given to you. You deserve all the happiness and support in the world. You’re mine, and many other fans, hero and we hate to see anything happen to you.

I hope everything returns to normal soon and you’ll be back to tweeting, posting on tumblr, etc. like you normally do and everything is alright. ❤❤

~ Jackie (and many other fans of yours who love and support you every step of the way❤)

anonymous asked:

ok im sorry if you're getting sick of these but what do fairies think of engineers

Not sick at all, no worries!

Ok here’s the thing about the more technical majors - I Do Not Understand Them. Logically I know they have their quirks, their weird necessities, the special spaces built around them… but I’m also 100% in the dark about those things, and I don’t want to consign a whole major to mundanity because the complexities are a mystery to me. I’ve def been a bit lax about answering some of the questions about majors, because I don’t understand enough to even really guess.

So - help me? What about engineering seems like it overlaps? What about it seems like it would be absolute anathema? What are the three top oddities you’ve come across while studying it?

Anonymous asked:

Hey! I was wondering - how can I interject dialogue with descriptive text? I want to write actions into my characters’ speech (such as my autistic MC who stims a lot whilst talking) but I’m worried it will break the flow of the writing. I’m autistic myself so the social aspect isn’t an issue, but I’m just having so much trouble fitting description in between conversation. Every piece of dialogue I write looks like the “speech sandwich” model you learn about in school and it’s not diverse at all.


Two things that should help:

1) Keep the description down to a short sentence:

“I hear what you’re saying,” she said, snapping intermittently. “I just don’t want to do it.”

2) Remember that you can vary where this description fits in. Not only can it go in the middle, but it can go on either end:

Snapping intermittently, she said, “I hear what you’re saying. I just don’t want to do it.”

“I hear what you’re saying. I just don’t want to do it,” she said, snapping intermittently.

3) You can also add some description in a paragraph before or after the dialogue:

Kiera was stimming–in this case, snapping her fingers intermittently. She was also deep in thought, because she was chewing her bottom lip–and Lucas knew that meant she was about to come up with an alternative plan.

“I hear what you’re saying. I just don’t want to do it,” she said, turning to him at last. “I have a better idea.”


By varying how you include the description in dialogue, you can avoid anything that could be thought of as a “dialogue sandwich.” :)

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Happy 21st Birthday Sophie Turner! 

I really care about this character; she’s like my best friend, my other half. I worry for [Sansa] because she’s a real person to me. I’m constantly saying to David and Dan, ‘What’s going to happen to her? You have to tell me!’ I almost think about her more than I do myself. It’s like a split personality; sometimes I slip into her by mistake.”
Afraid of Offending

Anonymous asked: I’m writing a story set in WWII about a Nazi soldier, a French woman, and a Jewish man. It’s more of a character piece than historical fiction but obvious has strong historical currents throughout. I’m worried that by humanizing the Nazi soldier, I will be offending the Jewish community or glorifying him in some way, which is the opposite of what I want to do. Any advice? It can be paralyzing at times to write because of this fear. But I want to show them all as fallible humans and the duality.

Hi Anonymous! The great thing about being a writer is that your stories have messages and meaning. Always think about what your story is saying and if it’s something that you can stand behind. Once you’ve written your story, think carefully about what message it is putting out there and make sure it’s a message you believe in. When it comes to writing about WWII, there’s a lot of history and baggage. I would suggest really delving into what fiction has already been written about the time period in the way that you intend to. There’s a lot out there. When reading, pay close attention to how the writer depicts characters, what is good or neutral or relatable about all of them? Even the ones you might not be inclined to like. 

