we dont want to lose them

anonymous asked:

What should I do if I feel like my SO is distancing themselves from me. ? We havent been together for about a week and every time I ask to hang out or that I miss them, they just say they're busy but that they still love me...I just...I really dont want to lose them...but I feel like I slowly am even though everytime I bring that up, they say that we're ok...

be straight up with them. Explain how your feeling and if they said that you’re okay tell them that you’re not. communication is really important and you should be with someone who puts equal effort into the relationship.


PLEASE HELP ME, Im about to be homeless within a few days.

We were not able to pay rent as well as struggling with food,utilities, etc.

Not only that the landlord wants to take us to court.

I have been trying to hard to get work, commissions, etc. With no luck, now that time has come and I am going to lose everything.

We were already struggling with saving money for a place to live because our lease was up at the end of this month.

We had to not pay rent to pay car insurance, save for next place and food.

It is horrible we are gonna lose our cats too and I dont want them killed.

I am doing commissions, taking donations (my email is krystami.neochondria@gmail.com) i will do ANYTHING commissions wise I just need money so badly..i dont care the amount really as long as I can get money fast i would do invoice but invoices stay in limbo until I can afford to pay off debt to get an official bank or credit card. So payment would have to be gifted.

I dont know what to do anymore please help me. Sculpture eise they are all for sale but you have to give me the shipping to pay (it is better just all then one) The only ones I have left are the lapis plaque, amethyst, pearl and garnet, I have others in progress and am willing to do commissions for sculpts too

anonymous asked:

so vld is confirmed to run for 8 seasons right? if that's the case and say sheith will be end game, at what point in the series would you want them to be canon?

hmm thats tricky. i know a lot of people would probably prefer it sooner than later, but i would much rather have relationships that werent rushed or forced. also, i dont think either of them is in a good headspace for it right now. keith in particular with his abandonment issues and constantly “afraid that he’s gonna say or do something wrong and he’s gonna lose shiro” isn’t ready for a relationship. His immediate readiness to sacrifice everything for shiro without even questioning it is admirable, but i dont think shiro would ever want that. obviously shiro would still risk a lot for keith, still does things like trying to fight off everyone at the marmora base for his sake. but id argue bom proves that before shiro, keith had nobody (aside from his dad, who he already lost)And even after bonding with team voltron, he still doesnt think any of that matters if he loses shiro. 

also, if we still go by the fact that keith’s worst fear is feelings, i think it’ll be a while before he’s ready to confront them. particularly if doing so runs the risk of losing his friendship with shiro. 

Of course, we also know that keith is somewhat touch averse despite this craving for some kind of intimacy (you can see it in the way he immediately tenses up and then slowly relaxes anytime he’s hugged with the exception of shiro). In a way, this problem also extends to shiro. shiro, who thinks that the galra have twisted and warped him into a weapon, who feels that he can’t even trust his own body or memories, who struggles with this notion that he is both unworthy as a paladin and a leader. If you look at kuro and crystal venom, shiro’s worst fear seems to be turning into exactly what the galra tried to make him. and then he finds out that zarkon was the previous black paladin, that black saw the same fire in zarkon she saw in him, and all that fear and doubt is compounded. so i could imagine shiro would be very hesitant about having a partner now, not to mention how any physical contact he experienced during that year in prison always resulted in pain. ironically, the first gentle touch he receives on earth isn’t only human, but also galran. the fact that keith reaches out to him again outside the shack without hesitation is also notable, especially compared to when shiro holds out his galra hand to lance. 

you see lance’s hand stop and it flinches away, and he stares at shiro sadly before offering a smile and reaching back. just to be clear, i dont think there’s anything wrong about lance doing this. it shows he’s empathetic and its really crashing down on him what kind of hell shiro’s been through. and you see how choked up keith looks when he first sees shiro after all this time. but when he’s actually in front of shiro? he stays calm and grounding, tries his best to reach out and act like nothing’s changed. keith never hesitates, never shies away from shiro’s touch or startles from it the way he does around others. and after his time in space prison, i think shiro needs that honestly. Still, that doesn’t change the fact that shiro seems to hold people more at arm’s length after kerberos. With keith their easy, casual intimacy with one another certainly helps, but i imagine a romantic relationship would still be a big adjustment after everything they’ve both been through. 

