we need your advice

Hello and welcome to the TJLC Support Group!

Do you want to make new friends in the TJLC community? Do you want a place to anonymously ask questions without judgement? Do you need life advice from your fellow TJLC-ers? Well we are here to help!

  • Our main goal is to offer support for people in the tjlc community
  • If you want to meet more tjlcer’s and get more active in the community, send us an ask so our followers can see
  • If you’re feeling doubts or want to express an unpopular opinion, this is a place where you can express those thoughts without judgement
  • If your’re a larger blog, but feel that you can’t express some opinions bc of your following feel free to use our ask box as anonymous confessions box (anons will be censored though please no hate)
  • If you’re feelings doubts and want help to believe, tell us and we’ll ask our followers to link to their favourite metas/evidence!
  • We have a full FAQ which lists the aims and values of the blog and the tags we aim to use for those who wish to avoid doubts.

Who are we? We are a blog set up by @witch-lock and @the-abominable-brides, but we hope to grow!

Why are we doing this? Our reason for having this space is so people in the community can express their thoughts without fear instead of bottling their feelings up, and to lessen the amount of doubting asks sent to other blogs that don’t wish to receive them. We hope to answer any concerns followers have, personal or fandom related to try and create more tangible support for everyone in the tjlc community . 

Give us a follow, send us an ask (seriously anything you like!) and PLEASE REBLOG AND BOOST THIS POST WE WANT THIS SPACE TO BE USED BY AS MANY IN THE COMMUNITY AS POSSIBLE

I Need Advice

      Hey guys so I REALLY need some advice right now because there’s something that’s been bugging me for the past few days and I don’t know what to do. So anyways a couple of months ago I met this friend named Michelle that I really liked and when we first met we talked for like 3 hours and we got to know a lot about each other and we have SO MUCH in common it’s like she’s my long lost twin or something because we like a lot of the same things and have a lot of the same quirks which is pretty amazing (I think I mentioned this on my blog already but anyway) so anyways we hung out one time after that and we had a lot of fun that night we seen a movie and had tim hortons later and right after that when I came home without me even asking her out she said that she’s wasn’t ready to be in a relationship and wants to stay friends  & while I was upset about it I was ok with it after and we became very good friends after that. We texted each other all the time, hung out a lot mostly to get coffee or get something to eat and we would always have fun together and we got to know a lot more about each other as friends and even found more things that we have in common which is awesome I never met anyone like her it’s crazy she’s just such an amazing person to be around. 

       So anyways during the Christmas season she went home to see her family obviously so we didn’t see each other for almost a whole month so last week when she came back to town we hung out for almost 3 days straight. The first day we had coffee at Tims and had Chinese food at the mall, the next day we seen a movie and had tims again afterwards and just hung around the mall for a bit and then last Friday we had Starbucks and stayed there until it closed for the night just talking and having a laugh and just having fun in general & through all that week we became more close as friends and got to know more about each other, we had a few laughs it was a great week & we really enjoyed that week & we texted each other a lot since. Anyways I’ve grown to like her a lot more & tbh I think she might like me back & might feel the same way as I do. 

       So now tomorrow we are going out for dinner (as friends) to celebrate her birthday which was last Sunday but I had to work and we was gonna do it Monday but she was sick so we decided to go tomorrow night to Swiss Chalet and she don’t know this but I’m thinking about telling her how I feel & asking her out & I’m nervous as hell because I don’t know how she’s gonna react at all knowing that she might not still be ready to be in a relationship but at the same time I feel like there’s something there between us & I feel like she’s the one for me & I’d really like to see where this goes. I’m full of butterflies & it’s driving me crazy because I’ve really grown to like her since we first met and I think she’s the one for me because we really connect, we just get each other & again we have a lot of things in common and we have a lot of fun together along with that she’s pretty, funny, sweet, a true friend, easy to get along with and has such a cute Portuguese accent & just all around a great person & at the same time even if she doesn’t like me that way I don’t want to ruin this amazing friendship that I have with her because we are basically best friends at this point & I don’t want to make things weird or awkward between us I don’t want to lose my best friend.

       So what should I do guys? should I tell her how I feel? should I wait a little longer? is it worth it? Do I keep my feelings bottled up?? WHAT DO I DO? I need advice badly…



The survey goal has been hit!  Thank you so much for your answers guys, you are solid gold. So I believe I promised a preview and it is time to deliver.

This production will be brought to a very polished animatic and it will NEVER be animated beyond maybe, a section or two.
The lines have yet NOT been completed, and we are pending Tia’s performance.  This animatic  is not final , as new cuts and breakdowns will be added shortly.