The writer in me says that all characters should be humanized in a way. For the character to be dynamic and interesting, he’s not just one thing, but many things - he might be a painter, a son, and father, a dog-lover, among other things. But also, as readers, if we’re following their actions, we want to be able to relate to them as we read about their experiences - even when we, as readers, really do not want to relate to them. Let’s unpack that. For instance, look at Lolita. The narrator is a pedophile, plain and simple, but he’s the narrator. It’s a controversial book no doubt, but it’s widely admired. No one would say that the narrator is in the right, but his perspective is fascinating. With your project, you have multiple sides to the story, multiple characters to explore it with, one of which is a Jewish man. Though there is conflict, you’re able to write both sides of the conflict. Your take is most likely not as controversial as Nabokov’s from the sound of it. While your Nazi soldier character must be written as a Nazi soldier, making the character dynamic, writing the character beyond his occupation, will not only help work towards your goal of showing fallibility and duality. I don’t know if this helps, generally what I say, is write the best book that you can write. Make it a story you’d like to read. If you can feel that way about it, others will too. 

I feel like a lot of us are worried about Jack right now.

But the best thing to do is just take it easy and let him have a well needed break.

Trust that he will be fine. It’s not like this is the first time he’s gone sort of silent on his end. And the same goes for Mark and Felix.

In the meantime, let’s make the jse tag on here a better place, as it usually is. Put positive things in and help someone out who may be in need of reassurance. You never know who might need a friend.

It’s something simple and I know a lot of people have spoken out about this, but we still need to remember that we all have each others backs. <3

sunlightschadow  asked:

3 and Solangelo (I hope I'm not sending to many ^^')

Oh, don’t worry honey, you’re not sending too many.

~*~

Number three: Love


“Jason? How … how do you know that you love someone?” Nico asked as he looked over the building plan for a temple. The blond demigod looked up from his own set of plans. “Is this about Will?”

“It is,” Nico admitted. “We’ve been dating for a year now and I … I think I love him, but I have no idea what it feels like to love someone. The last person I really loved was Bianca, but that was just sibling love, not real love. How do you know that you love Piper?”

Jason adjusted his glasses. “Well, love … I dunno, you feel happy anytime you’re near them, you know that you can trust them with basically anything, you feel safe and they’re on your mind a lot when you’re not together. Does that sound familiar to you?”

Nico thought for a moment. “Yeah, it does. That’s how I feel. I … I love Will, don’t I? I love someone. This is what love actually feels like and … and it feels great.”

An hour later, during dinner, Nico sat close to Will and waited to muster up the courage to say what had been on his mind since his talk with Jason earlier. “I … Will?”

Will looked down at him and Nico silently cursed their height difference. “I … I love you, Will.”

Will literally beamed with happiness. “I love you too, Nico.”

anonymous asked:

How would US, UF, and SF reactor to their S/O coming home through a blizzard in below 0 weather and when they arrive they are freezing cold with numb finger and toes and stuff.

US!Sans: AHHHHHHHH. WHAT DO I DO???? He has no idea what to do but knows humans shouldn’t be out in the cold like that and is now really worried about you getting sick and is running around the house trying to grab things that make people warm and please don’t do that ever again!

US!Papyrus: Lol, what were you doing out? He warms you up, making weather and heat jokes all the while. Ice to see you. Looks like you have the chills. Hey, don’t give me the cold shoulder. He’s warming you up by flustering you and wrapping you up in him and several blankets.

UF!Sans: Panic. When did you go out? Why did you not take a jacket? What were you thinking!? He is very, very worried because he knows you could get sick from this sort of thing, and that translates into anger. While he’s shouting about how stupid you are (he doesn’t really mean it), he’s running you a warm bath, piling all the blankets in the house on top of you, and heating up one of your favorite hot drinks. 

UF!Papyrus: Grump™. As he warms you up he’s giving you a lecture on how to properly dress for the weather. He’s also reminding you to check the report before you go out (assuming you’re on the surface) so you know when it’s going to be something like this. He is rather efficient at warming you up, though.

SF!Sans: Simultaneously impressed and irritated. You survived it, so that’s all good and dandy, but you’re also freezing and that’s worrying. This Sans doesn’t really know all that much about humans but doesn’t want to ask anyone for help. So he ends up just covering you in blankets and hoping for the best until you or his brother corrects him. Expect praise for your hardiness and scolding for your idiocy. 

SF!Papyrus: Real worried. He knows how humans work, and knows you shouldn’t be out in weather like that, so he immediately gets to work on warming you up. While doing it though, he’s pretty quiet. The internal struggle is powerful in this one. Please don’t ever do that to him again.

