we hate it a lot

My country is celebrating 100 years of independence this year and we are also achieving marriage equality on the 1st of March. I can’t think of a better way to celebrate our achievements as a nation than celebrating equality and human rights. Congratulations, Finland, may there be many more victories such as this and may your freedom last a thousand years!

(yes, the Finnish flag appears backwards because she’s waving it around)

What people don't understand about abusive parents

What people don’t understand about abusive parents is that we can’t always hate them. We can’t just constantly hate them because a lot of them are quite nice half the time.
It makes it hard to hate them because it’s like “they’ve been horrible to me but they treated me to a present yesterday or a cute little chocolate bar so I’d me rude to hate them because of what they’ve done for me” and it’s destroys your mind because then people questions if they actually are abusive when you seen to like them at that time.

Do me a huge favour and REBLOG IF YOU DON’T CONDONE SHIP SHAME/SHIP WARS

We all have ships we don’t like. A lot of us even have ships we hate- but that doesn’t make it okay to tell someone not to ship something, and it certainly doesn’t make it alright to send someone hate/shame them for what they ship!

Ship wars can really hurt people, and leave lasting issues with fandom/shipping as a whole, or even drive people out of fandoms entirely! Tag blockers exist for a reason- so please reblog this to let folks know your blog is a safe space, and you’ll use them instead of sending hate!

The more you forget me, the deeper I slip.
Give this silence two more months and it’ll be like we never even met at all. That’s what we both want, right?
The thought of you wanting nothing to do with me still hurts just as much as it used to.
I promise I won’t call anymore.
I won’t even say your name when I’m drunk, alone in a bar.
It won’t be so bad, right?
We always go back to each other, right?

But, what if we don’t this time?

—  Maybe we weren’t supposed to work out
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Read in 2016 » The Hating Game by Sally Thorne

     "The job is mine, Shortcake,” Joshua’s voice says.
     To stop myself from standing up and punching him in the gut I’m counting one, two, three, four …
     “Funny, that’s what Helene just told me.” I watch his backside walk away in the glossed surface of my desk, and vow that Joshua Templeman is going to lose the most important game we’ve ever played.

Happy birthday to the snapchat queen, a PS wizard and a great friend @cobaltcharlie ;*

And you couldn’t tell the difference
Between me and you
And I nearly didn’t notice
The gentlest feeling


this is like the worst thing ive ever drawn but i wanted to draw my boys with matching BF necklaces… whoops (“BF” stands for BoyFriends, btw)

It’s not fair that you’re still the only person that can make me smile even when I’m so incredibly down. It’s not fair that your voice is the only thing that seems to calm me down when I’m thinking about getting out of town and never seeing this place again. It’s not fair that your eyes locked on mine makes me feel more cared for than my own family does. It’s not fair that you left and found new places to leave pieces of your heart after I let you into my head. It’s not fair that I’m still upset and you seem just fine. It may not be fair but I wouldn’t have it any other way because when I think about you with your eyes still so bright… It makes me happy again. It’s not fair but I hope you’re so unbelievably happy. That’s the only thing that makes this unfairness bearable.
—  It’s not fair that you don’t think about me anymore, but it’s still okay.

I ship everyone in Overwatch man.

Meihem? Ship that shit
RoadRat? Shipping that shizzle
Gency? Heck yea I ship it
McGenji? Boi oh boi sign me up
BoomBox? Why the heck not
DVA76? sure do
GenVa? Yea boi
BunnyRibbit? I’m living for it
Genyatta? Hella cute

okay, final thoughts on this mess.

while it’s true that we need to “keep fighting”, it’s important to remember that we’re not fighting people. we’re fighting hateful ideas and ignorance.

we need to educate & listen to each other. yes even (and especially) when the other person is a huge bigot, because we’re never going to change their mind by making fun of them. 

we need to explain and educate and fight the problem, not the people.

honestly i feel kinda bad for trump supporters. they’re worried and scared and genuinely think they’ve done a good thing.
we need to learn from this election that we’re not gonna change any of that by hating them or ignoring them. unfortunately. that would be a lot easier.

this fight requires a lot of work and conversation with people you don’t wanna talk to.

and i hate to say it, but the same thing goes for afd voters! it’s nice to just say fuck them they’re idiots. it’s nice and easy and feels good. 

but the uncomfortable truth is that that’s not going to get us anywhere. 

hamburr vs jamilton fics
  • hamburr: lafayette being like 'what th FUCK alex u could do so much better', CHILDREN, 'maybe ur not so bad alex', LOTS OF CHILDREN, single dads au, 'hey theo? its phillip we have to get our dads together', college au
  • jamilton: lafayette being like 'what th FUCK thomas just fess up to ur feelings', HATE SEX, 'i dont hate u we just have opposing political views', LOTS OF HATE SEX, au where hammy gets drunk and tjeffs has to take care of him, 'hey @god? its madison we have to get these idiots together', office/modern au
Nico wanted to pull away. He hated physical contact. But Will was a lot stronger than he looked. Nico found himself leaning against him, relying on his support.
‘Take this,’ Will said.
‘You want me to chew gum?’
‘It’s medicinal. Should keep you alive and alert for a few more hours.’
Nico shoved a stick of gum into his mouth. ‘Tastes like tar and mud.’
‘Stop complaining.’
‘Hey.’ Cecil limped over, looking like he’d pulled a muscle. ‘You guys kind of missed the fight.’
Lou Ellen followed, grinning. Behind them, all the Roman guards were tangled in a weird assortment of ropes and bones.
‘Thanks for the skeletons,’ she said. ‘Great trick.’
‘Which he won’t be doing again,’ Will said.
Nico realized he was still leaning against Will.
— 

The Blood of Olympus

We don’t talk about this a lot:

First - Nico still hates physical contact, but is still leaning against Will; no one is forcing him.
Second - he talks to Will, Cecil and Lou Ellen get back and he STILL is leaning on Will..:3

If Winona Ryder asked me to i would leave my boyfriend and change my name to boochie flagrante and run away into the sunset with her