ideally i could see them working up to something like flirting or dating around seasons 5-6. of course, then you also have to ask: what would cannon sheith look like? becuase honestly, i think the answer is: not very different. They already seem to be pretty open about their affection, and we already know shiro is keith’s most important person. I can see them maybe holding hands occasionally or being more into hugs. maybe going on “space dates” every now and again on more lowkey missions like the space mall. but voltron is also a sci-fi adventure, so romance wont be the focus. It’s also a matter of what they can and can’t get away with in terms of censorship (which is really shitty, i know) but thankfully staff already said netflix seems to allow for more opportunity with representation. and this is the same studio who said they wanted to make it expressly clear that korra and asami were together. im thinking the most romantic voltron will get though is like pining, the exchange of little physical reassurances (hugs, shoulder touches, pats on the back, ect), and a mutual confession. maybe a kiss good luck or goodbye during a really emotional scene. 

anyway, season 3 will be a lot of background info and flashbacks i think, which we really need. i feel like the direction of their relationship will end up depending on whatever they had going prekerberos, especially if either of them had feelings for the other that they never confronted before voltron. i think everyone would take some time off from their relationships for season 7 and most of 8 though, you know, put stuff on hold while they gear up for the final battle. a big emotional farewell before the last fight would be really good though. 

and see now, the thing about relationships that i think a lot of people forget when it comes to “cannon ships” for an action adventure series like this is that…well…if a ship becomes cannon at some point, it doesnt mean that they’ll stay together for the rest of the show. sometimes it happens fast and burns out, or people break up and make up a lot, or they try to work things out but just drift apart. so i think id much rather it happen later than sooner because, with show like this, i think that gives them a better chance of staying together? like, the thought of keith being in a relationship with allura and then shiro or vice versa seems to be treated like something impossible, but relationships dont work out and partners deicide to see other people all the time? its even possible keith will have the occasional one episode romantic interest that’s never revisited, like the mer-alien that kissed lance. so anyway, im not too worried if it takes them a bit longer to get together. 

ok i know youngmin and jonghyun were both really patient leaders and really focused on getting their members to catch up but can we talk about some of the other leader dudes ? like lee euiwoong leader dude?

listen, my boy here was the Youngest out of his entire group and he still volunteered for the leader position and then he actually - like? you know how age hierachy works with respect and my mans got his whole team to work together and set up practice times and checked in with every member and made sure they were on track and did all of this respectful as hell ? he got brushed off a little and people misjudged him but he still took it with a good heart and can we -

“if it means having a quality stage, i’m okay with giving up center position.”

b r u h, ppl dont like it when ppl r greedy fr positions and ppl gas other leaders up for not wanting to be the center. and then u get this kid, Kid, he wants the benefit and he wants the center position and he’s still okay with losing his chances for both if it works out better for all of them overall? lee euiwoong, say it with me, remember this name, euiwoong. he’s the kind of selfless leader everyone should love.

01 liner, lee euiwoong - the trainers even acknowledged his skills in rapping - like this mans thought my boy was a vocalist but after seeing him perform he Got It. come on, please give him more than a little love and please recognize how he’s a good leader too nevermind being so young. he even placed last during the rankings but he said he expected it :(( he acknowledged and respected the skills of his teammates and understood that they needed to work together to make the stage good and hell, it was so good. love my fluff please.

I will give you a resume of everything is happening and why some i-babyz and k-babyz want them to ts to hear us:

If b.a.p does another world tour that will be THE TOTAL END of b.a.p presence in korea….K babyz are just tired how ts treat them both (b.a.p and K babyz). b.a.p posicion in KOREA right now in horrible…ts ruined b.a.p in korea time ago but they still have a few lil small fandom left there–but that part of the fandom are just feeling tired. we just want ts to be smart and start to give them exposure (this is a totally succes and will work perfectly? NO) but at least try….people loved Dae on king masked…Himchan was trending (and for more than 12 hours) in the MOST importants korean websites after been in Radio start, Youngjae gained a lot of attention thanks to his APPEARANCE in the bromance program with got7´s JB….like…b.a.p has the potential but ts needs to know how to do it. the colclusion is that we are just TOO scared to lose them in a close future (bc they contract will end quite soon and we dont want them to renew contract with ts for obivuos reasons) and we want them to start to make their own name for themselves and probably to stay together as 6. 

pd: being knowed in korea brings the attetnion to more people in the world….yes, b.a.p is quite popular inlt but even our intl fanbase is also not that big as before…is only that is bigger than the korean one bc k babyz are almost extinct. at least our inlt fanbase is more stable than the k one thats why we want this.

pd2: you guys can agree or not and thats ok..but this is just an info of our point of view about this. 

