what a horrible time to post this

lamblita  asked:

So Jill left a gofundme post on her Instagram this morning and she is getting some hate. Everyone is telling her that the timing was horrible. What a pawn she is.

I do think Jill got sold a lemon with Derick. I don’t think this is close to how she imagined her life on her wedding day. I wish it would make her reconsider her views, but I suspect she will not and will continue to be unhappy. I don’t have any proof she’s unhappy, og course, but she certainly seems pretty miserable. (Mary)

anonymous asked:

re confess and repent post: i think some people are just. too dangerous to be in society. i hate that i think that but my ex molested me multiple times for laughs, tried to kill himself as a leverage tool daily, bit off a chunk off his hand, tried to kill his parents with a deadly weapon, and broke into people's houses to watch them sleep because it was lol funny. he almost killed me too and shows no sign of remorse, stopping, or slowing down.

it’s really not that clear cut, tbh. what your ex did was horrible, obviously but there’s always more to the story imo, not saying you’re lying or whatever but sounds like they had severe psychological issues that went untreated or something along those lines.

i’ll counter your anecdote with my own, i had a cousin with a penchant for violence as well. i’ve heard stories and witnessed some as well, of my cousin enacting extreme violence on random people. breaking their possessions and taunting them to do something about it. i know what it’s like to be in the presence of someone who completely loses themselves in that moment of unbridled rage and violence, it’s fucking terrifying.

on the surface it might seem like my cousin was an irredeemable piece of shit and his actions were indefensible but there’s also a backstory, his father was a violent drunk made even more violent by psychosis and trauma he got as a vietnam vet. he used to put knives to the throats of my cousins and threaten to kill them. my uncle wasn’t even lucid during these episodes, they were a product of his trauma from an extremely grotesque war. when you grow up in an environment like that, it’s really hard to not become violent yourself and really distinguish between right and wrong, not that that justifies my cousins actions but it gives them some context.

my cousin today is a chill dude and i mean i don’t know all the details of his recovery from his past life as an extremely violent dude but i do know that camping and being in tune with nature calmed him down a lot. now my cousin is probably one of the funniest people i know, he’s extremely caring and still struggles with alcohol abuse but compared to his younger self he’s a completely different person. 

anyways, it’s my sincere belief that for a lot of people simply getting out in nature and being around animals and like, truly, living is the medicine a lot of us need. not saying it’s gonna cure cancer or fix your eyesight and cure blindness, but it’s good medicine for our frazzled minds that have been scambled by living in an alienating, schizophrenic, exhausting nightmare that we’ve completely normalized. they have all sorts of “farm therapy” facilities around the country where addicts, violent kids, runaways, folks with autism, etc., all go and work with animals, tending a farm, being in touch with something real, like nature, and it really helps a lot of people deal with problems that even the strongest pharmceuticals can’t.

anyways, kinda went on a tangent there but i don’t think people are beyond help. unless there’s something irrevocably fucked in their heads (a lot of serial killers sustain serious head injuries for example) i think peeling back the layers of trauma this society scars us with and helping folks to work on coping with them would do us all a lot more good than locking people up in cages. i do however find it interesting that you accurately describe your ex as violent but you yourself find no qualms with wanting to lock them in a cage because you have personally deemed them irrevocably damaged and you say that without flinching. don’t you think on some level that’s pretty damn violent in and of itself?

A list of possible reasons why I didn't reblog your political/social justice post:

•Its good, but its depressing and I just wanted some positivity that day

•Its something I wouldn’t want to reblog without discussing, but I have no time and/or mental energy to do that at the moment

•There are no sources

•I have seen the same post on my dash three times today and frankly, so has everyone else, adding to that is doing nothing

•Its a callout post still spreading around after the blogger who made the original offense has already apologized/done what they could to fix it

•its a harsh callout post against a mistake due to the misunderstandings of a 13-15 yr old, and I as an adult feel that this is a horrible way to do things 

•It includes a phrase like: If you don’t reblog, you’re a terrible person

•IM PROUD OF THIS COMMUNITY FOR TRYING TO FIX THE CRAPPYNESS OF THE WORLD, BUT GUILTING PEOPLE INTO REBLOGGING YOUR POSTS WHEN SOME PEOPLE COME HERE FOR AN ESCAPE IS NOT HELPING

The Most Broken Current Cartoon Character

I always thought the new and original characters were the most broken characters like  

Steven Quartz Unvierse has to live the fact that his mom, Rose Quartz, have commited some dark acts in the past

Originally posted by stevensstars

Star Butterfly lost almost everything in season 2 

Originally posted by resotii93

Marceline Abadeer lost her mother, her first and true friend, Simon lost his sanity for wearing the crown too much, and what’s worst that she has to become what she hates the most, a vampire  

Originally posted by damn-y-o-u

Ice King lost his sanity and forgotten everything he once knew himself 

Originally posted by zelderonmorningstar

But probably the current most broken cartoon character out of all of them is Samurai Jack 

Originally posted by windwaver

What makes this man such a broken figure is he used to have a strong will that keep him moving, always had hope that he’ll find his way home, and always fight for justice. Even though it seem bad at first, but he finds another way, like he always had.