Trying to figure out a good way of not seeing notifications (likes/reblogs/follows) on my dashboard, but also somehow not miss people tagging me in posts

I get reeeeeeally hung up on what people say on my art and in the tags. Most of the time people are very nice, I have a largely positive experience in the tags of my art (which wow I’m glad people like my stuff hlksjdf). BUT MAN some people are just kinda mean or miss the point or like to reblog things and state how much they hate it and it always super bums me out despite all the nice things people have said to the contrary. I only remember the bad things, and I want to stop this cycle, you know?? I’d like to get back to posting my art because I enjoy drawing and not worrying so much about what people are saying about it :Tc 

But if I turn off my notifications then I miss people’s mentions and art from people and stuff! Which I don’t want to do, I love seeing things people make for me or think I’d enjoy!

 Ssssso this is my dilemma  ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

anonymous asked:

I was watching some old interviews when the the cast and every time they mentioned bellarke they would just cringe and just plain seemed like it was something horrible to talk about. Kind of sucked seeing the cast nit like the ship 🙁. Btw I'm new to the show and I love it!

Don’t worry about it. They only act that way because it’s a real ship and so they can’t really joke about it since people take it too seriously. Besides, it’s also a ship that causes a lot of problems for everyone since people fight about it all the time. 

I don’t blame them for being a bit frustrated about it nor do I blame them for wanting to avoid questions about it since it causes the uglies to come out of hiding on twitter. 

Idk, yeah, my opinion is that we shouldn’t worry about what the actors say or think. They’re just actors. They don’t really have a huge say on the overall story. We just need to stick to what the show is showing us, and it seems to be saying romantic bellarke is just on the horizon. 

In truth, I’ve seen more actors be supportive of Bellarke than unsupportive of Bellarke. 

Welcome to the show! I’m glad you love it! I (obviously lol) love it too! It’s a wonderful show, and I hope you stick around till it’s end. I know I will. 

anonymous asked:

It is not my intention to offend but I don't know where this idea of mirroring comes in. I mean there are similarities between characters but narrative mirrors? It feels weird to make this assertion because most of the mirrors i see refer to an UPCOMING revelation. What has been confirmed based on the present? Thank you and I admire your cleverness and literary analysis. Stay safe!

Don’t worry, this isn’t offensive at all!  Buuut I’m not really sure what your question is?

We draw parallels between characters based on traits they have in common and make inferences/predictions about these characters based on what they don’t have in common, or based on what happens to them. A lot of the time, the show will tell us that these two characters are similar, either doing it explicitly, or by having both characters do/say the same things, and we are therefore meant to compare them. As a literary device and a narrative function, mirrors can serve to foreshadow events, reveal background information that was previously unknown to us, or show us how a character really feels without having them tell us outright.

The most obvious example this season is Not Faith - since Sherlock sees similarities between her and John, that means we are meant to see them too. She lives in a small flat, is tortured by her past, has a limp/walks with a cane, and is suicidal. We know the first three traits were true about John in ASiP, so because of that we know it’s probably safe to assume that John was suicidal as well.

Another popular example for a John mirror is Molly. In TEH, she steps in as his replacement for Sherlock, and even forgets it’s her and calls her “John”. Molly’s lipstick “not working for her” in ASiP mirror’s John’s mustache “not working for him” (they both remove these when they realize Sherlock’s not a fan). They’ve both “moved on” from Sherlock and get engaged. John and Molly both gain weight while in new relationships, and Sherlock deduces they have both gained more than they think they have. But Molly’s relationship doesn’t last, so what can we deduce about how the Watson marriage is fairing?

And assuming you sent me this ask because of that post about Vicky from TSoT, she’s a John mirror because of the way she’s different from the other women. Light haired, shorter than the others, wears red (just like Not Faith), thinks the Mayfly man is clever, wears cheap makeup. She’s very flirty with Sherlock, and he seems the most intrigued by her, so we’re probably meant to assume that Sherlock and John are at least a little attracted to each other.