Things I’ve Heard Around My School

-”You don’t have to be lonely-” “NO!!” “…AT FARMERS ONLY DOT COM”

-”Cash me outside how bow dah?” “Well, you’re not going outside until you SIT DOWN!”

-”I didn’t think you were the kind of person to make drug jokes.” “I’m a MUSICIAN. What do you think I did in college?!”

-”Hot pockets are slowly ruining society.”

-”I’m glad your thumb survived the microwave.”

-”So, she takes three of these 75 milligram tablets of weed, right?”


-”Shut up, we’re arguing about SANDWICHES!”

-”Wisconsin people are terrible, all they eat is CHEESE!”

-(staring up at Mt. Rushmore) “Abe Lincoln looks like he’s having a bad day at work.”


-(loud crash) “leSBIANS!”

-”How did you lose your shoes IN CLASS?!” (looks down at shoes) (shrugs)

-”Who brought the Bug Juice? Cuz I want to marry them.”

-”Today we had a small dispute about red pandas that turned into an all-out war.”

anonymous asked:

Cass I've always asked myself, Why Louis? Why is he the one at first sight with the biggest mess? And I think I have found part of my answer in that podcast, he stands for what he believes in an the people he loves and not everybody liked that, such a strong brave man <3

yeah i think that louis has his own mind and wants to do things the way he wants… hes not afraid to take a risk and be wrong, as long as HE is the one who made that choice. i think it wouldve been SO frustrating for him to see how talented they were as a group and to be pigeonholed into the typical boyband stereotype when that was none of their actual musical styles.. i think louis has always had the balls to stand up for things he loves and hes super loyal so of course he was going to stand up for his boys and the future of their band, because if they just left it, and no one said anything, 1D wouldve dwindled after the 5 year plan that was made for them, but now they’re bigger than ever.

imagine how infuriating that would’ve been for simon/syco? imagine how much they wouldve wanted to get their hands on this cash cow, make their fast buck and then move onto the next thing… but they had this guy that kept pushing the boundaries and saying NO to the things that were planned out. imagine them losing that control over 1D and how much they wouldve hated that. we KNOW how gross and manipulative labels are, especially sony and syco, we have all these facts about what they make their artists do and the contracts they have to sign and the images they want them to have without caring about the artists themselves.. so imagine when their talent starts fighting back and starts to say they dont want to be seen as that cash cow boyband that sony/syco planned for them to be, 1D want to be seen as serious, talented artists! it wouldve been a hard pill for such bullies to swallow… 

AND THEN imagine how the label wouldve felt when all these smart talented guys whove been part of the biggest boyband and made so much money despite changing up their original style and plan said they want to take a break and do their own thing and NOT sign solo deals with their label… of course they’re going to go to town on them. it’s not ethical, it doesnt make sense and it’s not fair, but it’s whats happened and it’s fucked! it’s what makes me think louis is willing to take a bullet for his boys tbh… he always has. he always will.

heathers and who u should fight
  • Veronica: DONT. she will kick your ass don't fight her
  • Martha: u would win but why would you want to? sick monster. don't fight her
  • Heather C: you'd lose but it would be an honor. fight her.
  • Heather D: fight heather duke. please please even though you would probably lose. fight her.
  • Heather M: you would lose and you would also feel terrible. don't fight her
  • Kurt and Ram: fight them. they will lose and it will feel great. please fight them
  • JD: do NOT fight JD if you value your life. have we learned nothing? don't fight him
hello all my trans friends

we’re going to keep resisting
i’m not trans myself but it REALLY hurts me just to see all of this. it’s making me grind my teeth and want to throw my phone at the wall

i know it’s so fucking hard for trans kids under 18 who dont have a “voice” in any of this because they’re not legally adults yet. i’m in the same boat — i really wish the voices of the future generation mattered.
if any of you need to talk or vent my inbox is open and plenty of other people are too we will overturn this. these old white soggy conservative fuckheads are going to die off sooner or later. then it’ll be our turn, our generation, to steer the ship and turn it back around. if youre feeling suicidal, don’t do it. you will want to be alive to see the day we make the rules. and also, don’t give them the satisfaction of feeling vulnerable, stripped of everything with nothing else to lose and nowhere else to go but death. that’s what they want. not standing up will only further their fucked agenda.

but know that literally so many people support you and will protect you, even if you dont personally know them. all of these laws are very unstable right now because of the resistance from us. we WILL turn this around, and we will live while the old nutjobs who are controlling our futures on puppet strings will be cut off and it’ll be ours. it’s just a little bit more. bigotry will be squished under our heels in OUR generation’s country

