was it not clear i'm gay


Headcanon that Holtzmann have a lot of fun toying with dress codes to mess with snobbish people at formal events. 


Things Bioware got right:

- Gil Brodie’s story: His character arch is very well written, and I it really challenges a lot of the stereotypes about mlm relationships. While his character could be bigger, we still get to see a 3D gay man grow as a person

- The choice system. Often there’s no clear good or bad option, and it really means you have to think about the repercussions of your actions, the right path isn’t always clear.

- The dialogue system: Again you have the chance to create a much more complex character, you can really see Ryder’s reactions change based on your choices. People around you also react differently depending on how you talk.

- The Angara: It’s refreshing to see an alien race that’s so open with their emotions, especially the male aliens. Raw displays of emotion in men are often seen as weakness, but when Jaal, for example, shows the depth of his emotions, it’s shown in a positive, compassionate light, with no shame.

- The Tempest Crew: They are much more dynamic, they’re clearly their own people, not just satellites orbiting around Ryder.

- The Visuals: The galaxy map, the planets, everything is beautifully designed. It feels like you’re in space, or on an alien planet.

- The Combat: Much more fast paced and dynamic, the ability to mix up your powers really allows you to develop a unique combat style, your jump pack and increased mobility make it even better

If your identity is fairly concise and simple to explain, like gay, then that is ok. If it’s slightly more complicated, like trans and gay, that’s fine too. And if your identity requires quite a bit of explanation, like polysexual, gray-romantic, and bigender with androgyne and demigirl, that is absolutely ok too.

No matter how many things you identify with, you are valid and important and it is most definitely all ok. There is no minimum or maximum limit when it comes to identity. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

just to clear something up

okay, so, i’ve said before that one of the reasons i hate k@llura is because allura is an adult-coded character. i stand by that statement, but, if allura’s age is confirmed otherwise, i’m not going to use it in my arguments.

however, k@llura is still a pretty bad relationship, in the eyes of a gay person. it’s heteronormative. and heteronormativity is…Very Bad, for reasons i shouldn’t have to state.

so, yeah. i’m just going to…leave this here.

Forest eyes met auburn eyes
When I looked up to find you studying me, like I was an answer made out of questions.


“I’m just figuring out what they’ve been talking about.”

“Explain, please..” My own confusion is clear.

“You don’t hear it?”

After a few seconds of silence, with the occasional wisp of wind, you continued,

“The moon and sun keep sharing stories
about someone that makes even the mountains breathe.
Well, we’re the only ones out here, and now I know what the fuss is about.”

—  Nicole Torres // excerpt; “Existing Magic” //

OK so I was doing some moderation on the Gay Fates YouTube channel for Maddie to clear out homophobia and stuff, and I saw that @kynimdraws had commented on one of the videos and had played Gay Fates in general and I am honestly just so struck because I’m such a big fan of hers and wow she played and enjoyed a hack that my girlfriend made. Maddie, you are awesome and I’m so proud of you.
And now I’m hoping she’s still watching the project and has seen my supports.

Dear White Gays,

Collectively the racism from your population annoys the hell out of me. However individually, unless you’ve tried me, I’ve got no beef with you. That said, I want to make this really clear because some of you are mad disrespectful and Im feeling helpful, so. Your fetishism is unappreciated and unwelcome.

I’m perfectly aware that I’m brown skinned and poppin, but try me not. Asking me, “if the rumors are true?” Tellin me that you’re not typically into black guys but you’re suddenly craving chocolate. Or my my personal favorite, asking to see my “big black cock,” will NOT get you the D. But depending on how testy I’m feeling you might catch these hands.

Now let’s be clear, there are some black men that don’t mind being fetishized. I can’t for the life of me figure out why, but you know, to each their own. Im not paid to vouch for those dudes you and I are not going to bond over my blackness.

Feel free to try engaging me in standard conversation. Try walkin up and just saying hello. Avoid attempting to shake up with me cause we’re not boys and before you fix your lips to say something that’s going to potentially F-up both our nights, tread lightly. Consider my body language, gauge my social cues, and ask yourself if it’s really worth it. Because 8 times out of 10 with me the answer will most likely be no.

Welcome to the Gay Robot club everyone