Originally posted by threadless

But now, after 50 years without aging alone, he lost himself in this forsaken time. He lost his honor as a samurai, lost his way to what to fight for and lost his faith to find his way back to the past 

Originally posted by odd-tom

Every time portal is destroyed 

He lost his sword, the only weapon that could defeat Aku 

Really horrible PTSD 

Originally posted by ansvarato

Originally posted by nakamatoo

Originally posted by nakamatoo

Originally posted by nakamatoo

And what’s worst is he thinks of performing Harakiri (suicide)

Originally posted by thegifshop

Out of all cartoon characters in today world, I find Samurai Jack, the most broken out of all cartoon characters and deserve the most hugs 

I know this has been said before but I just can’t get over how utterly TERRIFIED Jughead looks here after telling Betty he loves her and then stands here waiting for her response as she slowly walks over to him.

I think I remember RAS talking about how this is the first time Jughead has told anyone that he loved them given his horrible childhood. So the fact that he made a point to tell Betty he loved her despite the risk of rejection, despite his utter fear speaks volumes to me …

THIS IS TRUE LOVE GUYS. THIS IS WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE.

Self Care

It’s Mental Health Month. May 1st. The beginning of it. I just want to post some tips on what I find useful when I feel anxious, depressed or lonely. Some tips on how to care for yourself mixed in here too. I know what it’s like to feel like nothing is going to work out and you feel like there is no point anymore. I still get sad from time to time but here is what I try to do to lower those horrible feelings. 


  1. Music 
    When I feel down I put on my chill playlist and listen to the songs. Not just recognize that the song is playing. I listen to every word, every beat, every instrument that makes a sound. I listen so hard that I forget everything else around me and forget everything that is going on in my head for a while. This actually really helps and especially if it’s a slow song, something that matches my mood. 
  2. Reading 
    Reading is one of my favourite things to do. I’m in love with words. And getting deep into one of my favourite books helps me forget for a while. Grab something to drink and maybe a snack, find a quiet and comfy place to relax and let yourself fall into a book. 
  3. Eat 
    When I feel depressed my appetite can go away pretty quickly. But if you don’t eat, you’ll feel even more tired and low. And that’s not good. So eat. Not junk food. Maybe a treat every now and again but make sure to eat healthy too. Fruit or vegetables. Maybe make some type of sandwhich or maybe eat a bowl of porridge. Whatever you want to make. But remember, not always junk food. And drink lot’s and lot’s of water. 
  4. Shower or bath 
    If you feel all ugh, and ew take a long warm shower or a bath full of bubbles. Taking a shower or bath might help you feel more relaxed and feel more taken care of. And keeping yourself fresh and clean will help help boost your system. 
  5. Fresh air 
    When I’m down, I get lazy. So the whole ‘take a long walk’ thing doesn’t go with me. What I like to do instead is open a window and stand there or take a chair and sit near there. I’m getting fresh air into my lungs which is good and I don’t need to get up and go outside to do it. Now getting exercise is a good thing to do too because it’ll boost your system also. But when you really can’t get up and walk far, just go to a window and read or listen to music.
  6. Cry 
    Yes crying is on this list. When you really need to let those tears out, just do it. If you’re in a place you feel comfortable enough to do it. Let it all out, for however long you need to. Crying doesn’t make you weak or a loser or whatever you think it makes you. It helps you. Instead of holding all those feelings in, you can let them out by crying. So just do it because a cry every now and again, will make you feel a little better. Hopefully. 
  7. Decorate and change it up
    This may be an odd one but it helps me. When I’m sad I’ll look up some quotes that I really like, write them on some paper and decorate the paper and stick it on my wall. Or sometimes I sift things around. If I think something in my room would look better in a different position then I’ll move it. I’ll maybe take some things down and hang something new up instead. Tidy my room too if it needs it. This helps because I’m focusing on other things. Where will this go? Does this look good on this wall? Things like that. Try it and see. 
  8.  Breathe 
    When I feel like I can’t breathe, I remember that I just need to take a minute. Look at my surroundings. What’s the colour of the walls? Breathe. What’s in the room? Breathe. What’s the weather like outside? Breathe. What’s my favourite food? Breathe. Do I have any plans this week? Breathe. Ask yourself some questions. Answer them and breathe. Breathe, breathe and breathe. Don’t let you make yourself small. Think bigger than what that stupid annoying voice in your head is telling you. Breathe. Because you’re worth it.

