we are not afraid of ruins

You ruin your life by desensitizing yourself. We are all afraid to say too much, to feel too deeply, to let people know what they mean to us. Caring is not synonymous with crazy. Expressing to someone how special they are to you will make you vulnerable. There is no denying that. However, that is nothing to be ashamed of. There is something breathtakingly beautiful in the moments of smaller magic that occur when you strip down and are honest with those who are important to you. Let that girl know that she inspires you. Tell your mother you love her in front of your friends. Express, express, express. Open yourself up, do not harden yourself to the world, and be bold in who, and how you love. There is courage in that.
You ruin your life by desensitizing yourself. We are all afraid to say too much, to feel too deeply, to let people know what they mean to us. Caring is not synonymous with crazy. Expressing to someone how special they are to you will make you vulnerable. There is no denying that. However, that is nothing to be ashamed of. There is something breathtakingly beautiful in the moments of smaller magic that occur when you strip down and are honest with those who are important to you. Let that girl know that she inspires you. Tell your mother you love her in front of your friends. Express, express, express. Open yourself up, do not harden yourself to the world, and be bold in who, and how you love. There is courage in that.
—  Bianca Sparacino
You ruin your life by desensitizing yourself. We are all afraid to say too much, to feel too deeply, to let people know what they mean to us. Caring is not synonymous with crazy. Expressing to someone how special they are to you will make you vulnerable. There is no denying that. However, that is nothing to be ashamed of. There is something breathtakingly beautiful in the moments of smaller magic that occur when you strip down and are honest with those who are important to you. Let that girl know that she inspires you. Tell your mother you love her in front of your friends. Express, express, express. Open yourself up, do not harden yourself to the world, and be bold in who, and how you love. There is courage in that.
—  Bianca Sparacino
Don’t Push Anti Or Dark Onto jack And Mark

don’t forget that pushing anti on jack could result in him being to overwhelmed and afraid to not give to the extent we expect of him. let anti being something special he does. we can still make theories and freak out over every small detail but just don’t try shoving in jack or marks face. keep in here on the tag or something. @anti-support-group is the account to go to if you have some crazy theories to get off your chest. i know its exciting. But something as innocent as septiplier got ruined for us as well..so….. lets keep things to ourselves. don’t forget that robin jack and mark probably scroll through these tags daily. they know we know.. don’t make it difficult for them to have for or surprise us. Sorry if this sounds depressing. i love anti just as much as anyone. i never stopped obsessing but i just don’t want mark or jack to give up b/c hey cant live up to expectation

the best parts of natasha pierre and th egreat comet of 1812
  • The way Natasha asks if Andrey has arrived
  • “Balaga is fun, Bolkonsky is crazy, Mary is plain, Dolokhov is fierce, Hélène is a slut, Anatole is hot, Marya is old-school, Sonya is good, Natasha is young, and Andrey isn’t here,”
  • Every bit of Pierre’s existentialism
  • “And from the first glance, I do not like Natasha,”
  • constrAAAAAAAAAAAIIIIIIINNNNEdddddddd
  • “This winter sky, how can anyone sleep!”
  • All of Natasha Lost tbh
  • “In 19th century Russia we write letters, we write letters.”
  • “Dear Natasha, I am in deep despair at the misunderstanding there is between us,”
  • Natasha, I don’t trust him. Natasha, I’m afraid for you, Natasha, AFRRRAAAAAIIIIDDD you are going to your ruin.
  • “Then I’ll go to my ruin, yes I will as soon as possible!”
  • “And I remember this family, I remember their kindness, and if I never sleep again!”
  • Every single one of my child Sonya’s lines
  • “You haven’t thought this through or do you just not care?”
  • Fucking Balaga
  • The piano in Sunday Morning
  • “Just say YYYYYYEEEEEEEEEESSS”
  • Anatole’s voice
  • Poor mary
  • Pierre defending Natasha in Pierre and Andre
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“we shall select the most beautiful of young men and teach them morality and how to enjoy the arts. we shall train them to be great men of Silla - Hwarang.”

summer-starry-dawn  asked:

