ways to waste your life

- You’re just 18, you’re too young, don’t get pregnant or marry someone to quickly, - they pleaded.
- You’re 25, come on, it’s time to think and start doing something, you don’t need any kids, focus on your career, - they preached.
- You’re 32, what are you thinking? Do you want to end up as a single crazy catlady? - they cried.
- You’re 39, a single mother without a successful startup or a fabulous career, you’re such a disappointment, - they grumbled.
- She was 42, when she jumped out of the window. What a disgrace to the family, - they whispered.

The only thing they’ve never told you was when to start living your life on your own…
—  illirein, Don’t lose your way while trying to satisfy all the expectations: they are never worth wasting your life.

I KNOW ALL THE LYRICS TO EVERY MY CHEMICAL ROMANCE SONG AND I FEEL LIKE SUCH COMPLETE SHIT BECAUSE WHAT’S THE POINT OF KNOWING THE LYRICS IF I’LL NEVER GET THE CHANCE TO SCREAM THEM BACK AT ALL OF THEM

You do not owe it to ANYONE, even yourself, to reach your absolute maximum “potential”

I think you should try to lead a good life. To lead a happy life. To do good deeds, and to find a life you can be proud of. But you don’t need to force the absolute highest possible achievement out of yourself. You don’t need to live your entire life without making any mistakes, or missing any opportunities. You are allowed to take it easy sometimes. You are allowed to be human. 

Maybe you have made some big mistakes that got you “off track” in a major way. That’s ok! It doesn’t mean you wasted your life. Maybe you aren’t doing as much as you possibly could each day. That’s ok too! There is no score in life. There is no one best path. You are enough, I promise <3 

- You’re just 18, you’re too young, don’t get pregnant or marry someone to quickly, - they pleaded.
- You’re 25, come on, it’s time to think and start doing something, you don’t need any kids, focus on your career, - they preached.
- You’re 32, what are you thinking? Do you want to end up as a single crazy catlady? - they cried.
- You’re 39, a single mother without a successful startup or a fabulous career, you’re such a disappointment, - they grumbled.
- She was 42, when she jumped out of the window. What a disgrace to the family, - they whispered.

The only thing they’ve never told you was when to start living your life on your own…
— 

Don’t lose your way while trying to satisfy all the expectations: they are never worth wasting your life.

© illirein

#FindEmmaSwanAFriend

Feeling left behind by her more successful, settled friends, Emma Swan moves to Scotland on a whim. Sure, she’s winning at Instagram, but something is still missing from her new life. Fortunately, her friends back home are on it. #FindEmmaSwanAFriend goes viral. Enter Killian Jones, reluctant columnist, who is on the hunt for his newest subject, and may just have found her. CS AU.


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Thanks always to the cool-as-fuck @lenfaz, for her tireless efforts in keeping me motivated.


Killian

He could feel it, the regret, welling up in his chest, his vision blurring as he scrolled through page after page of poorly punctuated text.

14,202 responses.

14,202 people who were up for being Emma Swan’s friend, and for some reason Killian Jones had appointed himself their gatekeeper.

14,202 reasons to wish he’d never even heard the name Emma Swan.

The task itself was burdensome enough, a time suck if ever there was one. But it was the sexually aggressive come ons he encountered that really propelled it towards torture. There was no other way of saying it: Men were pigs.

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anonymous asked:

I can't get rid of this belief that I have to be absolutely PERFECT for a boy to like me. Small waist, clear skin, nice butt etc. bc I keep thinking: why would a boy want to be with me when there are SOOO many other girls out there who are 100x prettier than me & have a nicer body than me :/

I don’t mean this in a rude way, but doesn’t that sound like such a boring and negative way to live to you?? Why would you want to go through life comparing yourself to other girls, tearing yourself down and living in comparisons.

Here is the most real truth about life: Comparison is the thief of joy.

You cannot waste your time or your brain capacity mentally measuring yourself up against somebody else’s waist and butt size, skin clarity, or any other superficial external quality. Would you even want to be with a boy who only liked you for striving to obtain an unhealthy, unrealistic and unhappy physical standard that you alone have set for yourself? Is that the kind of person you want to be with? Or do you want to find your soul mate whose connection with you runs so deep they will love you night and day, through pregnancy and food poisoning and old age? 

If you keep thinking this way, you’ll end up wasting your life, and look back towards the end of it regretting that you didn’t love yourself more. That you weren’t kinder to yourself, or that you didn’t take advantage of your youth and decide to be confident in your own skin.

Confidence and self love are a choice, not a jean size, not a weight on the scale and not a means to be obtained through romantic validation.

Love is not something to be earned by hurting, harming, contorting or insulting yourself. Love comes from within, and it starts with loving yourself.

You are perfect, just as you are, in this moment right now.