170422 nct's night night

jaehyun said in school, his teacher taught him that whenever they wanted to curse, exchange it with nice words instead like saying ‘i love you’, ‘thank you’ and all. so the students that was rly abt to curse goes like, “ah… i love you” then you just lose the feeling of wanting to curse(?)
so johnny was like “we also– ah, we dont curse. so we dont need anything.” jaehyun agreed with a ‘that’s right’. then the two of them wont stop laughing between themselves and jaehyun was asking if this is okay (bc i’m pretty sure johnny lied lmao) and johnny’s like “of course it is. we (our team) really dont curse!” then more laughing from them both. boys, pls.

Sansy (from Undertale) •Lazy •Always Hungry •Loves to Nap •Always Funny

Punny (Pastel Bunny- from my icon) ◘Adorable ◘Likes to Chew Stuff ◘Wants Cuddles

Edgy (mini Edge) ♠Will Bite ♠Will Wreck Your Stuff ♠Jealous ♠Will Fight Other Sans ♠Actually Loves You A LOT

Baby Blue (Mini Blueberry) ♦Cute ♦Helpful ♦Energetic ♦Loving 

Runt (Cherry) ♣Emotional ♣Anxious ♣Cries A Lot ♣Needy ♣Don’t Hold Him Tight ♣Let Him Sleep in Your Bed (Don’t squish him)

Soft Bones ♥Sleeps A Lot ♥Smells Really Nice ♥V Cute ♥Loves You A Lot ♥Don’t Lose Him

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Sometimes i wish ppl would appreciate art more. I feel like its one of those things people are like “wow cool!” and then forget about. People take it for granted. Art is literally everywhere and all around us yet people kind of brush it off. Its not really supported in schools and wages are low for people who do art/design related jobs. 

Not only that, people think art is easy. Yeah you dont need to be academically strong to get into a good art college, but all of that stress is shifted onto creativity, talent, skill, originality, style and more. It takes years to develop skill and creativity and it takes hours, weeks, months to create major works. One time some boy told me “I could win 500$ too in that design competition if I paid someone to do the work lol” Ill never forget how disrespected i felt, it was literally a slap in the face to all the time, effort, skill, and creative process i put into my work. Not only that, hes literally suggesting stealing and taking credit for someone’s work is rewarding lmao

People think artists live a life of passion, enjoying their jobs, stress free when in actuality its probably just as stressful if not more than jobs in science, math, law, etc. you have to constantly be creating new stuff, and its not always things you love. you have to cater to people too if ur going to be a successful designer. 

I’ll always have an appreciation for people who put art out there, and im glad i can be in a community here where art is embraced. Ill always appreciate artists of any kind, in any field, whether its abstract, graphic, illustrative, design, sculpture, photography, etc. even creative writing, drama, and poetry is art. Artists’ brains are all built differently, we see things others don’t and it can be either a terrifying or a beautiful world. Ill always appreciate artists who pour out their feelings and messages in their works because its great to have an outlet when you don’t want to state things directly or its impossible to. Whether your art is visually pleasing, hyperrealistic, a mess of colors, strange, twisted, its all beautiful. It’s a beautiful personalization. it all has a message and a significance, because there is a reason why you made the piece and spent time creating it. 

I feel like in this world we are all just losing passion and appreciation for these things. People don’t want to fund art schools or build programs for artists. You tell people youre an artist or you want to go to art school and they look at you as if youre less intelligent than them. but you’re not, you’ll always have something they don’t. You’ll always have a skill and a mind that those people who have shamed you or judged you for wish they had. Dont let them just brush you off. 

Vixx reaction about seing much of your skin

yumi-chan-desuhi: sorry i couldnt find the ask button on your blog so i’ll ask it here intstead VIXX reaction to seeing you in booty shorts and a belly shirt?

Reply: sure! Starlights are the best! btw ill create a button, thanks XD

(our best and beloved leader, omg send him all the blessings *fangirls and dies because, cant breath*)

He probably would be deeply embarrassed and proud, somehow. He would blush from his own dirty toughts and would fire something like, “hell nah, go back and put something on, turn around”, because he gets horny, or “Gurl, you making me gooooo wild”, because he wont admit how his heart stopped. Also, as long as others than him wont see you, he loves it! But one glimps from a member and his jealousy would be set on fire.

