Someone said sex in a relationship isn’t important.. well to me it is. (If it’s not a requirement for you, I respect that - this is about people who do have regular sex and the importance of reciprocal intimacy)
When people refuse to acknowledge the importance sex plays in a relationship it bothers me. As a woman, do you know how unenjoyable and painful it is, being intimate with someone who doesn’t know nor learn how to get you aroused, or doesn’t see any value in foreplay? A weak stroke with selfish tendencies?
Are you a charity?
Everyone deserves good sex. Woman’s bodies weren’t designed for men’s sexual disposal and saving him from a bruised ego by being silent and accepting poor quality sex isn’t fair. If a man doesn’t know how to operate a woman’s body, then he shouldn’t be near one until he’s finished studying and vice versa.
Sexual chemistry is vital. How are we supposed to embrace each other in love equally, if one persons needs are constantly overlooked. The spiritual ties to sex is way too deep for anyone to put up with a lifetime of bad sex.
Communicate with each other.