Are there any ghosts you still have trouble talking to/ connecting with??
(Don’t let anybody know lol)
On a more serious note, I am more mature about how I treat everybody now. I can recognize when I’m having a really emotional reaction and get re-centered…
I mean, they were banned from coming over a couple of years ago, but after they realized I was serious about this whole interspecies relationship deal they haven’t done much to break the rules - so I won’t do anything even though personally, I’m not a fan.
But it’s really a case-by-case thing. It’s why FAIR helps so much. That way I have a set of predetermined rules and agreements that keep things pretty professional.