I hope these tips helped. I really do. And please, please REMEMBER… you are beautiful. You are so amazing and this world needs you in it. Maybe you feel like no one cares. But I guarantee you there is somebody out there who thinks the world of you. You are somebody’s moon. You’re that person who lights up the darkness for them. Don’t let your light go out. Stay strong and remember to love yourself and take care of yourself. You guys are more than welcome to ask me something if you need any advice or have any questions. The door is open and you are welcome. 

Let’s talk about Gabriel...

Real talk the new episodes of Miraculous have got me messed up cause like (spoilers for season 2 ep 1 and 2 so look away now if you haven’t watched it!)

We now know he’s officially Hawkmoth, surprising probably nobody. But to me this raises more questions than it does answers. Those question mainly revolving around his relationship towards Adrien.

I think it’s this scene that’s got me effed up the most-

Gabriel is destroying his own office to make it seem like there was a struggle but…but… he didn’t have to throw the photo Adrien made for him!??!?! He willingly chose to throw it away! WHAT THE HECK I- *breathes*

Yet he lingered on the drawing for a moment, with a small smile on his face. And this is the same man who hugs Adrien when he’s worried about him, who seems super over protective of him out of love (yes love, I’m sure that Gabriel loves his son in some twisted way but that doesn’t excuse his actions here) as well as a horrible sense of ownership. He’s cold but not completely unfeeling. He’s manipulative but still appears to have some humanity left in him. In short he’s complex, I kind of don’t know what to make of him right now.

I personally enjoy this development. I’m totally here for Gabriel not being a cookie cutter black-and-white villain. He’s a piece of crap abusive father, with very misguided intentions, and I think that makes him a better character (not better as in good, but better as in interesting to watch).

Most people have pointed out the comparisons between Adrien’s scenario and Rapunzel’s from Disney’s Tangled. However I think there’s a difference. I genuinely think that (unlike Mother Gothel) that Gabriel does love Adrien in some way. It doesn’t stop Gabriel using Adrien as a puppet or treating him like garbage, and I actually like that. I like that “love” doesn’t excuse his behaviour, that people can do terrible things in the name of it. It’s actually pretty deep. 

It’ll also make the fallout of this that much more horrible and heartbreaking when the reveal happens and honestly I cannot WAIT for that.

Disclaimer: This isn’t a “in defense of Gabriel” post by the way. This is me trying to figure out what his game is. I’d love to hear other people’s thoughts on the matter too!

And now that I’ve got the jumbled up thoughts out of the way- time for some yelling. Cause it wouldn’t be me if I didn’t yell. *BREAAAATHHHES*….

WHAT THE ACTUAL FRICK-FRACK SNICK SNACK IS YOUR GAME YOU CANDY-CANE-INSULT-TO-FASHION ABUSIVE, MANIPULATIVE BUTTMUNCH?!!?!?! WHAT ARE YOU PLANNING?!!?!? WHO ARE YOU?!!?! WHY U DO THIS?!?!?! I DON’T UNDERSTAND YOU AND THAT MAKES ME INTERESTED IN YOUR CHARACTER ARC. THANKS FOR THAT! I HATE IT! BOI U BETTER STRAIGHTEN YOUR SHIZ OUT ADRIEN DESERVES BETTER! GET YOUR ACT TOGETHER OR I STG IM KIDNAPPING AND ADOPTING YOUR SON MYSELF!!!!!!!!!!

an asshole, nonetheless | s.p

Originally posted by the-red-and-black

◇ Sweet Pea x reader

◇ genre: angst + fluff

◇ words: 1.5k

◇ warnings: cursing, my first time posting on tumblr, generally horrible writing 

•••

“That’s not what I meant, Pea.”

My parents would have a heart attack if I brought you home. Simply a passing comment, maybe less light-hearted than intended, but it had a bad reaction all the same.

“Of course it’s not you meant,” he scoffed sarcastically, leaning back in his chair. He let out a humourless laugh, brushing a hand through his hair. “Of course it’s not. You North Siders have a strange sense of humour, huh, baby?" 

"Don’t turn it into that.” Your eyes narrowed. “Don’t you dare do that.”