Okay, okay. Since the beginning of the game, I've always defended the crew's scenaristic choices because I thought they knew what they were doing, were they were going. But this time, I'm just ... disappointed and confused. There are so many problems in this ep, but when are we gonna talk about that fact that everybody tries to criminalise Gardienne ?! It's unbelievable ! SHOKING ! I'm so sad rn, I really love Eldarya, this story hs so much potential and now I'm afraid they're gonna ruin it D:

i agree. they were definitely weak points in this episode. i’m just hoping they’ll fix it in the future because i think that they didn’t handle the situation very well. the characters apologized and all and i know that she hasn’t forgive them yet but i felt like something was off. it’s like they brushed off the issue like it wasn’t that big of a deal and she recovers from it so damn fast it’s just not realistic. a person doesn’t lose their lives and they’re okay and ready to move on in 3 days or a week that’s crazy. leiftan pissed me off so much in this episode and the fact that they all blamed gardienne because of that goddamn monster book it’s ridiculous (i mean who leaves such a dangerous thing in a public library in the first place?!). but anyway, let’s have faith in the writers and wait for episode 15 and see how it goes :^)

Why I, for one, am glad Newt and Tina didn't kiss.

To be honest I sat in my seat hoping they’d kiss because I’m a hopeless romantic, but then I thought that it really wouldn’t have made sense. So let’s look at Tina first. She’s a modern woman. She wears pants in the late 1920’s, she’s well educated, and she has a career. However she’s shy. She isn’t forward in pursuing men and she wouldn’t instigate a kiss with a man she’s only recently met. Then we have Newt. He’s uncomfortable around people. The only woman he’s ever opened up too, Leta Lestrange, broke his heart. She betrayed his friendship which made him afraid to open up again. He’s tentative to fall in love again. He also isn’t positive she feels the same way. What if she was just friendly he didn’t want to ruin that friendship or hurt her in any way. He was also leaving for a long time. What if he never made it back? He couldn’t leave her hanging. Anyway I’m glad he didn’t kiss her. We know they marry so they can kiss all they like later but for now he can just push back her hair romantically.

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Wallpapers I’ve made today~
Please do not repost anywhere else without credit. I didn’t put my watermark on it, because I didn’t want to ruin it, so please just be polite and don’t repost without credit ♡
I’m also taking requests for wallpapers!! They don’t have to be darkly themed like most of these are, they can be anything. Any fandom, backround, effect (Blur, fading, shadows, etc.)
We can explain through messages, and don’t be afraid to ask me, I don’t bite. :3

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Remember when you said we should live with each other and be unhappy so we could be happy ?
cosider it a testimony to how much I love you .. that I spent so long pouring myself into that offer trying to make it work ..
But a friend took me to the most amazing place, the other day.
It’s called the Augusteum. It’s one of the quietest and loneliest places in Rome.
It feels like a precious wound , like a heartbreak you won’t let go of because it hurts too good.
We all want things to stay the same, Davide. Settle for living in misery because we’re afraid of change of things crumbling to ruins.
Then I looked around in this place, at the chaos it’s endured , the way it’s been adapted, burned, pillaged .. then found a way to build itself back up again, and I was reassured.
May be my life hasn’t been so chaotic. It’s just the world that is. And the only real trap is getting attached to any of it.
Ruin is a gift. Ruin is the road to transformation. Even in this eternal city, the  Augusteum showed me that we must always be prepared to endless waves of transformation.  
Both of us deserve better than staying together because we’re afraid we’ll be destroyed if we don’t.

Eat Pray Love (2010)

anonymous asked:

Hi, I've been thinking about writing a children's book so that kids are introduced to the LGBT+ community early and was wandering if I could write a short book about how you two met? Hope you have a great day, Imi.

Hi! Ohh hat sond interesting! So theres our story.
We were best friends for like 7 years and never ever talked about our feelings to girls. Even more, we both thought that we’re straight and my gf even told me about boys she likes. But then I started to like her in another way: i started enjoying cuddles with her and when we were close to each other i wanted to kiss her, but i was afraid to ruin our friendship with her. With every day this feeling got stronger and stronger and i already convinced myself to tell her. One day, when we were on the seaside together alone she kissed me and i was happy as never. I got know that she feels the same way and since then we’re dating and I feel like the happiest person on this planet with having her in my life as gf.

i remember when i was younger (around the time marble hornets started) I legitimately believed the Slenderman was real
and at one point while we drove, peeking out a window, or if i were ever outdoors, I’d always look out at the woods, any tree or whatever the fuck to see if i could catch him

I was actually afraid of him aHaha
but at the same time i hoped would catch a glimpse him so i could go on adventures like the characters of marble hornets
I guess i just craved some kind of excitement/adventure that time in my life

It’s pretty stupid now that i look back on it and the ‘magic’ has been kind of ruined for me via debunking
damn i miss 2008

Hollywood insists in presenting the image of a capitalist world in ruins as ominous and terrifying. But as Rebecca Solnit argues in A Paradise Built in Hell, the scholarship on disasters conclusively shows that it is the powerful who usually panic amid the rubble created by catastrophes. She shows that the Hobbesian Hollywood nightmare of hysterical masses panicking in wild stampedes and creating a war of “all against all” scenario is an elite fantasy. Most people are certainly shocked and disoriented at first but soon afterward generate forms of solidarity and cooperation and see the possibility of collective transformation and rebirth. In fact, the very fact that sites of power have been destroyed makes people less fearful of the powerful. 