I hope this helped!

anonymous asked:

I think that archie will realize that somehow he actually likes betty after bughead happened also maybe he confronted jug about his father during the baby shower not only because of what his father did for jughead but also for betty? Like he knew betty didn't know about jug's father but i hope archie won't do anything cause i like betty with jughead and he honestly doesn't deserve her !!! He's such a mess oh god

i worry that he’ll realize he has feelings for betty, especially since, apparently, kj said archie may develop a crush on one of the girls by the finale. i doubt that he confronted jughead about his dad because of betty, though. they want us to like archie, right? having him intentionally try and sabotage two of his best friend’s relationship would not be the way to go about that

listen, i love archie, but i agree that he doesn’t deserve her. and that has nothing to do with the fact i ship bughead. it’s because betty deserves somebody that didn’t realize they liked her until she was happy with somebody else. she had a crush on him for years (which he must have had some idea about) and he never did anything; he never felt anything. and then when she finally plucked up the courage to tell him she had feelings for him, he made out with her new friend.. he then proceeded to tell her that she was too perfect. that must have really hurt her considering she’s been trying to be perfect for her parents, and probably even for archie, and it ended up blowing up in her face 

millerflintstone  asked:

I just got a starter kit of essential oils from Young Living but am worried about most of them interacting with my cats. What oils do you diffuse around your kitty or do you keep them away from each other?

Hi Marilyn!

I try my best to keep mine (cat and oils) away from each other. Apart from cats - like dogs - having a much more powerful and sensitive sense of smell than us, unlike dogs cats have a harder time metabolizing the chemical constituents of oils. They are safer with higher quality oils such as those from a reliable company like Young Living however are still at risk. Lavender for example, however awesome it is for us contains a bunch of alcohols and oxides that are very toxic to cats, even when inhaled. These can have a slow and rather devastating effect on the poor kitties’ livers even with the high quality oil so its best to err on the side of caution and keep them separate, behind closed doors, how you store the oils should be taken into consideration too. I keep mine in a box, out of the way or well covered up from wondering kitty noses.

Hope that helps, thanks for the question :)

anonymous asked:

Lately my boyfriend and I have been constantly arguing and bickering about the dumbest things. I feel like I want to break up with him and I've tried talking with him but he doesn't listen fully to me and it's frustrating. We just got a dog together and I'm mostly stressed what I will do with her ):

Worry about your feelings and happiness first, and communicate with him. Sit him down and tell him how you feel etc, and then you two can figure out the dog afterwards. Your happiness comes first, and then figure out the dog, but don’t let it hold you back from doing what is right for you!! <3
Good luck <3

anonymous asked:

I am in my was to recovery from my ED eating (binge/restrict). The past few weeks have been full of junkfood BC my Body just craves them. I gained a bit of weight, which doesnt worry me at all. But im worried about all the Junk im eating, i mostly feel sick in the evening bc of them. So you think this 'phase' will go away? I dont want to force myself into 'clean eating' BC it Kind of reminds me of My ED :( but i want to become healthy and have a healthy relationship to Food..

Hey! First, i’m SO proud of you doing this!! 😊😊 you will get through this, no matter what! And about feeling sick, is it that your body is physically feeling sick from the junk food or is it your mind that is feeling sick? When it’s your body, and you feel pain or anything i’d really suggest to reduce the amount of junk food you eat so your body can start to slowly get used to all the food and calories again without getting in pain. By that i surely don’t mean you should cut it out- especially in recovery i think it’s pretty important to just eat what your body craves, no matter what your head is telling you, but i really don’t want your body to get physically sick from it! If it’s your mind that is telling you to stop eating it i would try to ignore that. As i’ve already said, in recovery i personally really think it’s important to give your body what it craves and to not Listen to your Bad thoughts, no matter what!! Just try to snack on some veggies and fruit here and then so you get in some vitamins and then there should be no problem in eating all the fries or Pizza or chocolate 😊 and yes, it definitely WILL go away. I experienced this Phase as well! keep going xx