Originally posted by greennocturne


He acts cute all the time right? But deep down we know him as the evil Maknae. He knows how to fret others and make them mad or lose their nerves. He would do the same to you, he would eventually be a bit mean (but thats how you love him right?) Probably he would say something like “Ew, I can nearly see your panties, how gross” or “Yeah,  am I not enough as your boyfriend? Do you want other man to watch?” He would know that you wont take it too serious, and he loves you for that.

Originally posted by ottokaji-vixx


We all love Ke, dont we? (what a dumb question) So, for some reason he is still some kind of a 9 years old (at least mentally) He would have a similar reaction to Hyuk and would tease you. But he would combine it with a compliment, because he is still a gentlemen. Like “Yah, how can you do this to me! Lokking so good with so much skin revealed” or “ Its disgusting…!..how you can get me a boner so fast. *smirks*

Originally posted by royalbins


Leo is so quiet and never really know whats going on. But, if he would be electriciced by you, being so sexy with little clothing. He would turn into Daddy-Leo. He would not be able to help himself, and would just grip you at your ass and slamm you onto your bed. No escape for you, much fun for the two of you… *wink*

Originally posted by yuu-jin


I think Hongbin is a loving Person and would glut you with compliments. “Woah, Babe you look damn hot right now” or “Can you dress like this everytime we see each other? You look gorgeous..” would be his words. Anyways, he would waste no time after the compliments, to get you out of the clothing again.

Originally posted by robochorom


Ravi with his sexy Voice and fast tongue… Jup —-> hell of a daddy. He wouldnt even waste a word and just get to the thing. Without hesitation he would start kissing you and leaving lovebites over your skin. You would have to get rid of the fabric and spend a happy time with him while you suck his marvelous D I C K.

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Dumb Joke for the Win!

Q: Why did God give men penises?

A: So they’d have at least one way to shut a woman up.

Yeah.. Starlights are LIT!


anonymous asked:

Fuck ur rude anon, i still wanna know ur love story!!! And oh! I love your blog and your never ending reblogs hahahaha it made my day... u and ur friends are funny.

Hahahaha never ending rbs 😂😂 Sometimes i talk about this with Widya.. like omg we are gonna lose followers but meh… we are doing this bcs we enjoy it.. if it was made your day like you said im happy for that.. world is already shitty place.. we have to deal lots of problems everyday.. and why cant be happy here?! This place is escaping for most of ppl.. Bullies are everywhere and i dont want ppl be one of them here.. if they dont want to see this they can unfollow.. i didnt send any hate to anyone before unfollowing them.. life is too short to hurt ppl..

Thank you for positive support.. 💜 which my story do you want to know 😝 my ex fiance? Ex stalker bf? 😝😝


Young Justice #37

Granny Goodness has locked everyone in some of their worst nightmares in this issue, making them replay them over and over. It seems that Tim’s worst fear is not being able to stop Kon and Cassie’s deaths, Kon keeps having to watch Tana die again, Cassie doesn’t want to lose her mother, and Bart keeps seeing himself die over and over again. : ( Poor kids.

Empress’s page was messed up in the scan, but she dreams about losing her dad, and she actually gets so upset about it that she breaks the machine and saves everybody.

hey i just wanted to say. just so you know.

if youve ever sent me a message or an ask on here, i appreciate you, and your kindness, because most of them have been kind, and you are wonderful and lovely and you matter so much.

and if you are my friend: i love you. i love you so much. even if we dont talk every day. even if we keep losing our snap streak. i love you. you’re all amazing, and i am so glad i met you. you matter so much.

BTS in Sweden

On the behalf of A.R.M.Y I want to apologize that bangtan was chased in Sweden I feel that everytime something outrageous happens to them we international fans lose their trust.. I cant help but feel ashamed that some of the Sweden armys would do this, theyre 7 boys with feelings they want to go to a cafe in peace just as much as the next guy… Im so shocked I dont really know what to say but Im so so sorry


Lin Manuel Miranda gave the most inspiring and Thot provoking sonnet at the Tony’s. What happened in Orlando was a senseless tragedy and being about 2 hours away and having many LGBTQ+ friends the whole thing really really upset me more than most straight African American females. But as a nation we can rise up against this and show them that we aren’t scared and we won’t let them get us down. The LGBT community is stronger than this, but you guys please be safe. I don’t want to lose any more of you amazing people. You don’t deserve this. Whether you are gay, lesbian, transgender, transsexual, nonbinary, asexual, aromantic, or many of the things on the LGBTQ spectrum or you’re an ally like me, YOU MATTER AND DONT LET ANYONE OR ANY OTHER EVENT TELL YOU THAT YOU ARENT.