Decide to see that, and the rest of the world will too <3

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Can I just cry over the idea that Tony might…

i mean… if the big reactor’s explosion was anything to go by (and we know the little one is better than the big one) 

it would probably be too quick to really be painful? at least not for very long.

that probably doesn’t help, really.

bite

         pairing: barista!xiumin x reader, platonic baekhyun x reader, implied chanyeol x baekhyun

          words: 602

          genre: angst/romance/slight crack

          aesthetic/inspiration: i was eating dinner and noticed that it was bland as fuck. I feel like Minseok’s the ma’am kind of dude. But how does one do a soulmate AU?

this was kinda sorta requested? like I came up with the idea and @pcy-suga expanded on it? 

“You couldn’t taste anything.” | “It tastes different.”

Originally posted by minxiuseok

You couldn’t taste anything. It’s not a birth defect, a mental issue or anything else; it’s simply the life of a person without her soulmate.

You couldn’t smell the food your parents cooked, or the garlic powder you see your mother add way too much of.

Normally, you wouldn’t ever go to a café (and you deemed it to be this way for the rest of your life) as it’s a waste of money to drink a cappuccino you can’t even taste (ironically, you still get the effects of caffeine) but your best friend invited you out and offered to pay, so why the hell not.

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How Atsushi came to love himself
  • <p> <b>Atsushi:</b> I'm so tired of being me, Can I be someone else?<p/><b>Ranpo:</b> Be me. You won't regret it lmao but no one is better than me-<p/><b>Yosano:</b> Try being me. Get wild. Slice people up.<p/><b>Kenji:</b> Me! Me! You can smooch with cows!<p/><b>Junichirou:</b> I won't recommend-<p/><b>Naomi:</b> Silly oniisama! Be me!<p/><b>Kunikida:</b> It's impossible to be someone else. Live your life as yourself, that way you won't have to waste your life thinking of the unrealistic and impossible what-ifs. You'll just compare yourself and-<p/><b>Kyouka:</b> Try stuffing three tofus in your mouth all at once. You're me then.<p/><b>Kouyou:</b> Elegance and Gracefulness is the key to be me.<p/><b>Mori:</b> Oooh, you'll have to have an Elise-chan!<p/><b>Tachihara:</b> BE FUCKIN' PROUD OF WHO THE FUCK YA ARE, KID!<p/><b>Gin:</b> <p/><b>Hirotsu:</b> Learn to behave yourself if you're me. Also, you have to look after troublesome children.<p/><b>Kajii:</b> ACCORDING TO SCIENCE, IT IS PHYSICALLY IMPOSSIBLE FOR A PERSON TO EXIST AS TWO BEINGS IN ONE LIFETIME-<p/><b>Fitzgerald:</b> You'll own everything if you'll be me, Old sport.<p/><b>Alcott:</b> I-i'm- w-we all have those thoughts b-but you h-have to be confident of who y-you are!<p/><b>Twain:</b> YOOOOOLLLLLOOOOOO BITCH!<p/><b>Poe:</b> If you're ready to seclude yourself from everyone then please do-<p/><b>Lovecraft:</b> Just don't.<p/><b>Steinbeck:</b> You'll evolve from vine to fine wine~<p/><b>Fyodor:</b> Cleanse the world of sins.<p/><b>Chuuya:</b> What an insult to fine wine! Try being me instead, you'll be able to control gravity, hell yeah!<p/><b>Dazai:</b> Atsushi-kun, try being the one and only Dazai Osamu~<p/><b>Akutagawa:</b> Jinko, choose to be me. you won't regret it.<p/><b>Atsushi:</b> <p/><b>Atsushi:</b> Nah, I'm glad I'm me.<p/></p>

Reptilicus

I defy you to find something in this movie that doesn’t qualify it for MST3K.  Giant lizardy monster?  Check.  A musical number that has nothing to do with the plot?  We have that.  Actors who appear to be dubbed despite also appearing to speak English?  The entire cast!  Black and white footage tinted blue in an effort to make it look like it belongs in a colour movie?  You betcha!  Wooden acting?  Beakers of kool-aid standing in for SCIENCE? Foreigners pretending to be Americans?  Toy boats?  Yep, Reptilicus has it all, wrapped up in a bright technicolour package by our old friend, American International Pictures!

It seems tailor-made for the show, and Joel apparently agrees.  I wrote most of this review before I found out that Reptilicus was slated to be the Season 11 debut, and now I’m looking forward to seeing how many of my predictions here come true when the episode hits Netflix on Friday.

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Weird post but I just wanna say thanks to all the people following this blog! I’m happy that I’ve gotten to talk about a great show I dig with so many great and positive people. Life is way too short to be negative because it’s not worth wasting your life on bad thoughts and it just sucks the life outta everyone around you. I’m glad you guys are cool!

So according to the blog on here that has publicly stated she is in contact with jen’s PR and posts private information (birth announcements) about Jen’s nephews says Birkenstock Bob is Ari Handel, a neuroscientist who gave up science to write films with Darren (way to waste your life buddy).

So one of Darren’s lackeys went to Sephora with a 26 year old woman to what? Make sure she buys conservative makeup? Make sure she doesn’t do something Darren wouldn’t like?

Looks like this blind is pretty accurate:

What a controlling asshole who got pissed and made her take a pap walk with a friend of his because he wasn’t around.

Keep fighting Jenny, keep fighting