History is full of examples of fields of rubble that awakened emancipatory sentiments, even if this effervescence was eventually contained. After the burning of Moscow in 1812 by the Napoleonic armies, for instance, Tolstoy wrote that the rubble of the city opened “unique possibilities of moral regeneration”. In the case of Argentina, Healey shows that the rise to power of Perón in 1946 was inseparable from his role in the plans to reconstruct the city of San Juan, which had been reduced to rubble by an earthquake two years earlier. Perón turned the rubble of San Juan into a collective invitation to build a new, better, more inclusive Argentina. Henry Cobb noted in 1947 a similar enthusiasm for change amid the rubble of Warsaw, which made him realize, “in a strange way,” that “because of the destruction you could remake the world.” And this is at the core of the elite fear of rubble in moments of unrest: that the rubble, indeed, could be an invitation to remake the world differently

—  Gastón R. Gordillo, Rubble: the Afterlife of Destruction 
You ruin your life by desensitizing yourself. We are all afraid to say too much, to feel too deeply, to let people know what they mean to us. Caring is not synonymous with crazy. Expressing to someone how special they are to you will make you vulnerable. There is no denying that. However, that is nothing to be ashamed of. There is something breathtakingly beautiful in the moments of smaller magic that occur when you strip down and are honest with those who are important to you. Let that girl know that she inspires you. Tell your mother you love her in front of your friends. Express, express, express. Open yourself up, do not harden yourself to the world, and be bold in who, and how you love. There is courage in that.
—  Bianca Sparacino

anonymous asked:

Hi! So I have this huge crush on a good friend of mine and I've liked her for more than half a year (she's bi) and I've been wanting to ask her out but I'm afraid it wouldn't be a good idea because we'll be going to highschool in a few months together (as freshman) and I dunno if that transition will change our relationship. We flirt with each other daily and almost kissed multiple times, we have an honest friendship and I don't want to ruin it. Have any advice? //btw I love your blog

Hello! Thanks for your love.

Kiss her. It will not ruin your friendship.

anonymous asked:

The transtrenders are starting to become visible in my country with their stupid pronouns and labels. I just feel so fucking embarrassed, my friends will see this and people in my school. I don't want to be associated with these ''genderfluid'' or ''nonbinary'' people... Is there any way to make this stop or do I just have to wait for this fad to end after they've completely ruined everything? Will it end? I don't even want to call myself trans anymore

There’s not much you can do, but I encourage you to be firm in your convictions. Be polite and civil, but don’t be afraid to speak your mind and defend your position.

I’m sure this will end at some point when the new “cool queer” thing comes along. We saw this before in the late 90s and early 2000s when all the edgy, emo, counterculture kids were bi.

In the mean time, I think the most we can do is be outspoken and to provide information and support to one another. If you’re not already, check out our transmed discord chat here: https://discord.gg/S5aY6WU

There are more than 80 of us, all trans and all fed up with the trender crowd.

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LAST WIP

OKAY I’M SORRY THAT I KEEP BOMBARDING YOU WITH WIPs OF THIS SONG @caretaker-au I SWEAR THIS IS THE LAST ONE BEFORE THE FINAL VERSION IS UPLOADED I’M JUST SO PROUD OF THIS SONG THAT I WANTED TO SHARE WITH YOU THE INSTRUMENTALS I HAVE MADE I’M SORRY

Greetings, dear child. Do not be afraid.
I see you have fallen down. What a shame.
You must be confused. Come, I’ll show you the way
I will guide you through these Ruins that I pass every day.

Welcome, dear child, to the Underground.
It is full of many puzzles, so please, do not run around.
Ancient fusions between diversions and doorkeys as well.
One must solve them to pass. Only this much I’ll tell.

And
Here we are.
See if you can solve this.
Will it kill you if you fail? Why yes. It will.
Navigate through the puzzle and do not touch the water
(Click)(Shink)Oh my, what a slaughter…

You were the first to fall down in a long time.
And just like everyone else, you have died.
Quite a shame that this happened. I had hoped you were different.
And I wander these Ruins alone yet again.