“Do what?” He was testing your patience now. He leaned forward, across the rickety table that held your school books. His jaw clenched, eyes hard and body stiff. “Say what you’re thinking? ‘Cause I know what you’re thinking. You’re thinking—" 

"Shut up.”

“—'Shit, Pea’s figured it out. He knows I’m not joking. He knows I’ll never be able to let him meet my parents because what kind of North Sider wants their daughter to bring home a Serpent?’”

“Shut up!” You slammed the book in your hand down to the table, breathing heavily as though you had run a mile. If Pea wasn’t so angry he would’ve seen the tears brewing in your eyes, but that wasn’t the case. “What’s gotten into you? You - you—" 

"I what?” He growled. “I’m dangerous? I get too angry too quickly? Sorry to tell you, sugar, but that’s who I am, and that’s what you signed up for when you became my girl. None of them North Sider boys could have prepared you.”

You stared at him for a few seconds.

“I’m not your girl,” you muttered spitefully to yourself, furiously blinking as you piled your books on top of each other. Sweet Pea’s brow raised. “Not anymore.”

“Yeah?" 

"Yeah,” you finished. He barely moved as you whipped away whatever tears had escaped and stood tall, your increasing anger only giving you more confidence. “Yeah. I’m not your girl, not anymore, so screw you, Sweet Pea.”

Sweet Pea’s lip curled — somewhere in the back of his mind reminded him that he would regret this dearly, but he was clouded by his anger and pride. “You think I care? Leave, then." 

You sniffled, shouldering your back pack. You didn’t dare meet his eyes, not while your tears flowed down your face and your heart pounded with the reality of what was happening — and then, without a second thought, you stormed out. He heard you apologising distantly to the librarian as you left. 

A strangled grunt echoed through the corner he sat in, his hair pulled taut between his fingers. He had done it again — he had let his anger get the best of him with the one person who mattered the most to him. With furrowed brows and gritted teeth, he pulled his South Side Serpent’s jacket from his chair and slung it onto his body before leaving in as much of a rush as you did.


In all honesty, Sweet Pea knew that you were both doomed to fail from the very beginning. He wouldn’t be surprised if you knew, too. A South Side Serpent and a North Sider? Hell, he had no idea what he was thinking. He hated North Siders — hated their uppity attitudes, their fancy houses, the way they turned their noses up at those who lived on the other side of the tracks. But he didn’t hate you. No, he couldn’t.

You weren’t like the other North Siders. You didn’t look down on him, you didn’t pity him… you supported him. You understood when he told you about the struggle he had faced (and still faced) as a South Sider. You were his little slice of paradise, and he had let you slip between his fingers.

It wasn’t your fault. You didn’t mean what you said, and even if you did, could he blame you? No North Sider wanted their baby girl bringing home a Serpent. Hell, a lot of South Siders didn’t want it either. Maybe it was that truth that got to him, that made him lose his temper. What he wanted for you and what he would get were two different things and even though he knew you could never have a perfect life he didn’t like to be reminded. Fuck, he needed to talk to you.

“Sweet Pea!” A voice calls.

He looks up, plucking the cigarette from his mouth in the process. In the orange glow of streetlights, he could see Fangs and a few other Serpents looking at him — expectant, mischievous, and no doubt looking to him for trouble. “What?" 

"We’re gonna hit up the quarry,” one says, already beginning to climb onto his motorcycle. The bar’s become lukewarm, then, and it’s time for them to move on to the next hot spot of the night. “You’re coming with, right?”

It’s phrased as a question but nobody expects him to answer because they all expect him to say the same thing: yes. 

“Nah.”

Everybody freezes for a second. Fangs looks over his shoulder, face the epitome of disbelief. “You’re not coming? Why?" 

"No, I got shit to do,” Sweet Pea said, eyes narrowing. He didn’t like when people questioned what he said. “Do I have to say it again, dim wit?”

“Alright.” Fangs shrugged, holding his hands up in surrender. Sweet Pea rolled his eyes, climbing onto his own bike, just as the others did, before he made up his mind and confirmed what he was about to do.


In your relationship, Sweet Pea tended to be the less emotional one. You couldn’t help it — you cried at everything, be it movies, stubbing your toe, getting too scared… Arguments were the common cause of it, though, which explains just why you were in the position you were in now; eyes bloodshot and tired, passed 1 AM and still awake, playing sad songs on the radio. Part of you thought about what Sweet Pea was doing — whether he was having as hard a time as you were, whether your fight even had an effect on him. The other part of you chastised yourself for even thinking about him.