The text has been edited by Mitra,so REV (who is performing as Discord) will have to retake part of these lines (Spirit’s fault, for giving him the outdated script). We listened to your advice when you pointed the original text needed work, so we outsourced it. :)

Imagine for Owen Grady were the reader is trying to tell him she is pregnant and instead of just being up front and telling him she is dropping hints for him to pick up on....

Owen Grady x Reader

Requested by: Anon

It was another ordinary day in the park and you were on your lunch break with your friend and coworker Rose. A few minutes before you did the pregnancy test. You already knew the result and wanted to tell her first. She was talking about the new interns who had arrived. You sighed calmly and interrupted her.
“I’m pregnant!” You said smiling ear to ear.
“Omg! How? No don’t tell me, but I didn’t know you and Owen were trying…” She looked astonished.
“And we weren’t, but it happened. Do you think this is a good idea? I mean, we’re so young…” Your mind was a mess. You really needed some advice from Rose.
“Hm…I know him very well and I know that he loves you too the moon and back. And you are hopelessly in in love with him. When two people love each other that much, I think they can do wonderful things. And by wonderful I mean to have the ability to create and love a life. I think you’re going to be a great mom!” She smiled and waited for you to say something.
“Well, I’m very happy. I always wanted to have kids…How should I tell him?” You asked her and saw Rose covering her mouth with the hand.
“You didn’t told him anything?” Rose was confused. You swallowed.
“Nope…I just found out half an hour ago!” You wrapped your own hands together and stared at her, in hope she finds a way to you tell Owen about your pregnancy.

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Introducing: Dear JSTOR

Originally posted by mantradocaribe

Jennifer Senior at The New York Times posted a pretty epic review of Jonah Lehrer’s new book, “A Book About Love” yesterday and it was… well, epic. But! It got us thinking because, in one particularly brutal turn of phrase, Senior describes the book thusly:


So. Introducing: Dear JSTOR: Answers to your problems, cited. Having a problem with your landlord? Stuck in a rut? Need love advice? Send us your questions, and we’ll dispense well-researched answers - with citations!  

Ask away! 



NB: This is not an excuse to get us to do your research papers for you. Seriously. We’ll see through it so don’t ask. :)

hey everybodyy! it’s rebecca, with a big announcement to make, which i am SO excited about!

do you know the feeling when you wish you could tell your younger self differently? have you got any tips that you NEED studyblr to know? do you wish you could have avoided a situation if you just had some ass saving advice last year?

well we need your help, as well are your study buddies too! share your experience/advice/tips you wish you knew last year!

with @bemyhighlighter , we want your advice for “I WISH I KNEW THAT LAST YEAR” so ask or message either of us or post your advice with the tag #iwiktly and also mention us in the post. 

here are a few rules and guidlines about the project: 

~it doesn’t need to be directly relate to studyblr/school - any advice that’s important to know is welcomed!

~the more extraordinary the better!

~there is no limit to the amount of tips you can submit.

~follow both me (@swotting) and @bemyhighlighter to see your submission in the final post.

~all submissions must be in by september 30.

thank you for reading, and we look forward to reading your submissions! 

rebecca x


Taylor you may not know my face but I hope one day you will.

I have so much I want to say to you and thank you for but I know if I ever was blessed enough to meet you I would just cry and forget every single thing.

Thank you for being my friend when no one else was, thank you for getting me through every heartbreak I’ve ever had and thank you for loving me when I didn’t love myself.

Thank you for sharing your life with me, I wish that I could show you how much you mean to me and I could hug you and tell you how much I love you and how I will always be here for you like you have for me.

I wish I could text you in the middle of the night when something funny happens or when I need to ask you your advice. I wish we could send each other videos and Photos of our cats.

You may never know me as Giordann the 22 year old from Australia who yearns to entertain people and has joy in making people happy. But I wish you did

I saw you four times this year, in Brisbane as a Junior Jewel, in Adelaide as an 80’s prom Queen , Melbourne night 2 as the dancing girl emoji and Melbourne night 3 as an 80’s aerobics instructor. I had the time of my life with you

I will never understand why adults are so fucking hateful. They literally think they fucking know everything too? Nothing is ever “the right way” or “good enough”… Like I busted my ass to get to where I am and adults shit on my life with their ignorance DAILY. “Well when I was your age—-” FUCK OFF THIS IS 2015 NOT 1986, COLLEGE & JOBS ARENT FUCKING HANDED TO YOU ANYMORE AND WE DONT NEED YOUR ADVICE ON HOW TO ACT EITHER, GET WITH THE GENERATION AND STOP PREACHING BULLSHIT FROM 6 CENTURIES AGO.


WE NEED TO TALK ½ - part 2 of BUSY

You take your friend advice and ask to talk to the boys about everything that’s has been bothering you