give it up before you get yours, ladies.
You’re a sugar baby, not a girlfriend, not a date, not a hookup, not a booty call.
There is NO intimacy without the allowance first.
NO IOUs, NO promises, NO “trust me”s.
They don’t get a test drive, a free ride, or a sexual “chemistry check” before you talk terms and get what you’re owed.
NEVER FALL FOR IT. These men are waiting to take advantage of your youth and inexperience. They will try to guilt you into sleeping with them because they want you to not be “all about the money” or they will escort-shame you and others. They will try to make you pity their fear of you cutting and running when you get your first allowance. They will try to get what they can for cheap or for free by promising you what you want if you’ll just sleep with them first. They want to get sugar without giving any. That’s not what we do.
Don’t entertain these wanna-be sugar daddy salty fuckers.
If he won’t even talk about what you need until he gets what he wants, blacklist and RUN.