God, could you ever stop thinking about him? About his stupid hair or his eyes or the way he smelled or how warm his jacket was when he put it around your shoulders. Stupid mundane things that shouldn’t make your heart lurch but did anyway because you loved him and now everything was horrible because of a misunderstanding on both of your parts. 

Tap. Tap. Tap. 

At first you think that the tapping at your window is just a distance sound — a tree, or a neighbourhood dog, or something other than what it actually is. A few minutes pass, though, and as your annoyance builds and your tiredness decreases, you realise that it’s coming from your window — and like the idiotic protagonist of a 60s Slasher movie, you go closer to investigate.

“P-Pea?” You stuttered in confusion. Your heart fluttered at the sight of him, standing beneath your window just like he always did when you would sneak him in. “What are you doing here?" 

"We need to talk,” he called up. He glanced around at the surrounding houses uncomfortably, before readjusting his jacket. “It’s cold as fuck out here, can I come in?" 

"You know the way.” You gestured to the tree outside your window invitingly, before opening your window wider and stepping back. As soon as you were out if sight you were a flustered mess, checking your hair and trying to make your eyes less red. By time he clambered through your window you had made your bed and tidied yourself up. Feeling much too awkward in your own room, you lingered by your bed while Sweet Pea climbed in.

Minutes passed in heavy, awkward silence. You fiddled with your hands, occasionally glancing up at his face, only to avert your eyes when you saw he was already looking at you. Memories of your fight clouded your mind but every time you opened your mouth to speak no words came out. Thus, you were left in silence. That was, until—

“I knew you didn’t mean what you said.”

You looked to him in confusion. 

“I knew that you didn’t mean it,” he sighed, shrugging, “but I still got angry because I knew that it was true—”

“Pea—”

“I don’t want you to sugar coat it,” he interrupted. He pushed off from your desk, making his way to where you stood. “We both know it’s true. I didn’t want to be reminded of what we can’t have because the truth is that I want everything for us. You deserve that — me? Not so much. I’m an asshole.”

“I know,” you breathed. “My asshole, but an asshole nonetheless.”

“And I don’t know how to…” He made a twisted face— “…Express what I’m feeling properly, so don’t kill me. Even talking about it now is hard—”

“I appreciate what you’re doing, Pea,” you whispered, smiling gratefully as you placed your hands on his shoulders. “Thank you.”

“Anything for my girl.” His smirk returned, only growing wider as he dipped his head and let your lips brush. And there he was again: your confident, cocky, asshole of a boyfriend — but you wouldn’t have it any other way.

6

Hyde just likes playing the tsundere… He’s trying to be dramatic this time to spice things up…. drama nerd (  ఠωఠ)

Don’t give up, Hyde, keep on the stupid love confessions~~

I don’t…. think I even have to mention where the song is from, right…? xDD Based on a post @pocket-luv101​ shared some time ago <’3

-
[ 1 ] [ 2 ] [ 3 ] [ 4 ] [ 5 ]

anonymous asked:

You mention this "2017 effect" in your post about American Horror Story, can you elaborate on what that means or is it just a quick way of saying "Most stuff this year has sucked or been mediorce"?

Alright, so if you haven’t already been the character in a horror or disaster movie who’s put together the pieces and had a disturbing revelation like I and my friends have, then it’s time for me to play the guidance/exposition character role.

2017 is the Year of the Impossible

Everything we previously deemed impossible or just too ridiculous or horrible to happen can and will occur.

The spirit animal of this year is the Joker from The Dark Knight. All events are on the call of the wild card and nothing is safe.

- Really Obvious Thing Everyone Knows is the First Item I’m Not Going to Name We Deal With Seeing Every Week

- Solar Eclipse

- Chris Cornell Death

- Chester Bennington Death

- DCU makes Wonder Woman and it’s actually AWESOME; it’s better than Man of Steel, Batman vs. Superman, and basically just saved that extended film universe franchise before it could crash itself into a wall.

- Not only did we just get the first great Spider-Man movie since the Sam Raimi films, it’s canonically and actively in the Marvel Cinematic Universe, featuring tons of Iron Man, influence from MCU events before it, and even Captain America cameos… and it’s still a Sony Pictures film

- In the same breath, Sony Pictures releases the Emoji Movie, ensuring that even while being on top of the mountain, they’ll do their best to bring it crashing down on humanity. Emoji Movie - a movie that is unironically about emojis and features tons of advertising for mobile games and apps with actual names up for sale and userbase expansion. Sir Patrick Stewart plays a literal piece of shit.

