So you all know that post I made about making a discord group? Y'know, the one for people who want to do stuff as late bloomers. Like drawing, singing, playing/composing music, etc. Well, it’s a bit of a rough start so far because I’m still trying to figure out how I want to organize the channels, but otherwise, the server is set up.
It’s called the “gathering of old beginners” aka GOOB. In this discord group, folks can pick up new skills or get back into something they used to do without worrying about their skill level being ‘too low for their age.’
So far we have…
Drawing/digital art/etc Writing prose and poetry Instrumental music and composition Singing Voice acting Sewing, embroidery, knitting, etc.
It’s never too late! Learn alongside other goobers by sending me an instant message or an ask and receive an invite link!
It’s a zero judgement zone where we all exist to encourage each other, so please be careful about who you share the invite links with!
THIS IS A GROUP OF ADULTS. I am sorry younger people but this is an 18+ group! I am definitely considering one for teens who feel like they should have learned things at an earlier age but for now this is purely an adult group.
I hope this doesn't come off as rude but I have a question: How do I know whether I'm aro\ace or I'm just not interested in love and relationships atm? I'm asking because I've been confused about it for a while and again I don't mean anything bad! Love you <3
Don’t worry, you didn’t come off as rude :)
That’s… a really tricky question. I can’t really describe it.
What I can say is, if you feel ace/aro describes you right now, call yourself ace/aro. If you figure out you aren’t, you can always change it later. Some people figure out their sexuality in their 30s… some even their 60s. There’s no set time where someone goes “Oh, I’m [sexuality] and that’s how it’s always going to be.”
When I was young they wanted to fix me - they saw I was wrong so they asked all these questions - how did I eat and how did I sleep ah yes there is the problem and they will fix it! I screamed and I cried No! this is how I am but my voice didn’t work and neither did their ears.
They tied me down and they banged around inside my head. They moved things I didn’t want moved and took things I didn’t want taken and sent me away with metal bars inside me.
When I was older she wanted to fix me - she saw I was wrong so she asked all these questions - how did I feel about her and what did I like ah yes there is the solution and she will fix it! I didn’t scream and I didn’t cry I thought she’d love me but I wasn’t broken and I didn’t change.
She tied me down and she banged around inside my heart. She doubted things I thought were true and hated things I thought were good and sent me away with metal bars inside me.
Now here I am I want to fix me - I feel so wrong so I ask myself all these questions - who am I and what do I want and I don’t have the answers so how can I fix it? I don’t scream and I don’t cry because my voice still doesn’t work and neither does my heart.
I want to tie me down and bang around inside my soul. I want to know things for sure, for once and change things that have always been and set me free without any bars.
wastipssy before food and then got so wine drunk at dinner i almost told my parents the funny story about the time i was drunk & someone (also drunk) tried to go down on me and ended up throwing up instead
As for the Renji discourse, Kubo intended for Byakuya and Renji to be the bad guys, but changed his mind halfway. He ended up changing them and turning them to the good guys. Renji’s “apology” was during his fight with Ichigo, and then trying to save Rukia, and running with her. But he never did apologize like Byakya did.
Renji did abuse Rukia, his character changed and so his motivations. He became a nice guy simply because Kubo changed his mind. The ending wasn’t planned that far as some keep saying.
You can hate Renji, for what he did. Personally, I started liking him after he changed, but it’s none of my business if others hate him and the pairing. He’s simmultaneously both the bad guy who tried to kidnap Rukia and hurt her and the guy who was her childhood friend and apparently liked her since then.