Sometimes I get the urge to make a video blog on Youtube, because I am exactly the kind of egotistical asshole who would make a video blog, but then I remember that I have no skills in make up and I’d probably just end up oversharing and cry while I try to review The Latest YA Book.
hOW MANY YEARS HAS IT BEEN aaaa you’ve been one of my closest friends ive made on here :’)) Thank u for sticking with me throughout these years and I apologize for any wrongdoing ive done u_u;
sentimental stuff aside FJSKF AFTER 47843 YEARS I FINALLY DREW AN ACTUAL LAPIDOT rip i know ive said ive been wanting to draw them earlier but well better late than never i suppose hAHAHA they’re really cute and because of u i got into this ship 8’’))
Thank you all so much for your support and well-wishing lately, I really do appreciate every bit of it! You can imagine how scary it is to come out as a transwoman, especially when there’s thousands of eyes on you on a regular basis.
But I just wanted to say that what clothes I wear shouldn’t matter to my identity, and I know quite a few people get confused by that (and that’s totally ok!), but I’m a big proponent of “clothes shouldn’t be locked by gender” and you should wear whatever you like no matter what gender you are.
Do I want to grow my hair out? Wear dresses or leggings? Sure, why not! But that doesn’t “make me a woman”!
I’m a woman because that’s what -I am-. It’s how I feel, how I’ve always felt, it’s who I am and who I’ve always been.
I’m so happy to be out now, it’s extremely freeing and the support you’ve all given me has been so incredible that I feel very comfortable about being more and more myself outwardly how I’ve always felt inside.
So will you see me wearing dresses, skirts, leggings, etc? I mean, probably because I like that stuff. But gender isn’t defined by clothes, and it’s that’s really something important I want everyone to understand.
For my name, Kdin, it’s pretty gender neutral, and despite my problems I’ve had with it. I’m keeping it. It’s me, it’s part of who I am, and I do love it. So I will stay Kdin, it was the name I was given at birth and I plan to keep it. Some don’t keep their names, but I’ll be keeping mine cause I feel it fits me very well!
Now, onto HRT. That’s a big one, and an extremely personal one. If I decide to do HRT, it will be something for me, not for anyone else, because it’s something I feel I’d need to do. When or if that will start is entirely up to me, and when I share that info is also up to me. I’m a fairly open person, so if it happens, I’m sure you’ll all get your chance to know too and I feel very comfortably that I’d have your support in it!
So! I hope that answers some questions, please still feel free to ask me questions, I love answering them! I just wanted to put these major questions I’ve been getting asked to rest.