- Bethesda has big show at E3, farts onstage, offers almost nothing

- Every Single Thing We’ve Seen on the News, Especially During Last Month in a Southern State

- Hurricane Harvey decimates Houston, Texas

- Hurricane Irma appears barely a week later, shatters Caribbean, aiming to obliterate Florida

- Hurricane Jose joins the party

- Taylor Swift fully embraces her dark side

- Shocking personal things that have happened to me and my friend (actor for Mikey in Don’t Hug Me I’m Scared review) in very short time spans

- American Horror Story goes Full Moron, Ryan Murphy pukes up every bit of political commentary in his guts within just the premiere

- For once, I have no faith or excitement for American Horror Story

- Twin Peaks: The Return and everything inside it

- I personally met and hung out with @nyxfears for a week in his town

- It will not be the only personal encounter with a YouTube friend/collaborator this year, and the next one is going to shock (and delight) everyone and be entirely unexpected

And I know I’m missing a bunch of stuff, but some of it is news that gives away my location a bit too much, and there’s just so much insanity that I can’t get it all off the top of my head. Feel free to reblog and add your own points I’ve forgotten, everyone.

But basically: THIS IS THE IMPOSSIBLE YEAR. Use the energy, manipulate it in your favor to achieve insane things you thought you could never see happen. Reality is temporarily broken, the teacher is out of the classroom. THIS IS YOUR CHANCE.

Classic Reylo and P&P parallels:

Darcy is a dick to Lizzie:

Originally posted by elennemigo

Kylo is a dick to Rey:

Originally posted by boomdafunk

Darcy and Lizzy’s Dance:

Originally posted by iamacolinmorganist

Kylo and Rey’s lightsaber dance:

Originally posted by maytheforceormaynot

Fast forward to the conflict and misunderstandings:

Darcy being a royal prick. Even though he knows she is the only one for him. But acting like an ass to Lizzy and basically expecting her to be grateful for his attention.

In Kylo’s case, patricide and Rey calling him out on his shit (You are monster.) Claiming his lightsaber as her own and making him realize damn she is the one he’d been looking for.

Darcy’s less than perfect proposal:

Originally posted by anchora

Kylo’s less than perfect proposal:

Originally posted by pixelrey

Lizzy’s refusal:

Originally posted by slytherinnpride

Rey’s refusal: (basically just as vicious)

Originally posted by trashwilldo

Fast forward… their journey together/apart and her realization that he wasn’t that bad:

Lizzy:

“Mr Darcy? I could more easily forgive his vanity had he not wounded mine.” - Lizzy realizing they are similar, and she is just as stubborn.

“Only the deepest love will persuade me into matrimony.” - Lizzy realizing not just anyone would do.

“I have been so blind.” - Lizzy, realizing there was more to him than what meets the eyes.

Rey:

“I’ve seen this raw strength only once before..” Luke telling her how similar they both are.

“I need someone to show me, my place in all this” Rey.

Darcy’s second proposal:

Originally posted by cestrum--nocturnum

Kylo’s second proposal:

Originally posted by nicksfandomlife

I had to make a parallel post. How their first proposal to their ladies went so horrible wrong and how they try it again… And get it right the second time. 😁😍😘

i headcanon dave as a white cis guy because i find the journey of him going from perceiving himself as white/straight/cis and having all the internalized ignorant, privileged bullshit that comes with that crumble the fuck down when realizing hes not actually one of those things is the most satisfying version of dave to me. why? because i live in the whitest city in america and am surrounded by white people and their bullshit. when i was a baby and my family went on vacation to mexico to visit my grandparents soon after buying a house here, our xenophobic white neighbor went into our yard and broke one of our windows and our door gate in order to try to scare us into moving away because he didnt like that a spanish-speaking latino family moved next to him. with dave i like exploring how someone who grew up in this shit society that caters to white straight cis men can go through some kind of introspection and reject it. its vindictive and compelling to me personally, because of my personal experiences.
this is NOT a “dave is white and cis and this is why youre wrong if you dont agree” post – my point is ultimately everyone has different life experiences and finds different things compelling for a multitude of different reasons, some of which may not be obvious at first glance to you. so all these posts going around insisting that people who headcanon dave and dirk as white because of arbitrary reasons like “theyre stridercest shippers” (fucking yuck) or whatever the fuck bullshit are shortsighted as hell. next time you see a post that goes “all people who have inconsequential headcanon X are all HORRIBLE THING Y” when those two things dont even have anything to do with each other or “you have to headcanon Z thing or else youre fucking scum” just realize its a thinly veiled attempt to smear people because of 1.its an attempt to kick up drama because of fandom stagnation 2.its people trying to position themselves as morally superior to everyone else and pat themselves on the back over what is frankly some grade A stupid shit

lovetobeehappy-deactivated20170  asked:

Hi, I can't link because I really don't know how. But Tomlinsondaily has only one pic from today of Louis smiling. I'm a dental person and his teeth were buggin me so I zoomed in and he is wearing clear braces on his top teeth! I haven't seen anyone else notice this (did send to another blog but no comment).. but zoom and it's there! I'll try to attach the link but I'm horrible at this. thetomlinsondaily*tumblr*com/post/161867198062/1506 He's adorable and probably getting his teeth ready to tour

OK! So.  tumblr DID eat my response, so let’s just try this the old fashioned way.

