we need help!

“The institutions of human society treat us as parts of a machine. They assign us ranks and place considerable pressure upon us to fulfill defined roles. We need something to help us restore our lost and distorted humanity. Each of us has feelings that have been suppressed and have built up inside. There is a voiceless cry resting in the depths of our souls, waiting for expression. Art gives the soul’s feelings voice and form.”  
 

anonymous asked:

Is it true that the other side by ruelle was written for Malec??? I saw it in one of the blogs? Does anyone know

As far as I know (so correct me if I am wrong), Ruelle wrote the song “for a special show” but never stated that she wrote it for Malec. It’s just that the Malec fandom claimed that song from the very first second because it screamed Malec. 

Personally, my first impression was that it probably would be used in the C/limon/C/lace break up scene and I guess I was right since the song will apparently be played on the next ep on Monday.

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how the signs will die
  • aries: explosions
  • taurus: stabbed
  • gemini: only like half dies tbh
  • cancer: lava.
  • leo: clowns
  • virgo: vampirism
  • libra: dying like 2 hours after stabbing yourself somehow? you like manage to write down a lot of shit and then finally die like wow nice job
  • scorpio: a very mad robot/a very mad sister take your pick
  • sagittarius: also clowns
  • capricorn: ?????? do you even die ????????
  • aquarius: cut in half
  • pisces: SHOT THROUGH THE HEART

A little tip for parents with children in school (or for children in school to show their parents)

My mom gave me and my sister two days every semester that she called “mental health days.”

Those were days, that for ANY reason, and without having to tell my mom the reason, we could skip the day of school. We’d just tell her we were taking a mental health day and she’d call the school and let them know we were not coming in. 

#1 This helped keep our grades up by lowering our stress levels. I never got a C in any grade school class. The majority of my classes I received A’s. I also took 4 AP classes and they were not weighted. Trust me, it made a difference.

#2 I never felt the need to skip school. I knew if I ever wanted to or needed to my mom would help me. 

Your kids are young and need time to recover. They need some days where they can do nothing but stay in bed for no reason. They need their own space where their privacy is respected. It will make a huge difference.

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HAIKYUU FANDOM RIGHT NOW

*waiting season4*
*iwaoi not going to the same university*
*third years leaving second years behind*
*third years graduating*

a personal list of symptoms i have that fall under the fantasy living aspects of avpd (avoidant personality disorder). maybe you’ll resonate with some of these as well.

  • over consuming media. whether its anime, manga, dramas, or video games. an example: i finished s1 of a 24ep show in two days while playing animal crossing the entire time. when i take a break, i insert myself into the world of the media i’m partaking in. this could manifest as a simple self insert, imagining what i’d do in certain situations, to a complete thought out fantasy world that takes my consciousness out of reality. it can be jarring when i’m dragged back into the real world by force (sometimes, i can have conversations with people without knowing it, and come out of it during). 
  • creating personas / ideal personalities. i don’t like how i portray myself in the real world most of the time. my personality, as i see it, is basically just a bunch of symptoms from disorders. so when i’m in these fantasies i’ve created, i give myself better traits and make myself look the way i want. these visions of myself are often times carried into dreams and, when i’m not paying attention, sometimes through conversation in real life. i lack a thought to mouth filter when this happens. 
  • uncertain reality. because of the dissociating and the constant back and forth between fantasies, reality can seem totally unreal. people and relationships can seem fake, forced, or dishonest. especially when a person you’re close to is sucked into your fantasy. they can say or do something in your made up world, but in the real world — they’d never do or say something like that, which sends mixed signals to your brain. “maybe they would actually do that.”, “maybe they have thought those things before.”, “maybe they do feel that way.”, etc. 
  • if i don’t think about it, it doesn’t exist / didn’t happen. have you ever experienced a dream so vivid of every day life that you have to stop and think, did that really happen or was that a dream? it’s the same concept as that but reversed. if i tell myself something didn’t happen, i start to believe it. example: an acquaintance sets off alarms of potential abandonment. i leave them before they can leave me. i tell myself i never knew them. i start forgetting things about them. eventually, i don’t even remember their name. they’ve been cut from my memory. they don’t exist in my reality. 
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So, @kapeluszniczka and I passed our exams and decided to celebrate it with an update of our lame Valentine’s Card!

Enjoy ((Graphic design is our passion: the sequel))

Part I