First things first, this is the post and pic you’re referring to.  LOOK HOW PRECIOUS HE IS. 

So I went ahead and zoomed in myself! 

And I’ll be perfectly honest…I don’t see it.  BUT you’re the expert and not me.  So it’s definitely possible because GUESS WHAT.  It wouldn’t be the first time.  I showed this to @bananastagram and she pointed out that he’s had braces before and gave me evidence!! 

so maybe he wasn’t wearing his retainer and they shifted and he wanted to get them realigned???  

WHY IS THIS SO ENDEARING???  This should not be this endearing!!!!  BUT IT IS.  

y'all, bum isn’t going “crazy” or some shit. he’s probably dissociating like hell. he just had a huge fucking flashback and stabbed the shit out of someone. he can’t deal with reality atm and his brain is trying to protect him by making him feel nothing. that’s what dissociation is a lot of the time– feeling absolutely nothing, even when horrible things happen. that doesn’t make him your “pscyho gay baby~~” (we got proof that he’s bi lol) or a monster. he’s just a traumatized dude with bpd. chill out. stop being weird about mental illness.

The show made me do it....

Hi @tinkdw , @ibelieveinthelittletreetopper , @elizabethrobertajones I wanted to post this to a couple of meta writers / bloggers I follow here re my thoughts about Destiel. 

Firstly, just so you know where I’m coming from, I’m a writer of fantasy/crime/thriller/romance fiction. World building a subtle development of characters is part of what I do.

I watch crime dramas – I’m horrible to watch them with because I ALWAYS work them out – because I PAY ATTENTION to what is on screen, both textually and sub-textually. I also believe that TV is an expensive media and what screen time there is is short. So if something has made it to screen, no matter how small, it is of significance. Writers, directors, actors, editors all felt this was MEANT to be seen. I also believe that just because two characters have great chemistry doesn’t mean they have to be a canon couple. (Morgan and Garica from Criminal Minds is one of the best one screen platonic friendships on screen, I’m glad the writers were brave enough to keep them that way and not push them into a relationship.)

I’m a whoivan so I am no stranger to fandom and there is no way you can be in ANY fandom and not know of Destiel.

Now, until last year I had not seen Supernatural. It was one on my watch list but never got around to it. So I decided to start with series one DVD and see how I got on. And ok, some of series one was a bit shakey, some of the stories not great… but the premise, the backbone of Sam and Dean, their relationship – THAT was great from the start and kept me watching. It still keeps me watching.

As I got to season 4, I wondered if everything I’d heard about Destiel was real. It wasn’t why I was watching, it was the brother’s journey that kept me going. Shippers are passionate, GIFS can be created to emphasize a point, but when those GIFS are out of context of the episode – did they still stand up as “Destiel”? So I went into season 4 open minded. (PS I’ve also had no issue accepting that Dean is a repressed bisexual – hints have been made all along, character building)

Oh.Dear. Lord. It’s real.

But let me take a step back. When watching S4 most of the time I was watching Cas on screen, his intensity with Dean appears to be him trying to work out the man he saved. His orders were to pull him out of hell, put him back together again. He did that, and in doing so he knew EVERYTHING about Dean until that point. He returned him to Earth the same bright souled, flawed human that he was, along with all his loves, fears, hopes and dreams. Everything he was, and everything he hid. His self loathing. Castiel KNEW everything about Dean.

But knowing someone and understanding them are different things. What I see in most of S4 is Cas trying to understand Dean. Because the man he put back together is not the man he sees and knows is really there. (He sees performing Dean before the other important people in his life do.)

Dean for his part mostly looks like his every hidden fantasy walked into the barn that day. And because it’s not a door he’s even prepared to peek through, it’s all unsubtle looks at Cas, his body language screams attraction when his actions say otherwise. (And “The Rapture” was fantastic as showing that he is drawn to CAS not JIMMY.)

S5 was seemed to build more on above, but if their plan was to end at S5 then you could say that they are brothers-in-arms. Castiel the angel that can’t quite figure out the human he saved and Dean the human who never felt worthy of this new friendship/crush, which also left him bemused.

S6, Dean with Lisa. Well this was where I was wondering if Destiel would be ticked to the curb. But no. Dean needed to experience what he thought he had wanted. What he believed his parents had before that November night.  He tells Lisa in S5 that when he pictured himself happy, if was with her – but the reality wasn’t what he wanted. He cared about them, loved them. But when he walked away from them after Cas took their memories, he wasn’t broken.

Cas in this season is clearly falling for Dean. He goes from intrigue and mild jealousy (Anna) in S4/5 to full on heart eyes by the end (The Man Who Would Be King) is just epic.

S7 – despite the reduced role of Cas, it was great for setting up grieving Dean for later seasons. When Cas is lost to the Leviathans, Dean is equal parts upset and angry for Cas’ actions. But in the end he still carried that trenchcoat around for months, in various cars. But he did the same with Bobby and the flask, and there is no ambiguity as to his feelings towards Bobby. For me he grieved the loss of family in both cases and in similar ways – that was until they both return. Dean’s reactions are different to the return of Bobby and Cas. Subtly different, but different never-the-less. (Then you compare the loss of Cas and Bobby in this series to S13? There is NO comparison. He hasn’t lost a friend/crush or father figure, he’s lost the absolute love of his life).

And Cas/Meg? Well there is a great relationship. Two great actors and chemistry, with an obvious set up for a possible “impossible romance” (which could have been enthralling in its own right if Destiel wasn’t pushed in my face 😉 ) but their chemistry worked so much better in the platonic sense.

I’m only half way through S8, Cas is out of purgatory and this is for me when Destiel the ‘romance’ is going canon. Benny’s reaction alone when Dean and Cas reunite is telling. You can see his brain going ‘friend my ass!’.

For the most part, what I’ve seen is subtle acting by all parties, a slow progression from strangers to comrades, to friends and now friends who are clearly falling for each other - it could have stayed platonic with some odd but explainable behavior between Cas and Dean. It is all there, on screen if you look. Now, I may be a few seasons behind but I know what is happening currently and I’m highly encouraged they are showing a deeply complex, touching and enduring love story where the characters have gone on an epic journey to find that love. The genders of those characters means fuck all.

I know for many of you what I’m saying is old news. But I wanted you to know that someone who has only recently started watching Supernatural and went in with an open mind, I can clearly see what is in front of me.The show made me do it. I ship Destiel. They are one of the greatest OTP’s of all time. It isn’t imagined. It isn’t exaggerated by GIFS.

For those of you who have studied this series into the minutest of details (and not just for Destiel) and those of us who are observant and see these small things as we have watched – we are being rewarded. For those who choose not to see, or have their own petty reasons for not wanting see such a powerful love story, well they are the ones losing out on something spectacular.

Wow, this ended up being longer than expected (a theme in my writing, haha!) and it didn’t go into any real detail!

Keep on meta writing and being awesome in this fandom - your blogs make me smile.

I have.. thoughts..

With Jeremy’s recent interview. I’ve seen Klance shippers be absolutely horrible (and it’s not the first time) to not only him, harassing him on Instagram comments. But to other shippers especially allurance and shaladin. I just wanna say that, it’s made me lose love for this ship. The actions of a lot of klance shippers have made me lose love for this ship and It’s hard to look at it now without remembering just… all the hate. I’m sorry if I haven’t been drawing it. I’m sorry if I won’t be drawing for it in a long while but until the fandom starts being respectful human beings to other shippers and accepting that “hey, klance might not be canon, and the creators don’t owe you anything, this show is more than just a ship anyways” then I don’t know if I can draw klance for a fandom that’s so cruel. I’m a multishipper. I love love, and romance and soft wholesome relationships, I think a lot of ships in this show are good. But I know a lot of it is fanon. It’s not real. And I have to ask, why does the lgbt rep have to be klance? Why does it have to be your ship? Do you really care about representation or is it only about your ship? I really hope this fandom changes because it’s become incredibly toxic and unhealthy. I’ll continue to create art that makes me happy (I’ve been really into matt x Keith lately) and for now that might not be Klance so I apologize.

aftgonice  asked:

RE: the "race" thing, I always tell my English-speaking people that we don't use that word in Italian and they almost can't believe it but I can't believe it's a word that is actively used and even encouraged to use elsewhere :/ it makes me so uncomfortable and I think the only time I've seen it used in Italy was on a medical report where it used the word "caucasian" to describe me but I can't remember if it said "razza" before that or what :/ idk it was super weird

UUUUGH yeah it’d have felt horrible to me tbh and yes exactly what you said